make things right

Sounds like she was the golden child. This is a very similar dynamic that I have with my sister. She'd do awful things to me with no repercussions and then I was told "she's your sister you need to be…

do i just continue to feel it out until it’s gone? — got broken up with 2 months ago to my first love and who i thought was the love of my life. i was 23 and she was 29, it was unconventional but we were both mature and really loved each other. first of…

The version of me she knew deserved to lose her. — Today is her birthday. It’s bringing up all kinds of feelings. I honestly feel sick today. I feel like I have only recently been able to truly reflect on things, and I’m finally facing who I was and w…

is this possible if so how? — Hi… I really need some help. I can’t shake the feeling that what we had isn’t completely over—that there’s still something unresolved between us. We broke up about a month ago and have been in no con…

F29, M31 soon-to-be married couple, family conflict before the wedding. How do we fix this? — Hi everyone, This will be a lengthy post, so apologies in advance. I got engaged to the LOML this past July, and we are about to get married in a few months. To preface, we come from two different…

He (35m) wants to delay us (36f) — He (35m) is delaying us (me 36 f) TLDR; how would you feel if someone talked you into a relationship then put it on pause because they were overwhelmed at work but told you when you were in a vulnera…

asked for divorce, but now second guessing — hello all, a few days ago i (27M) asked my wife (30F) for a divorce. we have only been married 1.5 years but have been together for 5 years. the week of Christmas 2025, she told me she had spent mos…

Help in what to do about boyfriend’s brother? — Hi guys so my bf (21M) and I (20F) have been together for just her a year. And living together for 11 months. Last week Monday I made a mistake and I realized that as soon as I did it but I left, I m…

I ended a 9 year long friendship and now my friend group is gone. — Ending an almost lifelong friendship is undoubtedly worse than an intimate relationship. While I have never experienced true love, I have experienced for what I thought was true friendship. I don’t wa…

Is Something Wrong with Me? — I don't understand how people are capable of not feeling any romantic feelings about someone they've spent years with, in a matter of months. I don't know what's wrong with me that I hold on for so…

My (M25) girlfriend (F25) of 6 months broke up with me, and got back on hinge the same day — This is going to be a long post, I just need to vent and get my thoughts down. I apologize if this comes off as rambling, I am so emotional right now so it might not be structured perfectly. My gir…

I don't know where to start, it's been a long time since we last talk. I know we both know that you want to moved on from the relationship we once had, and we both know i am the only one who's been taking advantage of what once we had. I'd always see you as my future but never the present. — You and i were the same, we're just the opposite of each other but you always find a way to survive while me? I have to cry and tell everything to you so that I could lean to you. I'd never be dominan…

Getting divorced at 22 — My husband filed for divorce weeks after our one year that we didn't even celebrate because we were fighting. He told me about all of the things that made him unhappy after filing. I was in distress. …

From “soulmates” to near no-contact in the span of 24 hours. Living an actual nightmare. — 2.5 years. The closest I have ever been to someone in my life. We spent our days laughing, talking about our plans, and pursuing our dreams. Up until the very end, we were like a classic movie couple.…

I have complex feelings still. Some of it is the guilt of the scapegoat, internalising everything and feeling responsible for everything even though she was the adult and I was the child. Some of it i…

I went through a very similar situation. Without sugarcoating, it sounds like you’re sitting yourself up for a huge disappointment and an even worse heartbreak (yes, worse). During my attempt to win h…

I hope this won't come across too harsh but the reason it's a pattern now is because you didn't say anything, multiple times in a row, and instead did stuff yourself that you resented doing. The resul…

6 years roughly we were together.. Sure I had my faults, but i did everything I could to make things right and nothing was ever enough

I really wanna apologise and make things right. I also don’t understand what you mean by here. Can you please care to explain?

It would have to be something significant to be honest but i dont see her doing anything like that. Her anger issues were one of the things which led us here and also the ego. I honestly did all i cou…

It’s possible Sarah was trying to be validating but forgot to, for whatever reason, check her values at the door. If she’s been helpful thus far, I think this is absolutely worth exploring in sessio…

I would like to, deep inside me love her. But i got enough now NO. If there’s way to make things right jt would be from her not mine, i tried all my solutions to fix the relationship

Well I was here, 1 woman is all I knew about, we reconciled, had a second kid and I had to file divorce at 10 weeks postpartum cuz I learned he never stopped cheating. He treated me amazing the first …

I’m 42 and have had many years to attempt to work this out. Having a good therapist helps quite a bit. I’d been stuffing a good deal of anger down and I needed a safe way to let it out. And then …

Totally agree with this. There is no need to drag this on. Every man I have broken up with will continue to call and continue to want to talk, etc. As you mentioned, you gave him plenty of opportunity…

What to do if someone is not that mature enough to communicate and make things right 🤧

mate that guilt is gonna eat you alive if you keep carrying it around like that. two years is a long time to be stuck in this headspace and writing letters you cant send isnt gonna fix anything if…

Just remind them that your father is your immediate family, they are just your extended family. So he is obviously more important to you and your sister than they are and you’ll both always choose him…

In LDR for 2y. He blocked me 2 months earlier before officially broke up with me. After blocking I emailed him and he gave me a chance to make things right by writing a proposal to move forward. I too…

Your wife has to make things right with you if there is to be reconciliation. Part of that is cutting this guy off completely. She should want to do the right thing by the affair partner’s wife and te…

i completely understand snd i agree it was wrong and she shouldn't trust me again. that's the thing, i don't know how to make things right, because now my promises are empty promises. i understand th…