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Initiatory Numinous Experience — I have been putting writing about this off for 11 years now. It was October of 2015; a lot of energetics were going on in and around me all at once. I don't know how to structure this entry/experience…
stopped trying to "fix" my adhd and started doing this instead — If someone is in a wheelchair, and they encounters stairs, they aren’t just gonna try their best to get down the stairs, they’re going to use the ramp or elevator. why should we keep trying to do thin…
You need to sit down and imagine NOW! — I get a good amount of DM's from SP posts/comments I've made complaining about their SP and how their SP "is" (as if it is some immutable characteristic). Do you see what you are doing?! You are just…
I (F24) cannot sleep when I’m with my boyfriend (M29) because he snores. Fellow people who bear through this pain, or people who snore, help!!!! — Like the title says. I have slight misophonia and unfortunately my bf’s snores go under this cap. He falls asleep so much quicker than I do and snores so much. Is there a solution besides earplugs?? I…
How to stop thinking I’m better than everyone! — I have a REALLY bad habit of always thinking I’m better than others. For example when I start a new hobby I think to my self “if I start this then I’ll be better then this person” and I hate this way …
What is going on here? — The crazy making had to stop! My narcissistic 83 year old mother has portrayed herself as a victim for as long as I can remember. She shows no empathy and if you tell her about your ailments, she alwa…
I can no longer trust people after what narc did to me — so basically I had the idea that writing in a diary would help me process the trauma narc gave me....boy was I wrong while it did help me write my emotions down, she took the opportunity every chance…
vent — Sometime last year, I asked my dad if we could talk about what he did. We went on the driveway. I told him that I hate him. He said, "You'll never find someone who loves you like we do." I yelled back…
How I Overcame Limerence — This is a story of how Limererence negatively affected me for years and how I overcame this madness. When I was 15, I fell in love with a women who was six years older than me. However , she rejecte…
'You can manifest ANYTHING ' but weight loss? YEAHH NO thats the limit — idk whats wrong with this sub.yall claim anything is possible , everything is just your own beleifs, your thoughts are your reality blah blah blah but weightloss is where they draw the line? all of s…
Once you pop, you can’t stop! I just saw a Morgan Jay clip randomly and pringles were involved lol
Stop! You do what you need to do for you! Who cares about him????
Oh my gosh, I relate so so so much!! People always wanted me, but not me—they just want my body. Sometimes I just felt like taking off a breast and offering it to them, saying, here you want it so bad…
Ok you need to stop!😂 that's exactly what I said to her. Can't wait to get to the bottom of this cause sometimes it gets exhausting being so self critical, and holding myself to such ludicrous standa…
I’ve had guys who will text me selfies with their kids and I’m like 🤮, please stop!
I will not chat for weeks on end with someone. I let it be known up front that I prefer to chat a bit, see if there's interest there, then plan to meet in person. I don't need elaborate first dates, b…
He will never stop! Ever!
People will do to you what you allow!! They will treat you how u allow them to! If u allow him to cheat which u have a few times than why would he stop?? He has no reason to do better this is no diffe…
I completely relate to you. On a recent budgetary cycle. I was short -$203. I said (my perception) how am I going to come up w/ $203. What did I do to incur $203 over my budget. I said to myself “S…
The golden rule, “treat others the way you want to be treated,” needs to be retired in favor of the platinum rule: “Treat others the way THEY want to be treated.” People use “well it wouldn’t bother…
So, my first husband. Ugh. I had "this feeling" but I was young and dumb and I couldn't put my finger on it. (Later a friend said, "that's enough. That feeling? That's so you need. You didn't need to …
Hello Flaky_Sort_34, It is truly inspiring to see your courage in maintaining the no-contact rule, even while wrestling with the tumultuous waves of emotions and memories that come along with it. It'…
It’s your aura getting stronger ;) Be prepared to start experiencing weird stuff and synchronicities non stop! 🤠
This is a really interesting technique that has worked for me multiple times. Basically you set an intention, but make sure it’s realistic – it can’t be that you want to win the lottery or something o…
This is a him problem, not a you problem. You can dress the way you like. He is in no position to tell you how to dress. And I promise you one thing: Today it's the way you dress. Once you change that…
Yeah, if you’re becoming anxious and reinforcing neediness, stop! There’s a wisdom in us that is, well… very wise, and often sees deeper that the ‘answers’ us as identities seek out. If something feel…
Absolutely, I have regrets that things don’t work out and usually there’s regrets too because I try to see things from BOTH our sides in the breakup. Not many people do this. I grieved deeply and pa…
Calling every scream 'abuse' ignores context, culture, and normal human imperfection. It just makes parents defensive instead of motivated to improve. Yelling isn't great parenting, but let's not stre…
You don't need to check in with him if he got the breakup message. Just stop! It's over. You have ended it. Delete his number.
"We had agreed that I would be the one to reach back out when I was comfortable with doing so..." - that's an important piece of information. He just communicated that his own need for information or …
Absolutely do not stop!
Part of you obviously wished for this to happen. You haven't finished grieving, because you deliberately left the door open for him. In your heart, you always hoped he would come back and somehow thin…
There's a couple of options. 1)Talk to him properly about it. Sit him down and say you're getting fed up with his weaponised incompetence and find it really disrespectful when he plays dumb about no…
She is a serial cheater and wont stop! Quit torturing yourself and end your farce of a marriage!