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stop walking on eggshells

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Wife filed 5 weeks ago, and she was arrested for domestic violence this week

A book that helped realize what abuse looked like was "stop walking on eggshells"

r/Divorcecomment4/12/2026
Mostly healed, but I can’t stop walking on eggshells before I trust a new date (anxious-ambivalent)

Mostly healed, but I can’t stop walking on eggshells before I trust a new date (anxious-ambivalent) — Edit: I’m single but I’ve dated guys online. I’ve changed almost all of my symtoms from anxious-ambivalent to secure attachment. When I first start text someone romantically however, it’s all good un…

r/AnxiousAttachmentpost10/29/2025
Ex-Wife texts daily about the kids

I’m a therapist and strongly agree on consistent boundaries with anyone who has BPD, especially a coparent/ex. Boundaries can be kind/don’t have to be cruel or aggressive, but consistency is key. Migh…

r/Divorcecomment3/9/2026
Anyone know of a subreddit that deals with this issue?

I am not diagnosing, but I'm curious if BPD research might be in your future. Check out the book "Stop Walking on Eggshells."

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment3/26/2026
My (23F) husband (26M) gets offended over EVERYTHING and I don't know how to handle it anymore?

It's because you are a genuinely good person who wants to do right by their partner. He's weaponizing your goodness against you to his advantage. Stop walking on eggshells! If he wants to get butthu…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/1/2026
Is it finally time for me, 42M to leave her, 43F?

Stop walking on eggshells…google it

r/relationship_advicecomment4/6/2026
Spouse needs help but believes they are extremely emotionally intelligent

See if he’s willing to go with you for counseling… Preferably not to your own therapist, if you’re seeing one. If he won’t go, (or even if he will), concentrate on addressing the behavior whenever it…

r/therapycomment4/6/2026
My (23F) husband (26M) gets offended over EVERYTHING and I don't know how to handle it anymore?

Another good one is called Stop Walking on Eggshells: Taking Your Life Back When Someone You Care About Has Borderline Personality Disorder. It was helpful to me when I was in a relationship with some…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/7/2026