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the narcissist catchphrase bingo list

the narcissist catchphrase bingo list — edit 1: jesus christ my initial 32 I wrote already look like they arent a lot lmao (the comments in total added 45 UNIQUE PHRASES HOLY JESUS) , okay heres the updated list (most of the updates will be…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost3/24/2026
What Happened?

What Happened? — Just looking to gather perspective from someone else. I (M34) matched with someone (F36) on Hinge back in December. Got along really well and had two dates in January, which went really well. We kiss…

r/datingoverthirtypost3/26/2026
My boyfriend just abruptly did a 180 in less than a day and has become cold, cruel and heartless. I’m feeling lost and devastated.

My boyfriend just abruptly did a 180 in less than a day and has become cold, cruel and heartless. I’m feeling lost and devastated. — TL;DR our relationship wasn’t perfect but things started getting way better. Literally out of no where he just switched up and has become a jerk and he goes from saying it has nothing to do with me to…

r/relationshipspost4/5/2026
Someone Please Help Me.

Someone Please Help Me. — So my engagement with my ex-fiance ended after 9 months. I’m an anxious attached person. I will admit I created a push-pull dynamic for my partner towards the middle of our relationship when arguments…

r/BreakUpspost4/7/2026
After 4 years of being w/ my highschool sweetheart who went to the military, he cheated.

After 4 years of being w/ my highschool sweetheart who went to the military, he cheated. — I can’t get the thought out of my mind. everything was going perfect and then he left I never had major issues in my relationship and everyone was shocked; he was never this type of guy, it’s like he …

r/survivinginfidelitypost4/7/2026
Guilt of a partner not moving on

Guilt of a partner not moving on — After we separated, my partner had a revelation, realised they were wrong and vowed to work on it. It was quite a big confession honestly. complete 180. And now it feels like it's on ME to now decide…

r/Divorcepost4/8/2026
It hurts

It hurts — I was a bad boyfriend, I I didn’t show affection well, nor did I make her feel loved. Currently working on why, cause I did/do love her. I highlighted her negatives while not acknowledging her positiv…

r/BreakUpspost4/11/2026
Leaving the family business: I’m a high-level professional, but working for my parent makes me feel 14 again.

Leaving the family business: I’m a high-level professional, but working for my parent makes me feel 14 again. — I spent nearly a decade in high-pressure, corporate environments in a major city. I’m used to intense expectations and difficult personalities; hard work has never been the issue. About a year ago, I …

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/13/2026
The NO BS Guide on Winning Your Ex Back!

Can’t believe i am replying to this after a 4 week fling and my SA did a 180. Connection felt real but was way too fast (Red flag). Trying to come up with ways to continue were just ploys to avoid f…

r/ExNoContactcomment3/7/2023
Law of Belief - Relationships

That makes a lot of sense. If it causes too much inner struggle or turmoil then it might be best to let go and try a different approach. Such as for people in a difficult work environment they might h…

r/JosephMurphycomment9/13/2025
My husband (36M) told me (33F) that I don’t deserve love until I’m 140lbs again?

This is awful! I’m so sorry you’re going through this! I’m also normally 140 pounds but my recent pregnancy left me at about 180. I already struggle really badly with self esteem and felt really guilt…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/12/2026
My (F28) partner (M28) gave me an ultimatum: him or my birds. Idk what to do

My partner and I have had many difficult issues, but the one thing I can say is that he would never ask me to rehome an animal. We had kids and discussed how we would need to find a 2 flat if the kids…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/13/2026
32 years of marriage, but I'm still unsettled by an affair from 2006. Is it too late to ask for the truth?

It seems quite obvious her therapist gave her the idea of shelving the affair. Not all therapists are good at their job and who knows what your wife may have told the therapist. Likely some version o…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/14/2026
My ex wife changed after the divorce and I don’t want her back but I am angry

I sacrificed a lot of my happiness, money, time, and career plans to tend to my ex husband and his problems and he just tore me down, didn’t reciprocate, and verbally and emotionally abused me. When…

r/Divorcecomment3/16/2026
Anyone Ever Just Start Hitting Them Back?

There was the case in china where [10 year old boy accidently killed his grandma] (https://www.yahoo.com/news/10-old-boy-arrested-china-223548180.html) who was beating him. Videos: [1](https://www.in…

r/AsianParentStoriescomment3/18/2026
How do I (F26) talk to my partner (M33) about casual misogyny?

As a woman I kind of get where he’s coming from. I always find it shocking how different men are when they are together with no women in the room. I work with some men that are total jerks but when …

r/relationship_advicecomment3/19/2026
She admits the lies and secrecy, but still denies anything physical

No reconciling without true remorse. True remorse tells the truth, holding nothing back. She is not remorseful. Along with remorse there has to NO CONTACT WITH AFFAIR PARTNER OF ANY SORT. There is no…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/24/2026
What Happened?

All posts are manually reviewed before being approved for posting. This usually takes less than an hour, though it can take longer depending on moderator availability. While you wait for your post to …

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/26/2026
Why are koreans so class/status conscious?

I am 2nd gen in my 40s and this is a really sore spot for me too. And why is it always church that brings out the worst in people?? My parents explained that there was such an intensity and pride to …

r/AsianAmericancomment3/29/2026
The Public's Opinion on WMAFs has done a 180 in the last 5 years

I wouldnt say 180. It think general opinion was always against WMAF but liberal establishment wanted to shame / blame AM for ALL criticism. Now AM dont talk about it, but BM interesting have ran …

r/AsianMasculinitycomment3/29/2026
The Public's Opinion on WMAFs has done a 180 in the last 5 years

I agree with your last comment, things are even crazier on Tiktok and now recently, Instagram. When it's WMAF couple posting a Tiktok, the comment section is pretty brutal. It's mostly oxford study o…

r/AsianMasculinitycomment3/30/2026
Has ur ex ever broken no contact after saying they were done with u?

It’s weird cuz I always thought he was anxious attachment. When we dated he was super clingy but after he realized he wanted to break up it was a complete 180. Super avoidant and cold that I couldn’t …

r/BreakUpscomment4/5/2026
my gf (24F) wants me (25M) to go into our first home purchase but won't define her financial contribution, wants shared ownership and is thinking about breaking up with me because I don't have a "provider" mentality

“Faith” is how your GF has 0 savings in 3 years with no real financial responsibility. Now she’s got faith you’ll keep supporting her and buy the house and she’s “determined” to make it happen because…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/6/2026
r/relationship_advicecomment4/6/2026
Anyone with severe symptoms considered suicide and then things actually got better?

Sorry that things are really difficult right now. In high school I considered suicide, note, and everything. I even knew when I was going to, I just stopped before doing it. I did again at 22 when I …

r/CPTSDcomment4/7/2026
My husband left but wants a second chance…

It was so traumatic. And now I have whiplash from the 180. I don’t even know how I feel right now. I’m scared.

r/Divorcecomment4/8/2026
How do I (F24) nip my boyfriend’s (M26) weaponized incompetence in the bud?

Yes, it'll be their view of "men's work" from their family, friends, wider society. Mummy's boys definitely do this alot, but it's not just down to the mum. Usually single mothers actually raise boy…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/9/2026
A question for the dumpees

What is up with these emotionally immature men, with anxiety and are avoiding any real relationships?? Once it starts getting real they bail and say we deserve something better.. I wanna grab them by …

r/BreakUpscomment4/10/2026
My (28F) boyfriend (33M) broke up with me while pregnant

Right that is so true. I think it’s hard for me to grasp because he did a complete 180. He used to be caring and kind and wanted to be with me everyday. I truly have no idea how he could switch up lik…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/10/2026
POC solidarity as an Asian

I want to acknowledge first before I write this and I would like to hear your response to my answers but I’m very glad you brought all of this up. Personally in truth, I we must face the fact that in…

r/AsianAmericancomment4/10/2026