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alright, a few people asked me for the methods i used to manifest my SPs, here it is — for more context, check my last post. i only started this journey a month or two ago. im still experimenting, i am by no means well learned in this particular topic. i havent even gone in depth in a …
My (M38) wife (F34) has been very quiet since a conversation we had of why I love her. Confused about her silence. — So I'm a little bit confused about this. A couple of days ago, my wife came to me asking the question that has been asked many times during our marriage. "Do you still love me? And why do you love me?…
Struggling to manifest physical changes — Hi! So I’m using a throwaway account for this because my family knows my normal account, but for a few months now I’ve been trying to manifest some physical changes. (Decreased height, lighter skin, s…
THE ONLY ANSWER TO ALL YOUR QUESTIONS! (manifestation and neville) // PART 2 — SELF-CONCEPT (roll those drums caz i got my tea and i got to PREACH) i can claim to be the GOD of self concept i swear on me i got it baby and i got it sooooooo goooood (please take what you will …
THE ONLY ANSWER TO ALL YOUR QUESTIONS! (manifestation and neville) // PART 2 — SELF-CONCEPT (roll those drums caz i got my tea and i got to PREACH) i can claim to be the GOD of self concept i swear on me i got it baby and i got it sooooooo goooood (please take what you will caz…
Day 17 of no contact — Today is day 17 of no contact, a seemingly random day but everyday of no contact has been a varying degree of difficult. My goal was to hit 45-60 days and then reach out and maybe try to meet for coff…
4 Years of Being His Emotional Crutch – I Finally Left When He Refused to Grow Up (87 Days No Contact) — I (29F) was with “Jake” (30M) for just over four years. We met at a mutual friend’s house party right after college. He was charming, goofy, the guy who could make anyone laugh. Within a year we moved…
i genuinely do not think i’ll find love in this lifetime — i’m only 21, so you all will probably laugh and say i’m stupid and young and just to give it time. but when i tell you that i feel OLD, i mean it. i’m so exhausted. i’m sick of giving people chances, …
I think I love myself, but I cannot think of why someone would want to love me. — I've been thinking about love, and relationships. I've never dated anyone longer than a month, and I hurt all of them with my attachment, and inability to move one. I also don't know what I could off…
How to make peace with knowing they get to live their life and refuse to let you speak? — I have done all I can to get better. Everything in my life is going well. I have a great support system. I love myself. But he gets to live like I don’t exist. He gets to silence me and block me an…
manifested (kind of) an SP from thin air! — this will be a long one, buckle up! # chapter 0, my journey so i started manifesting seriously from a month now. i didnt really know what it was before that. i kind of thought it was hocus pocus ps…
Baby, you need to accept your own humanity. Say something uncomfortable you want to say to someone, get a mirror and say it to your own face and see yourself saying it and cringe at your own expressio…
It is hard for me(35M). I am working through therapy of healing and not just replacing the attachment which is something i have always struggled with. Even having dry spells after a break up of over a…
Broke up with my gf two weeks ago. She wasn't treating me right, like she switched up on me real fast. I managed to make the ending positive for both of us. However, when my mind feels nostalgic, I …
I have felt like this often throughout my journey. One of the wonderful gifts I have received is when I realized that I don’t hate myself like I used to. I think I can even go as far to say I love mys…
Back in December my ex tried to reconnect, and oh I still love him so much at that time that I still let him in... But oh boy, it was a mistake, he was still the same, he'd go on days without no commu…
Genuinely no, I would say I love myself a lot, I love who I am, how I look, I voice my opinions all the time! Maybe I need to go deeper
You have an inner authority that can never be overridden by any seen or unseen force. You are a fragmented spiritual spark of God and have all of his potencies equal in quality but not equal in quan…
For me personally, there’s a window to try and fix things. To take accountability and show me you want to make it right and work things out with me. And once that passes, I’m probably not willing to o…
Everyone was right about the LEO I was dating. He’s an ass. I got right with my higher power and decided to take on a second job and forget about men. I tried dating for one month after not dating fo…
I mostly stay home by myself now. I deleted all social media except Reddit. I end up with someone with npd more often than not, so I'm not gonna date anymore. I don't do hookups. A guy I've known for …
As well, some people simply **do** age faster. A guy in my circle is fully gray, and pretty advanced balding that he only does the short buzzcut instead of full shave (so you can *really* see that ha…
I would reach out. Love is real. We all feel it. And her and I felt it. We had a magnetic pull to each other. And yes, after I truly worked on myself and I have and I will continue to do so, I believ…
I hope so too! Remember… love yourself first. I forgot to do that and this is where I’m at. She told me that when she broke up with me.. “I love myself more than I love you” It broke me at first… bu…
Seems to me that 90% of what you love about her is not who she is as a person but what she does (for you). So if a completely different person was willing to perform the same acts of service, both em…
3 years and I’m so happy. Even though my career ended and I have some crazy diagnoses now, I’ve gotten to know myself so well. So much therapy still, but I love myself so much.
“By the end of March 2023 I was with my soulmate, he was someone I’d known before (and admired) in passing. He came into my life of his own accord and it felt like we’d been waiting for each other the…
Why? Because I know who she is. I know her patterns. I know that what we had, as beautiful as it was, wasn't healthy for either of us. One beautiful evening doesn't erase a year and a half of chaos.…
If that’s YOUR idea around what it means to “stay attractive” then, do you. I’m seeing someone younger, who is extremely slim and fit, who tells me on a regular basis how much he loves every inch of…
I always interpreted the changing the mirror thing as it being fruitless to go to your SP in the 3D and tell them, "you should be more romantic / come back to me /why did you do this" etc. But what y…
So I was an A to a B depending on weight. The last straw for me was someone who turned out to be a ped0 interested in me for my flat chest. Prior it was how may men said to me they thought I was young…
Read Love yourself as your life depends on it by Kamal Ravikant. The authors whole life changed in just 1 month by following a simple mantra " I love Myself " and a Mediation and mirror technique. H…
I wrote down a relationship inventory What I wanted the person to have What was nice but not necessary And what was a dealbreaker Example: -Steady job, self sufficient, goes to therapy, kind, lov…
Have to learn to love yourself before you can learn to love anyone else. And until I love myself I'm staying single.
Yeah. Don’t listen to those BS. I love myself a ton but when life makes you truly fall in love with someone THEN you lose them, it’s not something that can be solved by logic. I’m a very logic-based…
Dude, I cannot tell you how deeply this resonates. I love myself. I am happy. I am doing all the things. I just freaking miss them like I have never missed anybody. This isn’t like other break ups I’v…
This gave me chills, it’s the same for me. Just over two years ago I didn’t want to live anymore. I could barely manage getting off the couch on my off days and every time I drove I had visions of run…
Oh I relate this to his post so much. Triangulation is something I'm just learning about and am also just now connecting dots to my mom and narcissistic traits. But this one definitely struck a chord …
Personally, I’m about two years out from completing my mental health journey with a psychotherapist. It started with suicidal thoughts, so I really relate to what you’re going through. What helped …
This actually does help! I think I'm getting closer to that, but not there yet. which is also why I haven't reached out despite KNOWING it will work out. But I don't want to be who I was when I reach …
This is a great insight thanks for posting. I had a dream once where I was stuck in a maze. As I would go through the maze I started noticing my thoughts would manifest, always fear, for instance I…
Was going to say the same thing! I love myself. I didn’t when I was with my ex. I am never lonely like I used to be.
i understand, i still leave doors open, its my birthday next month and im wondering if he will text me then, although im trying not to have hope for that. And honestly, if theyre in a better place in …
My tought tonight, 11 months post-break up… some nights are easier than others… God I’m so lonely and I don’t know what to do about it My skin hurt, sometime I feel me trying to crawl out. God tell m…
I did, I realized my wrongs with me not being the emotional safety he needed and I never cheated, never even wanted another man. I just didn’t have the right tools and thought by myself I could fix th…
Friend, the first thing I want to say is this: The part of you that wants things to get better is still here. I know that because it wrote this post. Self-hatred likes to pretend it is honesty, but …
The affirmations support your sense of personal security and your level of trust and confidence. For some people, this is enough to resolve a large portion of their issues. These are best suited for p…
Agreed It's very very hard but it's not impossible. Edit: thought of this later This might not help everyone and for some people it may be counter productive, but there is something to be said ab…
meditation. you have to push the affirmations from your conscious mind into your subconscious. you can actually make your entire mind way better by just returning to the feeling of your breath with se…
I will say that reflecting on what you like can tell you about your true self. Once I realized I had been acting according to trauma and how deeply shameful I was, my first step was to love myself ver…
this ate so bad like the “i love you but i love myself more”??? yeah that’s the energy people really underestimate how draining it is to be someone’s therapist, mom, and life coach all in one while th…
4 months is too long for still wondering. Work on yourself. Find hobbies. Do things that make you smile and happy then the very last thing you’re gonna think about is getting broke up with. You’re log…
You’re human. Everyone would love for another human to chose them over everything. Your life sounds great. I am in the same situation as you and was feeling that way for about a year after a horrible …
I believe mine did it because he knows deep down that he is inferior, that the real him is evil and selfish. In order to cope, he had to make me believe the same thing about myself. He's very focused …
It's been around 20 days and it was actually the most healthy, normal breakup which hurts more than I expected. It wasn't a messy, toxic, dramatic breakup. I just said okay and we were over. He was th…
Yes. I’ve been a parent for 8 years and am just now dealing with my trauma in a more head on way. I couldn’t even make myself utter the words “I love myself.” My body physically wouldn’t let me. I wou…
You need to understand that their actions have nothing to do with you and all about themselves because they felt like they deserved to treat people that way. It could have been you, it could have been…
trying to figure this out myself. i’m starting small with forgiving myself for experiencing what i’m going thru, and trying to make better choices (or, at least, become cognizant when i’m falling into…