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Is it a valid for me to be concerned by my partner’s cultural knowlege? — I (21F) have been with my partner (21M) for 4 years. I love him and he’s a great person. He's patient, so kind, and I've grown up with him. But I’m starting to be bothered by a certain level of "intel…
Trading book recommendation! For those trying to fix attachment issues. — “Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents” -by Lindsay C. Gibson, PHD This book helped me realize that, at my core, I struggle with dating and attachment because it’s hard for me to comprehend …
How to Meditate (or at least one way to get started) — Intro: There are endless amount of intentions or, in other words, ways to focus your meditation practice. At the end of the day, your meditation practice is \*yours\*, so make it your own. This post …
Cheated on after 10.5 years together, divorced at 11 years together. — Hi Everyone, This is half venting and half hoping for advice or people to listen. I'm at a low point right now so I thought reaching out to a community might be beneficial as opposed to holding it…
NHI that Stop Time and Timelessness of the Oversoul; More Research that Supports how Aliens Obscure Human Memories. — Hi everyone. This is [me](https://www.reddit.com/r/Experiencers/comments/1ai4nzi/i_had_26_physical_contact_events_with_grey_aliens/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_c…
The Subconscious of the Universe? — This will sound extremely odd, and i am aware of this myself. It’s a bit startling to start being so receptive in this period of time. It feels intriguing, but at the same time - my mind cannot hold i…
I am a scientist who discovered she can travel with her mind — Hello everyone. I want to tell you my story. I come from a verty strict religious background and I struggled since childhood to believe in something I could not scientifically prove. I begged God to s…
Energy Exchange: How We Give, Take, and Protect Our Vital Force — Energy exchange is, essentially, communication. The energy a person generates is given outward. But, in accordance with the laws of conservation of energy, a person must receive energy from outside. …
I had the most blissful experience today... — So I've been meditating for about 20 years now, and nothing like this has ever happened. I was sitting in my chair reading "Mindfulness in Plain English" by Bhante Gunaratana and I suddenly thought of…
The 'technique' that helped me manifest in 1 week what I have been trying for months — I decided to make this a more general post since it's extremely helpful for any manifestation. Like everyone, I was trying to manifest something for a few months with common techniques like visualizi…
Processing my NDE and the paranormal experiences that followed — I can’t sleep and i’m feeling the need to document a sequence of experiences I had from February 2019 through 2020 that forever changed my life. I’ll try my best to keep each section somewhat brief, b…
The Astral Plane: its Nature, Structure, and the Unseen’s Map found in world religions — *Disclaimer: The views expressed here are my personal opinions, except where excerpts are quoted.* # Nature of the Astral Plane The Astral Plane is the wider dream world. It’s a constant place that …
I can’t do it, been trying for years. The gateway tapes don’t help as well — Maybe it’s because I listen to them on my sony wh-1000xm4 bluetooth headphones (talking about the gateway tapes) but I never seemed to catch them helping. The guy in the tapes keeps talking and tellin…
Surprise.. He did it again and even worse — I had posted on here 3 months ago: https://www.reddit.com/r/survivinginfidelity/s/1GiZMvLtGp I had caught my husband texting his coworker. Well I gave him a second chance, we went to therapy, he did …
How do I stop crushing on every guy i meet — I’m only 19 but for some reason everytime I get along with a guy I think I should start crushing on him. I only became aware of this just today. I made really good friends with this guy at my new job.…
The Most Shifting Symptoms I've ever felt listening to a guided meditation — I'm actually pretty excited to talk about this because I've literally Felt things I'VE NEVER EVER FELT BEFORE IN MY 20 YEARS LIVING!!! I've got into shifting and started actually trying it a lot mor…
Ran into ex while blocked — 3 year relationship. Broke up 21 days ago no argument at all she said she loves me still as she ended things. Helped her carry her bags from my house to her car, hugged wished her the best of luck. I…
It’s Been A Year… So Here’s My Last Post — Well, tonight makes it official. It has been a full year since I was dumped. Whoever said you lose track of time when you’re having fun is a liar. You REALLY lose track of time when you’re miserable a…
800-1000ug+ FIRST acid trip complete ego loss most terrifying thing ive ever had — Before I get into this, I want to make something clear right away. I am not encouraging anyone to do this, and I am definitely not presenting this as some cool or impressive story. This was not enjoya…
What’s your take on manifesting by praying — So, why are we able to manifest things by praying literally ‘asking’ and from a place of wanting it? I’m having a hard time comprehending why sometimes we are able to do it even though we are not nece…
Ramblings of a lunatic (me) — This is gonna be extremely long so I don’t blame you if you don’t want to read it but I’ve been writing about it for a while and struggled with meaning and found this Reddit and thought I’d seek out s…
Caught boyfriend of 11 years paying for escorts — We have 2 children together. I caught him subscribing to onlyfans back in 2023. We have always been living pay check to pay check with kids and I was so upset because it was such a betrayal in my eyes…
finding and keeping jobs? advice or experiences shared would be helpful — please be nice im having a hard time wording this :( i lost my stable job back in march of last year because of wrongful termination. and while that is a whole other story, i've been trying to find a…
porn and gore ruined my sense of self, i will never be normal. no matter how much you force me to. — hefty rant, but does anyone feel the same way. i never feel normal compared to other humans, like a roach and light, i always avoid things that would make me feel "normal" (socialization, befriendin…
Success Story: "I make $55/hr" 2 week streak F20 — To preface, I've had the knack for manifesting money here and there for around 5 years now, and I'm still in the process of fully realising my power and being in total control (ie having it come more …
day 5, i feel like i am dying inside. — my boyfriend dumped me after 7 months of dating because he lost feelings. The way he acted in the beginning up until the 5th month made me feel like he could never do something like this, he even made…
MY answer for ppl's telepathic and psychic abilities in general, stay with me now. — I and many others believe that all humans or living things are interconnected in the higher "soul' realm or whatever. I basically believe that we are parts of the collective conciousness, the all know…
25M, Ex-situationship keeps breaking no contact, advice needed — Hi I’m 25M, Bi and live in London, UK. I met “Tony” (same age and also Bi - might I add we’re both discreet/DL) in 2022 via Snapchat (lol). This “situationship” (I don’t even know if I can call it t…
How it was to be ok? — Sometimes I wonder how is life without depression. Without the memories of your trauma. Sometimes I need to remind myself that people don’t live like me inside their heads. Is like a constant battle t…
20F need more proof of my boyfriend 21M cheating on me — I \[20F\] don’t want to sound like the dumb girlfriend here but i really need some advice, desperately. i went onto my boyfriends \[21M\] phone, not because i suspected anything but because i am just …
Would someone help me read my birth chart? — I am currently trying to learn birth charts, and reading them, but its like my brand cannot comprehend it... would anyone help me?
My family is so horrible. — My mother has been a negative, narcissistic, horrible, boring, low life kind of person my whole life. Abusive, gaslighting, condescending, public shaming, addicted to drugs, mean, judgemental, you nam…
Feeling unworthy of love — I cannot comprehend why would anyone like me or love me , I want to be loved yet I doubt my worthiness for it , I genuinely cannot see anything lovable about myself from other people's eyes and I doub…
i was encountered shadow beings.. For me, astral projection was just a bs. until I unintentional left my body during a state of loop paralysis — I never believed in astral travel.. I always avoided the subject because I thought it was just a myth. Over the past year, however, I’ve been experiencing loops of sleep paralysis in one "sleep" in t…
Just pissed at them playing dumb — As I've grown up what's always hit me was the unfairness of it all. All this labor that I put into taking care of the narcs who parentified me. All the labor I did to take care of myself during and a…
NC since christmas. got ambushed at easter. abuser parent showed her colors infront of family(socially), first time ever. need emotional support. (struggling to come to terms with MBP,/captivity /starvation abuse and abusers complete refusal to acknowledge) — to preface , id like to say some of my story/past (although, for those of u who are regular here im sure u have seen some of my olde rposts from 2 years ago) the easter incident will be at the bottom…
Upper class thieves — Last time I went to my mom and stepfathers house I complimented them on their egg shaped salt and pepper shakers. (I’m a huge bird lover) “Oh yea we got those from a restaurant when we went to Sedona…
Is Something Wrong with Me? — I don't understand how people are capable of not feeling any romantic feelings about someone they've spent years with, in a matter of months. I don't know what's wrong with me that I hold on for so…
Completely mindfucked and heartbroken after a relationship with a highly intelligent covert narcissist — This is going to be a very long post, but if you want to know how a relationship with a highly intelligent covert narcissist looks like, you might be interested to read this. I've seen so much shit i…
Wtf kind of breakup is this — I am so confused. genuinely. This is between me (19F) and my now ex-boyfriend (20M). The relationship was 2.5 months, but the attachment, connection and attraction was extremely strong. He's a great …
I’m beginning to realise that my mother may be a narcissist, and I’m having a lot of trouble getting my head around it all — Hi all, apologies in advance as this may be a bit rambling, but I’d really like some advice (and to be told I’m not crazy, I guess). I (m34) have been depressed and anxious all my life, throw in some …
20 years and it's gone. — I keep trying to tell myself that I'm lucky because we didn't have kids, that we kept finances separate, that I can't keep trying to justify sunk costs, but right now I'm just so much of a wreck that…
They always judge your reactions but never question their own actions that made you react that way. Why is that?? — Is that just the definition of emotional immaturity? Do they not understand the power they had/have as a parent? Obviously empathy is too high of a hurdle for them but do they not comprehend the simpl…
Still in shock after multiple betrayals — My boyfriend (35) of 1 year the man I loved, who pursued me (31/F) relentlessly, who called me constantly, who made me feel safe and adored, had been cheating on me multiple times with multiple women.…
Still in shock after multiple betrayals — My boyfriend (35M) of 1 year, the man I loved, who pursued me (31F) relentlessly, who called me constantly, who made me feel safe and adored, had been cheating on me multiple times with multiple women…
Irrationally angry at people for having kids. — I just need to get this out and thought maybe some people would have similar views on it. I get irrationally angry about people I know having kids. especially people I know have issues themselves. …
I took two puffs of dmt. — I had went for a run before to kantianly focus my mind on this experience that I would have. I turned the aircondition on turns out bad idea the frequency of the almost instantenous patterns of painte…
I (19M) made my partner (18NB) uncomfortable during our first visit and now they ended things how do I cope with the guilt? — I have been in a ldr with my ex-partner for about 2 and a half months but have been friends casually for some years, and actually close for the better part of six or seven months. We bonded fast becau…
THE OYSTER IS NOT YOUR WORLD! (IT'S THIS SIMPLE) — LONGGG POST! DISCLAIMER: for any of ya'll havin a problem with "long posts" , "english", "structure", "accent" etc etc. i got 2 tips for ya 1. chat gpt (or any other ai platform) - command c+v (summ…
WHAT DO YOU WANT?! — OK IMMA ASK A QUESTION - **QUES-** how many of ya'll had worse "3D" after learning about manifestation? reading neville? reading secret? law of attraction? law of assumption? anything at all youtube?…
after 10 years got cheated on — unfortunately me 28f found out my soon to be ex husband of 32m was having intimate messages with a female probably way younger for him... I am a nurse i have been working my ass off to have what we ha…
thank you! very interesting. ps.i was curious cos i read somewhere to not stop talking to the fifth dimension beings but instead to go higher in dimension, seems the 5th dimension beings still have t…
Exactly! No context. I know it's becoming more difficult to approach eachother in the wild. But things changed so fast for this generation , and how dating app works is so unnatural to me my brain can…
Well, where do I start? I guess for me the foundation was based on 3 pillars. 1st was of course Mindfulness as ability to comprehend that neither thoughts or feelings are our true self, which is in fa…
I don't think there's a "circle jerk" in the avoidant attachment sub. I've read and genuinely benefitted from seeing how the group helps each other comprehend their reactions and attempt from a place …
Thank you for your response. I really appreciate it. Could you please help me understand what you mean by me abandoning myself? It's hard for me to comprehend this sort of stuff, I feel like I try har…
Did you read and comprehend the OP at all?
I mean I have forgiven her in the sense that I do hold not hostility towards her, and really hold more sadness that her upbringing caused her to have these tendencies. Although, if we were to ever get…
He said he needed space for his life to change. I accepted this and was happy because I assumed it was going to be a few months. Nope, it was about all of a week. I feel frustrated because I've litera…
I was recommended a video on youtube by a lady that kind of presented herself as a conselerus counselor or professional of sorts and was really shocked by how mean spireted it was against people suffe…
Hahah I acknowledge they are people too (and not just heartless monsters 🥴). I stopped engaging with him yes, after asking for clarity if he wanted to keep seeing me in an intentional way. It’s just …
Great summary. I think realistically based on age we can only look round 15 years max because it’s too much to comprehend otherwise. Neptune and Saturn in Aries now will change the world order as we…
They clearly don’t listen at all, not just that person but lots of them, they let their emotions tell some exaggerated story where they completely miss the plot. Then they want to come to the internet…
Lots of venting (as I started writing this I just spiralled into journaling I guess) I am only venting as obviously I am doing things wrong. On Sunday, the guy I was / am seeing and I had a call for…
The first year at least is a complete blur even if they’ve been emotionally detaching for a while. There’s a lot to process on all levels and lots of upheaval. I’ve been on that ride and I would not p…
It's just being awareness, but it's an approach that is understood best and best practiced after awareness has been established enough that it's more conscious than is typical. Before open awareness …
I'm 57F and only realized the extent of my childhood emotional neglect following a complete breakdown a few years ago. Like you I have a devoted husband. Our kids love us in a way I find hard to compr…
You don't have to control emotions, but comprehend them!
To all of u on here...... The hurt from the lost is undeniable but my greatest advice that Id like to share with all my heart and hope, that you will understand what is happening in your life at thi…
for me it’s ever since charlie kirk was killed, idc where ups stand, that’s my point. they want us insanely divided at the same time they’re taking our energy in ways we can’t comprehend. i felt such …
I guess I have a very hyperactive and planner mind. At the peak of the trip I couldn't achieve anything but keeping rolling in the mental loop. I guess that I wanted to much and I didn't let anything …
I forget how many stages in a marriage there are, but this is typical of how relationships start failing, and you have to recreate them. Build a different relationship; quite natural and par for the c…
>At first my boyfriend started using chat for normal things, such as workout plans, food advice etc. >he told me, that chat uses facts and doesn’t lie, Using GPT for advice may be *common* but it's…
I never understood how there are parents like this. I am father of two and I love my kids. I could never, never do such things, not only in this topic but also in the other ones. This is something my …
True. I’m thinking from my POV and trying to make sense of it, but really there must be so many things going on with memory and delusional thoughts that I struggle to comprehend.
I know you love him and he's probably been your main support. The problem is that the man you thought he was... isn't who he is. When things mattered most, he absolutely failed you. He even failed …
a. voting is rarely a full throated support of anybody/anything. everything is a tradeoff. everything is a lesser of two evils situation. i can be for an issue a bill proposes to support but be agains…
Remorse requires awareness, it requires the ability to put yourself in someone else’s shoes. Without prompting, to understand what your actions have done to someone else, and most importantly, to have…
It's not simple like whites are doing all the bad things to people of color. I work in NYC and race relations are very complicated and quite frankly worse than places where there is less diversity. …
I think the major shift that helped.me.get out of this mindset was understanding that I don't need to be "fixed". Trauma can shape you a very specific way, but that does not mean you're "broken", even…
It's easy for a meditator with a particular psychological make up (not intellectual) to experience stress or confusion from trying to analyze something which they don't understand. It's also easy for…
I think one of the big things I need to learn is how to comprehend that everything is up to me/I control my reality. Any tips on how to help with that?
The loss is global. It's enormous and you can't comprehend it until you go through it.
Yeah, it’s like every time you hear that it just adds insult injury. Like they just don’t comprehend the pain they’ve caused you, otherwise they wouldn’t be blatantly saying that, especially TO you
Exactly! For example, my nMother assumed my brother and his wife would have a tiny wedding because that was what she wanted. At no point did she communicate this expectation to my brother and his wife…
It seems you don’t comprehend what it means to imagine something and what it means to ”see something in your minds eye”. It’s not to got anything to do with the blackness of your eyelids.
Mine gets very angry when I try to explain what he's done to me and simply cannot see this side of things. It's like he cannot comprehend that it wasn't "oh, I'm so glad you ended that. Ok, I'm just a…
You will see this happen in your life. People so naively selfish, they really can't comprehend another's point of view, needs, wants etc. He only cares about what he wants. Some men are like that but …
Consider it a birthday wish come true. You thought he might be controlling. You learned he doesn’t comprehend the independence a person can feel when they don’t belong to someone else. Because you’re …
Have a huge hug if you would like one. Well done for getting out. It is truly delusional of your dna donors to think you are the one who needs to change....or due them financial support in their re…
Right. I agree with that. The part I struggle more with comprehending is how you'd for example have some guy be your BOYFRIEND for 3 years, and still not consider him to be a trusted person. Most pe…
I'm not the person you asked but here is my take on your question. I can't remember ever wanting anyone to understand what my house was like so no. I was good at hiding it. I don't remember feeling li…
I had what felt like an out of body experience and saw a blue alien being. It had shimmery skin and the huge black eyes. It felt like I was being lifted up and I had this wonderful surge of energy tha…
> If they don't like it, they don't deserve it. Between all my worst abandonment fears coming true and spending almost 2yrs now living isolated and disconnected... I get what your saying but I don't …
This happened to me, too. I could not relate to the intensity that others felt towards me. I loved their company, but always felt as though I'd talk to them again during quiet periods (3+ months). Lif…
Have you any sort of more broad classification of the glyphs you are describing? I would like to see more and what have you understand so far. That brings me to another question that is if the provid…
I don’t think you’re fully reading and comprehending my comments, so I’ll just stop here. Glad you were able to communicate and compromise in your past relationship.
I comprehend quite well thanks, I just disagree with your stance/premise. I'm not out to change your mind, I rarely expect to change most people's mind on reddit. It's an echo chamber of echo chambers…
I'm not in a relationship right now but i want you to know that you're not alone, i experience intense emotional outbursts and can be awfully mean and sometimes aggressive, i can't take love, constant…
Stop seeking to “know” or “understand” that which we will never be able to fully comprehend. Make peace with that, if only to provide just one necessity to have peace within yourself. The mysteries of…
Hi Keith, good to hear from you. Yes, as we discussed before I fully comprehend the fact the Bible is a book of symbols, but I feel when discussing the beautiful teachings of Jesus (my favourite teach…