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The Gaslighting is So Exhausting..

Look up cognitive dissonance. https://youtu.be/TZHX0JdXLQQ?si=VfWm-ujMsoxCbAyS Do not allow the cheater to continue justifying their actions. The 180 https://worthofmysoul.com/how-and-why-to-do-a…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/6/2026
32 years of marriage, but I'm still unsettled by an affair from 2006. Is it too late to ask for the truth?

It seems quite obvious her therapist gave her the idea of shelving the affair. Not all therapists are good at their job and who knows what your wife may have told the therapist. Likely some version o…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/14/2026
Update 3 months later

During an affair, they are not operating within normal reality. They are living an altered reality, so most anything is possible. Many affairs are in reality a state of temporary insanity. Or not so t…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/15/2026
She admits the lies and secrecy, but still denies anything physical

No reconciling without true remorse. True remorse tells the truth, holding nothing back. She is not remorseful. Along with remorse there has to NO CONTACT WITH AFFAIR PARTNER OF ANY SORT. There is no…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/24/2026
Should I try and reconcile or is the writing on the wall?

No, you cannot. All your confrontation have done is to get her intentions out into the open. But you have already tried and will keep on trying. So, here is something to consider; https://worthofmyso…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/4/2026