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THINGS TOXIC "SHIFTERS" SAY/DO (they are more normalized than you think)

THINGS TOXIC "SHIFTERS" SAY/DO (they are more normalized than you think) — Soo days back I made a post voicing frustrations about my shifting experience and mentioning a few a of my roadblocks. Two days ago I shifted successfully to the Odyssey and when I came back to my cr…

r/realityshiftingpost3/17/2026
OKAY LISTEN Y'ALL.

OKAY LISTEN Y'ALL. — I don't know which tag this would come under but I just have to say this because the amount of 'im gonna give up' , 'its not working' ' what am I doing wrong' posts am seeing is insaneee. First of all…

r/Manifestationpost3/11/2026
This book has been phenomenal.

This book has been phenomenal. — I know it shouldn't just be men, but this book explains abuse and how abusive people functions. This has been extremely helpful to me in rationalizing my illogical choices of staying longer than I sho…

r/NarcissisticAbusepost3/16/2026
Read this if you have doubts about manifestation

Read this if you have doubts about manifestation — Why do you even doubt it? Just why? Do you think manifestation is something illogical, supernatural, and difficult? It absolutely isn’t. It’s something you’ve been doing your whole life unconsciousl…

r/Manifestationpost3/17/2026
what finally got me to shift - I broke my mind ⋆˚࿔

what finally got me to shift - I broke my mind ⋆˚࿔ — I used to be the person who would try to shift every single night and wake up crying from a failed attempt because I was so frustrated with the fact that I wasn’t shifting. I thought that I fully be…

r/realityshiftingpost3/20/2026
"You'll thank me for this when you get older."

"You'll thank me for this when you get older." — No. I am older, and the abuse you put me through is abuse, period. I will never thank you for the physical and emotional abuse you put me through, and it's insane that for one minute you thought anyon…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost3/27/2026
What... did the fog just lift? Am I... done??! Or at least... okay being done?

What... did the fog just lift? Am I... done??! Or at least... okay being done? — I don't know what happened. 2.5 yr relationship. The last 1.5 years have been not great, the last 4 months REALLY bad because I dropped my (usually very strong) boundaries which he saw as weakness and…

r/NarcissisticAbusepost3/31/2026
Success Story: "I make $55/hr" 2 week streak F20

Success Story: "I make $55/hr" 2 week streak F20 — To preface, I've had the knack for manifesting money here and there for around 5 years now, and I'm still in the process of fully realising my power and being in total control (ie having it come more …

r/nevillegoddardpost4/2/2026
My mum believes these crazy health myths and it's really frustrating me.

My mum believes these crazy health myths and it's really frustrating me. — Here are some examples of what she does everyday. Drk what to do \- After I shower it is of upmost importance that I blow dry my hair because she thinks it's unhealthy to leave my hair wet (yes I un…

r/AsianParentStoriespost4/4/2026
why are asian parents like this

why are asian parents like this — ​ Me (filipino 20M) and my gf (italian 21M) we've been together for almost 3 years. We were both born and raised in Italy, and living in two different cities. We had some ups and downs during …

r/AsianParentStoriespost4/5/2026
I (20M) broke up with my (20F) girlfriend and now regret it. How can I rebuild trust and potentially fix things?

I (20M) broke up with my (20F) girlfriend and now regret it. How can I rebuild trust and potentially fix things? — So for context, me and my now ex (we'll call her Jessica) had been together for 10 months prior to the breakup. The relationship was going great until about 5 months in, when Jessica and her family mo…

r/BreakUpspost4/5/2026
Your craziest success stories please

Your craziest success stories please — Having some trouble with limiting beliefs right now and I’d love to hear some crazy and illogical success stories as motivation to keep going and not let those beliefs psych me out.

r/Manifestationpost4/9/2026
I (20M) broke up with my (20F) girlfriend and now regret it. How can I rebuild trust and potentially fix things?

I (20M) broke up with my (20F) girlfriend and now regret it. How can I rebuild trust and potentially fix things? — So for context, me and my now ex (we'll call her Jessica) had been together for 10 months prior to the breakup. The relationship was going great until about 5 months in, when Jessica and her family mo…

r/BreakUpspost4/10/2026
14 Years misdiagnosed with schizophrenia.

14 Years misdiagnosed with schizophrenia. — In 2012 I was diagnosed with schizophrenia, recently I've felt my episodes are a result of stress, and I noticed they are pre-empted by trauma memories surfacing. For years every time i tried to talk …

r/CPTSDpost4/12/2026
The Wounds That Teach Us How to Love Again

The Wounds That Teach Us How to Love Again — The phrase “Maybe love was never meant to be logical; perhaps that is why it leaves scars” can be understood through both a theoretical psychological lens and a human emotional lens, especially in the…

r/BreakUpspost4/12/2026
I (21F) accidentally called my boyfriend (24m) fat

I (21F) accidentally called my boyfriend (24m) fat — Hi. Sorry for any typos. It's 1am and I am running off of little sleep. The title sounds terrible, I know. I feel fucking awful. My bf and I got dinner tonight at an AYCE restaurant, so we ate quite…

r/relationship_advicepost4/12/2026
My gf who is ld is acting weird lately she is '21F' in goa and I am '20M'

My gf who is ld is acting weird lately she is '21F' in goa and I am '20M' — my gf is cheating on me am sure but every time I start asking she doesn't give proper answers and starts arguing blaming I take doubt on her too much but can't even ask her questions like why u came …

r/relationship_advicepost4/13/2026
START HERE! - Beginner Guides, FAQs, and Resources

I attribute my LD to the episode ‘What was in Blue’s Dream’ from Blue’s Clues. Home sick one day from school, watched this episode, dreamed that episode that night then not only did I know I was dream…

r/LucidDreamingcomment3/1/2022
You know what sucks about being in the process of healing your attachment type? Dating someone who has no idea they have an insecure attachment and you're just wasting all that hard-earned security on someone who doesn't care

I'm still very new to this forum, but from I can see people here tend to explain the totality of events solely based on the attachment theory. While it does explain why someone with insecure attachmen…

r/attachment_theorycomment7/10/2025
Proving Conciousness Creates Reality Syllogistically

I'm going to take a crack at this using critical thinking alone. *" The very concepts of "beginning," "created," and "suddenly exist" are all products of our three-dimensional perception, where we ex…

r/JosephMurphycomment9/20/2025
I broke no contact

I'm super skeptical when it comes to relying on an AI (as an AI engineer who knows how unreliable and misleading AI can get). But I'm someone who finds it hard to open up and tell people my deepest …

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment11/3/2025
Is it a 6th sense or is it anxious attachment?

Same! It was the best resource on attachment I've found. It helped me understand on a deep level why I was acting in ways that seemed so illogical and shameful. When I read it I was in a repetitive cy…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment11/11/2025
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

I know my relationship of 15 years is over. She's mentally unwell and has very drastic mood swings, but she refuses to actually get help or to work on herself at all. When she's in a good mood, she …

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment11/19/2025
DAs, do you find that you avoid things in wider aspects of life, not just relationships?

Okay, thats fine that you believe that. However, I rely on actual scientific research to understand how the attachment system works. Using pop psychology and observational behavior to determine someo…

r/attachment_theorycomment11/29/2025
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

Hey I've been facing some issues in my relationship. Need advice on how to fix everything. My partner very recently expressed her concern for my health and that i should really avoid drinking at all.…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment12/3/2025
Weekly Rant/Vent Thread

Man I’ve been there. “I’m going to hurt my own feelings by shutting this person out so they don’t hurt my feelings!” It sounds illogical, but the fear is real.

r/AvoidantAttachmentcomment2/19/2026
Are pre-birthday discards the norm?

I'm deeply sorry you went through that. It is horrible on the nervous system, you keep spiraling and ruminating trying to understand what you did wrong. You're not alone in this. This will take longer…

r/attachment_theorycomment2/21/2026
My girlfriend [20F] has scrubbed all photos of me [21M] from her social media and her room. How do I handle her explanation?

She is being deliberately hypocritical and illogical in a way that sounds to me like she is keeping you only until something “better” comes along. Her explanations make no sense and her accusation abo…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/7/2026
Cheated on after 10.5 years together, divorced at 11 years together.

Sounds like you are on the right track. I did the same mistakes so nobody here is any better, we just try to reduce the incredible pain of a woman’s betrayal with proven advice. There is good news.…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/11/2026
Looking for Data about seeing auras while pineal gland is calcified.

Because traumas are shock therapy when you really look at them logicaly and ignore the ego illogical nonesense beliefs. I will refer to david grush tehnice about psionic assets, you have to lower int…

r/experiencerscomment3/11/2026
Share your most insane ‘money just appeared’ story

It just shows that no techniques are needed. God (or your higher self) already knew what you needed and desired. Then the bridge unfolded, you followed your nudge to go out despite it being against lo…

r/nevillegoddardcomment3/13/2026
I understood Neville much better after started reading about transurfing.

Yes, I agree this is how the book is meant to work. But I see a common misunderstanding in your post.  You actually don’t master outer intent (even in RT) by reducing importance, though reducing imp…

r/nevillegoddardcomment3/15/2026
My wife of 11 years cheated

I was in the same situation. I had a friend, not a super close friend give me some advice that I will admit, eventually brought me back a happiness reset. I can’t duplicate the words, but the premise…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/16/2026
I've noticed everyone wants someone with CPTSD to stand up for themselves until they actually do it.

Hey glad I was able to help! I don't think it's completely illogical to use the "treat people how you want to be treated" and "treat people with respect" approach. Those should be the defaults. I thin…

r/CPTSDcomment3/16/2026
Anyone's Nparents raised you to become dependent, then complain about your dependence and pressure you to be independent?

Okay this is soo well written, I could have not described it better! I will use this when trying to describe people the illogical mess they are

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/17/2026
Has anyone else been paralyzed by extreme avoidance to the point of near delusion? I mean at one point I wouldn’t even get up to brush my teeth I would just be on my phone all day distracting myself from reality

I made an offhand comment to my godmother (my dads sister, so, also my aunt) shortly after I turned 19 (drinking age where I’m from), about how I already knew how to cope with my depression with occas…

r/CPTSDcomment3/18/2026
AM diversify your dating pool

I don’t dispute that it exists. I have personally had words with people who have used that brother line. I’ve always thought that it was stupid, illogical, and likely a product of internalized hate. …

r/AsianMasculinitycomment3/18/2026
Is this lucid dreaming or is it SP?

> Has anyone experienced anything similar? Yes, I have, and I've read many similar accounts in this sub over the past 15 years. Calling these experiences hallucinations works for some people. I t…

r/LucidDreamingcomment3/20/2026
I need advice

> But I’m feeling a lot of anxiety about handing in my resignation next week. I think it’s tied to not wanting to disappoint the owners or let anyone down. > From a Stoic perspective, how would you a…

r/Stoicismcomment3/20/2026
How to date seriously when you are in a city you dislike

I am in a similar boat, and the increasing uncertainty both globally and domestically makes the comfort and stability of current employment seem like a logical no brainer. But in staying there will on…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/23/2026
​Husband (46M) keeps "helpfully" rearranging, hiding, and disposing of my (46F) stuff--what tactic or wording can I use to stop it?

Except you said he doesn't do it at work so he obviously understands the core concept when it applies to other people's possessions. He just doesn't care when it's your things. You're not treating the…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/23/2026
Why does it take years to realize you’re traumatized? And why does "standard" therapy often miss the point?

I think there are multiple reasons why it takes years, or even decades, to realize that you've been abused. The first reason that I see is a developemental one. As a baby, your world is incredibly …

r/CPTSDcomment3/23/2026
I 27f pregnant can barley eat and my partner 31m didnt sleep because I ate McDonald’s

> Mainsplaining female experiences is a trigger at this point. Honestly, YEAH. That like perfect encapsulates how I feel whenever I hear a dude spout off some illogical shit that only could be fully …

r/relationship_advicecomment3/24/2026
Coming to terms with the fact that I am a stalker, and I'm not sure where to go from here

There's a book called "conscious uncoupling" if you can get it from the library or wherever you should read it. The first third of the book is about both the physiological and psychological reasons …

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment3/25/2026
How do I F21 fix my relationship with my F21 twin sister after her M22 fiancée SA’d me?

First i need to be clear that i only deal with facts not feelings on something or the fabricated details someone else created to help their own idea of a situation. Be functional and factual. Origi…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/25/2026
People with CPTSD what are things that people just don’t get about it?

What exactly a flash back can be. For me I don’t see or hear things from the past. I think media made most people think this is a flashback. My flashbacks are usually a genuine detatchment from rea…

r/CPTSDcomment3/26/2026
What are the orbs?

Orbs are souls/consciousness. A soul in its truest form resembles what we'd describe as an orb of light, however, its truly a ball of energy that radiates light. Every being in existence that is alive…

r/experiencerscomment3/26/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 26, 2026

Use a tripod or have friends take photos Be honest and say you're separated People will not want to date you seriously if they're smart. Don't get into anything serious because you're gonna have som…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/26/2026
Within which orb do you notice a transit?

It isn't supposed to be by whole sign house entry when you have a reasonable idea what someone's precise degrees are. Whole sign is for general prognostications. Saturn, Neptune and Pluto are all …

r/astrologycomment3/26/2026
I've met the 'angel of death' and it is not what you might think it is

I think I’m officially done with Reddit this comment contained certain words that required approval by a moderator! What words exactly? I used to love Reddit now I feel like I can’t express myself as …

r/experiencerscomment3/27/2026
First time on LSD with husband

“Like **man’s** version of the mushroom experience” what does this mean? Do you mean humanity’s? Or masculine/male? Either way this comment is illogical

r/Psychonautcomment3/27/2026
Intentionally having bad sex?

Wtf are you even saying here? We're talking about adults in their 40s that have very likely been married at least once, probably at least had a serious relationship at some point, and almost certainly…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/29/2026
What is a trigger you have that originated from your parents’ treatment of you?

I do the over-explaining bit, especially when I am trying to guess the context for specific 1-2-3 style instructions. “You were passing cables through the cabinet under the tv, and then you said to …

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/30/2026
My wife (f38) wants me (m42) to be okay with her going speed dating with friend?

NGL, this is a really weird request. No one needs a wingman/woman at a speed dating event. The very suggestion of it is silly. My friends who have tried this have always gone by themselves. She’s al…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/30/2026
When I Let the Devil Back In

Basically having someone help you work through the pain (therapist) or having a doctor prescribe a drug to change the chemistry in your brain and consciousness, doesn’t have the power of permanency. …

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/30/2026
Are Asians really that short, or is it just a racist stereotype?

I'm curious how common this is. Do you identify as an Asian guy? How commonly do you or friends experience Asian women making illogical statements, and where? It's def cringey that someone would call…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/31/2026
Please join me in listing things that you discovered aren't normal outside your own toxic upbringing

It’s truly scary how their mind works. They logically find an outward excuse for their rage fit. So society would validate it, look, they’ve got an excuse! Manipulator machines In your case it is ac…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/31/2026
5 years later and i’m still here. there’s not a single shitbag person in this world that is worth taking your life over. keep fucking going.

I believe in you! For me, I was ruminating so much, which is good, in some ways, because you're trying to learn and heal. But it's bad in many more ways. You're trying to get logic from an illogical…

r/NarcissisticAbusecomment3/31/2026
Does anyone else have a more negative experience on lower dosages and positive on higher?

I don't like it when I use half of anything. Like, I just really don't like it for no reason whatsoever. It's just a stubborn mindset, and my form of logic is set like that. It needs to be a whole num…

r/Psychonautcomment3/31/2026
I'm finally starting to realize that I'm worth it

I’m starting to feel it. In December me and my partner had a fight and in January i left the house for a month because my partner would ask me to leave everytime there was a fight when i came back i h…

r/Divorcecomment4/1/2026
I’m intensely triggered by my partner’s younger sister and I hate what it brings out in me

Logic is cold comfort when you are in distress. It's absolutely part of it, but developing self-compassion doesn't require pure logic. I don't know the "best way" but I also disagree with a purely log…

r/CPTSDcomment4/1/2026
I tried to communicate with an orb, and it responded. Please advise.

**PART 1 OF 2:** Thats a great question! This will be on the longer side but I feel its necessary to provide some context to my answer, and this paragraph is context that led me to my opinion so you …

r/experiencerscomment4/1/2026
Near death and OBE's are not Hallucinations

Haha! You know what's funny about you lot....its how you much faith you all use to construct your arguments. "Its a mere glitch" , "its a delusion". Here is some "real world logic", since you still ex…

r/AstralProjectioncomment4/2/2026
Vegan Men as a Deal-Breaker

Did you specifically go to Paris to buy the croissants? lol. My ex used to bring half a suitcase of baked goods and cheese from France. All other food usually got confiscated. I am a similar food s…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/2/2026
I've never been treated this bad in my life

I still don't get why you can't just break up if there are no feelings anymore. Instead they go out of their way to keep secrets and lie/cheat. It's more work and destroys the partner. As a person who…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/2/2026
Best Advice I Ever Received

BILL OF ASSERTIVE RIGHTS  I have the right to be the judge of what I do and what I think.  I have the right to offer no reasons and excuses for my behaviour.  I have the right to refuse to be re…

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment4/3/2026
What made you believe in manifesting?

So, this is faith based. The thing about faith that a lot of people don’t understand is that there is no amount of evidence to prove it right, faith is by definition, illogical. If you are interested…

r/lawofattractioncomment4/3/2026