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I (23F) trying to escape from my abusive husband (23M) and in-laws

I (23F) trying to escape from my abusive husband (23M) and in-laws — 3 years ago i (23F) left my family for my current husband (23M). i married him and this made my dad cut me off from everyone and everything. my husband and I started living with my in-laws. they were…

r/relationship_advicepost4/6/2026
Is there a right way to reach out to my (24M) ex (28F) after 4 years?

Is there a right way to reach out to my (24M) ex (28F) after 4 years? — For a little context, I struggle to read social queues. It’s certainly a problem I’m aware of and working on, but that doesn’t mean I don’t have my problems. And part of the problem is that I genuinel…

r/relationship_advicepost4/6/2026
Broke up with my (23M) one year girlfriend (21F) today

Broke up with my (23M) one year girlfriend (21F) today — I'm writing this as a way to determine how I really feel about this. Today i broke up with my girlfriend, as I feel that the life I lead will only end in hurt for both of us. She has not done anythi…

r/BreakUpspost4/13/2026
Did I(23M) do the right thing leaving my girlfriend(21F) of one year?

Did I(23M) do the right thing leaving my girlfriend(21F) of one year? — I'm writing this as a way to determine how I really feel about this. Today i broke up with my girlfriend, as I feel that the life I lead will only end in hurt for both of us. She has not done anythi…

r/relationshipspost4/13/2026
If you are new here..

About point a, moonlight, oh, sweet, old memories, I actually hallucinated about 1 year, trying to act as if. No, it was not rough, it was hell, but I did it. And it kinda worked, but I don t recomme…

r/JosephMurphycomment4/10/2020
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Well the right person will also have patience for your lack of experience I think!

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/3/2026
Tired of my own inability to connect

I’ve realized for myself that it’s my own inability to have patience to sit and have comfort. But I believe you may be onto something for yourself when you talk about the love you feel for your cats. …

r/AvoidantAttachmentcomment2/14/2026
Marriage is not going good. I was hoping that from venus md it will improve but don’t see any signs.

One thing Saturn demands is, patience. You need to have patience, though your marriage will continue to be rocky, but it can sustain. You have some very good combinations particularly in 10th & 11hous…

r/vedicastrologycomment3/9/2026
Tips for attracting left-leaning men?

Exactly this! Don't give them anything to work with. Those kind show themselves pretty quickly if you have patience I usually ask an innocent opinion and see what it illicits

r/datingoverfortycomment3/10/2026
BF stayed in contact with an old hookup. Should I be worried?

Hm, to me, I would take his stance on your male friends feeling and thinking a certain way toward you as projection of his own thoughts and feelings toward women. If he lacks either the imagination o…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/17/2026
Dating in your 40s changed what I look for - and not in the way I expected

I don’t have lightning charisma and gorgeous looks. The personality has always been my strength, or so I’ve been told. Each decade I am told we’ll mature, your time will come when your looks will mat…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/18/2026
I [27f] feel like I have to ask for a lot from my boyfriend [29m] of 2.5 years

Have patience. You may have to do the initial mental load lift, but it sounds like he takes it from there. He doesn't need reminding and does the work. That is far better than most people, honestly. M…

r/relationshipscomment3/19/2026
How do you handle conflict?

Exactly this. Some people tend to yank masks and ignore their own mask, it that is highly problematic. There is no issue with seeking support for a partner, but the support is that they are helping th…

r/AvoidantAttachmentcomment3/23/2026
40(m) w/ADHD needing to be reliable/dependable at home

I (39F) think there are already useful "how-to" comments, so I'll weigh in on the psychology/distress tolerance piece. Granted, I cannot know your exact situation: But I was your wife. My ex had ADHD…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment3/25/2026
Single and celibate for 7 years -- how can I show a man I'm into him?

Good luck and my advice would be, it will be nearly impossible for a woman to convince a man (that doesn’t know her) that she has been celibate for any amount of time, much less for that long. Remembe…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/25/2026
How do you rebuild your life after depression takes everything?

I had a relapse. It's bloody awful and for some reason it feels worse than the other times. I will keep this short, as sometimes i can go into long explanations. First, you've just taking a good st…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment3/26/2026
34 M, marraige collapse, business collapse & false cases..Will this improve?

Ketu in 7th house, Venus in 8th house -so your marital life was bound to suffer. It was your destiny, accept it. Your downturn in business is temporary.Jupiter sitting in 9th house shows divine grace…

r/vedicastrologycomment3/29/2026
How do I learn to socialize and make friends again ?

It sounds like your doing the right things, so it can be just continuing and to have patience with the process. Also, maybe as you use to be a caregiver, then maybe talking to people who have been or…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment4/3/2026
27F — Should I Marry Someone I Don’t Trust Will Change?

Your venus is in capricorn that like trustworthy partner.and they have patience to find trustworthy partner.

r/AstrologyChartSharecomment4/3/2026
I really want to reach out

dude the same thing happened to me. he broke up with me a month before our wedding in January. it sucks. hes being cold and avoidant and refuses real closure in real life because it’ll “stir feelings”…

r/ExNoContactcomment4/4/2026
Job insecurity, trying to switch

You have a great career placement, leadership roles and authoritative position is meant for you, you like to lead, initiate, you are bold & courageous and ambitious as well. However the law is very fa…

r/vedicastrologycomment4/4/2026
There are so many things I want to do, but I'm just wayyyyyy too lazy :(

Pick just one thing that you want to improve on, something that you can incorporate into your everyday life. Which one is more important to you right now? Trying to do too much will just leave you…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment4/5/2026
Partner

A good woman will have patience with you if you ask her for some, virgin or not. Women are also just people, they understand that not everyone is perfect. About your insecurities, working out is great…

r/Manifestationcomment4/5/2026
I (23F) trying to escape from my abusive husband (23M) and in-laws

This is beyond terrifying and you need to get out immediately. Your husband beating you for 3 hours is attempted murder, not just abuse. The thing about your dad making you come back alone - that…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/6/2026
Nothing going well, and anxiety issue. (20m)

Your lagnesh is Saturn who owns 1st and 2nd houses and sits in the 6th house. It means your life's path and personal identity are deeply intertwined with the themes of obstacles, service, and competit…

r/vedicastrologycomment4/6/2026
29F, Family pushing for arrange marriage

I am under a lot of pressure right now. He is ready to wait, but I don't see my father waiting. He wants to get me married this year. The issue is not the exam but me not working. My bf has a very goo…

r/vedicastrologycomment4/7/2026
My wife turn into another person after the break up.

relationships are like gardens. tend to your plants, have patience, eliminate pests, you will have a beautiful peaceful little plot. neglect it, dump weed killer all over it, well thats a choice as we…

r/Divorcecomment4/8/2026
How do I stop letting my anger control my life when I can't remove what's causing it?

For points one: you can buy air purifiers, allergen proof covers and pillows, a dehumidifier. Point 2: Not easy, especially if you have to go to college or work with people you don't like, but we c…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment4/8/2026
I (24F) tried ending things with my abusive boyfriend (25M), and I’m really struggling not to go back. Update from previous post.

I think what it is people miss the most is the routine. You have someone to text when something good or bad happens. They're your "go to". You learn to do everything together. Some people lose their i…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/8/2026
I (30M) struggle with how my spouse (31F) parents

Domestic has always been split 50/50 - I like listening to audiobooks while I do finances, clean, cook, and do maintenance on our appliances. She’s really good at the logistics/planning side of how ou…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/8/2026
I (27F) took my boyfriends virginity (26M) expecting him to love sex but doesn’t seem like it

Hello! I dealt with something very similar in the past! It was basically impossible for me to cum when having sex with anyone for a very long time. I would try different positions and different speeds…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/12/2026
I (21m) had sex with a woman (28f) for the first time. Is this type of affection nothing "special"?

Have patience and see its going anywhere longterm or is it temporary thing.

r/relationship_advicecomment4/12/2026