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My fiance cheated on me

I don't believe a cheater can change. It's a character flaw. This had nothing to do with you. How you look or anything. He's the problem. Check out https://www.chumplady.com/

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/11/2026
UPDATE: I thought my marriage just felt loveless…turns out there was a reason

There is a wonderful website called ChumpLady.com.   It is written by a betrayed wife.  I recommend it.  It can help answer your questions.  

r/Divorcecomment3/17/2026
Caught wife with her best friend (F)

Read this OP: [https://www.chumplady.com/real-remorse-or-genuine-imitation-naugahyde-remorse/](https://www.chumplady.com/real-remorse-or-genuine-imitation-naugahyde-remorse/) Do you know what Trickle…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/18/2026
After 9 years together she cheated, moved on fast, and dropped the bomb during 'final goodbye' – advice needed to survive this

Read “Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life” by Scorn or the website “chumplady.com” It’s an infidelity survivor help site. Your ex is trash for cheating on you, but she inadvertently did you a favor by leavi…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/25/2026
Books to help after betrayal

[https://www.chumplady.com/the-basics-of-cheating/](https://www.chumplady.com/the-basics-of-cheating/)

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/1/2026
My partner says she chooses me but keeps an emotional affair with her coworker — I’m losing myself

I'm so sorry that you are going through this. - You can only fix it if she goes no contact with that person. That means changing jobs as well. It really is the only way. - It can an 98% chance tha…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/10/2026
My ex husband told a friend he wanted to apologize, I don’t know if I can accept it

No no no.  No coffee.  It is too little too late.    If you haven’t already done, so, I recommend that you read the website ChumpLady.com.  It can be very helpful understanding why men cheat.

r/Divorcecomment4/12/2026
My (29M) husband (29M) confessed to a betrayal with my sister from years ago. I’m lost and struggling to reconcile the man I love with these actions.

It’s natural. Your heart has to catch up with reality. Visit chumplady.com If he’s making excuses and does this at the slightest sign of issues, then he’s not a keeper.

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/13/2026