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I (21M) have survived two decades of severe physical, emotional, and financial abuse from my Indian parents. I'm finally exhausted and need to tell my story. I am not free yet. — # TL;DR: I'm a 20-year-old only child in India who has endured severe physical, verbal, emotional, and financial abuse from my parents since toddlerhood. They have beaten me, medically neglected me, …

Dating someone with a fearful-avoidant style has been unexpectedly… gentle? — I wanted to share a relationship experience that’s been genuinely interesting and surprisingly positive, especially for FAs and anyone curious about FA dynamics. If you are not interested in some per…

I have done absolutely horrible things. I might be the worst human being to ever live. — 20M. This might be the longest post you'll ever read. I believe I have OCD and do nothing but ruminate 24/7 about my past. I have been in isolation for the last 3 years. It started as a fear of adult…

Want to hurt a covert narcissist? Tell people the truth (but be smart about it) — **DISCLAIMER:** Only do this if you are physically, financially, emotionally, and psychologically separated and safe from a narcissist. The following will probably not be applicable if you have to mai…

Beware of taking back the ex that broke up with you and wanted to rekindle with you — Let this be your testimony that you are much better without them. My ex of 7 years and I rekindled after a couple months of no contact. She broke up with me cause she said she relied on me too much an…

I texted her. Here's what I said. I hope this was honest and vulnerable enough. — OK so, this will be a long one. I fucked up. I have some many things to tell you, so many regrets with a heavy heart. I'll start with I miss you. I've been missing you for a long time now. I haven't t…

Sorry I know this is negative — I’m sorry I know this isn’t the right place to say this stuff but I just hate myself everything that comes out of my mouth is embarrassing. Everyone knows I’m crazy. I honestly have never been proud o…

Questions for people who have shifted :> (or just have done a lot of research) — This is just a bunch of questions Ive had. I believe in shifting, I’m just curious about some specifics (sorry if these are absolutely idiotic) 1. Can you script you forget about this reality? Will i…

I think I’m genuinely stupid — As the title says, I think I’m genuinely a dumb person. When someone says “this guys is empty headed” that’s literally me. I’ve always known I’m not the most intelligent person, I deflect that by ta…

My (19F) Boyfriend (18M) Called Me His Managers Name During Sex — UPDATE: wow I really did not expect this post the get the traction it did. thank you guys so much for the kindness you have shown and a lot of you guys gave some really good advice. the first thing I'…

UPDATE: How do I (28M) tell my girlfriend (28F) a prenup and keeping my inherited house separate are non-negotiable? — TL;DR: I had the conversation. She brought up moving in first. She completely agrees the house and inheritance should stay separate, supports a prenup, was impressed I’d thought it through, and confus…

BF stayed in contact with an old hookup. Should I be worried? — Dating a wonderful man for almost two years. We both are divorced and were cheated on. So we’ve both come into this acknowledging that trust is hard for us but we’ve consistently communicated well. I …

Why are people such sheep when it comes to drugs? — People seem to just accept things, unthinking, unquestioning. This person I was debating with said "Well people can just die instantly from MDMA" and I said that's just false. That doesn't happen, not…

Has anyone else been paralyzed by extreme avoidance to the point of near delusion? I mean at one point I wouldn’t even get up to brush my teeth I would just be on my phone all day distracting myself from reality — And the irony is the more I avoided reality the worse my life got so the more I needed to escape reality. Addiction 101. My phone provided pleasure and took away pain. As my life got worse from chroni…

I'm going to meet AP for the first time — I divorced my husband 1.5 years ago after discovering his affair, not only once but twice (with the same person). The first time he confessed everything and was commited to make it work but after some…

I (36M) am in tears in my own home while my parents play with my daughter. — My wife has gone away for a conference today (for the first time since we had a kid). I am alone with my parents in my own home and feel so unsafe with them. At any time, I fear an attack will come my…

“ he never harmed me” good to know my suffering meant so little to you — My ex husband left me for the mistress 6 years ago. It was hell. I am still to this day dealing with the trauma of having the person you trusted and loved so much just pull the rug from under your li…

What kind of lucid dreaming is this? — When I was a kid, I used to tell my siblings that I knew I was dreaming while I was in a dream, that’s why I could do whatever I wanted. They thought I was lying. But Many times, I would just ignore …

Divorce is Finalized BUT… WTF is wrong with me? — I’m 56 years old. My divorce was finalized in January. My wife was given three months by the mediator to move out of our home. I should say my home since I bought it and paid it off before we were mar…

WARNING do NOT do the whimhoff breathing exercise while DRIVING! (I crashed) — Before I tell the story of what happened to me let me explain what the whimhoff breathing exercise is. Take quick super deep breaths around 20 times and hold the last breath as long as you can then e…

nmom ruining my pregnancy by bullying my body — went no contact again and she won’t stop blowing up my phone — My whole life my sister and I have been bullied by our mom. When I was anorexic skinny, she’d say I had “no ass” and looked like a stick. Now that I’ve recovered and I’m at a normal, healthy weight (f…

I fucked everything up matched on dating app with his friend — I’m and idiot. I had an argument last Sunday with my ex/bf (of 3 months) idk at this point. He said he wanted to break up because his mental health isn’t great and he feels like he can’t meet my need…

5 years of relationship gone; I'm 20 and just was dumped — me and him always had our issues of on and off. ive always stayed despite all the things he's done and i understadn that its my fault for allowing him to do the things he did. I just feel really sad b…

Need help with this breakup — I (28M) was just broken up with by my ex (32F) and it hurts like hell. Things were great, amazing chemistry, etc. But one thing about me is I have a bad habit of stretching myself way too thin, I p…

Will astral projection be the key to space travel? — I often think about this, especially in the morning after waking up, when I was in another world during the night—one more real than the physical world we all know. It seems to me that astral projec…

Why do i still want to Go back to my nex? — We Split up mutually 1 month ago and it was Quite sudden. She wanted to Circle back immediately but i was Not Sure if things would Change. She promised me everything. Sex again, repectful behaviour, e…

Does anyone feel comfort in limerence? — Unfortunately, I have noticed that it is a pain that comforts me. I feel as if the only way I can connect with my loving side is by feeling this pain. I know how much it harms me and how much it delay…

I want to text my ex everyday — I broke up with my ex about 7 months ago. And I know people are going to assume that I’ve had my fun and now I want my ex back but that isn’t the case. We were together for about a year and a half and…

Hoover — I got hoovered and I feel so stupid. We were long distance and it has been about two years since we initially broke up. She attempted to get me back shortly after she dumped me, I resisted and then so…

I finally met that perfect Asian Kid most of us were compared to! — Really! He recites facts endlessly. He takes an unlimited amount of verbal abuse with a smile. He has no friends, no hobbies, and very little personality. He doesn't talk back. He doesn't a…

Day 2 of NC after I reported him — So I reported my partner to the police on Monday after a tirade of harassment and abuse. I have endured abuse and intimidation for 6 months straight, and I couldn’t take it anymore. Every time I tri…

Could he be actually cheating? — 27y/o (F) 35y/o (M) married for 7 years, 2 kids (preschool and 7m baby) tested positive during prenatal screening for syphilis both unsure where from? Got treated during pregnancy, I’ve lost basically…

Life has broken me: depression, bad health, shitty jobs, and an emptiness that even therapy can’t fix — Hey, I was in treatment for severe depression and it turned out a lot of it was actually untreated attention/concentration disorder. With the meds I’m more stable now — my brain only works when you f…

The wound reopens everytime I see them. — My ex broke up with me a month ago after a long term relationship and got with the guy they told me not to worry about just a week ago. Their friend group began treating me weird after the breakup and…

Read this if you're miserable and want your ex back. — # Your ex won't come back until you've COMPLETELY let go of them. ...and it's not gonna take 30 days of No Contact. I wish it was that simple. Let me explain how I've come to this conclusion while …

The fact that someone as terrible and disgusting as me has been allowed to live this long is the world's worst joke. — **(This is a repost of a post I made a while ago, which I am reposting because I'm back in a slump again. There aren't any major changes other than the ending bit.)** 20M. This might be the longest p…

Something I shouldve said, and now I cant go back. — I think i should've asked for a break instead of kicking you out and breaking up with you. I didnt want to hurt you, I really wanted to fix things, I shouldve said what I wanted instead of following s…

Should I break no contact for her health and future relationships. — Me and my girl broke up again maybe like 5 days ago. She's on birth control and I told her about the consequences of birth control like sickness, how attraction for your partner fluctuates, the health…

How to call out white liberal racism — I had a racist encounter with a white liberal yesterday (hooray for living in Boston), and I’m hoping this will help some here in dealing with them. While conservative whites are much more direct wit…

Why can’t I cut off thoughts about her like I do other people? — I’ve had to cut people off in the past… a friend, a sibling, and while I sometimes miss the connection I never feel like I need them to reach out to feel okay. Clearly I want the validation that I d…

Is my partner cheating or am I crazy? — I first started noticing weird things on my outdoor Ring camera at the end of December 2025. At the start of the new year, I began to see changes in my girlfriend’s behavior. We had just bought a hou…

How do you accept that you may never get that final conversation? — My ex dumped me a month and a half ago after two years together. Shes already with someone else. She gave me such mixed signals about how badly this break up hurt her but I guess that means nothing be…

Patching long-term relationship... Should I "start over" with a date? — So I (25F) recently sort of split apart from my partner (27M). We have been on and off since 2014 when we met in school, but overall were solid for quite some years! I think we "broke up" shortly twic…

It’s been 10 months. I still think about him everyday. — The feeling is obviously less intense because so much time has gone. But I still feel this sense of heaviness everyday. It’s in the back of my mind everyday. Him one day telling me he doesn’t love me …

Idiot, I am — Its what I feel I am. Idio- T. Like that. Totally stupid. I should just go and die now. Thank you

want to know where is the meaning of life ? — Practical Explanation ( For Example ) :- \`1st of all can you tell me every single seconds detail from that time when you born ?? ( i need every seconds detail ?? that what- what you have thought and …

Wife (31) complains / vents & is critical towards me (husband, 33) and we get stuck in a loop — TLDR: Wife complains and vents a lot, big turn off for me, leads to less sex and intimacy, causing her to create micro aggressions towards me, which causes me to be offended + defensive, making her m…

What is it if it’s not love? — TL;DR - tell me not to attempt to break no-contact with my ?ex? I’m also poly, so if you don’t fuck with that please just keep scrolling ♥️ Long version - I’m 7 months post-no contact, 10 months post…

i think i hate my brother — everyday he keeps treating me like i’m an incompetent idiot who isn’t worth his time. everyday he keeps reminding me more and more of my mom which doesn’t help. all he does is criticize and lecture me…

Was I groomed at 15? — I am 33F This is a story from the time I was 14/15 and was enrolled to go to a coaching centre for mathematics tuitions The maths tutor (35M) was very charming and someone every student seemed to lo…

Reality transurfing is a bunch of balls. Some idiot says stuff using complex modern language and people believe it without thinking because they are addicted to things being complex. Posm is very s…

>power of the subconsious mind say people get result in one month two month but and me i never use it! ​ Your father is right. You are an idiot.

Unbelievable that you are tryin to diss neville, i never thought i would see haters towards him, while he was tryin to help people than you got idiots like moonlightconcerto , maybe you should wake up…

I'm an idiot please disregard my statement

Hey, I am an overconfident twat that lacks any real creativity. I tend to just jump in on anything to feel included . Sometimes it's confusing cause I don't even understand what I'm trying to shit on.…

Sad how many people here basically don't give a shit about anything other than their lil dopamine hit. I shouldn't be shocked the guys that usually don't give a fuck about anything as long as there's …

>You sound like an idiot. And you shall be treated like one.

Absolutely wrong name for that sub. I read a few random posts with comments and what do we have here: affirmations, sublimals, self-love and mental diet.  So they are not criticizing Neville's teach…

Sure. Just edit out all criticisms of the loapornstars and their lies and propagandist tactics. Also any criticisms of the loa communities and their idiot members. We're all painfully familiar with …

Thank you. I will ask the op to insert these links into her other post. They are a good addenda and are a beneficial part of the record. We may make her post a part of our index as well. It is a very…

This is a very silly reply. Any idiot knows that faith is essential (and unwavering faith is not, just 51% sunconscious faith vs 49% subsconsious unbelief) to LOB success. That is not the point of t…

Are we.. the same person? Hah I read this and honestly could have wrote this myself. I can’t help.. I can only severely relate. Hang in there. The thread I’m hanging on by is fraying and there’s someo…

Thank you for sharing this. I'm happy you're learning and improving.  I messed up and have too much space. Because he was used to me being the one to reach out and instigate and start the conversation…

Hey. There's a lot there. It sounds like you just want more connection with your partner and also to know that they aren't going away. If the digital self harm is making you feel worse, perhaps try no…

Stuck around birth family for three days, came away with loads of goodies of course but at the expense of my sanity. Holidays are superficial commericalized bull, people are stupid, unhealed careg…

Honestly? I hope it’s just a memory distortion and, in a way, fear of intimacy and a coping mechanism for perfectionism. (“I’m not perfect and she loves me? Something must be wrong…”). And the avoidin…

Guy in tech here, just piping in to say this guy's an idiot on multiple levels. Obviously he's factually wrong, but beyond that it shows he's overconfident in his ignorance. Honestly, even implying th…

Leave. This guy seems to have avoidant attachment or he doesn’t love you and you should leave anyway. Why waste your time with this idiot? He’s playing around with you.

Not really. It’s all little customized inside joke things. I’m an idiot for the effort 😭

Spent the day with two (similarly single) friends (31M and 42F). The topic of dating came up. I know both them are actively dating (or try to, at least), with similar difficulty as me. We occasionally…

I'm at my wit end with the misrepresentation and villainisation of avoidant people. My current tiktok feed is sometimes suggesting an annoying idiot who "found" the solution to make avoidant love you,…

I feel like an idiot for even asking, but I've only ever been in relationships that started online. I \[33M\] have a former coworker \[\~30F\] that I've liked for a while, but thought she wasn't inter…

Probably gonna get downvoted to hell but here it goes.  Went on a date today with this lady. It was decent,  but I cant shake the feeling that she is trans? I kept thinking about it over in my head …

It is kinda hard to get your stuff back if someone is ghosting you, unless you go to their house, knock on their door and ask. And that would probably be major drama, not closure, just emotional pai…

> Idk if I'd compare real life to a dating app designed to limit men's options and keep their match rate artificially low This is not correct. The main factors limiting men's options are men themselv…

hii for context we are both 18 basically my bf and i have been dating for three months, we talked for a month before that. when we were talking we would have actual conversations, he would initiate t…

Mr. No texts, texted me a little throughout the early week and then disappeared over the weekend. Only to surface Monday morning. Dude thinks I'm an idiot.

I think some of our frequent flyers are just bad fanfic writers practicing characterization. Maybe even training an LLM for it. When I first joined this sub I got roped into a conversation with the …

Had an amazing second date tonight, realllly good food at a Thai restaurant and fun deep conversations. When I said goodbye we hugged, then I started to lean in and she met me and we kissed. She said …

Resentment is a great term! I did unload my feelings at some point. A few weekends ago, I remember feeling like an idiot sitting on his uncomfortable couch watching television on a Saturday. He even …

I feel ridiculous even writing this. Posting for help. I’m 37 and generally have my life together. I have a solid career, kids, responsibilities, the whole thing. I’m not someone who falls apart easi…

Look, I probably wouldn't feel comfortable in a princess costume and would have some feelings about being made to attend this, but I would never ever yuck someone else's yum. Your boyfriend is an idi…

https://old.reddit.com/r/asianamerican/comments/1rjeu5m/in_alysa_liu_and_eileen_gu_china_and_america_see/o8czbzp/ aren’t you that idiot who’s shitting on Eileen nonstop for “siding with the wrong cou…

I’m so sorry. You’re not being entitled, you’re grieving the normal loving parents you should have had. It’s really hard, especially when they’re still there so the grief gets all tangled up. I know …

First of all: Good that you got tested. Your bf should too :) People saying eww and other stupid responses are idiots who contribute to stigmatising STDs. It’s great you told him directly and I can …

I’ve got to the point I just want to delete Reddit now. Over and over this topic comes up and the same misinformation predominates… what can you do? I give up. All I’m doing is talking to bots and idi…

JFGI, idiot. They've been conducting testing on the efficacy of antibiotics, in that case, Azithromycin.

You're an idiot, grow up

Your girl is a cheater and now on a separation trial seeing if her and this guy will work out. Once it doesn't she'll realize that you're good enough and come running back. She thinks you're an idiot …

I only got attention when I was in trouble for idiotic things...and since I'm an only it was ALL the time. Free parenting lesson: Never fucking take your kids door off for something like 4 items of cl…

You don’t sound like you admire your bf. It doesn’t sound like you should admire your bf. You can probably do better, than being in a relationship with an idiot who makes you feel jealous of an ai cha…

OMG he's an idiot

Having sex with multiple people without a condom speaks volumes. He’s an idiot. Not to mention you’re almost 30.

she'll reach out to check in somehow at some point. my guy, literally do nothing and focus on staying and keeping yourself in motion. my domestic ex of 3 years didn't reach out until a year later. i j…

N-Parents love to project their insecurities onto their kids. DO NOT LISTEN TO YOUR DAD. You keep doing you, keep doing your best, and get out as soon as you can. Stay safe and ignore your dad's idiot…

what you need to do is, when he's not looking, open up his phone and open up the settings on chat GPT, where you can essentially give your bot a personality and a thought process and other details abo…

Yeah it really means a lot to me to hear that my dad's comments are just idiotic and I shouldn't listen to them. Thank you so much. 💗

You can't get off the internet nowadays. Its idiotic to even suggest that. Its impossible for me to get off the internet as 90% of the people in my ignorant baptist state hate me because of who i am. …

Also, feel like I’m getting played by a man I know on a professional level. I can’t tell. I feel like an idiot sometimes

Most understood what you meant but wanted to purposefully take it out of context and deviate the discussion to make it about broad wording instead of the subject you mentioned. They felt personally af…