Not Just Friends

Get two copies of "Not Just Friends" by Shirley Glass and tell him you are both reading a chapter a day and discussing what you read every night--either at dinner or after. He needs to "hear" from a…

My boyfriend (22M) of 18 months REFUSES to introduce me (22M) to his family, except as a “friend”. — For background, myself and my bf are from two different Western European countries, and met in a third country while studying. We lived in the same city for 9 months, including living together for a …

Have you read "Not Just Friends"? It is a great read. It puts things into perspective. True healing CAN occur and not all emotional infidelities progress to physical. Reddit is a sample of the truly …

What a shitty way to find out your parents and her parents were swingers and not just friends u/ThrowRA728347.

You're not overthinking. She hasn't even really dove deep into "why". The only "why" is basically, "you are garbage". Sorry but the "not much reasoning as to why she did it other than occasionally say…

Go easy on yourself, mate. You've been stabbed in the back by the very person who should have had your back. Her stonewalling and not answering questions about her affair only keeps you de-stabilised.…

I highly recommend the book, "Not Just Friends" by Shirley Glass. I am only two weeks out from discovering my partner’s affair but this really helped me understand how/why it happened. Most importantl…

I'm so sorry you're going through this, and it does get worse before it gets better - im still waiting for it to get better. I read not just friends and asked her to do the same - she has read 12 per…

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My wife's friends actively encouraged her to escalate her EA to a PA. One of these friends was having her own affair with a married subordinate at work. One of my conditions of reconciling was that sh…

The book Not Just Friends helped me a lot to understand the healing dynamic and what I should and should not "tolerate" from the cheating partner. Not every aspect of the book pertained to my situatio…

"I just wanted to find you a friend" "I thought you two would really get on". Not Just Friends & Chump Lady's books were fantastic. She bought me CL's book, read 3 pages, I finished it and asked her …

Read "not just friends". You will always be second to her in the relationship. Get out before you get married to him. Your instincts are not wrong. He can either set boundaries with her or lose yo…

He should treat her no differently than he treats his male friends. Anything more than that is more than friends. You should both read the book Not Just Friends, it discusses emotional affairs. He can…