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Presentiment, triangles, anomalous body marks, and future dream contact (discussed in abstract)

Ive woken up many many times with marks on my body i cant explain. Ive had the straight lines and the triangles and many other weird marks pop up all over my body when my contact is very active. Mostl…

r/experiencerscomment4/12/2026
Can Manifestation Really Help You Get Full Marks in an Exam If You Only Wrote Part of the Answer?

Can Manifestation Really Help You Get Full Marks in an Exam If You Only Wrote Part of the Answer? — Hey everyone, I have a question that might sound a bit out there, but I’m curious to hear if anyone has had a similar experience. I recently took an exam where I only managed to write answers for ab…

r/JosephMurphypost11/13/2024
Can we talk about how bad the current Shopify Admin UI is?

Can we talk about how bad the current Shopify Admin UI is? — How has this continued to be a thing, and how did this get approved internally? The Shopify Admin UI is a complete mess. It's genuinely hard to believe this shipped — and worse, that it's still the c…

r/web_designpost4/15/2025
[EU] Can't get suppliers as a new small business

[EU] Can't get suppliers as a new small business — Every decent supplier I've contacted basically says "we don't care about your small shit business", only ones willing to sell are some small companies that sell random junk and surplus nobody wants to…

r/ecommercepost5/2/2025
Help: Pull to refresh replication mystery on Chrome

Help: Pull to refresh replication mystery on Chrome — Hi all, I need some help! I have a drop-down list that is basically a giant carousel with vertically aligned buttons where you swipe up and down the page to go to the higher/lower button elements. Th…

r/webdevpost5/6/2025
“Found this gem when I was applying for a job 👀🔒”

“Found this gem when I was applying for a job 👀🔒” — Clicked the eye icon to reveal the password… only to have it immediately blur again when I tried to edit it. Who designed this — a magician? 🎩✨

r/UXDesignpost5/6/2025
Way to protect a page, give access only to certain users with passwordless login

Way to protect a page, give access only to certain users with passwordless login — Hello, I am looking for a way to add a page to my WP site, accessible only to certain people. Ideally they would have access without a password: enter their email, and if this email is part of an au…

r/Wordpresspost5/7/2025
Overtraining and being effective

Overtraining and being effective — Wanted to share about a recent breakthrough I had in being effective and getting things done. Like many of you, I believe that being physically fit is a huge part of operating at peak efficiency. Whe…

r/Entrepreneurpost5/7/2025
Pods, Probes & Sidecars: Your First Real Step into Kubernetes Magic

Pods, Probes & Sidecars: Your First Real Step into Kubernetes Magic — Hey Folks, In our last post, we broke down **Docker Compose vs Kubernetes – Why You’ll Eventually Need K8s**. Now, it’s time to officially dive into Kubernetes, starting with the smallest, yet most po…

r/DevOpspost5/8/2025
If I could just stop deactivating!! (FA)

If I could just stop deactivating!! (FA) — Follow up from some of my previous posts. I’m deactivating again. I think? Or maybe lost feelings for my partner and I’m just lying to myself and not wanting to let go. The thought of that makes me cr…

r/HealMyAttachmentStylepost8/3/2025
I have become obsessed with finding someone.

I have become obsessed with finding someone. — After my breakup in winter of last year, I went through a long period of mourning and not knowing what to do or how to move forward. Now, over the past 2-3 months, I have become obsessed with finding …

r/AnxiousAttachmentpost9/16/2025
I want to believe in LOA so badly, is there any small experiment I can try to regain my faith?

I want to believe in LOA so badly, is there any small experiment I can try to regain my faith? — Hey everyone, I’m writing this because I’m honestly at my wits’ end and I don’t know where else to ask. I *want* to believe in LOA and manifestation. I really do. I’m not a skeptic or a hater, I’ve…

r/JosephMurphypost11/23/2025
For those hurting, advice for your 2026 and my story

For those hurting, advice for your 2026 and my story — Hello everyone, **Preface** I am an anxious attacher, so my experience by-and-large is with dismissive avoidants and fearful avoidants. It is not my intent to villainize these attachment styles; thi…

r/attachment_theorypost12/28/2025
A letter to my fearful avoidant ex

A letter to my fearful avoidant ex — 31st December 2025 So here we are. Another night, another thought. It’s been nearly 25 days since Eddie left me. Recently, so many emotions have been running through my mind. I never thought I would…

r/HealMyAttachmentStylepost2/5/2026
We live in a culture that glorifies self-sufficiency and punishes inter-dependence and needs. That impacts what we start labelling as anxious attachment, and how we are encouraged to heal.

We live in a culture that glorifies self-sufficiency and punishes inter-dependence and needs. That impacts what we start labelling as anxious attachment, and how we are encouraged to heal. — Disclaimer - anxious attachment style is real, it creates distress in those who have it, and causes real strain to relationships. That being said, we cannot ignore that cultural norms have *always* di…

r/AnxiousAttachmentpost2/9/2026
Specific Person (SP) Manifestation: No Magic, No Supernatural Forces. Just Proven Science

Specific Person (SP) Manifestation: No Magic, No Supernatural Forces. Just Proven Science — Hi everyone, It’s been a long time since I last posted, and honestly it was overdue. I keep seeing the same recycled LOA bullshit everywhere. Endless manifestation porn, more unqualified people calli…

r/JosephMurphypost2/14/2026
3 years in. Bro, it gets wild.

3 years in. Bro, it gets wild. — Okay, so a large part of this community seems to use SATS as a high-preparation, ritual method and yes it’s very powerful in that way. But you’re literally God. Why keep yourself so limited? Nevill…

r/nevillegoddardpost3/7/2026
Why Manifestation can FEEL Forced and Unrealistic (Success & Guidance)

Why Manifestation can FEEL Forced and Unrealistic (Success & Guidance) — Today I came upon a realization that many people do not have for most of their lives. It was the realization that our feelings and the meanings that we attach to them are also affirmations. Right no…

r/Manifestationpost3/7/2026
A Different Way to Look at Manifestation

A Different Way to Look at Manifestation — Something I realized about manifestation that nobody really explains for a long time I thought manifestation was basically about “asking the universe” for things. You visualize, you affirm, you try t…

r/lawofattractionpost3/9/2026
Rant about Asian American access to education in NYC

Rant about Asian American access to education in NYC — This is specifically about NYC schooling so YMMV and may not be applicable anywhere. But for context, NYC has these "elite" specialized high schools were Asian Americans disproportionately make up the…

r/AsianAmericanpost3/10/2026
Dating over forty and living separately

Dating over forty and living separately — I feel like I do better in relationships where we don't cohabitate. I'm autistic and really like control over my space, living with someone messy can feel very overwhelming. Also, I find that having …

r/datingoverfortypost3/10/2026
Most absurd bridge of incidents yet

Most absurd bridge of incidents yet — Hi everyone 😁 **Background:** So context, my mom is in a phase in consciousness where she's into organic, 100% natural, homemade, no 'chemicals' etc. Lately I've been missing some store products, …

r/nevillegoddardpost3/11/2026
What if manifestation is actually people waking up inside a simulation?

What if manifestation is actually people waking up inside a simulation? — I’ve been thinking about something and I’m curious if anyone else has had this thought. I came up with a theory that reality might be a simulation or something similar to a “matrix.” If that’s true, …

r/lawofattractionpost3/11/2026
unpopular opinion: therapy isn't worth $200/session

unpopular opinion: therapy isn't worth $200/session — Everyone acts like therapy is this magical thing that's worth any price but honestly? $200 for 50 minutes of conversation is f\*cking absurd. I get that therapists have degrees and student loans but s…

r/therapypost3/11/2026
If you're reading this, you're gonna make it.

If you're reading this, you're gonna make it. — Hey, you. yeah YOU. I know what you're going through. Nobody is on this sub because they're having a good time of it. I know that, because 4 years ago I was in the exact same place. Any advice you rea…

r/BreakUpspost3/11/2026
I miss you

I miss you — I know I was the one who ended things, but it made me realize so much. I think we both just needed some time to breathe and calm down. Things could have been different, we just couldn't see it in that…

r/BreakUpspost3/12/2026
House of Danube/Deneb & The Tuatha Dé Danaan

House of Danube/Deneb & The Tuatha Dé Danaan — I have just had an unexpected and seasonally apropos experience with St. Patrick's day right around the corner. Meditating in a hypnopompic state yesterday morning I heard a man's voice speaking to m…

r/experiencerspost3/15/2026
I spent years trying to fix my life with discipline. Therapy showed me why that didn’t work

I spent years trying to fix my life with discipline. Therapy showed me why that didn’t work — **My Journey** I can’t remember not being depressed. I have some memories of the time before, but they are pictures, frames of a child enjoying life. But I’ve struggled with depression almost my enti…

r/DecidingToBeBetterpost3/16/2026
Psilocybin might not be the most psychoactive ingredient in magic mushrooms, new research suggests

Psilocybin might not be the most psychoactive ingredient in magic mushrooms, new research suggests

r/Psychonautpost3/16/2026
THINGS TOXIC "SHIFTERS" SAY/DO (they are more normalized than you think)

THINGS TOXIC "SHIFTERS" SAY/DO (they are more normalized than you think) — Soo days back I made a post voicing frustrations about my shifting experience and mentioning a few a of my roadblocks. Two days ago I shifted successfully to the Odyssey and when I came back to my cr…

r/realityshiftingpost3/17/2026
Read this if you have doubts about manifestation

Read this if you have doubts about manifestation — Why do you even doubt it? Just why? Do you think manifestation is something illogical, supernatural, and difficult? It absolutely isn’t. It’s something you’ve been doing your whole life unconsciousl…

r/Manifestationpost3/17/2026
My ex messaged me.

My ex messaged me. — She simply just showed me a picture of a place she was at where we went on holidays together, a couple of years ago. We messaged for a few days, and I tried not to get invested again. I tried to just …

r/BreakUpspost3/18/2026
Mom! There's a Flying Car Outside the Window + And Other DR Memories

Mom! There's a Flying Car Outside the Window + And Other DR Memories — https://preview.redd.it/qg8vkwaixvpg1.png?width=1024&format=png&auto=webp&s=ddddae1cd2fa8a918133c6c3655c21cd7e63afd6 https://preview.redd.it/am1xwmqjxvpg1.png?width=680&format=png&auto=webp&s=2814916…

r/realityshiftingpost3/18/2026
Something mentioned but not talked about, Serotonin.

Something mentioned but not talked about, Serotonin. — What do we know about Serotonin? \-Its produced in the gut, \-Low levels often correlated to anxiety and depression \-Happy hormone, not to be mistaken with dopamine , the pleasure hormone where …

r/Meditationpost3/19/2026
Carl Jung wasn't a psychologist. He was a shaman.

Carl Jung wasn't a psychologist. He was a shaman. — Carl Jung quietly wrote one of the most profound esoteric texts of all time, at least in my own personal opinion. Seven Sermons to the Dead was written in 1916, privately shared between a handful of J…

r/experiencerspost3/19/2026
what finally got me to shift - I broke my mind ⋆˚࿔

what finally got me to shift - I broke my mind ⋆˚࿔ — I used to be the person who would try to shift every single night and wake up crying from a failed attempt because I was so frustrated with the fact that I wasn’t shifting. I thought that I fully be…

r/realityshiftingpost3/20/2026
Revision can alter physical incidents

Revision can alter physical incidents — It hasn't been long since I truly started grasping how magical revision is, and I just remembered an incident that happened a few months back last year that actually made the concept of revision sink …

r/nevillegoddardpost3/21/2026
HAE noticed themselves 'borrowing' worthiness from others...?

HAE noticed themselves 'borrowing' worthiness from others...? — Almost like a scaffold, while you're still building your own, and still pouring the cement in places you didn't know (still) needed it.... An interesting way I noticed myself 'borrowing' worthiness f…

r/Codependencypost3/21/2026
Processing my NDE and the paranormal experiences that followed

Processing my NDE and the paranormal experiences that followed — I can’t sleep and i’m feeling the need to document a sequence of experiences I had from February 2019 through 2020 that forever changed my life. I’ll try my best to keep each section somewhat brief, b…

r/experiencerspost3/22/2026
Does the urge to break no contact ever actually go away?

Does the urge to break no contact ever actually go away? — I’m about 4 months into no contact and I’m struggling more than I expected. I keep thinking I’d be “over it” by now, or at least in a place where the urge to reach out wouldn’t feel this strong. But …

r/BreakUpspost3/22/2026
Feels like black magic

Feels like black magic — Post leaving narc I thought I was free. Tech I've had for YEARS suddenly started breaking. I've never had skin issues but I got these black marks all over my body. I felt I was possessed. I forgot I w…

r/NarcissisticAbusepost3/22/2026
​Husband (46M) keeps "helpfully" rearranging, hiding, and disposing of my (46F) stuff--what tactic or wording can I use to stop it?

​Husband (46M) keeps "helpfully" rearranging, hiding, and disposing of my (46F) stuff--what tactic or wording can I use to stop it? — **​I'm getting private messages now so I'll add: please don't repost or use this anywhere else.** TL/DR: husband keeps "helpfully" rearranging, hiding, and disposing of my stuff--what tactic or wordi…

r/relationship_advicepost3/23/2026
My (31M) GF (28F) Informed Me That She Kissed a Stranger At an Outing While Playing Truth or Dare 2 Months Ago. How do I navigate this?

My (31M) GF (28F) Informed Me That She Kissed a Stranger At an Outing While Playing Truth or Dare 2 Months Ago. How do I navigate this? — While having a conversation with my girlfriend today, I joked that I have magic powers. To which she stated rather casually that if I did I would have seen that she kissed a guy two months ago. I tho…

r/relationship_advicepost3/23/2026
DETACH

DETACH — DETACH. They not all that, bro. Period. You didn't find a rare gem. You got attached to availability + looks. That's it. Take away your lust... your loneliness... your imagination... And sudde…

r/BreakUpspost3/24/2026
How does LSD compare to Mushrooms?

How does LSD compare to Mushrooms? — So uh yeah like for those who um have tried both magic mushrooms and LSD in their lifetime how do the two compare to each other? Like I heard that specifically with LSD that when looking at objects th…

r/Psychonautpost3/24/2026
My second OBE was just... Magical!!

My second OBE was just... Magical!! — I got up in the middle of the night and went back to sleep. I tried to fall back into sleep but instead I shuffled, twisted and turned about. I was awake, with my eyes closed trying to sleep. So to ma…

r/AstralProjectionpost3/24/2026
Come Rant/Tell me about your Drs!

Come Rant/Tell me about your Drs! — Repost : since my first successful shift less than a two weeks ago (still so crazy to me) I have hopped around 4 drs. The Odyssey, Poppy playtime, Death note and my current fav Madoka magic. To be fai…

r/realityshiftingpost3/24/2026
How I finally "tricked" my analytical mind and shifted from AP to Eversong Woods

How I finally "tricked" my analytical mind and shifted from AP to Eversong Woods — Hi everyone. I’ve been practicing Astral Projection and Lucid Dreaming for a while now, but I kept hitting a wall—literally. My analytical mind would always pull me back to my body whenever I tried to…

r/AstralProjectionpost3/25/2026
how to really manifest! you don’t need to “do” more. you need to live differently.

how to really manifest! you don’t need to “do” more. you need to live differently. — it’s not that deep!! i really want to help people with this and share what i know but it’s so so hard to put into words what im trying to say! it’s like it’s almost too simple to explain in words, so…

r/Manifestationpost3/25/2026
Writing about my experience with Iboga medicine 🌱

Writing about my experience with Iboga medicine 🌱 — Earlier I made a post and someone commented that they didn't want to watch a video. Understood! Here is an account of what I saw during my time with ceremony number one with iboga. It was not what I i…

r/Psychonautpost3/25/2026
How do y'all figure out where to shift 😭

How do y'all figure out where to shift 😭 — I swear I am having the worst time trying to decide. I'm not one of those people who shifts instantly yet (I'm still getting used to the WBTB method bc it's easiest for me being limited with time) and…

r/realityshiftingpost3/27/2026
If you are new here..

Moonbeam I appreciate your subreddit To tell you the truth I got distracted by Goddard's hype. He seemed to try imbue it with mystery. The truth is there is God, but why the pretense of all that. You…

r/JosephMurphycomment7/31/2020
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

My concern has been 3 years of astral staking by a person who abuses the astral. They have been taken over by a negative entity. And now energy harvest daily. This has taken energy workers many goes a…

r/AstralProjectioncomment10/13/2022
About, Wiki, Rules, Books, Etc-- Read First

Is there any magic and mysterious frequency music introduction? Have the most powerful frequency music. pure frequency music

r/energy_workcomment11/3/2022
REMINDER: be kind to yourself. This is hard, and you’re handling it with grace and strength.

Hi! So one thing I can tell you from lots of therapy and recently spending time around her is I realized I had been only remembering her good qualities and putting her on a pedestal in my mind. When w…

r/Divorcecomment8/4/2023
Manifestation coaches have not refuted any anti-loa arguments

People have many many proofs for themselves. If I’m gonna share my proofs to you, would you believe? Try to properly reprogram your subconscious, and see what happens. It literally does not know how n…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/22/2025
How do I know if I simply don’t like someone enough to be with them or if I’m simply running away from what is safe?

I almost commented on this earlier in the week because I was dating someone who made me feel the same way but I’ve since ended things and I’m pretty sure what you’re feeling is a sign of incompatibili…

r/attachment_theorycomment4/5/2025
Virtualization is hurting my mental state.

I started out when everything was one app on a physical server. I don’t miss those days. I couldn’t tell you the amount of sleep and free time I lost due to hardware failures. Plus the begging finance…

r/DevOpscomment5/3/2025
Looking for marketing strategy tips for our startup

Before working with any agency or automating anything, do it yourself first, even if it’s messy and manual. You can’t outsource what you don’t understand. If you don’t know what works yet, an agenc…

r/Entrepreneurcomment5/6/2025
FA trying to be more secure, need some insigh on relationship to have "fresh eyes" on it and not just my insecure one

Commenting for the outside chance that someone has discovered a magic cure-all for the second point. I'd love to know that too.

r/attachment_theorycomment5/8/2025
Attachment Theory & Free Will?

Free will is a fundational lense through which we experiment the world. We have the impression of free will. We hold ourself and other responsible for their actions. It seems impossible to think the w…

r/attachment_theorycomment6/3/2025
🛑STOP HIJACKING POSTS🛑

>pursuing people who have communicated they're not offering what you're after is a great way to not get what you're after. >I spoke to an AP woman about this on a thread elsewhere and she said that i…

r/AvoidantAttachmentcomment6/12/2025
🛑STOP HIJACKING POSTS🛑

I couldn't agree with you more. Also sorry that you had to explain that to people via DMs. I know it's something you kinda get used to as a more self-aware avoidant on reddit but that doesn't ma…

r/AvoidantAttachmentcomment6/13/2025
I despise myself for having avoidant tendencies.

These are the kinds of things you think with fearful avoidant attachment, and when you get to the point where you want to try and start dating again after working through a considerable amount. I’m da…

r/attachment_theorycomment8/2/2025
Women I’m dating is afraid I’ll lose interest when I learn who she really is. Seeking FA perspective.

She's already breaking up with herself, bro. If you want to spend your time waiting for her to pull the rug out from under you for some insecurity that's inside her head, by all means, continue. And…

r/attachment_theorycomment8/17/2025
A message to earnestly curious skeptics and non-experiencers: How to engage experiencers within this community and learn about the topic.

That’s kinda how I started, then I looked into different theories to try to explain what I had seen. I found the simulation theory, that led me to the matrix, which lead me to PP(he who shall not be n…

r/experiencerscomment9/5/2025
I’m tired

I know. I know this all too well, especially feeling as though you’re sending everyone “over the edge”. I wish I had some magical potion in the form of words to help. But I’m just here on the same ri…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment9/7/2025
I have become obsessed with finding someone.

Text of original post by u/nintendonaut: After my breakup in winter of last year, I went through a long period of mourning and not knowing what to do or how to move forward. Now, over the past 2-3 mon…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment9/16/2025
I have become obsessed with finding someone.

I know it’s hard and it feels unfair. You are going to have to do the greatest mental magic trick of your life and learn to ignore/hide your feelings. I know the feeling of not being good enough i…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment9/16/2025
Attachment Theory & Free Will?

Beautifully said. I believe so too. Also the infinite past basically 99.9999999% pre-determined all the actions of yours. If free will existed, we would be able to do magic, but we can't. We are limit…

r/attachment_theorycomment10/11/2025
My arguments against manifestation

This is pure bullshit to the tenth power and weak minds will eat this up and wonder why their life is fucked lmao. Thoughts don’t magically bend reality but your beliefs, focus and mindset shape how y…

r/JosephMurphycomment10/13/2025
Manifestation coaches have not refuted any anti-loa arguments

I’m a year late but let’s be real, this is facts. The people bashing manifestation or New Thought teachings are just mad it didn’t work for them. They got half-baked info off TikTok or Abraham Hicks, …

r/JosephMurphycomment10/13/2025
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

I'm struggling with what is realistic to ask/expect regarding texting. I spent the entire weekend with my boyfriend, he left for work this morning and we texted throughout the day while he was at work…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment10/21/2025
how to deal with an avoidant's freeze response in hard times?

So what I’m understanding is that you want him to take control of the situation? You wanted him to make the decision of taking you to the hospital? You also mentioned your finances as a concern. O…

r/attachment_theorycomment10/27/2025
how to deal with an avoidant's freeze response in hard times?

what was he supposed to do? put his hand on your side like a magician and make the pain go away? google what it could be like someone with health anxiety?

r/attachment_theorycomment10/27/2025
Physically Reacting to Jealousy

UPDATE: Sick at my stomach all morning. Bug or stress, idk. I’m leaving at lunch while the Magic is Gathering. We’re dead AF at the moment & everyone is just holding down chairs & no one needs a bos…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment11/12/2025
Recovering DA trying to reconnect with FA wife

I reflected on my future because I finally realized I don't want to spend the rest of my life in a distant marriage. Before that, for many years I guess I lived in some sort of fantasy world where the…

r/HealMyAttachmentStylecomment11/20/2025
Being DA but really wanting kids

Had a partner who envisioned his future with wife and kids but makes no actual efforts to get there. He seems to think when the "right" person shows up he'll just magically become secure..

r/attachment_theorycomment11/28/2025
chronic depressed and sad

Brother, listen closely. What you’re facing isn’t weakness — it’s a battle you’ve been fighting for years, and the fact that you’re still here, still searching for healing, already proves your stre…

r/JosephMurphycomment11/30/2025
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

I've had no contact with my DA ex since June. It was a difficult period in my life because of various reasons unrelated to the breakup. But one thing I started to realize, is that I'm old. Suddenly. A…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment12/10/2025
I want to believe in LOA so badly, is there any small experiment I can try to regain my faith?

Ask for something small. Something you aren’t really attached to and see the magic

r/JosephMurphycomment12/10/2025
Looking for DA perspectives

For me, awareness came first, repair later. I actually know the exact dates. I'm not sure what the exact trigger was though. Our situation has been stabilizing, as the youngest has gotten settled into…

r/attachment_theorycomment12/16/2025
How do you know what’s secure and what’s not in a partner?

You wanted to see him; he didn't make plans. You didn't like that. It's generally a given that if you're in any kind of relationship with someone, they want to make time for you because they equally s…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment12/18/2025
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

I am navigating a post-breakup friendship. I really thought long and hard about keeping this person in my life because yeah I know myself and the last thing I wanted was to spiral into an insecure dyn…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment12/18/2025
Both best friends got engaged

Rats I read to the end hoping for a magic solution. I was just trying to describe this to my sister the other day and I fear she thinks I'm a monster now haha. 

r/AvoidantAttachmentcomment12/24/2025
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

I appreciate this. The self abandonment aspect is definitely part of my history, like text book examples. Like I had an out of state job offer textbook example. We’re not in a relationship anymore and…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment12/26/2025
How Does a Break Affect a Mission?

You're not gonna like this and I will get banned because you're predictable af and not because im annoying. It's not loa porn. It's in every system of ancient magick. In **ancient magical systems** (G…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/8/2026
Is casual sex compatible with secure attachment?

>Secure attachment means you’re comfortable with your feelings, don’t have problems setting boundaries or leaving if needed The part I will argue with, is "leaving if needed". What makes you think s…

r/attachment_theorycomment1/9/2026
Is it just me or is "date secure people" a bad idea?

Yes and no. On a community level, when every insecure attached person dates a secure person then it leaves little room for insecure attached people to grow in relationships since they are just avoided…

r/AvoidantAttachmentcomment1/10/2026
8+ Months of LOB practice ( Update from my 1st post )

>To give you some proof that the law of belief (lob) is real, my very first manifestation which was a “hard” one was a SP. I viewed it as an experiment to see if this all was real. I also put pressure…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/21/2026
8+ Months of LOB practice ( Update from my 1st post )

>Yeah I can relate. When I first was doing that manifestation, it was hard for me also because I am very analytical, skeptical, and come from a scientific background basing everything on verified fact…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/21/2026
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

Healing from attachment issues takes years. And truly healing is a life long journey. No one magically becomes emotionally available in a few months. Especially someone expressing that level of protes…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment1/30/2026
Ending a 1-year relationship: Self sabotage or gut instinct?

I've been in a relationship that lacks that ineffable magic SOMETHING for nearly three years now. I've spent the entire time trying to be content with this. It hasn't worked. In my case, the relatio…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/4/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

First off… Congrats! Sounds like things are going well and that’s awesome :) I just try to remember that the fear, at least for me, is usually because I have or am starting to develop real feelings f…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/4/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

My mom is generally sympathetic to me but will repeatedly tell me that instead of using the apps I need to do things that will "let me meet only high quality/serious men." And say she doesn't know wha…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/4/2026
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> if she is willing to look for him and not settle for someone who is obviously bad for him. I think we can both agree this is the part she's struggling with and isn't going to magically happen if sh…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/5/2026
This is why this group has rules and standards that the other groups do not have to have.

This is very refreshing. I'm tired of hearing anxious people constantly bash us and talk about us like we're demons or something. IMO, anxious people are not as self aware as they think. They'l…

r/AvoidantAttachmentcomment2/6/2026
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Yes, I keep checking my numbers regularly! I went from 120% to 80% (of one expected hormone range for my age, as it was explained by my doctor ... Though I'm fully aware this a reductive way to look a…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/7/2026
My Experience Being an Avoidant Woman

Avoidance is your current attachment system. Meaning, the bad news is your avoidance will be inevitably triggered. The good news is... who am I lying, its not really good news lol. BUT the magic lays …

r/AvoidantAttachmentcomment2/7/2026
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I’m really falling for my new guy, we are about 5 months in and it’s going so well. 🙂I’m thinking he may say it soon as he keeps soft launching little love phrases and nicknames. Wha a fun stage to b…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/8/2026
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I'm sorry that's happening- I don't know if you need a strict boycott but in my experience (however, I'm a man), the 30 year age threshold is tricky to navigate. How long are you seeing them before yo…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/8/2026