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OP please: LISTEN. TO. THIS. I don't care what you think about drugs, I don't care you're over 50 and therefore you have grown up convinced that hard drugs destroy people and cannot give any benefit…

Anxious Attachment Injury - Nervous System Stuck in Fight/Flight — TW: attachment injury, trauma-bond withdrawal, panic attacks, obsessive rumination I think I’m in severe attachment-injury / trauma-bond withdrawal and I’m struggling to function. I’m asking for nerv…

Wife cheated on me with multiple men over the course of 3 months. — Me (31m) found out this past December that my wife (27f) had been talking to as many as 20+ people on Snapchat (non nude but inappropriate photos, sexting, ect.). I confronted before new years by tell…

Do you feel “The Click”? — Currently talking to a friend about manifestation and trying to explain how I just “know”. So I was curious if anyone else feels an internal “click” feeling where all doubt disappears and you can move…

How do I control my anger and my lack of patience in my relationship? — I’ve been with my husband going on a year and a half. He’s a wonderful man and our relationship is overall healthy. But I fear I am becoming emotionally abusive towards him. I’ve been in bad relations…

I finally went to therapy and I'm angry at myself for waiting so long because of stupid stigma — For five years I told myself I didn't need therapy. I told myself I could handle everything on my own. I told myself that going to therapy meant I was weak or broken or dramatic. Meanwhile I was bare…

The Double Body Technique : A Great astral projection method. — # The Double Body Technique: What is The Double Body? **The double body** is a visualized form resembling yourself, created through imagination. This construct can be inhabited and used for astral pr…

Creaking and Cracking — # Do you get unusual noises in your vicinity during experiences? **Such as: Creaking, cracking, popping, thudding, snapping, etc.** **These noises occur in synchronistic-timing** with my thoughts an…

Trans in a religious and conservative Viet household — Truthfully, it’s just awful. I (23FtM, pre-everything) am bisexual and trans. And I just happen to unfortunately be born in a Vietnamese Catholic household that loves our good ol’ president. Not to me…

Emotionally Unavailable Mother BUT she’s literally the nicest person ever..? — Hi, i’m struggling to relate to others with emotionally unavailable parents as my mom is not the typical ones i see online. She tries her best with me and my brother. However i can’t emotionally depen…

Please join me in listing things that you discovered aren't normal outside your own toxic upbringing — Eta- I decided I didnt like my paragraph so I am redoing it. Eta- paragraph contains examples of child abuse, TW So as the title states, I am seeking things that were completely normal in your upbri…

What... did the fog just lift? Am I... done??! Or at least... okay being done? — I don't know what happened. 2.5 yr relationship. The last 1.5 years have been not great, the last 4 months REALLY bad because I dropped my (usually very strong) boundaries which he saw as weakness and…

Did I push reconciliation with my ex too quickly? (26M, 26F) — Hi all! Firstly, I want to thank you for all the comfort and support you give to everyone on this sub; it does not go unnoticed! I'm a 26M who ended things with his 27F partner of a year and a half i…

I think all my relationships may be codependent — I was writing notes for how I was feeling last night for my next therapy session when I realized what I wrote sounded incredibly codependent. My seven year relationship had ended about a month ago, w…

Family of boyfriend dislikes me and disapproves of our relationship — My boyfriend (M23) and I (F25) have been together for almost 4 years. He just told me last night that his father's side of the family and stepmother don't like me or our relationship. This came as a s…

3 months later, I finally deleted his pics out of my phone — Granted I just hid the pics of us together. Deleting those felt too much like deleting my formative memories. Like prom pics? Graduation? Family events? Birthdays? He was there for all of them for 8 y…

My bf (20M) has been acting weird — Me (18F) and my boyfriend (20M) go to the same college, we’ve been together for about 3 years since high school, he’s a grade older than me. We’ve never really had issues, but for the past 3 months we…

I Think My Friend Is Lying About Where He Goes At Night — **TL;DR:** My friend kept disappearing every night and his location showed him in the woods, so I went to check it out and found him standing in a circle with other people acting really weird. He to…

Started Tapes 3 weeks ago for fun and… — Hey all — new here. I’ve always been a pretty superstitious person. I come from a Hindu background from my parents, but I’m more agnostic now (in my opinion, religion is just man made labels and a tru…

My ex broke up w me but is still cool with going to prom with me? — Me and my ex bf dated for 3 years, we had our issues but we typically always worked them out but it got to a point. I finally admitted to him how i'd been feeling about him not supporting me or listen…

I (24F) love my partner (26M) but he is very financially and mentally unstable and it’s negatively impacting me — I feel like I’m currently waiting for my partner to step up and match the amount of effort I put into my life and our relationship. We have been together for 3 years and him calling in sick to work f…

Are OBEs Real or Enhanced Dreams? My Latest Experience — Last night I had another supposed out-of-body experience. These episodes still leave me with so many doubts and questions. Are they dreams? Are they imagination? Are they real? I’ve had several by now…

Are OBEs Real or Enhanced Dreams? My Latest Experience — Last night I had another supposed out-of-body experience. These episodes still leave me with so many doubts and questions. Are they dreams? Are they imagination? Are they real? I’ve had several by now…

I've been best friends with a vulnerable narcissist for over 2 decades. I haven't been hurt, but I've watched people get hurt and I didn't say or do enough. Having thoughts about how these personality types build such robust support networks, and why they're so hard to cut off completely. — I've known this kid since nursery. Long enough that I can't actually remember the day we met. This slow creep in to becoming who he is was so imperceptible and insidious that only now as an adult I…

I keep having out-of-body experiences and i want it to stop. — Hey everyone, I’m trying to figure out what’s going on with me and could really use some insight. Recently, I’ve been having these extremely vivid experiences where I feel fully awake, yet something …

How should I (19M) ask my coworker (18F) out? — I (19M) know it’s usually not a good idea to shit where you eat. However, I’m leaving this place at the end of the year, and it’s only a part time job while I’m in schooling, so I’m not super concerne…

I (19M) need help with friend (20F) — I’ve started to develop feelings for one of my coworkers. She’s super fun to be around, has a great personality, and is absolutely stunning. We’ve been talking/texting/snapping each other for a bit no…

How to cope with someone who cannot bring themselves to date, yet they once confidently exclaimed you two were going to get married. — So, I suppose all I can do is try getting into what happened to me. I knew my ex partner, online, for around 2 and a half years before dating, and we both (coincidentally) had 2 partners, one bad, one…

What do you do during periods of extreme dissociation/shutdown? Standard skills are failing me — Hey everyone, I’m currently reaching out because I feel like I’ve lost all control over my own perception. Honestly, it’s not surprising given everything that’s hitting me at once: I recently lost my…

My (24m) Partner(23m) Sent Suggestive Snaps to a Past Hookup, and now I Don't Know if I Can Trust Him? — Throwaway, bc my bf knows my main account, sorry for the lengthy post. Me (24m) and my bf (23m) have been dating for a little over two years now. He has always been a bit "protective" of his phone, t…

Techniques for snapping out of dissociation? — (TW talking about treatment, shower/bathroom, dissociation) I'm recently new to my treatment, it's going well and I'm making progress and I'm so happy about that. But it has also led to me being more…

i need advice — right so me and my ex broke up a month ago (me 19f him 20m) he broke up with me because he wasn’t ready for a relationship and he didn’t feel the same spark for me as he did from the start it took…

Is it normal for him to get mad at me for moving on? — So i was in a talking stage with this guy for 3 months but he kept doing disloyal things like snapping and texting other girls, texting his ex behind my back. I ended things with him and he tried to g…

I don't know how i will ever move on. i am desperate for anything right now — hi, i am 21 years old (f), and my boyfriend of 2.5 years (3 years knowing eachother). throughout our relationship we got along super well, but we also fought a lot, about the worlds most dumbest thi…

Realizing I Cheated — TW: mentions of sh and si I hate, hate the title and the fact that this is something I’ve come to realize, because the severity and betrayal of my actions is so blatant. My ex and I were friends for…

recently snapping ex again — after almost 2 years of being broken up (august 2024 is when the relationship ended, april 16th 2024 was the last time i saw him), my ex and i are snapping again. nothing too big, but if we get down …

How to successfully manifest SP ASAP — Okay so for context I have known of SP for years but not sure if he knew me or not. anyways we were snapping each other and I bumped into him which I feel like we had chemistry so I texted him and he…

Tell me I’m not crazy… — Married with two young kids (4 and almost 2). I’m at the point where I think I want out, but I want outside perspective before I pull the trigger. My wife has a consistent pattern: • Doesn’t follow …

NUTTY SHROOM TRIP — about a month ago i took around 2 grams of what the person that gave them to me (a 30 year psychedelic user) said they were extremely strong,but i ate them all anyways, i didnt get a whole lot of visu…

My BF has been snapping my best friend & hiding it — So, here's some context: I've (F18) been best friends with this girl (F18) literally since birth and we are EXTREMELY close. I started dating my boyfriend (M19) a little over a year ago. at first, t…

22M Approached girls with my friend for once… now we both like the same one — Me and my friend have always been the type to notice girls when we’re out but never actually approach. We’ll point them out to each other, joke about it, hype it up, and then just never do anything. …

my bf and i have been together for a few months, and recently (past two weeks) we've been getting into quite a bit of fights. i think it's mostly coming from us being stressed - studies and i've been …

i wouldn’t consider it splitting, but yes to a certain extent. like you said i get triggered which causes emotional dysregulation, especially in response to feeling disrespected, rejected, or betrayed…

👏 Anxious attachment patterns pmo because why are you so focused on me when you should focus on your own emotional needs. Just as you said, “they act as if they’re so loving and caring” but they’re a…

Text of original post by u/rainbowjungle: TW: attachment injury, trauma-bond withdrawal, panic attacks, obsessive rumination I think I’m in severe attachment-injury / trauma-bond withdrawal and I’m s…

Yeah, sort of afraid of that. She's been texting/snapping me almost daily? We started flirting more recently via text but yeah. I'm not going to be the one to initiate the 2nd date and nor was I going…

The idea described here is called replication. Client receives input, that input gets computed locally, then sent to the server. When multiple clients send conflicting computations to the sever, it pe…

Well you all indirectly sort of helped with your God awful advice. No I'm not going to accept it and harness it, no I'm not going to act on it and fucking "roleplay." (I broke up with her already anyw…

Accepting that you messed up and have learned is all that there is to do. Especially your big parts of self reflection, where you understand that being a martyr to keep the relationship going wasn’t s…

I really resonated with this post. I've been with my partner for 2 years and he is the kindest, sweetest, and most compassionate man. Yet I still find myself barking at him and being quite short tempt…

Holy shit, this one. Not turning surly and brittle, not snapping at me, just... keeping cool and being open when things go wrong. "Yeah, it's tough at the moment, not gonna lie, but you and I are good…

the fact that you caught yourself and felt bad about the paperwork thing shows you're not a lost cause. that self awareness is huge. something that helped me with snapping at people i love was learni…

Yes my exact experience… but it was light/watery… kinda cool. It was a scary experience at first, left like physically death leaving the body, and omg the snapping in like a glove when you come back

Yes exactly, thank you for sharing. Somehow it is always up to us to carry the entire weight of the success of a situation, a relationship, healing, etc. Or we somehow end up carrying all the weight…

Mine started recording me yelling or arguing back & saying “look at her yelling at me, I’m locked in the bathroom because she won’t stop & leave me alone”. But he always started recording AFTER the ho…

Oh wow thats the actually the first time i heard this explanation. When deactivation ends do you like comeback to the old you before it triggered? Sounds like a version of depression which I had befo…

Thats fair, I apologize for snapping. Just felt that your post was looking for drama and not looking to add advice.

Played around with several over time and most didn’t stick past a few days, they started to feel like another chore. Impakt’s one of the few I kept around since snapping meals felt a bit more effortle…

It sounds a bit more to me like your friend might have an anxious avoidant attachment style. With the signals he's sending you, even a securely attached person would get whiplash. If you want a relat…

> Maybe you could talk a little about the breakthrough? You need to be more specific. As far as it concerns me, you build resistance up if you affirm for something. Even with askformations. I would a…

You’re not a bad person for noticing this...you’re doing the most important step already: taking responsibility before it becomes normal in the relationship. A practical way to curb snapping is to tre…

Oh my god, I am so sorry. I know exactly how that feels, though it’s not related to my nparent. It was a horrible situation where I was trying to support a friend going through a mental health crisis…

What if I like my mental noise though? Its the source of my creativity, and I enjoy daydreaming while I'm driving or doing chores and have no trouble snapping out of it to focus when I need to. I don'…

I’m sorry man. My ex was like this. It started gradually. After awhile she was snapping at me for being in her way out in public. Slamming doors in my face. And everyone is criticizing you for not end…

Snapping fingers at me. My dad did it when I didn’t answer him fast enough. I’m nearly 40, and my husband did it toward our dog while we were talking, because she was chewing on something. I immedia…

yea, i get a lot of comments that I can be intense and remember too much detail about people (they tell me things unprovoked how is it on me that i happen to remember ? ) i do tend to lash out at ti…

Answering the questions from the side of the betrayed spouse (husband caught first time in 2016, with EA/PA of 2 years; Caught in 2025 with another co-worker - this time I left the house, and the marr…

(I feel like every response I make sounds like arguing/defensive snapping, but I don't mean it that way and I apologize if it reads that way, I'm only trying to provide more information, not argue or …

Also, the working out so hard for “control” is a red flag for an eating disorder. This is something for his doctor to address, all I can do is bring it to his attention. Theres times where I really re…

I believe in you! For me, I was ruminating so much, which is good, in some ways, because you're trying to learn and heal. But it's bad in many more ways. You're trying to get logic from an illogical…

It does get better, trust me. I felt constantly anxious when we first split, lost a ton of weight, and was just angry. I was snapping on friends and family in stupid ways. It really did take a mental …

Snapping fingers or pinching works well in these scenarios.

That vacuum roar plus the sense of being pushed back is the classic sign that your body was entering vibrational stage and your mind blinked awake just long enough to notice. Next time, instead of try…

Yes, I think people go to the stereotype of bipolar of just snapping on a dime, which is completely inaccurate. Mania and irrational anger are not the same thing.

Calling every scream 'abuse' ignores context, culture, and normal human imperfection. It just makes parents defensive instead of motivated to improve. Yelling isn't great parenting, but let's not stre…

I cannot stress how much you need to literally fuck *all* the way off for these comments blasting OP for finally snapping after being neglected by her partner for 6 MONTHS after many attempts to addre…

Man, I actually really get what you’re saying here. That line “we don’t attract what we want, but what we are” hits hard because it kind of forces you to look at yourself instead of just wishing for s…

I honestly don't understand why a parent wouldn't want to bond with their newborn baby. Like the other person said, it's not a puppy, and even a puppy deserves bonding and attention. Honestly, and I …

It doesn’t respond to your thought it responds to your fear/feeling. You see it **because** you are afraid. I’ve seen hundreds of shadow beings and they would often chase me and try to latch on to me.…

Thanks for the advice and the thoughtful reply. I‘ll try warning and announcing my need better (even though it’s hard for me) - definitely better than snapping. I do feel like I’m more mature in this …

I think you need to grow up a bit and stop acting like an entitled toddler who can’t have their toy the second they want it. 30 minutes to wakeup is very normal and reasonable, you need to respect his…

Have you talked to her about this? Told her what you’ve observed and how you’re feeling? You say you want to help but unless you’re doing/not doing something that warrants frustration from her (tha…

i don’t think the core of this is actually about money, or even about whether you’re “overreacting” it sounds like you’re trying to decide whether this is something you can keep living inside becaus…

I’m genuinely surprised that op and her brother made it out of there alive. That’s some shit that would prelude her snapping and killing them in the adult version of the “serial killers grew up tortur…

I’ve had countless encounters with different types of entities over about 26 years of practice. I actually share a lot of those experiences in my first book and will share even more in my next one, bu…

Why is a 19yo snapping a 15yo daily?

I went there once. I was with another traveler and I was excited to show them a feature there as we walked right passed a super tall "alien" being. I thought nothing of the being like it was normal at…

As someone who is ftm myself with a partner who is assigned male at birth, we practice free use with lots of communication. Free use doesn't mean they are not allowed to deny you of anything. They can…

It's OK to be frustrated, to an extent, if he can't practice safely (which requires some consistency) then he shouldn't be at work... I would send him an email expressing that you're sorry for snappin…

damn the sun-pluto opp explains so much about those family power trips. And yeah venus-mars square? Been there snapping at relatives over nothing. Friends circle stays way less dramatic tho.

That post-partum fog and stress turned me into a snapping turtle too therapy pulled us through when I was ripping into my hubby nonstop. Kids amplify everything, but it's fixable if you both dive in. …