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You've Tried Manifesting Them Back Multiple Times - Here's Why It's Not Working — **"I've manifested my SP back multiple times but it never works. Now it just feels draining."** **You're not failing at manifestation.** **You're failing at creating coherent field states.** And th…
I successfully manifested my celebrity crush, but now something went wrong — Hey everyone 🥹 I already have experience with manifestation, and so far I’ve always gotten what I wanted. There’s this band I have loved all my life, and a few days ago I saw them live and actually…
‘Not having long-term friends is a red flag’ — I think this CAN be the case, but I honestly think people who have this generalised view have probably had a privileged upbringing and aren’t looking outside of the box. I used to have a busy social …
Saw her and felt nothing — 9 months out from separation. I am filing for divorce first week in July. I didn't want the divorce but I think I knew it was needed, even though it hurt. We went no contact because I was sure communi…
Helped and loved a girl who was forced in her past relationship. Now I am facing the consequences. — We were college mates, but didn't speak till the end of the 3rd year. And I replied to one of her stories on WhatsApp and that's how our conversation started. She used to tell me about her days, life …
I went through something so similar. I’m still in so much pain. Sending love.
Sending love to you. I recommend finding an attachment informed therapist and doing inner child work, that’s what really helped me, I also really like DBT and compassion focused healing. I talk to my …
I am in a situation that's very new post a 13-year relationship and post learning I have an anxious attachment style. I have been in therapy and that helps me identify when my anxious attachment is be…
❤️ I'm 34... I started getting a little nervous around 30. I feel like I'm out of the "omg calm down" range into the "yeah, you're right, this is cutting it a little close and definitely not the timel…
I can't imagine. Sending love.
I had something similar happen to me in December and it gave me a slight ick, tbh. Maybe because I’m a bit more private but sending lovely family snapshots seemed like a lot after only a first date an…
EXACTLY THIS. This is how I feel. Thank you. I’m so frustrated with myself but I just don’t want to get things back! I have no desire to! I dream of being independent and that’s so unfair on him but i…
It’s so true, we’ve had to be in survival mode and strong for so long. It’s hit me at certain times how horrific things were when I’ve actually had a therapist cry when telling her about my ‘childhood…
Hi, 3 month postpartum here. I am also 5’8” and when my husband and I met I was 160 and am now 170ish. On medication for OCD and have an IUD. So some physical similarities but wildly different situati…
Sending love, hope you figure it out soon ❤️
I’m 49 and I feel this to my core. My wife and I are getting a divorce and our hearts are heavy bc many of the same things. We love each other and love our family, but we are just different people. …
I read all of the things you mentioned. You will get through this. Let’s take it hour by hour. Day by day. Sending love
I had a similar experience to you. My mother owned a medical cosmetic business though, so she took me to her clinic and would laser the inside of my thighs to minimize the look of my stretch marks. I …
And, I’m so sorry to hear you’re doing it alone. Thank you for bringing your story to light and sharing. This discussion is sooo important. You deserve to feel supported and held. Sending love!!!!! (…
I’ve been through the struggle to eat/sleep multiple times after a break up. Sending love & support to anyone in the acute heartbreak phase ❤️
With love, if I may: this is victim-blaming and keeps you in the loop. Don’t ask yourself what’s wrong with you - your brain will find answers. Focus on what might be wrong with the one in front of yo…
I’m so sorry you’re going through all this. I just couldn’t imagine. I don’t know how old your kids are but just know you are not alone, you have your children, family, friends, and you have your Redd…
I feel this so hard. You tried your hardest to repair and reconcile, and he still cheated on you a second time after seeing your efforts. My WS kept cheating on me after I found out for about 6 week…
I can’t believe the similarities in our stories, but my husband had an affair for over two years with a coworker. I found out a year ago, and at that time, it had ended 9 years before. As in your case…
I'm so incredibly sorry you went through that. I hope you're in a better place now physically and mentally ❤️ sending love
oh absolutely. it's been here for 7,000+ years. and i do understand why you say that about the aztecs, trust me. but i also know the spanish colonizers doled out a lot of misinformation in their writi…
27M and also dealing with something like that. I am sorry that I couldn't help you but I am sure you will definitely get through this. Sending love and power to you.
Literally in the process of breaking up with my partner of 12 years (who I also live with and have pets with and our entire lives entwined basically), I FEEL you and it is just incredibly painful and …
I truly don’t have much to offer but to say that the fact that you are admitting this about yourself is a really great start and is actually healing for someone like me to read. The idea of a mom want…
Are you me? I did this exact sequence of events last year. Sending love ❤️ it’s still hard but it’s better than staying
I have a fixed grand cross. All the fixed divas raise your hands in the aiyerr. Sending love lol. Leo sun/merc, Scorpio mars, Taurus Jupiter/sat & Aqua Neptune and Uranus
I’m sorry I don’t have an answer but I’m sending love and support to you!! I really empathize with feeling good about it and believing for months and still not seeing results. Like how much more can…
I think writing this post and responding to questions about the experience is helping you handle it. From my read, and when all is said and done, it sounds like the person you thought was your best fr…
For me I found that once I worked on my self concept more money came into my life. I realised that my subconscious didn't feel worthy of having loads of money because it wasn't what I was used to, so …
You didn’t hijack at all! I’m so intrigued by others experiences with this dynamic, which is why I posted. Thank you for sharing 🥺 White trash sounds about right for an AP. Just trash in general. Che…
I was discarded and the break up was extremely out of no where, so I completely understand. I have been so focused on not internalizing the things he said to me. At some point we have to realize that …
Yes.. happened Feb 14 this year. “wake up!” in a computer-like voice about midnight. I went back to sleep after nothing else occurred, but then at 3am I suddenly woke up again and could see what tur…
I feel this so hard. People try to be like "oh but you're the common denominator so obviously you're the problematic one." But the truth is, if you've ever been trained to be small and compliant, fu…
I Hope you build the family you deserve. Sending love.
I’m so sorry, how are you doing now? I’ve had a lifetime of traumatic oppressive events and I know everyone wants to see justice for this psychopath, including me, and yes definitely report her, even …
It does hurt 😢 sending love to you friend.
This is so heartbreaking. I’m so sorry he said something so unkind about you. I think that he just revealed something about himself that you can’t ignore. He’s not as great as he seemed. If you were…
its sometimes the small things in life that give it more meaning and im so happuy ur still here with us i can relate to the excitemenet of various events that keeps me going stay strong brother, i…
Sending love, strength and peace ❤️
I think caveat to some other comments, while it is true that this has revealed is current thoughts on women and body image, the important thing to discvover is the 'current' part. You guys are at the…
YES literally thought I was having a double whammy seizure heart attack haha but you’re right, absolutely mental. Sending love your way I guess ❤️
That’s terrible, that’s so much to unpack. You were a good kid, sending love and healing your way
Sending love and hoping it gets better for all of us soon.
Maybe because you think she’s getting a version of him you always wanted and also that comparison? But it’s very clear he is trying to hurt you. He wants you to be his cake and he wants to eat it. Th…
I’m sorry 💔❤️🩹 sending love
Honestly it’s so unfair.. I feel you. Sending love and support. What kind of meds are helping if you don’t mind me asking?
I’m sorry you’re going through this and understand your feelings. Perimenopause is such a hard time and it’s really hard to be cast aside after getting through all the challenging years of raising kid…
First I want to say Thank you for putting my feelings into words cause I took this as a sign. Im halfway round the world on a little tiny island and im going thru the exact same thing. I find myself o…
I’m so sorry for all you’ve been through. Your body and brain must be absolutely exhausted. Your brain does such a weird thing where it compartmentalises death and processes it bit by bit and it takes…