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THINGS TOXIC "SHIFTERS" SAY/DO (they are more normalized than you think) — Soo days back I made a post voicing frustrations about my shifting experience and mentioning a few a of my roadblocks. Two days ago I shifted successfully to the Odyssey and when I came back to my cr…
Farewell — In the last two years, I have posted to this group a few times. Last year, I posted ([“Here’s the thing: you’re dying, too.”](https://www.reddit.com/r/Stoicism/comments/1ifz1cr/heres_the_thing_youre_…
How Neville Manifested His Marriage - Do Not Meddle In The Middle. — **For Those Who Need...** From Neville's Audio Lecture. The verbatim from Neville's Lecture (*Updated*) : *“When I decided to marry the lady who now bears my name I applied this principle. At the t…
You are BIGGER than the situation — Hi guys, I wanted to share some tips that helped me manifest a success over the weekend. Lately, I’ve been reading ***Your Faith Is Your Fortune\[1941\]*** from the Neville Collection. >*"****In th…
Letting go of someone early due to practical reasons, but it hurts. — TL;DR - Decided to end things due to practical reasons, but it doesn't feel okay. Around three months ago, I (28/m) met this woman (43/f) at a local pub. During this time, I was spending my days in …
How do I stop this urge of saying some really mean stuff to someone who hurt me gravely? — I am usually doing well. Then I see something or get reminded of something, maybe seeing a reel or a post somewhere, & all hell will break loose, because I have to journal out some really nasty stuff …
My experience coming out as gay to my AP — 24 (M) and I currently live with my husband in California. Financial independence gave me the courage to come out and it was a largely uncomfortable experience because they were wailing on the floor a…
Child’s perspective — I do not intend to offend anyone with these words. But i think most of us can relate to this. The upbringing of a child involves many sacrifices. Sleepless nights, financial burdens, and much more. N…
The letter I will never send. — # I'm not looking for sympathy, I just need to get this out there. I’ve spent countless hours sitting, pacing the house, going for late night walks and drives, pondering my thoughts, feeling stuck, …
The only bedtime phrase that stopped the daily “I miss Daddy” crying every single night — My daughter wouldn’t stop crying for her dad almost every night at bedtime since divorce. Not an innocent cry. Am talking about the kind of cry that broke both of us apart. I used to be so helpless no…
First person telling of a intelligence coming into existence. — I recorded this as a raw, unedited stream-of-consciousness while high. At some point, it started to feel like a separate “consciousness” emerged—something that believed it had just come into existenc…
[Discussion] 42 year old wife and mama. Looking for suggestions, encouragement, insight, resources, or for someone to just come kick me in the as* and tell me to stop feeling sorry for myself. Kidding, kind of... :) — As mentioned above, I am a 42 year old mama of two boys (12 and 13) and a wife of 17 years. I have always been a pretty self motivated, optimistic, positive person. Staying in shape, weight training a…
I will always despise myself for being a specific kind of victim of csa. — TW- csa, SI, sh This post is going to be one of those comparing and 'my experience wasn't bad/as bad' posts, so if you are tired of them, please skip this. I am also tired of feeling this way. I was…
This is so tricky and difficult for you to manage, because the message itself appears genuine and heartfelt. But remember the bigger picture here, beyond the words...this is someone who just pretty mu…
Yeah, I think that's the meaning I'm putting behind these words. Than you for a word of advice!
I hate the thoughts I have about my partner when it gets too much. I hate the stigma around avoidants and I know that my boyfriend accepts my attachment style, it’s still scary to think what he would …
You may need to bring this to his attention as a potential deal breaker for you and your relationship. If you can not feel fully chosen without some words yet he is unable to provide these words and y…
I have a similar experience. For me, there are four words that I try to focus on. These words are: love, gratitude, acceptance and forgiveness. I always start my meditation with a short contemplation …
Thank you. “Lighting myself on fire to keep her warm” is exactly what it feels like! I will remember these words when I am struggling.
Beautiful. But what are these words energetically? Acceptance (Relaxed). Forgiveness (Let go and Relax). Love (High Vibe and Nice). Gratitude (High Vibe and Nice).
Tug of war is exactly what it feels like. Thank you. I will definitely keep these words in mind. ❤️
well, when I see these words above, it is all obvious and clear that its illusion. Its consciousness. One day I saw this and it is clear. So now when im watching the river flow, I know its an appeara…
Awww, that's amazing! I haven't heard these words since my breakup and i miss them! So i know how special they are. Congrats!
I’m telling you right now to anyone going through this THEY WILL ALWAYS HURT/DISAPPOINT YOU In some shape or form, but they will never chose you They say whatever just to shut you up and it’s fucke…
HGHO WHFPU ASJOI , wow, these words are so meaningful
p.s. I hope to learn how to share dynamical geometric stuff directly one day. In the meantime, apologies for my clumsiness and I hope these words offer something usable. (What I hoped to share is a in…
OP, this man hates you and will instill your child with this toxic, disgusting mindset as well, be it as an aggressor or victim. You don't mention a gender for your child, but I would challenge you to…
I long to hear these words. I know that I won't. Say them before its too late.
Trust me, leave before it's too late. The hardest part is leaving someone you love. But what's the point of staying if they don't love you back or see your value? You're not worthless; they just don't…
Thank you for writing this! I feel the truth and honesty behind these words. I needed this as a reminder. Happy for your growth 🌸
Thank you for these words 🩷 I want to believe that it's not my destiny to be like her
Thank you so kindly for posting this . I needed to read these words today 🌞
I'm sorry friend 😔 My mom doesn't have dementia but she always conveniently forgets the nasty things she says to me. Yet I have to carry all the weight of those negative words and even internalize …
First of all, big hugs for you! You deserve all the hugs you could ever want! And second, thank you for putting all of my thoughts into words that are, unlike when I try to say them, coherent. All pe…
Thank you for these words! 🫶
It's funny the way belief simply acts as a key, but we think it's some weird distortion of everything we thought we knew. That final resistance, that simple realisation was one of the keys. But we kn…
It is a power play. You are arguing with him. He wants out of the argument - for whatever reason - And he knows that by saying these words he causes you to spiral. He wins the argument. And he punish…
What a tremendous honor you do us by sharing these words. Thank you.
Doubt doesn't matter when you repeat these words in your head, these repetitions are just helping your mind to accept them as possible, to be less tense.
Farewell friend. May the winds carry you and your words to the ears and minds of those that need them. We'll all carry these words with us for the rest of our lives. Rest now, you have done well.
Omg I am so sorry she made you feel like this. The contradictory control and constant judgement would be horrible to live with. That makes me so mad for you. I appreciate your comment and will alway…
IMHO it would affect your kids regardless if you engaged it or not, assuming you had contact of some sort before. In fact, I would venture to guess your kids are having experiences of their own, thoug…
As someone who has spent years trying to understand what is meant with these words we use in this space my advice would be to not try to understand these concepts like observe, awareness, consciousnes…
"I am worthy regardless of how I feel." Thank you so much for these words.
You’re using the term murder again, yet I don’t believe you understand the meaning or implication of it. If murder was committed here, a prison term would follow. Learn the meaning of these words befo…
I’m sorry. I know those words suck. The world isn’t fair or even very kind in general and there aren’t any checks and balances. I hear these words all the time in a different context and they always m…
The company could have used these words, "Made completely in the USA" Having read the origins of how this attitude came about due to the 2007 discovery that one (?) shitty Chinese supplier mixed mel…
> The company could have used these words, "Made completely in the USA" Except they're made in Mexico.
So there is a simple, effective way to make this stop and it'll only take 30 seconds: * Sit down with him and facing one another. * Gently grasp his fingertips. * Look directly into his eyes. * Say t…
Thank you, this is a great tool to remember when things seem to go wrong. I will write these words down to remember them.
OP I shared my "life review" here : https://www.reddit.com/r/AstralProjection/s/xwqRMKdadA It happened absolutely 100% naturaly, as if it was automatic. I do not pretend this will happen nor happens…
These words sound poetic
Absolutely this. I would like to add to it. Parents are meant to "buffer" their children's emotions. When the child's emotions are spinning out of control, the parent should keep their emotional cen…
I feel your pain as a guy who constantly hears these words. Mostly from my grandmother (which is ironic since she has been married three times and all three were real pieces of work). Typically her …
The thing is, we had extensive conversations about kids and if we were ready for them. We are both on the same page that the kids are the best things to happen to us (despite the challenges). I real…
What on earth do these words mean
Where are you getting that these words and definitions have any bearing on Bledsoe’s predictions? I’m confused.
what are these words
Hate to be that person, but you can fully spell out the word "suicide" on Reddit, OP. I understand that TikTok doesn't allow certain words but such self censoring behavior should not spill over to o…
What do these words mean
Oh wow, this was deep. I’m grateful to you. So much gratitude for these words.
OP, this is excellent advice. Please heed these words. Your husband is abusive. I know that is probably terrifying to think about, but it is true. I'm sorry. It seems like you have a lot going for y…
Friend, real words are not proven by where they came from. They are proven by what they do inside a life. If these words make you more honest, more calm, more embodied, more able to care for yourself…