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Why don’t I relate to my sun sign (Aries) at all?

The chart literally points at a hint. Both main generational planets in the same sign lock in the "male part" - whatever that means for you - in Taurus. Pluto and Chiron in Saggitarius look like the…

r/AskAstrologerscomment3/31/2026
Possible Encounter - Any information on this type of experience?

Possible Encounter - Any information on this type of experience? — Blue robed figure small maybe 2-3 foot and another shimmering being behind them. Blue robed figure looked feminine. When I acknowledged the robed figure turned and walked until they just vanished. Exp…

r/experiencerspost3/19/2026
Men without children

Men without children — This one is for the men who don't have children- maybe because you never wanted them, maybe your past partners didn't or for whatever reason- it just never happened. I (F41) have read enough posts to …

r/datingoverfortypost3/31/2026
Me [30m] and my wife (25f) are loveing couple and she doesn't even like to have convo with other men she is shy indian wife but we are considering hiring a gigolo for the male sex organ will this be okay?

Me [30m] and my wife (25f) are loveing couple and she doesn't even like to have convo with other men she is shy indian wife but we are considering hiring a gigolo for the male sex organ will this be okay? — my wife and i have been married for about 6 years , never had any complains,we both love each other very much and dont want to leave this relationship at any cost, but because of my lack of a good dic…

r/relationshipspost4/13/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

I totally agree. I have friends with male partners to prove that there are guys with other love languages. Maybe dating apps is just where all the “physical touch” guys hang out lol

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/19/2026
Took the stock advice and joined social activities to meet people. Here are my results.

Maybe this works for men who want to meet women but most married women do not have male friends to introduce you to. Their male partners usually rely on them for social support…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/22/2026
Took the stock advice and joined social activities to meet people. Here are my results.

There is some truth to what you’re saying about men with female partners, but I’ve found single and gay/queer men seem to have plenty of friends of both sexes.

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/23/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - February 26, 2026

I can't speak for myself (and I am 33F only), but two of my coworkers (both women) have had children in their (admittedly early) 40s. I waver on whether I want kids, but focus on my nutrition and exer…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/26/2026
All (That I Can Think Of) Asian Performers Currently Playing A Principal Role In a Broadway Musical!

My original comment wasn’t even about the phenomenon of Asian American women dating white men. I mentioned Western media’s propensity of uplifting Asian women with white male partners, because that pa…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/17/2026
My girlfriend tells long, detailed work stories every day after I get home exhausted. 25M-23F, 6 months.

Connection. I went out with my childhood friend yesterday and something we both noted was how our male partners are *baffled* that when hanging out with friends, we very often just go to the other p…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/17/2026
My (M38) wife (F34) has been very quiet since a conversation we had of why I love her. Confused about her silence.

The classic dynamic of many of these relationships. The Asian female partner is the subservient perfect waifu, her worth is tied to how much she fulfills that sexist racist idea of what Asian women sh…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/19/2026
I [27f] feel like I have to ask for a lot from my boyfriend [29m] of 2.5 years

OP, I relate to your feelings and agree with this response. One suggestion I have is to specifically bring up your concerns with the proactive/reactive lens. I also have a list of resources (books, po…

r/relationshipscomment3/19/2026
Found out my husband resents me a lot for my mental illness

I actually think this is a generally common and well documented phenomenon, if that's comforting? I don't know, it's probably not comforting and it's a fucked up situation regardless if you have a "yo…

r/CPTSDcomment3/19/2026
My (21F) girlfriend had a complete meltdown when I (23M) tried to use her phone

Well they didn’t really add much more information. After two years you don’t need to look through someone’s phone to know if they are cheating. You can tell by their financial output. You can tell by …

r/relationship_advicecomment3/19/2026
How I learned that a lot of women/girls are scared of men

Yeah I would say it's next to zero men have empathy for women in a real and meaningful way. I absolutely assert that. Your comment is just validating that. You're just the same as the rest of them. Mo…

r/CPTSDcomment3/20/2026
How do I (39F) forgive my husband (39M) for making a fake vet appt for our senior dog?

“So I guess my question is how do I get over it when I’m not even getting a proper apology? Do I just have to accept that this is my life?” Please don’t, and please don’t. I understand how hard it …

r/relationship_advicecomment3/20/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 20, 2026

I am 35f and I try to bring my dates flowers as soon as I know their favorite color or flower. Yes. I give my male partners flowers as well. It’s usually the first time they have gotten them. Some…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/20/2026
"You'll find someone eventually"

That's nice of you to be so self aware. I will say, my place is much cleaner and more organized without my boyfriend living with me but it's that way from *my* perspective. If he were still here, he m…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/23/2026
My (37F) partner (43M) is obsessed with having something in his ass during sex and its ruining it for me.

No he needs to go.. you deserve a lot better than that!! I’m sorry but if my partner rolled over and finished himself off with porn and a toy up his arse I’d legit pack his bags there and then for him…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/23/2026
My (37F) partner (43M) is obsessed with having something in his ass during sex and its ruining it for me.

Ummm… I think he needs a male partner. I’m sorry he inconvenienced you for so long. This is the strangest …

r/relationship_advicecomment3/23/2026
What's a statement from your parents that sounded good back then but has aged like milk once you realized your emotional neglect?

Same. My parents used authority (“because I said so” and getting furious as a way to shut down discussion), appealing to the lowest common denominator (“at least I don’t beat you like the neighbours d…

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment3/25/2026
Burned Haystack: I Break the Rules

If you're happy with him, than thats what matters. If you're looking for a husband as a possible caretaker the statistics say he'll live longer because of you, or leave because statistically speakin…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/27/2026
What Standards to Reduce?

Nah, its not uncommon for working class guys to feel some kinda way about a female partner with more education. Im firmly blue collar, first gen holder of a bachelor's degree, and prefer to date blue …

r/datingoverfortycomment3/27/2026
I (f 22) tested positive for an std after years of being clean and consistent testing and my bf (m 24) of 2 years says it’s “impossible” it’s because of him despite not being tested for 5 years and now we’re not okay.

Yes, they can. This is why doctors now recommend the male partner treat even if testing negative. Also, the transmission rate is less than 40% but obviously increases with regular repeated exposure. …

r/relationship_advicecomment3/28/2026
I (f 22) tested positive for an std after years of being clean and consistent testing and my bf (m 24) of 2 years says it’s “impossible” it’s because of him despite not being tested for 5 years and now we’re not okay.

Do not hold on treatment. Azithromycin 1 gram is what you need, it’s a one time dose. Doxycycline 100mg twice a day for a week can be used but most use the Azithromycin. It may not even affect you t…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/28/2026
My Boyfriend (28M) thinks the reason why he can't finish is because I'm (20F) too big from the inside.

It's just my opinion, but something just doesn't sound right. When men have sexual issues, they usually blame it on their female partner. Since he is still young, it might not be ED, unless he is a sm…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/29/2026
My wife (f38) wants me (m42) to be okay with her going speed dating with friend?

That's a completely different scenario. At a bar her role as a wing woman would be aide in creating an ambiance, making sure her friend can speak one-on-one, and brushing away the unwanted ones. S…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/30/2026
Men without children

Original copy of post by u/Status_Building_3685: This one is for the men who don't have children- maybe because you never wanted them, maybe your past partners didn't or for whatever reason- it just …

r/datingoverfortycomment3/31/2026
Have I 22F have destroyed my boyfriend 24M and I's sex life?

First of all, I have met a lot of couples that don't have sex because the woman has some problem that makes it impossible. Apart from the lack of sex, what hurts the male partner the most is usually t…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/31/2026
Has Anyone Used an Asian Matchmaking Service

To be clear the majority of non-Asian male partners of ESEA women I know of in the PNW are still white. I just happen to have met nerdy/geeky Black/Latino men as an adult who are probably sociological…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/31/2026
I 24 f got a dm that I think is about my 28 m husband and idk what to do. How can I bring this up to him without sounding accusatory?

I hear you, but she likely thinks he’s doing the same with other women, and she doesn’t want him to know she’s the one who told you because he (and sometimes the female partner) blame the woman who re…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/1/2026
My wife ‘35F’ has told me ‘38M’ that she wants me to hit on and potentially sleep with another woman.

Sadly these stories rarely end well. If you have a search in “late blooming lesbians” you’ll see your exact circumstance played out hundreds of times. Every person is different but the outcome from …

r/relationship_advicecomment4/1/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - April 01, 2026

I personally find it a bit disrespectful that he sits and talk about how hot the actresses are especially if it’s something that he often does. It’s one thing that ofc he and everybody else is attract…

r/datingoverthirtycomment4/2/2026
Men! I'm curious

No I would never think like that, I would think it's a huge green flag if she's sexually interesting. As long as she's not very much into things that I don't really like, which would make it feel lik…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/3/2026
Hello!! Quick question regarding my father walking in on me while I shower.

As a mother, I will say that kids often become more private about their bodies at the onset of puberty. As parents, we recognize these shifts, as subtle as they are, and it is our job to support them…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/3/2026
I (30F) found out my husband’s (32M) fantasy through a couples app and now I feel weird

Not true, I've asked my male partner for threesome, and he will not. Not with another girl, or another guy. I'd be happy with both lol

r/relationship_advicecomment4/3/2026
My (M20) Dad (M59) says Heterosexual Relationships are only about Sex, is that really the case?

Not true that the relationship is only about sex. But sex is usually an important factor in the long term success of a heterosexual relationship. And I will say one thing strongly: during the times w…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/3/2026
I (30F) found out my husband’s (32M) fantasy through a couples app and now I feel weird

Real life confession related to threesomes. (And this isn’t meant as a humblebrag as you’ll soon see) I’m 59, overweight, bald, not rich by any stretch, and entered a throuple (for the first time) wit…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/3/2026
30F with 29M partner, he sleeps in separate room to avoid helping with our 4mo twins and called me “dirty” when the house was messy.

Some of them hide it until they think you’re well and truly trapped. Many woman get hit for the first time in their wedding night. Pregnant women are more likely to be hit and killed by their male par…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/4/2026
Don't you think it's sexist for my fiance (28M) to not want our future children to have my (28F) last name?

I would not in a million year voluntarily take a husband's name (I'm bi and would consider it if I got a wife and her name was significantly cooler, but mostly think keeping own names or both having b…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/6/2026
Wife (29f) of 3 years has become increasingly anxious about my (29m) safety during her pregnancy.

People talk a lot about postnatal depression, but antenatal depression and anxiety are a big thing too. It's normal for the male partner to go to some of the doctor's appointments, you can bring this …

r/relationshipscomment4/6/2026
Advising my (M33) girlfriend (F30) on her looks.

Would you say the same if a woman was on here saying their male partner had a unibrow, bad skin due to lack of care and was getting overweight?

r/relationship_advicecomment4/6/2026
my gf (24F) wants me (25M) to go into our first home purchase but won't define her financial contribution, wants shared ownership and is thinking about breaking up with me because I don't have a "provider" mentality

Do yourself a huge favour and watch some divorce court videos on YouTube and see what really happens with the assets one party works so hard for and the other sits back doing so much less to contribut…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/6/2026
Wife (29f) of 3 years has become increasingly anxious about my (29m) safety during her pregnancy.

Me neither! I'm not pregnant, but I have this anxiety about my male partner all the time too. I never try to stop him from doing anything, but I constantly worry about him dying in a car accident duri…

r/relationshipscomment4/6/2026
Living together with kids

ETA: my answer assumes both partners have children but upon re-reading your post maybe the only child involved is yours? I still would look at it from the perspective of: is this change in my child's …

r/datingoverfortycomment4/6/2026
Are women less likely to return after a breakup. I just want to understand

there have been several studies that demonstrate how women generally experience longer, happier lives when they are single, compared to when they’re in relationships. the opposite is true for men; men…

r/BreakUpscomment4/6/2026
I’m (37f) 25w pregnant with our second kid but can’t shake the feeling that my partner (39m) of 7 years is not what I need

Is this some psyop or something? Second post I read today about needing a male partner to be a “protector.” Whatever your insta algorithm is giving you, you need to chill out.

r/relationshipscomment4/7/2026
42F got approached by 35M…?

7 years is perfect, since that's how much longer we women live, on average, than our male partners. As long as he's got his act together and isn't looking for a mommy, there's s lot of benefit to dati…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/7/2026
Navigating a Secret Relationship with a Muslim

So I'm a Muslim, I lovey religion and everything, I'm happy for her that she connected to Islam again and trying to repent,  first of all "headstone of the relationship", you have to understand that u…

r/relationshipscomment4/8/2026
I(20 FtM) met ‘the one’ (18NB) but I’m terrified it won’t last. (NSFW for talk of assigned genders)

You two had a conversation where they stated they want to be a girl. Have you not asked if they plan any surgeries? I can totally understand that you are scared, I would be, too because I'm hetero an…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/9/2026
He got married and they are so happy I feel bad how do i move on from this?

If other men can tell there is something wrong with your male partner and immediately tells you to get away or insert themselves in a *in progress situation* where they are doing their things on you i…

r/NarcissisticAbusecomment4/9/2026
I dont want to talk to on the phone every single day

So this guy: - can't exercise basic empathy (he's too busy for unscheduled phone calls, but can't understand that you are too) - expects you to gentle parent him through polite conversationsl skills …

r/datingoverfortycomment4/9/2026