← Back to Resources

url

brides.com

r/CodependencyUpdated 30 days ago
47
mentions
Visit resource

Evidence

Citations (10)

Just realized how damaging people pleasing and not being able to say “no” really is

Not a weird ask! [Brides.com - Something Borrowed](https://www.brides.com/history-something-old-new-borrowed-blue-wedding-tradition-11796825) Something Borrowed The "something borrowed" item usuall…

r/Codependencycomment3/15/2026
Stuck In My Head After Affair

Unforgivable Cheating https://www.bustle.com/p/9-types-of-cheating-couples-are-likely-to-move-past-vs-cheating-thats-unforgivable-15520512#:~:text=Unforgivable%3A%20Cheating%20That%20Involves%20Deceit…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/8/2026
32 years of marriage, but I'm still unsettled by an affair from 2006. Is it too late to ask for the truth?

It seems quite obvious her therapist gave her the idea of shelving the affair. Not all therapists are good at their job and who knows what your wife may have told the therapist. Likely some version o…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/14/2026
Update 3 months later

During an affair, they are not operating within normal reality. They are living an altered reality, so most anything is possible. Many affairs are in reality a state of temporary insanity. Or not so t…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/15/2026
Married 9 years and just found out my wife has been cheating on me.

What was her relationship past like prior to you meeting her? Had she ever cheated before? Had she been into sexting and sending nudes? Had she been into casual hooking up and was her body count alrea…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/16/2026
My wife finally admitted an affair that happened 9 years ago

The Difference Between Remorse and Guilt, shame and regret.  Only remorse matters. After Cheating https://www.brides.com/the-one-way-to-know-your-marriage-will-survive-an-affair-1102868 https://id…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/18/2026
She admits the lies and secrecy, but still denies anything physical

No reconciling without true remorse. True remorse tells the truth, holding nothing back. She is not remorseful. Along with remorse there has to NO CONTACT WITH AFFAIR PARTNER OF ANY SORT. There is no…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/24/2026
Recovering from emotional affair.

Why are you so certain it was never physical, no sex, no groping, no sexual touching? Did they meet up, one on one? Opportunity matters. Is she in any way still in touch with him, even seeing him acr…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/24/2026
Should I try and reconcile or is the writing on the wall?

The statement that you must be willing to lose the marriage is the key to all of this. You cannot have the mindset that you’ll save the marriage at any cost, so that leads to certain failure. The ma…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/4/2026
Shit being with a cheater...shit being without one?

It only happened one time. You do not know that. But even cheating the one time cheater is 3.4 times more likely to cheat again. The Difference Between Remorse and Guilt, shame and regret. Only re…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/7/2026