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what do orbs look like? — hello all! ive been an experiencer for a long time and had several contacts with nhi within my mind and dreams. previous to this ive only had one f2f where i saw nothing but experienced an intense act…
Looking for marketing strategy tips for our startup(I will not promote) — Hey all, My friends and I are currently building a startup. We’re in the preparation phase now and plan to go live in about 3 months. While we’re handling the operational and technical side, we’r…
Looking for marketing strategy tips for our startup — Hey all, My friends and I are currently building a startup. We’re in the preparation phase now and plan to go live in about 3 months. While we’re handling the operational and technical side, we’r…
Looking for marketing strategy tips for our startup — Hey all, My friends and I are currently building a startup. We’re in the preparation phase now and plan to go live in about 3 months. While we’re handling the operational and technical side, we’r…
Success Story: FA/Disorganized Attachment Healing Roadmap, Resource Recommendations — **Hello, fellow Fearful Avoidants! The below post has grown out of almost 3 years of research and healing this attachment style, which in my case was coupled with Relationship OCD (ROCD). ROCD is a vi…
Jupiter in Aquarius and the impersonal nature of this placement — This is one placement I genuinely struggle to fully understand. Jupiter, as a principle, feels conceptually misaligned with Aquarius and its traits. The expansive, benefic, growth oriented nature of J…
Why Being Ok With Not Having Your Desire Manifests It Faster — It’s a very contradictory thing in manifesting where you desire something, but you’re told to let it go and not care about whether or not you have it (because in 4D you already have it). But let’s fo…
Has anybody found awareness to be functionally unhelpful? — As I spend more time actively aware of the present I've become quite successful at recognizing, acknowledging, and not judging my emotions as they arise in me. I don't find that this helps them pass h…
I don't know much about anything but i feel energies physically what does it mean? — I've always even as a child felt other people energy fields physically, like I can feel the energy that is being projected towards me and it's almost tangible to me. It's even more evident to me if i'…
A very random accidental manifestation — Yesterday I was reminiscing upon my husband's proposal to me (which happened 3 years ago). I wasn't trying to manifest anything, just for some reason imagined telling somebody about it. This morning v…
How Neville Manifested His Marriage - Do Not Meddle In The Middle. — **For Those Who Need...** From Neville's Audio Lecture. The verbatim from Neville's Lecture (*Updated*) : *“When I decided to marry the lady who now bears my name I applied this principle. At the t…
I Communicated With the Moon — I'm searching for some anecdotal evidence of anyone else who's seen 'the eye of the moon' on mushrooms, but I can't find anything so I'll post my experience here. When I was tripping, I laid outside o…
32 years old, 4.5 years into the healing journey I've literally JUST realized I was sheltered — I can't believe this has only just hit me. I'm 32 years of age. THIRTY-TWO! It's literally just in the past hour hit me that I was extremely sheltered growing up and it's lead to me lacking the skills…
How Do I Stop Getting Over Excited? — My questions is basically exactly what the title says; how do I stop getting over excited? I’ve had a lot of success with methods like WILD up until actually seeing hypnogogic hallucinations. As soon…
How do you recall your experience? — I've seen two UAP in my life. Both occurred within a year of one another but I haven't seen anything since. That's about as tangible an experience that I've had. (I've also had sleep paralysis twice i…
Frecuency shift teory (Anyone who wants to help me complete them or come up with new questions is welcome.) — I’m new to making theories, and I’d be happy if anyone wants to help me expand or refine this one( by the way, i haven't shifted yet) Frequency and Radio: We are like radios that transmit and receiv…
How do I move past this? — I (33F) have had an on/off situationship with “Mark” (39M) since 2020. We met at the gym, became close friends, then segued into hooking up. We had an immediate connection and the chemistry between us…
How do I want to get better? — I've been on so many different meds and to several different therapists but I've only gotten worse, I've been able to understand my depression and trauma more but I have not been able to feel okay at …
I feel like I'll never be able to live normally after being cheated on. — I need some support. I(21F)'ve been with my boyfriend(26M)for a year and a half and we planned future together. More than two months ago I had the opportunity to go through his phone after big fight.…
Beginning the process of escaping my controlling parents. I’ve never felt more isolated in my life. — I’ve posted here months ago up until now: no updates because there weren’t any to note. I guess this is more of a vent than anything, but it would be nice to hear if anyone has felt similarly while le…
Had first breakup — It's the second night of my first breakup. We were in a 3-going-on-4 year relationship and it's harder to bare than I ever imagined it could be. Before I M29 met her F26 my life was miserable, lonely…
Realizing you can't remember anything? — If you ever asked me\[M21\] to recount details of my childhood or even things is recent memory like last year, I'd be hard be hard pressed to give much of an answer aside from maybe a few memorable mo…
what if i was the narc between us and had it all wrong? how can i tell? — he was definitely avoidant, never took accountability, and would disappear, and give the silent treatment but i was the one that would chase, bombard his phone with calls and texts, go around his bloc…
Minor rant: has anyone noticed hypocrisy in their parents' words, actions, and behaviors? — As I keep dwelling more on my crazy past, more and more dramatic events keep resurfacing. I notice that my parents are not consistent with their dramatic statements and actions. For instance, I have m…
Creo que soy codependiente — Caí en cuenta de eso porque he tenido pensamientos obsesivos con una persona a la cual, curiosamente, ni siquiera conozco en persona. Hace algunos meses le conocí, por discord gracias a una amiga, me…
Can’t stop blaming myself — Im starting emdr tomorrow from the recommendation of my doctor but I feel like nothing I’ve ever dealt with was even ”traumatic”. I feel so stupid even using that word because my parents never hit me …
Current Situation (SP) - Open to any help or advice or general discussion — Wanted to share my story with the community and see what people have to say about my situation - maybe it'll help some others going through something similar. A few months ago, I went through a break…
I grew up in a family where my worth was tied to the grade I used to bring which is a trauma experience — I grew up in an environment where my worth was strictly tied to my academic success and how useful I was. If I wasn't getting straight As or achieving something tangible, I was basically invisible (or…
Yellow Peril Racial Profiling — Regardless of how you feel about North Koreans this is straight up deranged behavior. It's like people spamming Tienanmen Square or Winnie the Pooh whenever they come across someone they believe is Ch…
For anyone working in tech right now, get ready to deal with more bullshit — Regardless of how you feel about North Koreans this is straight up deranged behavior. It's like people spamming Tienanmen Square or Winnie the Pooh whenever they come across someone they believe is Ch…
I (19F) can't define my feelings for my fwb (18F) — I am at college and me and this girl became friends and basically yadda yadda we decided we like making out. So we have this for a while but we never actually "do it" mainly because i was too anxious …
Unwanted lucid dream? — Hey all, just hoping for some advice please. I’ve had what could only be described as the weirdest night’s sleep(?) of my life. Every time I tried falling asleep and ended up feeling my body driftin…
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide — This post contains guides, FAQs and the fundamentals that are suitable for both beginners and experienced members. Explore the links, videos, Astral Projection stories from experienced community membe…
Hi! So I’m pretty new to this sub and currently trying to read up and decide what I think about AP. For a long time, I’ve believed that reality is a construct in the mind, or just a result of what our…
>you said that lucid dreaming is an internal experience while AP is a real and tangible one I said this, however that is not the total truth - the opposite can also be true, check out the video under…
I’ll take a crack at it Point 1: The answer is sm vs cm thought. Daydreaming is not focused with intent, the mind often wonders and you still feel it’s not true in the end or with emotions that are …
It's more common than you think. I'm pretty sure it's likely someone else in your family has it too. However it is possible that it is just your SM revealing patterns you subconsciously were seeing …
There's all sorts of reasons why it might take that long, though I'd echo that 24 hours doesn't seem that long to me considering their scale of operations. Ignoring all of the technical side of thin…
Umm.. I think your % is off and there are way more lurkers here and some real people out there. I thought about doing posts, a podcast, or a book as an entrepreneur about how hard it was for years ru…
I guess I’ll find out. I’m anxiously attached and my boyfriend is an avoidant but he had zero knowledge of attachment styles prior, so he just feels bad rn for knowing a tangible reason for his action…
What I've done after being discarded by an avoidant was literally change up my requirements for the sort of man I'm looking for. My ex had a brilliant mind, but also deep insecurities, anxiety, childh…
Im working through my avoidance in therapy too and it looks very similar to you what you described. I noticed that if I’m intentional and confronting my avoidant tendencies with one friend or one rela…
My ex dumped me in a cruel-hearted way on September 8 (I’ve written a ton about it in comments and posts in my history if you’re interested), texted me one week later with a chatGPT-written non-apolog…
I'm glad you appreciated it. I totally agree with you, boundaries that don't center around body autonomy or things like that should be allowed to be questioned and negotiable, especially when they're …
> reach across the table I refuse to sit across from someone on a first date because I feel like having a table between us already makes the vibe feel like an interview. Are you going to places with …
Amen brother, you can have these beautiful moments and days in your life that almost feel wasted or intangible because you didn't share it with someone. When it comes to crawling out of dark places …
i was actually thinking about this the other day and i think a lot of it comes down to reddit's particular formatting, although i do think it's pretty widespread all throughout the community, you are …
This is an extremely fake post. Why is op so hesitant to do anything? Any normal person in this situation would actively pursue tangible options and report this harassment to the cops
Whether you’re looking at red flags or not, you have so many fundamental concerns that you either have to deal with those or settle for the fact that this is a temporary relationship. “I love him. He…
Thanks for your response. You're right that if our relationship continues to progress and deepen emotionally, it might not feel as "stuck" as I'm imagining it will when holding off on practical things…
Thank you. Expressing myself more concisely and with more specificity seems to be a skill I need to work on. From another reply: My reason is basically that I need to be able to trust him to protect…
> My reason is basically that I need to be able to trust him to protect himself from stresses in his life better. Why does he need to do this, and why are you basing your life choices around that? …
Yes I guess you're right🫶🏾. The sessions revealed that yes he did have a lot of resentment towards me even though i worked fulltime for five years and provided for both of us while he was too depr…
This is incredible, thanks for sharing OP. And yes I do believe you and want to do the same re a few things. My issue is, the moment I try to revise, doubt kicks in- there is a subconscious/ unconsc…
Fuck em. Just fake a laugh and carry on. I've recently gotten my vices to a balanced place and thankfully most people are good about me turning down their nice offers for nice things. Just try to ign…
Anyone asking this question is a clear give away that they haven't taken a single step in practicing. Though if someone asked have you found success in getting big things then thats a good starting p…
My condolences. I hope you feel better soon. I hope you do achieve that experience as well where we realize nobody is really gone. I seek to achieve that, so far I haven't made tangible progress, bu…
Back when I was able to afford therapy, I found out it helped me the least (regardless of trying out different ones). Of course that's just me. I'd choose spending money on a tangible thing to fix a b…
Over-analyzing: Virgo rising- absolutely the sign of getting lost in details and analysis paralysis Saturn is the sign of delay and late bloomer-ing, and the apex of a T-square. The opposition in the…
I will concede your point if you can point out what tangible real change John Liu Fugh has accomplished for Asian Americans' lives
Yeah I’ll bet anything that’s the root of the issue then. Maybe talk to his parents and see if they can mediate a family sit down to discuss your finances. It’s up to you how much you want to bring hi…
i absolutely went through the same thing. COVID was my tangible proof that what is normal and peaceful for me causes anguish in most others. the big moment was when people around me would openly gripe…
This exchange is actually very healthy. You shifted from panic to planning. That’s the real upgrade. You didn’t double down on “luck,” you redirected into strategy. That’s maturity and long term thin…
Introspection is a really mindful and healthy way to deal with the loss and grief that comes with divorce. I journal my perspective, often, it just helps to get it out. Usually once I’ve gone through …
Recently I was frustrated with myself because a guy friend who I met on a language learning app and I ended up meeting in person back in January after messaging intermittently majority of last year. W…
It is extremely unconventional from the pov of your parents' generation esp where the woman is just supposed to embrace pregnancy and labour and childbearing for the immense joy of it all. It is uncon…
My two cents, her body will go through a lot of changes that are permanent every time she has a child. It shouldn’t, but it will affect her work and her advancement, nothing against you or your contri…
You're right that they could express that verbally. But some people like giving and receiving tangible tokens of appreciation, even if they don't know the person well yet. That's not "cringe." It's ju…
One thing worth looking at is the empty leg of your T-square. With the tension running along the 11H-5H axis and funneling into Mars in the 2nd, the release point sits opposite Mars around the 8th hou…
Am I right in assuming that this is a matter of honoring her unpaid labor as a mom with tangible value? Because if so, I just want to applaud you.
Lots of being comfortable and happy with yourself. I’m only choosing a new partner if they improve my life in a real and tangible way. Lots of therapy, workshops, books, and life experience too.
It’s the same on Instagram with people teaching you how to gain followers. They only gain followers by doing that. Absolute rubbish. Zero tangible value for the community.
Everyone else has the misogyny aspect covered pretty well, so all I’m going to add is that you can’t change someone who doesn’t want to change and doesn’t see any issue with their beliefs/behavior etc…
I feel like on average women vilify behavior much harder than men. Even in my bad relationships unless there was tangible concrete ABUSE I still look back on my previous relationships and admire what…
4 years ago I had a Nde and was in a coma for a total of 10 earth days - Completely out of body, yet tethered to lower realms which governed my fate and resembled my own personal hell. In these lower …
Saturn in any house isn’t inherently ‘bad’ or ‘unlucky’. People have been taught (likely due to how things were phrased in the past) that Saturn is a horrible, negative planet and it only brings terri…
Start to care about tangible and meaningful things. Make art, garden, care for others. Read more, scroll less.
It’s novel worthy honestly. I’ve never heard of a divorce nor have any of my friends seen a fall out this explosive, this extreme and nonsensical. I guess as simply as possible without writing tha…
Ditto to others here that everything in astro can refer to inner landscape and/or outer reality. Generally this is especially true of transits, which often manifest as internal-only (much to the chagr…
Sounds like you prioritized your “boxes” to check over your partner - I’m not saying your intentions weren’t good, but I think men often don’t realize the effort that women put in to maintain the emot…
I am not in any way doing that. There is no tangible evidence that Aphantasia helps you move past trauma faster. Source - I have Aphantasia. Don't shoot the messenger, I'm not trying to start anythin…
You’re not doing anything wrong. You’re getting your target demo of right on paper, but the apps can’t filter for the intangibles, chemistry, etc. The only thing I’d investigate is maybe trying for mo…
If you worry that you would close other doors when you narrow it down, think of it this way. If you have found something that you're truly talented in and identify yourself as that person, you also op…