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My peculiar version of ladder experiment + how I manifest effortlessly — This is gonna be long, but worth the read. I've been consciously manifesting for years with lots of successes but recently fell off my mental diet a bit (bc I'm human, ayo 😂) so was recommitting to…

How to deal with an avoidant person — As I've read it's really normal that me and her would have an intense connection deep talks future talks like all good she's deflective me being sweet but she joins in just light jabs but she has alwa…

Almost enlightened — Been doing my regular sadhana for a few years. One fine day, I did my morning sadhana and was sitting there watching my breath and boom! I was there! No need, no cause, no feelings or emotions. Only v…

Find myself or Find her Again? — I was 16M when I met her and got into the relationship she was 19 at that point but her schooling was equivalent to me because she missed some of the years due to her parents separation. our bond was …

I was mass-deleting apps from my phone every week. So I built something different instead. — I'm going to be honest with you. I tried everything. Screen Time limits - I'd just tap "Ignore." Deleting apps - I'd reinstall them within hours. Grayscale mode - lasted two days. Digital detox apps…

THE ONLY ANSWER TO ALL YOUR QUESTIONS! - PART 3 - IT'S YOU! (NOT ME) — THE ONLY ANSWER TO ALL YOUR QUESTIONS!- **IT WAS/IS ALWAYS YOU** Never me , nor anyone else. No post in here could make you get all your desires, no coach could teach ya all that you wanna know about…

THE ONLY ANSWER TO ALL YOUR QUESTIONS! - PART 3 - IT'S YOU! (NOT ME) — THE ONLY ANSWER TO ALL YOUR QUESTIONS!- **IT WAS/IS ALWAYS YOU** Never me , nor anyone else. No post in here could make you get all your desires, no coach could teach ya all that you wanna know about…

Why do people get offended when I don't want to be "friends" after a breakup? — I tried talking to some friends about this and they don't understand it either so I'm hoping someone here could give me some insight. I don't know if this is relevant, but I'm a 29 year old nonbinar…

My best friend kissed me on the lips, after my boyfriend had set clear boundaries on that specific topic. Now i broke his trust, how can I fix this? — TLDR My (19F) boyfriend (20M) went to a gathering at my best friend's house(20F). We went there knowing things would get a little out of hand, we bought alcohol, we have truth or dare games planned a…

Emotionally immature parents who are now grandparents — Anyone here 1. Realize into adulthood that their parents are emotionally immature (I realized after doing therapy myself which was so good) and 2. This gets so much worse once they become grandparents…

Looking for a little light in the dark — Hello reddit friends. Been a little rough the past couple days and just looking for a bit of support I suppose. Feeling pretty good in regards to the divorce itself. It was time. It was needed. I am g…

I think I'm TAH for breaking no contact — I (30f) finally cracked last night and broke no contact with my ex (30m). There was just this built up pressure of longing, missing and loving him that wouldn't go away and so I broke no contact... at…

I started using SATS yesterday — I started using it yesterday night.... damn I was so happy when I was visualising it... I was literally feeling so so happy... I slept with that... today morning I woke up feeling happy... it's aftern…

Recently diagnosed.. — recently diagnosed with this, and, well, I don't know how to process anything. it's already hard enough dealing with everything else that's going wrong mentally, physically, lifewise and I KNEW I had …

a) law of assumption, not law of belief. And where did you get the other descriptions from? I've been on Neville sub for a while, literally noone describes the law in those words or speak in a spiritu…

I can certainly identify with this sort of feeling, and unfortunately in my case, the realities of what was happening when my partner at the time wasn't responding were exactly the worst thing. That …

i cant do online dating anymore. it's done. ive said this to myself and my friends many times, but i truly mean it now. i know im giving up on the very small percentage chance that i might find someon…

Speaking as a guy who is currently separated and going through a divorce I'll say the not filing part is what would worry me about the situation. Yes divorce is difficult and expensive and can be a h…

It doesn't matter if it's done maliciously, eventually it will destroy your self-esteem and enthusiasm.

Awesome, thank you :) You have Jimi Hendrix skills, it's done 😎

Ayoo, I have constant goosebumps from the point I read your post. I pretty much dedicated my life to esoteric knowledge since I stopped doing hard drugs 'just like that' after I got in to it. 3d is co…

I should've said it was more of a session where I hit the rig of crystal over and over and over, I kept on going even when I thought I couldn't handle it, but you're right. Once you cross that barrier…

Chlamydia is pretty prevalent in your age category, and +-90% of the cases go by unnoticed. It's easy to catch and miss if you ever had unprotected sex and it can linger on for years not giving sympto…

So, to make sure I've understood you: You're saying that either I'm not aware, or that I'm aware but not able to view without judgment? And as a result the process of being aware isn't performing the…

I don't have kids but my two brothers do, and they've made sure not to repeat the bad parenting we received. My mother has the nerve to criticise how much time and money my brothers spend on their kid…

I imagine a message from someone everyday for 8 months. I embody and live as it's done. No message in outside. Definately a message in my mind. No message outside. Where mistake?

I'm at 14 years past d day........ No, it's never the same. No matter how great things get from time to time. As soon as I realize that everything seems to be falling into place, it just reminds me t…

I can answer that completely. Just went through this when adopting my adopted-twice-before kid.. That involved a lot of digging for different birth certificates. If you know what city/town you were …

No why? And when they come back they keep repeating the same mistakes.. I know it sucks to hear and I know you loved them to death. Edit- she came back and I still love her but I tried my best, she …

Sorry you got cheated on mate. That's brutal and I hope it happens to her to really feel how awful it is! And yeah once you've done everything you can even before the cheating it's done, no 2nd chanc…

Taking responsibility is actually difficult. So it's not surprising people have much trouble with it. We all do to some extent. It's still insufferable though when it's done so blatantly. It's the opp…

Mine were the opposite where I was raised to be a hyperindependent person and now they're upset I don't have a relationship with them. If you teach a child they can't rely on you to help them meet y…

In terms of where we're at, it's done. I didn't divulge some of the worst parts of the relationship on this post. At one point, I had a moment where I realized I wouldn't let someone do this to someon…

Something doesn't feel right to them. It can be compatibility concerns. I'm not talking about liking the same stuff, but things like wanting kids, core values/religion, etc.. Some people get together …

Faith was formulated in several phrases a long time ago. And it's done in such a way that you don't have to waste your mental effort on believing in anything you want or come up with. Read <<Psalms 22…

Ya, sounds like she needs to resolve her own issues before you propose. Maybe do some pre-nuptual counseling. It was pretty common and used to be something done with your religious leader or family.  …

Over-ride it. Override. You have authority to override. Feel like your putting new over the old and that's how it's done. For me, it started with overriding pain. Even migraine. It takes at least 20mi…

I neglected to mention that dual custody doesn't exist where we are. For divorce by mutual consent, we simply decide who gets custody and file the paperwork and it's done. In the unlikely event of med…

I just want to say that what you're saying is VALID, OP. A lot of these comments are not addressing your concerns or offering the advice you need which is taking the mental load off of your plate. I…

Exactly, you won't ever enjoy the exercise since it's painful, you don't have to enjoy it at all, but when it's done - you wont regret going through it since now youre a stronger person

He's showing you what he is able to give (wants to give) in this situation. The most he wanted to do was go go fetch some food. I think I would have told him, "Hey look, I am not very good company rig…

Depends if you're the type of person that needs to be hurt one million times before moving on - might be a good shout reaching out. Sometimes I need to get so disappointed, because I don't want to "gi…

Your family sucks; your mom is in an impossible position, though, and probably has fears for her grandchild because your brother is such a fuck-up and shit father, and "Key" comes from a shit situatio…

Thanks. I'm definitely staying off FB. It's done me no good!

Sell the house. Move to a new place. Leave her in your past. Whatever you do, DO NOT MARRY HER. If she's showing no remorse, whatever you saw in her in the past and that person is gone, if she was eve…

I have public healthcare in my country and I'm eligible for the ketamine program for free, otherwise I'd have to spend crazy amount of money. It is still new though and only done via nasal spray (eske…

I create a word document with all steps it's like a huge document with all detailed information (3 pages), here are some titles from the document Step 0 - to buy a new phone (according to safety rea…

But keep in mind they do it to each other and ARE HAPPY. Like, the whole family just does not seem to be able to understand the idea of 1. ownership and 2. valuing inanimate objects. Things are just t…

You're basically serving as her emotional support while she goes through the divorce. Once it's done, there's a good chance she'll discard you and say she needs space, needs time for herself or needs …

This time I still had doubts, normally I just feel a sense of calm and 'it's done,' but it worked out anyway. Perhaps because I already have some ease with SATS and it has always been a method that I …

You are not an idiot, OP. There is nothing wrong with you. You love big and you still haven't let go. That's OK. You know where you're at in this process. Now it's time to begin looking forward and ta…

Literally nothing. No words. No stress. I already know it's done. That's when it shows up the quickest.

It's never OK to hit a child. It breaks trust and although it may result in obedience, it's done though fear. Never a good idea. It's always the easy way out.

**I'm an anxious desperately obsessed with an avoidant who left and I need help** TLDR : I'm an autistic and anxious-attached lonely guy and against the odds found the girl of dreams in the best cont…

Who the heck are you to judge or to know what's right for them get over yourself sometimes no contact isn't the right thing and it's done for the wrong reasons

I disagree with this. It's not reasonable to ask for someone to wait an indefinite amount of time while you think about things, and it's okay for someone to say 'sorry, that doesn't work for me, I wou…

Looking good isn't cheap. It's like when black and latino dudes getting line/touch/shape ups every Friday lol. What I noticed is Asian guys getting down perms when their side and back hairs are too …

A genuine connection like no other. Yeah, same here. Now that's it's done it just wouldn't work. I struggle with this reality. I don't like it but it is what it is. I know it would turn into resent…

There's nothing to do except to let it be done. The only 'danger' in this period is digging up the seed by checking to see if it's done, following fears or doubts, or going back to giving anything in …

that in-between situation is honestly one of the hardest to get out of. because it's not clean. there's no clear ending you can point to and say okay it's done. just enough warmth to keep you hoping a…

Ok sorry to be so shameless n bugging you. Want to add a final question: For some desires, I can affirm and get mental closure n that's how I know I'm in the state. For others, I don't get a mental c…

I definitely deserve it! It's in the way! It's done;

This is a tough one. We all carry those scenarios. For me, it comes down to two things. First, radical acceptance. The mistake happened. It's done. No amount of replaying changes that fact. You …

It's done.