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The Difference Between Remorse and Guilt, shame and regret. Only remorse matters. After Cheating https://www.brides.com/the-one-way-to-know-your-marriage-will-survive-an-affair-1102868 https://id…
Unforgivable Cheating https://www.bustle.com/p/9-types-of-cheating-couples-are-likely-to-move-past-vs-cheating-thats-unforgivable-15520512#:~:text=Unforgivable%3A%20Cheating%20That%20Involves%20Deceit…
Advise his wife. Then just be gone before she returns. Leave only a single piece of paper with his name on it. Block her on everything. Every second of our lives that passes is gone forever. Medi…
https://www.affairrecovery.com/newsletter/founder/unfaithful-why-did-they-choose-them 'I've always contended that people “affair-down,” if for no other reason than because it is an affair; it's not …
It seems quite obvious her therapist gave her the idea of shelving the affair. Not all therapists are good at their job and who knows what your wife may have told the therapist. Likely some version o…
During an affair, they are not operating within normal reality. They are living an altered reality, so most anything is possible. Many affairs are in reality a state of temporary insanity. Or not so t…
Had she ever cheated before you? According to John Gottman and his team, sex is 20% of a relationship. And thatblines with the following article; https://www.affairrecovery.com/newsletter/founder/unf…
Look up the differences between true remorse and shame, guilt and regret. Remorse matters, the others do not. No remorse, no reconciling. https://www.affairrecovery.com/newsletter/founder/unfaithful-…
No reconciling without true remorse. True remorse tells the truth, holding nothing back. She is not remorseful. Along with remorse there has to NO CONTACT WITH AFFAIR PARTNER OF ANY SORT. There is no…
Why are you so certain it was never physical, no sex, no groping, no sexual touching? Did they meet up, one on one? Opportunity matters. Is she in any way still in touch with him, even seeing him acr…
They found someone who would provide them with certain things they thought they wanted. https://www.affairrecovery.com/newsletter/founder/unfaithful-why-did-they-choose-them 'I've always contended …
Stonewalling is terrible to behold. You already know he cheated so just go on that. Rug sweeping infidelity solves nothing at all. He seems to have not matured beyond his youth. https://www.affairr…
Oh PUH-lease. He’s not too suicidal or depressed to bang a teenager. *Stop trying to take care of him.* He can find his own effin therapist (he won’t). You’re not supposed to get past it. It’s har…