he needs help

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My minds made, again — I have been married for 7 years and it has always been toxic and abusive. We had a child young (18) and I married her for what I wanted ti be the right reason. Right after our child I joined the milit…

My gf [18F] sort of cheated on me [19 M] and now I don't know what to do with my feelings even tho I can't break-up. We have been together for 3 years. She doesn't seem to realise the depth of my trust breach.How do I tell her to resolve my trust back? — So for a broader context and the complete story you can read my previous [Post](https://www.reddit.com/r/Advice/comments/1q74nwz/my_long_distance_girlfriend_might_be_cheating_on/?utm_source=share&utm_…

*Should I text her or stay silent? Don’t want to restart hope or regret not trying.* I (male) am really confused about a girl and could use some clear advice. Around 2 months ago, I confessed to a …

He is not a good partner and father though. He has a disease. He needs help. Only he can decide to get the help.

Maybe he had some kind of mental breakdown and is unaware that he is doing this? Ask him to go to police to report it and watch his reaction. According to his reaction you’ll see if he needs help or h…

It does not sound like OP’s family give a single fuck about her. Have they even asked how she’s doing without a job? If she needs help?

My husband passed away at 37 (a month after our wedding) because of liver failure. He fainted, his red blood cell count was at like 2, no clotting factors, among other things, because your liver helps…

You win this thread. Just because he’s accusing you, doesn’t mean you’re the one with the problem. He needs help. You should offer it and if he doesn’t want help you should consider finding a more pos…

My brother is schizophrenic. He’s 22. This could be really dangerous. He needs help very badly and you really aren’t safe right now.

1. Tell him he needs help, immediately. Do it in public if you don’t feel safe doing it in private. 2. If he won’t take himself to the hospital immediately then you need to move out, today. He’s …

Are you living together? You need to get out. He might end up harming you physically, but your partner saying he's going to behead you is already doing harm. This is not something most people can hand…

This sounds ***bad***. Get away as far as you can, he needs help that you can't give. Updateme

This. She needs help to understand why she feels she needs it, and also why she felt breaking his financial trust was okay.

My wife likes this stuff from time to time, but she’s 70 years old. Somebody that needs to do this while in their 20s either has some severe facial issues or some severe psychological issues that make…

There is no way. Even at my peak of gooning in my teenage years I think 4 in one day was my max and I was destroyed for days after. This is either a lie or he needs help.

It's not an excuse, but ADHD is more than just "has trouble sticking to plans." People with ADHD get overwhelmed very easily, and generally need more uninterrupted down time than most others. They als…

OP please take some advice from the comments. He needs help and your life may be in danger. It sucks and hurts but you need to put your personally safety first and then maybe you can try to help him f…

I was the dumper. My message is about to go all over the place. After I broke up with her I learned about attachment styles. I realized we were in a typical anxious-avoidant relationship and we were c…

First of all, please try not to shoulder any "blame" here. It's hard to not allow emotion to steer things, especially in a case like this one, but your mother will always be your mother and your fathe…

I honestly think this is the best thing to do to get your answer. If you do this and he doesn't escalate further, then it's some strange compulsion he needs help for. If he does escalate, then you kn…

I'm sorry but you need to give her the space to make her own bad decisions. You can be there for her when, not if, something happens and she needs help. Until then the best you can do is give them, an…

Tell the authorities where she lives. Show them evidence if you have it. She needs help. Do not let her/them guilt you into anything. It is a trap. Things will not be different.

Yeah he absolutely does have an eating disorder. Frankly, he needs help. He's trying to give you one too. Please be careful.

I already take care of my widowed mother when she needs help with that sort of thing, including recovering from surgeries. I have a hard time imagining anything less romantic than dating a woman looki…

You need to get away from this girl as quickly and as safely as possible. Have you ever recorded her acting that way? Has anyone else ever witnessed her behavior? Please tell me you saved the unhinged…

I would report her to the RA in her dorm, and in your dorm. Break up in a public place, then block on everything. You can make a police report with the campus police and the regular police. She sounds…

I mean I agree she needs help. But OP already feels emotionally drained because of this girl, he might not want to have a "grand finale" with her in public. And you're assuming that if she goes a bit …

Oof, she's codependent. Doesn't she also have her own friends she would like to spend time with. The world isn't just you two and you already know that. Seems she needs help understanding that you are…

She needs help. You need to stop giving in to everything she says. She needs to figure out how to be alone. Turn off your phone. And like someone else said alert a friend you’re going to break up with…

1) Your gf has mental issues. 2) She needs help. 3) You are not going to "fix" her on your own. A. Talk to your RA and ask for services available to students B. Take her to the colle…

You will never do enough for her and will eventually feel very resentful. You need a balanced life. She seems to have some Cluster B traits. If it doesn't revolve around her she feels rejected. She us…

Sounds like she’s severely neurodivergent/mentally ill. I have AuDHD as well as basically a whole collection of mental illnesses including BPD and bipolar and have been like this in the past but got h…

Sounds like she’s got Tri Polar!! Sorry but SHE needs to see someone and that isn’t on you! I’m surprised her parents didn’t put her in counseling or have her on a mood stabilizer LONG before now. Th…

Stop isolating yourself from your friends, and routines with these friends Stop accommodating her madness by working from home, if you can't go out to do your job every day, you need to realize somet…

Sometimes you just have to walk away. You are actually in an emotionally abusive relationship. She is abusing you. Firmly tell her to get help. If she threatens to harm herself call her family and…

You need to cut ALL contact with her and her family. ALL. If she does try again or passes that is all on her. No amount of screaming, blames or attacks will change that fact. You might also look in…

How she lives with herself and if she needs help with that?

Sounds like he needs help. Why not say distance yourself from that guy, don’t put yourself in any vulnerable scenarios like that and do what you can to help or get him some help.

I'm the son of permanently unavailable father. He never spoke a word to me other than a direct order like: at this time - do this. Maybe you don't know what love looks like, and i don't know too, bu…

Two things are true: 1. She is an addict and she needs help. 2. That help does not have to come at YOUR expense. You clearly care about her, but it's time to accept that it's necessary to move on n…

She does not live with us, she lives in another city and my husband often visits her because she lives alone and there's no other family member that can help her with phone, bills, etc. (everyone else…

I think there is only one way this should be handled- Op needs to be supportive of his girlfriend and insists she seek therapy. If she was drunk, this is SA. Her going to a therapist will help clea…

I think there is only one way this should be handled- Op needs to be supportive of his girlfriend and insists she seek therapy. If she was drunk, this is SA. Her going to a therapist will help clear …

I think there is only one way this should be handled- Op needs to be supportive of his girlfriend and insists she seek therapy. If she was drunk, THIS IS SA. Her going to a therapist will help clear …

CHOOSING NOT TO FILE CHARGES DIRECTLY AFTER AN ASSAULT IS NOT INDICATION OF GUILT OR LYING! I was a victim of rape. Clear as day. No alcohol involved. No flirting no nothing. Just flat out attacked. …

Even if she's in psychosis, it is not for you to break her out of it. Pretend you're totally on her side and persuade her to make an appointment with obgyn to check the baby development, but only afte…

I really do hope the best for her and Ive tried in the past to ger her to see a professional if she truly has a problem but she got mad and told me that she doesn't like when people say she needs help…

Many people who need help get mad when they are told or encouraged to get help. Interesting that she said she gets mad when "people" tell her she needs help. Clearly you are not the only one who recog…

Im finding my ego and emotions are kind of playing a balancing act here, honestly. I will feel great, then feel guilty for feeling great and end right back on the floor. My intention was not to "disca…

She is clinically depressed! Don't you see that? She needs help not to be kicked to the curb.

This kind of a rapid switch is less like bipolar - which is typically marked cycles of mania and depression - and more like borderline personality disorder. There are a few others that it could fall u…

And that's totally ok. I can see that logic. For me, I'd consider it if it's not someone I work directly with and is literally equal to me. Some people won't. That's valid too. Just different boundari…