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I (22M) am so confused. Didnt know where else to go with this anymore. I just want help understanding what happened? PLEASE READ - its long, kinda. — important context- i was born into a religious family and grew up a religious kid not in any unorthodox manner only a typical hindu family in india. when i was a child i was afraid of the dark then on…
Pods, Probes & Sidecars: Your First Real Step into Kubernetes Magic — Hey Folks, In our last post, we broke down **Docker Compose vs Kubernetes – Why You’ll Eventually Need K8s**. Now, it’s time to officially dive into Kubernetes, starting with the smallest, yet most po…
Can a house drain your energy? — Hello! I’m not sure if I’m posting in the right subreddit but: We moved into our house about 3 years ago with the help of my MIL. Though we so gladly appreciate her help, we unfortunately didn’t get…
Husband suddenly wants to end our marriage and says it’s because of sex. We have a toddler. I also discovered he’s been dishonest about where he’s been. Looking for perspective. — I’m 39F and my husband (34M) and I have been married a little over 3 years. We have a toddler (2). Recently, completely out of nowhere, he told me he thinks we’re “not compatible” and started talking…
I finally figured out how to manifest — For context I’ve been manifesting for a really long time. I’ve taken this lifestyle up for over 5 years. But it used to be tough to know exactly what I’ll get and when I’ll get it in the past. I usual…
Carl Jung wasn't a psychologist. He was a shaman. — Carl Jung quietly wrote one of the most profound esoteric texts of all time, at least in my own personal opinion. Seven Sermons to the Dead was written in 1916, privately shared between a handful of J…
Breaks are as important as the attempt - from an experienced shifter ⋆˚꩜.ᐟ — hi gorgeous souls! I have seen some posts about people feeling demotivated after a lot of failed shifting attempts and I wanted to give a bit of advice on how to navigate this as somebody who used t…
Stop Looking for the 3D to Change — ​ I finally stopped checking for my manifestation and that is when everything shifted. For weeks I was obsessing over the outcome. I was constantly looking for signs and feeling that knot i…
It doesn’t matter WHAT you do, it matters WHO does it — Lately I’ve been thinking about how working on yourself is actually really important when it comes to manifestation (and no, don’t immediately assume it’s something hard). The phrase “it doesn’t mat…
When I Let the Devil Back In — I feel like I can't speak this to anyone in my life so I will try here. What people don’t understand is that this didn’t just happen in some clean, simple way where I got hurt and then walked away. I …
I thought I was "bad at mornings" for years – turns out, I was just fighting my own biology. — 1. You aren't tired – you're chemically blocked. Brain fog is a chemical siege happening inside your skull, and most people pour coffee on it by default. 2. You're never "too dependent on caffeine to …
Did they ever really care? — 1st - I'm not a doctor, I can't say she has NPD, I can only say that I experienced some strange things in the relationship which could align with someone suffering from that condition. Long story sh…
Letter to Self before Meeting her — Figured it helped a few on other subs so I would add here. I've also been told to warn it may be a trigger to some. Hey dumbass, I don’t really know how to start this without it feeling unreal, beca…
800-1000ug+ FIRST acid trip complete ego loss most terrifying thing ive ever had — Before I get into this, I want to make something clear right away. I am not encouraging anyone to do this, and I am definitely not presenting this as some cool or impressive story. This was not enjoya…
My 23M bf gets a panic attack every time i ask him to pick up after himself 22F am i the problem? — I’ve been living with my bf 23M for almost a year now. I’ve noticed that every time i slightly disagree with him or ask him to not leave food out all night he gets upset to the point that he gets a pa…
If Struggling to Manifest — 1. Alter brain waves state Recommended frequency to manifest: Theta waves = calm, relaxed frequency Make sure that when you are manifesting, you are in a state for it to manifest. \[calm & relaxed\…
I’m an international student (F1 visa) and I can’t tell if my boyfriend actually likes me or just settled for me — Hi everyone, I’d really appreciate some outside perspectives. I’m an international student in the U.S. on an F1 visa. I’m originally from China, but I lived in Japan for many years before coming here…
I want to get better idk where to start — I want to be better. Not in a vague “one day” type of way, but for real. What’s been on my mind is that the people around me seem to genuinely believe in me—sometimes more than I believe in myself. It…
The End of the Mirror: Why Non-Dualism is the Ultimate Power Move — We have been conditioned to believe in "The Other." The other person, the other bank account, the other outcome. We live in a world of "Me vs It." **Non-Dualism (Advaita)** is not a philosophy; it’s…
One step into a sticky situation while separating (M28, F32) — My wife (F32) and I (M28) have been dating since 2021, bought our first home in 2023 and married 2024. Sounds like a start of a love story until 2026 when she suggested to us filing for divorce. This …
One step into a sticky situation while separating — My wife (F32) and I (M28) have been dating since 2021, bought our first home in 2023 and married 2024. Sounds like a start of a love story until 2026 when she suggested to us filing for divorce. This …
Last night I meditated to sleep and at some point became aware in my dream after noticing something was off I opened the door to step into a “void “ or some part of consciousness I briefly saw my body…
For me a big part *is* (cause I’m still working on it)… not fearing losing myself in an attachment. Being able to establish clear boundaries early on, and keep to them even if I lose the other person…
Its really about acknowledging your self-worth and step into your power. Once you realises that you deserve a healthy and consistent love, you will be able to let go of connections that does not recip…
I think this is an interesting question that I have often thought of. I didn't read the study, but in general I don't think anyone should think of "attachment style" as an immutable characteristic - …
Yeah it’s so great that you’re recognizing this now! It took me to my 40’s. Some incredible books that helped me were Attached, Boundaries in Dating although the authors are Christian and I’m not (I j…
It reads as though you wanted him to step into the role of parent not partner. Him to tell you what to do and to make the plans for your care. That level of dependency isn't healthy in adults. You a…
You wanted him to step into a parental caretaking role? Perhaps wanted to be nurtured and nursed back to a safe state of being? Does any of this align with your experience?
Okay, so as someone who tends to lean more on the demisexual side of things. Physicality within a relationship is... everything. I don't mean that it's the center of things, I mean it's the accumula…
one week is no time at all! If I was you, I'd bed rot and watch chick flicks for another week, then step into the "glow up" phase of break ups (gym, haircut, eat healthy again) and then I'd start thi…
I'm at that point as well, very financially stable but need to take the step into millionaire mindset from here. I need some magic
Chiron conjunct mars, means you got taught earlier on, by a critical parent, to not step into your masculine energy. Aries is very masculine. So you do have that energy in you, it just got taught out …
It’s very important you get to a stage where you decide enough is enough. You’ve been thinking about this for a year, accept that you have these thoughts but actively do things to create new memories,…
There are a few things going on. The ruler of your 11th house of friendships (Mercury) is conjunct two malefic planets - Saturn and Mars. Saturn rules your 7th house of one-on-one close relationships …
I've never used the apps, so I've avoided a lot of the rough times people experienced towards dating. With the exception of my current partner, everyone I have ever dated have been women I knew before…
Avoidant people do not react to love and affection like you do. It is quite literally the opposite. As desperately as they want a real connection and love, their nervous system goes wild when it happe…
Tibetan dream yoga teaches a practice of being brave. I call this lesson Logic and (non-binary) Cojones because you need to realize logically that the dream world is a mental construction and you can …
How do you choose to leave from there Any method you use to step into your desired reality.
It is interesting when that happens. Sometimes you see the same insight reflected through different people at the same time. When you start thinking about things from the perspective that creation is …
Yes, reading your post and responses, the mental image I had was the wheel from Wheel of Fortune lying flat on the ground. Step into the colored wedge of the thing/life/etc. you desire: that’s your te…
That is actually a beautiful way to describe it. The Wheel of Fortune imagery fits really well with the idea of states. You step into the part of the wheel that represents the life or experience you w…
Just observe where it goes. Sit with it, notice where you feel the emotion, but don't hold onto it. Release it as soon as you're able to. Think of it like weather you're walking through. If it rains…
It’s about connection. Laying out the details as you experienced them throughout the day to your partner can help them step into your shoes and understand your personal experience better. It can lead …
Yes, boys and girls of any ethnicity probably have different experiences online. My only advice is you can totally take initiative and work to create spaces or volunteer with a men's group for somet…
I think that’s a pretty reductionistic stance on the matter, and I just don’t find it helpful to claim relationships are as simple as someone makes you happy or they don’t. The choices aren’t A) take…
Yeah I moved all of our photos and pictures of her into my hidden folder. I’ll eventually delete everything but that is definitely a step into the right direction. One day I hope she never crosses my …
Put in 20 years. I'm the dumper. It was very hard and still is. We were very young and emotionally immature when we got together. We had a very non traditional creative relationship. But after a decad…
You might be able to find some experiences here on Reddit. I didn’t come across it elsewhere in my learning. Unfortunately that statement is coming from personal experience. I stopped speaking to my…
OP You are not wrong at all you are trying to survive a very rough first trimester and eating whatever you can keep down is normal and medically acceptable. The bigger issue is your partner’s reaction…
Dear EveningCompass, I perceive an immense sense of strength and understanding radiating from your post. Your unwavering conviction in the value of maintaining no contact as part of a healing journey…
It’s time to embrace that *you are now in the new chapter*! You have everything you want in life, it’s magnificent and you ARE that person. Step into it and everything will align, whilst your energy i…
That’s not how I read the post, but it’s admittedly unclear. I agree if she expects them to step into that role now (particularly when OP barely knows the child), it’s unreasonable. But that’s reall…
I begged for years. Never gained an inch of ground with a person to love me or treat me better. Good luck to his Comedy career. (Dont date comedians). Guy couldnt give one crap about what made me happ…
I used to be pretty intense about it but now I focus more on the being- simply I have like alternate versions of myself I step into at times that reside at different frequencies and I naturally think …
I’m sorry to say that your well being is indeed secondary to ticking a box in his eyes. Soon, the “community” will start gossi- asking questions, and your parents “have” to answer them. You do not ha…
I’d say it depends on your personality. In theory, you could script that you are mentally well. You could also, in theory, simply shift without any memories and practically start your life over from s…
Depends on the man i would say, but for me i would find it very enticing to step into step father shoes. To me its a ok and i’m all up for it. What you said is not too much for me at all.
Imagine more detail on what you are seeing and step into the dream :) You're WILDing. I've done this, got off my bed, reality checked and was already in.
Sure, I can. Assuming you want to know 'did we consent to come into this life?'. The answer is yes. Every soul consents to coming into this life. It all happens in the 6th dimension, what I call conse…
Big props to you on that, congrats and keep it going! And sure, I can answer this. By the end of my NDE, I was shown 'the future'. It was an experience I could step into, which I did. There was no gui…
Couples therapy was a consideration, but she just recently restarted therapy, which I was very proud of her for doing, but she’s incredibly busy and it took a lot for her to step into individual thera…
I think you need to turn another corner in your path forward. And that corner is where you no longer see her, or deem it necessary to contact her at all. It's after that you'll likely realize just how…
It's good you're are aware of what is holding you back. That's really the first step and the hardest part, and this was very similar to what I experienced at one point; I had guilt, bad habits, things…
How do you deal with career/study responsibilities in the 3d while still working on yourself in terms of spirituality? Things like these feels like a roadblock because when it comes to logic responsib…
Edit: There is a difference between abusive and high-conflict relationships. Dr. Marina Rosenthal has great information on the subject. If you’re wondering if your relationship is abusive, or if it’s …
Let there be depression. Let there be brain fog. Next time you practice, notice those things without trying to force them away. Accept yourself as you are, even now you’re still whole. We are often ju…
Can you pinpoint any time in your life where you have enjoyed sex? Where a partner did put in the effort and maybe think why, did you talk to them or did they just naturally know? But seriously if y…
You will find many handy informations if you just search Transcendental Meditation on Reddit. It’s very easy, you repeat mantra in your head and let your mind guide you deeper. Key to success is doing…
Hi, u/apt_03! First off, congratulations on your offer, OP! An E-3 visa offer is a notable achievement no matter what you decide, whether to stay in Sydney or relocate to Nashville. As for your quest…
This really reads you want to fit her into the mouls that you want her to be in, instead of really evaluating her circumstances, desires and life stage. Your needs are perfectly valid, but instead of …
The first voice in my head occurred last year when I was sitting on the couch watching TV. It’s said, “You are protected.” After that, the flood gates opened. There’s something about engaging your im…