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I definitely noticed this myself! When I was still in my healing phase everything was a struggle, I had to shield and ground and cleanse constantly, but things/emotions from other people would still t…
Insane lucid dreams / astral projection experiences ✨🪐 — Hi all! I honestly just want to talk about how crazy lucid dreams are because when I say I go to different worlds and then wake up here most people just don’t understand and I feel like you all will. …
Writing about my experience with Iboga medicine 🌱 — Earlier I made a post and someone commented that they didn't want to watch a video. Understood! Here is an account of what I saw during my time with ceremony number one with iboga. It was not what I i…
Can someone help me — First time posting on Reddit but looking for some help. When I was a kid I was incredibly smart. I read at an elite reading level and had a very deep emotional intelligence. I was able to feel and …
Betrayal trauma anyone? — found her being sneaky hiding things and messaging my old friend who she was just being way to weird about in front of me in 2022; and some weird things happened I was always unsure about. Anyways, w…
Rebound? — Recently, I have become closer to one of my friends. He's cute, and I think he's into me, but I suspect that he is using me as a rebound for his ex. I think he broke up with his gf of a year (maybe …
Past life regression — Tag could be meditative but I put spiritual cause this was during my time of seeing spirituality and finding answers of what’s really going on… I did a past life regression in 2018 I believe, which a…
Surviving? A permanent trip and skirting the line of orange juice (YOU ARE GONNA WANT TO READ THIS.) — Permanent trip is kinda funny and skirting the line of permanent orange juice (you’re gonna wanna read this) I have bpd and dead mommy issues and I have always just wanted a drug to make me happy, es…
Has anyone experienced this as well? — I have been meditating for a while now(10 years) on and off. There was a time when I made a great progress and could sit for more than 30 min to more than an hour in a go which would make me feel so r…
My gut knew what she was doing, but I trusted that she wouldn’t. — GF & I have been together for 2 years. She’s been straight as an arrow through her entire life, bookish, introvert, straight laced, strong family values, carries a lot of trauma, low self esteem, self…
Awkward feelings from blocked out past — Hello, I need your help, you ever just get the feeling that there is some form of inappropriate sexual contact during childhood with a parent? Likely between ages 2-4, and severe beltings and spankin…
Identity unlocked : How to recover your energy after being ghosted — Recovering your energy after being ghosted is real work — because ghosting leaves open psychological loops. Your mind keeps searching for an explanation that never came. That’s where the “energy drain…
Is it finally time for me, 42M to leave her, 43F? — 3 kids 15, 10, 6. Here's what happened today, but this is any typical weekend day. After going to bed after midnight so that I could set up our egg hunt and put all the baskets out, I wake up at th…
Living with all the things he can’t remember — I saw a post about a guy getting kicked out of a comedy show for making sexist/homophobic comments and his date leaving with him. And all I could think was: Oh shit. I used to be that date. We (30F…
Endless rumination and heartache over a relationship that was over 7 months ago. — I need some outside perspective because I’m still trying to make sense of a past relationship (M 30) , and it’s been 7 months and I genuinely can’t stop ruminating about it. I also haven’t been able t…
New fear unlocked — I 23f am feeling really anxious and honestly kind of scared about something that just hit me recently. In about 3 months, I’ll be finishing school and starting work. And I realized that school has ba…
How do i move on? — Hey guys, i have a slight dilemma. Let me just say my entire story. When I was 17 i was w my partner for almost 5 years. I love him but it became toxic, he cheated and what not. I fully trusted him he…
Nothing is fair — Every time line in my life seems to be unfair: High school = bullies College = narc best friends and bullies Marriage in laws = new trauma unlocked My family ( mom & sister)= all my life traum…
My (24m) Partner(23m) Sent Suggestive Snaps to a Past Hookup, and now I Don't Know if I Can Trust Him? — Throwaway, bc my bf knows my main account, sorry for the lengthy post. Me (24m) and my bf (23m) have been dating for a little over two years now. He has always been a bit "protective" of his phone, t…
I think I need to cut off my dad, i believe he has been inappropriate with me. — He was always a very abusive unpredictable person. as a child i thought he would maybe kill me one day. I dont want to go into all details of my whole life other than this specific issue. im not sure …
AP would rather break a door than knock — I (20F) usually keep my door lock, when I'm sleeping, changing and sometimes just in between too for privacy and safety, since we have a tenant as well. When my AP wants something from me while I'm i…
I think my husband almost hit me, and now he implies it “doesn’t count” because he didn’t — I’m married and trying to understand if I’m overreacting or if this is actually as serious as it feels. A while back we were arguing because I was trying—again—to get him to acknowledge that somethin…
I[M18] found a cons list made by my GF[F19] about me. Is it smart to keep my mouth closed? — Me and my current partner have been dating for two months now. But, we have dated in the past for about 3 months and broke up 11 months ago. I broke up with her because I believed we weren’t emotional…
I’m tired. — I’m tired of confronting the trauma. I’m tired of having to go through a healing process every time I have a new memory unlocked of my traumatic childhood. I’m tired of having to bear the weight of …
To All Waywards – Part 1: What I Needed (and Still Need) on D-Day and Discovery — To all the Waywards out there, please heed my appeal. This may not be what your SO needs perfectly, every situation is unique, but this is what I needed and did not received. Since you are here I am a…
I (f28) had a panic attack that unlocked a lot of traumatic memories. — had a panic attack today that triggered a spiral I wasn't expecting. While I was getting ready for bed, these memories just started coming back things I haven’t been able to fully face. I remembered …
Fell asleep in 4 minutes to a hypnosis track my own AI wrote, it's an app — Ok, so a few months ago I got curious about hypnosis. Not the stage-show stuff. The boring clinical kind people use for sleep, anxiety, focus, whatever. I saw a hypnotherapist once and it was actuall…
Starcrossed app links — Trying to get more pieces unlocked! Let me know if I need to add more and feel free to add your own <3 https://starcrossedastrology.app.link/EkDPEzEzf2b https://starcrossedastrology.app.link/FzX5o…
I dissociated after talking to my therapist about my sexual feelings towards him — I (26yo girl) I'm experiencing erotic transference towards my 40yo male therapist (lacanian psychoanalysis oriented) everything started when I noticed he is very aware of not looking at me when I ta…
"Good Riddance", after I had just tried to un*live myself. — I've been told reaching out helps, idk. So right now i am a 16m, almost 17, this story goes back to when i was fifteen. I had been physically abused by my father, it was scary but wasn't something th…
"Good Riddance", after I had just tried to un*live myself. — I've been told reaching out helps, idk. So right now i am a 16m, almost 17, this story goes back to when i was fifteen. I had been physically abused by my father, it was scary but wasn't something th…
I just watched my wife get ready for her affair to pick her up — I’m in an abusive relationship (married 7 years) with 2 kids under 10 and one teenager (the teenager is from her previous relationship). The other day I found out my wife was cheating with many peopl…
Marriage decision - spouse maybe cheating — 29M, 27F Arranged marriage - we didn’t know each other much before wedding. We chatted few months before wedding. Before engagement (earliest events): She met her ex 10 days before engagement. I k…
Divorce on my mind. I'm done! — My husband was in the hospital last fall because he was hiding alcohol in the garage and drinking it. I felt like an idiot not knowing until I went in the garage while he was in the hospital and found…
Need some advice and help — I never thought I would be going to an online chat forum for advice or help, but here I am. I 24M recently just broke up/ gotten broken up with by my 22F girlfriend. This is gonna be a long story so p…
At 17 — My parents forcefully took my hidden phone and unlocked it. Looking through private videos of me and my gf. They called the police for fighting back. I was taken to a friend's house for 10 days. When …
It helped me a lot to do a ton of journaling and self inquiry around what I liked about feeling close to my ex. Because as much as a past relationship is about liking the other person, it's also about…
You might need a therapy modality that digs deeper than CBT, like somatic therapy or IFS. When I started doing IFS I unlocked a while new way of understanding my feelings and behaviours
"The grief stopped when I allowed myself to understand what exactly I was grieving for. Was it that version of me, was it the safety, was it the expectations I had. Eventually I realized it was just t…
New dealbreaker unlocked
So much good to gush about, it's hard to put into words. This past weekend was really special - I'll be replaying certain moments in my mind for a long time. I'm proud to now call the man I've been se…
someone I dated had it but never had a cold sore and says they probably got it from someone asymptomatically. I am clean but now that is a new fear unlocked and I am even more cautious about how to go…
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Not that I believe him. But there are many ways. Could be he's texting a family member or friend about whats going on and the person with the found phone can read those messages. Could be a neighbor/c…
Oh my god... 😬 I think I unlocked a new phobia 🥲
Our family narcissist is my husband's brother. As well as their dad, but his brother is worse. He has a pattern. He meets someone, impregnates them, tricks them into marrying him, abuses them. He di…
To be honest- physical touch was never something I knew I needed until I had my first real physical relationship. It sort of unlocked something in me that made me so much softer and receptive to all k…
this unlocked a memory of my mom coercing me to let her examine my genitals when i was going through puberty because she had an obsession with counting my pubes as they came in. creepy ass shit fr
Omfg. The canesten. You just unlocked a memory of my mom doing the same thing. And she also used to make me "douche". I was barely 12. Fucking monsters.
I am very attracted to my partner most days. I am fearful avoidant that has historically leaned more dismissive (although now more secure) and I am hyper sexual. Repulsion returns and I don’t feed int…
I feel like my gut is usually right and the slightly anxious crush feeling I posted about yesterday turned out to be a funny symptom of that- she let me know she didn't feel the connection so we're ba…
Your words and experience just unlocked something for me. When you wrote about the never-ending movement and "disappearance" of waves into the ocean, it unlocks the feeling of detachment to outcomes a…
Wow same here although I used a slightly different one and it broke in half bc of how much I used it. The thing is my pain has never fully resolved this machine is just what finally made my shoulder b…
It's definitely melancholy and longing mixed in together. I think that we're quite similar in the way we view the world. I've largely done what I think is right. I've had a pretty good track record…
Oh wow, this unlocked some memories for me. First of all, pretending to have abandoned you while you were in the bathroom is so dumb and I'm sorry you were put through that kind of behavior. My mom …
Yeah. The same happened to me too. Lasted for a little bit and then fell off. This is the only routine where I genuinely am excited to wake up and do it every morning because the results I see are ine…
damn that nails it, been unlearning the sorry habit and suddenly doors open without me pushing. Intensity as superpower unlocked
we moved home when I was 4,but the only memories I have of our old house was me in my room,alone,deathly silence,sat on the floor behind the door lining my teddies against the wall talking to them in …
My mom loved to tell stories aobut how loud I was. My older brother was an "easy" baby, but I was "difficult." I was always "over-dramatic." She liked to tell people about when I was maybe 4 years old…
I’m sorry you’re experiencing this…No this isn’t normal. My mother was divorced too and used to do weird things like this too.. She’d sneak into the bathroom when I’d shower and peek at me showering q…
It's interesting to me, like, I get where you're coming from with the passcode for phone as a means of trust, but personally -even though I don't have a passcode on my phone- I would struggle to give …
Jeff, late reply on this and I know we had that great chat the other day but I want to type something here too in support of your great content. I think you are touching on some brilliant stuff. Tryi…
I made progress on this front last year and it was in part because I found myself in urgent situations where I *needed* to ask for help or might otherwise starve. I was fortunate enough to be buildin…
1. Therapy 22 to 33, finally at 38 can acknowledge homicide is what fucked my life up. 2. I thought being the “strong one” having to emotionally hold the family together was just something I needed t…
You are completely right and congratulations. 🎁 You have just unlocked what will be a newfound life of peace, stability, and freedom. It's sometimes the most difficult choice to do for so many reaso…
Well, so far, here is a cursory guide on how to clean your chakras of blockages: 1) Find out what you are afraid of, let it go, and you have unblocked your root chakra. 2) Find out what you are guil…
Start by reminding yourself the cage is unlocked. Don't view things as them letting or not letting you when it isn't true.
You literally just unlocked one of my childhood memories. I asked my mom why so many of the gifts my family gets for each other are just things the giver would like. She said “that’s just what you do.…
Do you have the name? Very sus. He needs to open all devices. No advanced notice so he can clean anything. Just announce it and he hands everything over unlocked. Treat any deleted messages or threads…
I do feel as though I betrayed my father. Whenever my dad would ask for help with his phone, I would see random women come up who were not known family friends. I found that suspicious. Several years …
memory unlocked. I almost drowned twice because they weren’t supervising and had no idea I couldn’t swim.
And today. I took a nap, rarely take naps. Did the SSILD, sleep. Ended up waking up, checked my emails, an saw 'next steps in the hiring process' thought to myseld "I'll do it later." Wake up again, c…
One time, very near the end, my ex received a text message from his boss saying that my ex's co worker had a death in the family and needed to be off for a few days. My ex convinced himself that his c…
All I know is they are the reason I had a spiritual awakening after seeing them that sent an earthquake in my inner world. It changed my life completely in the best way possible and I am beyond blesse…
Omgggg, you've unlocked a memory of mine. Literally had an argument with my nmom right before i got dropped for school. A school friend I was passing waved at me with a smile and I literally started t…
Just not my cup of tea. My phone background was a solid colour for the longest time. I think if I saw a person in there everytime I unlocked my screen I'd jump like a cat.
I had to save this post for the great description and observation. And now I am thinking this is a significant step out of the situation: you are able to look at it from a distance. The second ste…
Holy moley. Memory unlocked. I'm so sorry for the intrusive thoughts. May you find a way to ignore them or somehow make them go away.
Dunno if this counts but... My Ngrandma woke us all up at 12am just to demanded that we leave all of our doors, front, back, side and garage open 24/7 (yes, even in the dead of night) just because sh…
My N roommate did this when she nearly killed me by bringing a cat home. To which I am deadly allergic without medication. She yelled and screamed at me for being selfish because... checks notes... I …
With regard to the father, no, quite the opposite. My father was childish and abusive, and so lost the respect that might have been naturally his. Interestingly enough, his Sun is exactly opposite min…
Weed helped my body learn how to relax and unclech but the thing that helped most directly was a technique a therapist showed me. You think back to a time where you felt alone or scared and you timetr…
I had a similar one last year in which ufo's were breaking through the "ceiling." When I unlocked the dream meaning for me It turned out it had to do with a metaphor for breaking through their dimensi…
Um, ouch. New therapy conversation unlocked.
Whenever I get home, crickets. Usually she was too busy looking at whatever on her phone. If I try to say "hello?" it's generally met with an annoyed "WHAAAAAT?" But when she gets home from somewhere…
i started smoking recreationally this past summer after being hospitalized, and it changed my life. i was surprised to learn how peaceful i could feel. weed allowed me to shrug off the coat of anxiety…