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breakthrough trip & the bigger picture

breakthrough trip & the bigger picture — Hello, it's me again. I know that there are people here who enjoy reading my experiences so thus my posting. Obviously a disclaimer is this experience is under the influence of a psychadelic, but it t…

r/experiencerspost3/29/2026
UX Management

UX Management — For a long time I’ve been more interested in design over management. I’m sensing that’s starting change. I’m becoming more interested in a leadership role. Me: I’m a senior with 10 years of UX exper…

r/UXDesignpost5/7/2025
No I don’t want to be a medical doctor

No I don’t want to be a medical doctor — I am 23 fucking years old, I do not want to be doctor. I NEVER wanted to be a fucking doctor. I am so sick of this. I feel like a failure. I applied to grad school for 2 years in a row and I haven’t g…

r/AsianParentStoriespost3/11/2026
Six months after the worst breakup of my life, I finally understand why I couldn't heal for the first three.

Six months after the worst breakup of my life, I finally understand why I couldn't heal for the first three. — I'm writing this because I wish someone had said it to me when I was in month one. For the first three months I did everything people tell you to do. I went to the gym. I saw friends. I kept busy. I …

r/BreakUpspost3/12/2026
Related advice from Alan Watts

Related advice from Alan Watts — In this short talk, I learned a lot. Mainly regarding one of my frustrations with trying to " achieve focus 12" he discusses how meditation is not meant to be goal driven. He relates it to music when …

r/gatewaytapespost3/12/2026
Manifested a $32K scholarship with accidental SATS!!!

Manifested a $32K scholarship with accidental SATS!!! — Hi all :) I have a pretty amazing success story that I’d love to share, and I hope it may motivate some of you in your manifestation journeys 😊 Basically, I accidentally manifested a $32,000 scholar…

r/nevillegoddardpost3/14/2026
Just feel so disappointed in myself all the time

Just feel so disappointed in myself all the time — I just can't help being so disappointed and sad about myself all the time. I constantly feel like I've been a disappointment, and that no matter what I do, I won't be able to escape that, and I'll end…

r/selfhelppost3/16/2026
Human Plus (H-Plus) and Patterning

Human Plus (H-Plus) and Patterning — I know that the majority of people use the gateway tapes to pattern, but I wanted to share my thoughts and techniques for using the H-Plus series. I feel that H-Plus is the most advanced system that R…

r/gatewaytapespost3/27/2026
Chinese American restaurants question why Chinese cuisine can't get the chef's table treatment

Chinese American restaurants question why Chinese cuisine can't get the chef's table treatment — ...  in an industry where diners rarely question high prices of French haute cuisine or Japanese omakase, Chinese restaurateurs often contend with resistance in getting customers to pay fine-dining t…

r/AsianAmericanpost3/27/2026
Should i Be that hurt???

Should i Be that hurt??? — I just needed somewhere to vent, not even sure who’s gonna see this or respond, or even look at this whole thing tbh lol I’m 24M, she’s 23F. We met on a dating app Jan 15, 2026, made it official Feb…

r/BreakUpspost3/30/2026
Why are people so cruel? - Day 13 of Recovery

Why are people so cruel? - Day 13 of Recovery — Had a bad day today... *Really* bad... People are so fucking cruel. First someone sees my scars at church of all places... Not that I'm Christian, but isn't it called a sanctuary for a reason? Anyway…

r/DecidingToBeBetterpost3/30/2026
Overnight success

Overnight success — Okay, so today something really wonderful happened. Where I live, universities are usually 3 years long. Sadly, I lost a family member in my second year. I closed myself off, didn’t study, and didn’t …

r/nevillegoddardpost3/31/2026
I NEED HELP !! p

I NEED HELP !! p — I NEED HELP!!! I'm a 23 year old girl from India. And i seriously need some real life advice or help. I'm currently in my 3rd year of a 4 year Nursing undergraduate program. And I can't do it anymo…

r/DecidingToBeBetterpost3/31/2026
DMT While on LSD-Trip Report

DMT While on LSD-Trip Report — Close to 10 years ago, I tried DMT (specifically, changa) while on LSD. I began to vibrate like a Tibetan brass bowl & the air turned bright purple around me. I closed my eyes & some language/code/sym…

r/Psychonautpost4/1/2026
27 M my first gf left me for another man.

27 M my first gf left me for another man. — I don’t have my first relationship until I was 24. I met her (let’s call her Ashley) while working fast food after I stopped going to college due to Covid & tuition. She was a typical alternative type…

r/BreakUpspost4/2/2026
I’m confused

I’m confused — Short story, but I was just hoping to get some answers. I applied to a nursing program last week, did my entry and fully believed in my heart of hearts I was gonna be in this nursing program. I wasn…

r/Manifestationpost4/5/2026
My mom is withholding my legal documents

My mom is withholding my legal documents — Hey guys. Holy fucking hell a lot of shit has been going on and I need to vent, cry, support. I’m 26 F, I’m an RBT and work with Autistic kids. I’m also in a masters program. I finally moved out of my…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/5/2026
Me (F21) and my friend (F21) spent nine hours together, cuddled, and held hands, and I don't know if it's a date or not. I broke up with my ex-girlfriend (F21) a few weeks ago and we're staying friends. Can I talk to her about it?

Me (F21) and my friend (F21) spent nine hours together, cuddled, and held hands, and I don't know if it's a date or not. I broke up with my ex-girlfriend (F21) a few weeks ago and we're staying friends. Can I talk to her about it? — **TLDR:** *My ex told me to date around when we broke up, but has been really clingy and possessive since then, and one of my friends want me to go no contact. But she's the person I want advice from …

r/relationship_advicepost4/5/2026
The OASIS Experience Day 18 Attraction and Manifestation

The OASIS Experience Day 18 Attraction and Manifestation — this 11-minute video offers viewers a clear and powerful overview of the process much in line with the work of Abraham Hicks....part of a video series, The OASIS Experience, a part of our program Your…

r/lawofattractionpost4/8/2026
Acquaintance started ignoring me me in public.

Acquaintance started ignoring me me in public. — Okay so this isn’t something I’m exactly too bothered about as this is an acquaintance of mine, but I’m really curious and started wondering if I did something wrong. Maybe someone in this community h…

r/relationshipspost4/8/2026
She ended it due to “no capacity”, now wants to talk?

She ended it due to “no capacity”, now wants to talk? — My (27M) ex (25F) and I broke up recently after 2.5 years because she said she felt overwhelmed and didn’t have the emotional capacity for a relationship. She’s been dealing with grief of her terminal…

r/BreakUpspost4/9/2026
How do I (26M) tell my dad (51M) that I don’t want to spend time with him?

How do I (26M) tell my dad (51M) that I don’t want to spend time with him? — This will be long and rambling, so I apologize in advance. I will add a tldr at the bottom. My parents had me when they were both young (under 25) and only got married because of my mom getting preg…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/10/2026
Ambivalent grief over not a real breakup?

Ambivalent grief over not a real breakup? — I know this is nothing compared to what most people on here are going through so feel free to ignore. A year ago I went through an excruciating heartbreak. 3 months after that, I met someone at a summ…

r/BreakUpspost4/10/2026
Forever the forgotten and unloved daughter.

Forever the forgotten and unloved daughter. — Hi friends. I turned an age in my 20s yesterday. My biological mother and I have not spoken in years. She is too fucked up on drugs to know it was my birthday, or how old I turned. She doesn’t know I…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/11/2026
Working for a better future

Working for a better future — Sorry if this is all over the place, I'm brain dumping. I posted a while ago about my abusive parents and how I wasn't sure what to do. After some reddit advice and reflecting on my life, I decided l…

r/DecidingToBeBetterpost4/11/2026
I Can’t Believe I’m Back

I Can’t Believe I’m Back — I can’t believe I’m posting in this subreddit again. I recently just got out of a 2 1/2 year relationship (we’re both in our early twenties). Ever since I met him I kind of knew he was the one. I don’…

r/BreakUpspost4/12/2026
Crying right now because I’m moving and there are people who will actually miss me

Crying right now because I’m moving and there are people who will actually miss me — i’ve had a rough couple of years, but this year’s turning around. I went from extreme suicidality while recovering in isolation from an unhealthy relationship to developing friendships in a writing gr…

r/CPTSDpost4/12/2026
The Personal Development School - worth it?

The Personal Development School - worth it? — Thinking about signing up for Thais Gibson's program. Has anyone done it?

r/AvoidantAttachmentpost11/17/2023
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

He had been having some cardiac symptoms but hadn't seen a doctor. I am in the medical field and my previous position was in an advanced heart failure/heart transplant program. The prior weekend was t…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/9/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Then why not be upfront about going back to school? Its not uncommon or strange that you were doing a masters program.

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/9/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

I have a friend who met her husband in college. She was in a pre-vet program. He has every animal allergy possible. A few months into dating, he started getting allergy shots. They got married at the …

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/13/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 01, 2026

It is a great way to meet people! And screen people. Since you typically don’t meet another persons kids until later in the dating relationship, watching them interact with the kiddos in organic envir…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/1/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 02, 2026

You're not married. I would bail. You are seeing things plenty clearly. Don't doubt yourself. There will be much harder things in life than feedback in an academic program. Can you imagine having a ba…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/3/2026
Rant about Asian American access to education in NYC

I'm not necessarily disagreeing with your take here. But when you call a group as being underrepresented, it really implies that they qualify for something but are treated as if they weren't. In other…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/10/2026
Rant about Asian American access to education in NYC

Yeah I’m also like the culture of kids school really differs based on the neighborhood. Unfortunately, a lot of kids don’t even know about the shsat program. I also think funds going to poor schools…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/10/2026
The day has come!

I did the tapes for about three years before doing the beta version of the online program. I really enjoyed the program but my experiences while in meditation didnt change. So its not like you need th…

r/gatewaytapescomment3/10/2026
Getting married soon help me pls

Her MENTOR?!!! You mean like an attending in her residency program?! Oh id be going scorched earth on this. A married attending screwing a resident ? They'd both be getting kicked from the program. No…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/12/2026
Share your most insane ‘money just appeared’ story

I quit my job a few years back to realize my dream of developing (indie) video games on my own. But after three years, my savings were running dry and I still was far from finished with the game. I wa…

r/nevillegoddardcomment3/13/2026
Has anyone seen a being like this just before starting an OBE

Did you get an answer? "The Gateway Tapes" are a method to learn meditation that was developed in the 70's (late 60's) to teach meditation in western terminology. (search Bob Monroe and Gateway) I…

r/experiencerscomment3/13/2026
I Won’t Stop Sharing This

Right, I'm asking which board. No such standard was taught in my program.

r/therapycomment3/13/2026
The day has come!

Buying them, you have them forever. Listening to them on streaming services, you don't really know what you're listening to or their effectiveness. What this is here is more of a training program. So …

r/gatewaytapescomment3/13/2026
Started gateway this week. I’m confused

"this feels like a version of that" < I'd be cautious about labelling anything in Gateway. The CIA are a lot of things but one of them is not afraid to explore things like Gateway. This is the best …

r/gatewaytapescomment3/14/2026
"No one is coming to save you" Yeah, I know, because I saved myself.

My fucking therapist said that to me when I told her I was struggling with the spiritual element in my 12 step program. Anyway, I start with a new therapist next week!

r/CPTSDcomment3/14/2026
Contact Experiencer Jason Sands cited in online Newsweek posting concerning the disappearance of General Neil McCasland.

Jason Sands is the most outspoken person who claims to be from the 20 & back program. Given that fact, he’s pretty much the least credible “experiencer” that’s had a big media focus in years. I put th…

r/experiencerscomment3/14/2026
Has anyone seen a being like this just before starting an OBE

Robert Monroe recorded audio of his sessions with participants in the gateway program. They are all available on the institute's channel on YouTube. They are extremely insightful into the process. If …

r/experiencerscomment3/15/2026
Anunnaki Contact

Anu-het is the culmination, the last of the 7 hybrid races. This is supposed to be their qualities; 7. Anu-het • “New Being” • Unifies star systems • Thematic energies: power, passion, peace • …

r/experiencerscomment3/15/2026
I wish I left after the first affair

So sorry, but you’ll come back from this and you’ll be stronger. I wish that people reading these forums would read your post first. The chances of reconciling after one affair or multiple affairs is …

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/15/2026
What We Really Need To Heal

You might want to find a 12 step program. There are many types and there could be one to suit you.

r/CPTSDcomment3/16/2026
Does anyone else feel like they were robbed of real socialization?

That’s happening to me right now. My mom started homeschooling me in 5th grade, my dad is never (works to support a family of 7 and 3 dogs) my mom works online all day (she has like 50 different jobs,…

r/CPTSDcomment3/18/2026
I have a deep desire to be taken care of by my boyfriend like my dad takes care of me

My dad pushed me to be independent but it's not working quite as well as he planned. I only finished high school and did many years of college but failed and didn't get a degree. I worked at Amazon wa…

r/Codependencycomment3/18/2026
my boyfriend always talks about my body as if he’s settling for it :( (20M 20F)

First it’s little comments about how your body is not what he wants in a woman. Next, it will be something else, and then something else. I think if a man is so hung up on how you look and is willing…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/18/2026
Contact Experiencer Jason Sands cited in online Newsweek posting concerning the disappearance of General Neil McCasland.

Thanks for the comment. Could you direct me to an interview or a transcript in which Sands claimed participation in the discredited notion of a "20 and back program."

r/experiencerscomment3/18/2026
Oscars Producer Responds to Backlash for Cutting Off KPop Demon Hunters Speech

At least the cinematographer is Asian-American as well. This has all been messed up almost every single time - the first time I recall was Martin Landau's Best Supporting Actor in 1994, and probably …

r/AsianAmericancomment3/18/2026
The truth about money

The LOA people who sell courses enjoy teaching LOA. For me I attracted programs that wanted to create millionaires. These are people who have a mentor training program that really wanted to help the …

r/lawofattractioncomment3/18/2026
Breakup with my partner and best friend

I struggled with something similar though it only lasted 4 years or so. What I learned is that it was a symptom of a deeper problem. My codependency was my solution to life. It was easier to go to oth…

r/Codependencycomment3/20/2026
You had an OBE, right?

Go onsite to VA for the Voyager program. The very best money I have EVER spent and got me into my first voluntary OBE on day 1!

r/gatewaytapescomment3/21/2026
the anxiety is gone... but now there's just a massive void. How do you handle the "nothingness" after liberation?

I feel similar, my tension isn't fully gone but it keeps improving and I recently had a little window of it not being there that was blissful but hollow like you describe. I think it's just...boring? …

r/CPTSDcomment3/22/2026
My body constantly feels like a panic attack ... how do I ever reverse this?

First of all, I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Being caught in a panic loop can feel so isolating, not to mention terrifying beyond words. The good news is that all your test from the ER came b…

r/Anxietyhelpcomment3/23/2026
Confused if my therapist is just not the right fit. Am I the problem?? Do I just need to work harder?

With CBT, a more typical response might be, “that is a distortion,” and maybe a discussion of what a distortion is and how to address it. Perhaps a few activities to try and to practice seeing distor…

r/therapycomment3/24/2026
I can’t do it, been trying for years. The gateway tapes don’t help as well

I have XM5's, and I've had some very profound experiences and even one partial OBE with the Gateway Tapes (at home, I haven't done the in person program.) Couple things I want to note: a lot of people…

r/AstralProjectioncomment3/24/2026
Why does it take years to realize you’re traumatized? And why does "standard" therapy often miss the point?

TLDR: this turned into like a personal journal entry. Thx for the prompt. But to answer your questions: 1. I learned that I had no personality years after I started therapy and even went to a special…

r/CPTSDcomment3/24/2026
the narcissist catchphrase bingo list

I see this phrase used when a head college coach of a sports program leaves the program to "spend more time with their family." I do the math & sure enough, their kids are late teens early 20's.....n…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/24/2026
The extent to which people operate from the lower chakras boggles my mind

I understand it’s a survival game. I’m in the same position. I’m not privileged. Precisely because I have the same cards I have no respect for people who cowardly protect their ass by any means necess…

r/energy_workcomment3/26/2026
Struggling and not sure the next step

you're not being over the top. your nervous system is doing what it was taught to do by a real experience. that's important to keep reminding yourself because the "I'm just overreacting" thought is wh…

r/Anxietyhelpcomment3/26/2026
Managing anger

Do the coda 12 step program. You’ll understand where, why, how the anger manifested. The steps help release the anger once you understand yourself better🙏

r/Codependencycomment3/26/2026
My friend and I are kids of the gateway.

There's a lot of us here, I'm one of them even. But this is a subject that creates a lot of debate. I think what you're looking for is [https://www.reddit.com/r/GATEresearch/](https://www.reddit.com/r…

r/gatewaytapescomment3/27/2026
I have an Ai addiction and need help

I may actually be able to chime in here! I'm a software engineer and made a project demonstrating AI usage. I wanted to demonstrate how much fresh water was used each time you used the AI part of the …

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment3/27/2026
Any Christian experiencers in here?

ACIM may have been a project of the MK ULTRA CIA black ops program. We now know through the freedom of information act that Helen's co-worker and sort of frenemy (more enemy than friend much of the ti…

r/experiencerscomment3/28/2026
Brain-rewiring after focus 10 and 12

Quite a long time ago when I was studying in college - my life was so busy that sometimes I would sleep for just an hour or two before waking up and heading back to college. At those times, when I we…

r/gatewaytapescomment3/28/2026
I get really anxious when my partner is in a bad mood

I learned as a chronic codependent thst i use ppl to feel better. When they are upset I may feel uneasy or upset as well. This is not normal. In my case I'm the chronic codependent. My obsessing & be…

r/Codependencycomment3/29/2026
Anyone else feel like they need to move to find a person to date?

I'm in "the south". That's as specific as I'll get because I'm really not trying to hate. And I do plan to move in the next year or so, because this city just isn't a fit for me.  Not that I'm wealt…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/29/2026
No reaction/indifference really is the best reply - 3 months on

Thanks, I'll be honest, the first few gym exposures were tough. The 1st, she was on her own and scurried off in shame. After that she was with her new guy. While it was uncomfortable, I felt it …

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/29/2026
30 year old son has just been admitted to psych hospital

The hospital is the best place right now. Do the minimum 72 hours at least and hopefully they have available and intense outpatient psychotherapy program. If not, your best bet is to try and find one.…

r/Anxietyhelpcomment3/30/2026
Reasons for their Affair?

He says he was under a lot of stress in a officer training program. His food was restricted and we were fighting (because I kept catching him in lies from the time he left for training). He had picked…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/30/2026
Seeking support with emotional regulation and anger. Will meditation help?

A 12 step program led me to meditation (Al-Anon specifically). I haven't consistently practiced, though, yet. I have inconsistently practiced and am currently on an 8-day streak and am very drawn to a…

r/Meditationcomment3/30/2026
The impact of Mother / Daughter SA - People don’t talk about it

My mother would give me genital "checks" in the shower. I don't remember when they started or ended. She would force her way into the bathroom and tell me it was her right. Like because she was my mot…

r/CPTSDcomment3/31/2026
Do you ever look back and think maybe you should have been taken away by child protective services?

Yes. The issue is that CPS/DFS/DCFS/CWS works completely different in each county across the USA. Some are really great at noticing those kids with several reports and doing something about it. Then t…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/31/2026