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I wrote the perfect text to my ex. Read it back 6 months later and couldn't believe I almost sent it.

man i wrote a whole essay about how i was "doing amazing" and listed every single thing going right in my life like he needed a status report 💀 reading it back was pure secondhand embarrassment for m…

r/BreakUpscomment3/26/2026
Does manifestation works for love/person?

Does manifestation works for love/person? — Well hello everyone! Hope you guys are doing amazing, so I am not new into this manifestation stuff... I know about this manifestation, how it works even how to do, few people call it technique few ju…

r/lawofattractionpost4/1/2026
He's doing well without me

He's doing well without me — Okay it has been 6 months since the breakup. I was doing better for a couple of months and have been seeing someone new, but I found out how he's been doing and it simply breaks my heart. I work …

r/BreakUpspost4/1/2026
Why does SP keep leving?

Why does SP keep leving? — My SP broke up with me, and I have this strong gut feeling that we are going to be together again, I just know it. But the thing is he broke up with me once before. That time I had the same gut feelin…

r/Manifestationpost4/5/2026
My girlfriend 23F and I 19F. So I need to be worried?

My girlfriend 23F and I 19F. So I need to be worried? — My girlfriend (23) and I (F19, almost 20) are long distance but we’re doing amazing. A few days ago she stopped responding to me for hours, texting me first and then today I get a notification that sh…

r/relationship_advicepost4/13/2026
My Past(ish) Situationship Has A Stranglehold On Me And I'm Desperate To Remove Myself From Its Grasp

My Past(ish) Situationship Has A Stranglehold On Me And I'm Desperate To Remove Myself From Its Grasp — Jesus, here I am again writing about him. I'll just get to the point and just say that the grip that this toxic situationship I got myself into last year has been killing me and has caused me to compl…

r/Codependencypost4/13/2026
F**CKKKKKKKKK

It wasn’t a single minute. It was problems from the past that we’ve worked through before but in that minute everything came back and idk it was like the whole world just came crashing down all in one…

r/BreakUpscomment3/8/2026
I spent 8 years trying to “fix” my mental health and now I think the real problem is that I’ve been obsessively trying to fix myself

metacognition, babyyyyy. you’re definitely not alone in this, please don’t be so hard on yourself! if you weren’t constantly practicing the self regulation and coping skills you’ve learned, what was a…

r/CPTSDcomment3/11/2026
I spent 8 years trying to “fix” my mental health and now I think the real problem is that I’ve been obsessively trying to fix myself

Constant “I need to fix myself!” Just causes me to burn out. I’m in the same cycle, but reading this is comforting. I feel like it’s okay to be bad just as it is to be good, I’ve seen a lot of advice …

r/CPTSDcomment3/12/2026
My husband (36M) told me (33F) that I don’t deserve love until I’m 140lbs again?

If he can't feel sex I assure you its because he's death gripped himself masturbating one too many times or has some form of erectile dysfunction and is attempting to put the blame on you rather than …

r/relationship_advicecomment3/12/2026
Finally sober, but I bedrot every day and can't do anything... need help

Everyone here has great advice, and I'd also like to congratulate you on your sobriety. That's not an easy thing to achieve, so you're already doing amazing. I'm going to sort of second the suggestio…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment3/13/2026
Lust & Letting go

My dude!!! You’re doing amazing 🫡 There is no path, you are the path. Please know that you are unique in every way, and what has worked for others may not work for you. You can’t let go of lust it’s…

r/Meditationcomment3/16/2026
I spent years trying to fix my life with discipline. Therapy showed me why that didn’t work

Don't have anything written, but basically the exercises we did in therapy are something like this: 1. Try to note whenever your critical voice comes up. No need to do anything, just pay attention to…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment3/19/2026
How do I (39F) forgive my husband (39M) for making a fake vet appt for our senior dog?

Also, just for a little perspective: My mom died early on during my relationship with my husband. We had been dating for less than a year. He dropped everything to be with me ***and my mother*** w…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/20/2026
I normally don’t like to talk about my issues outside of therapy because I just want people to see me as normal, but I’m 36 and still can’t get past the effects of trauma from my childhood.

This is absolutely awful.. you really are a survivor and you should be proud of that, just the fact that you're still here is a testament to your strength as a person. Your childhood makes mine seem l…

r/CPTSDcomment3/20/2026
I normally don’t like to talk about my issues outside of therapy because I just want people to see me as normal, but I’m 36 and still can’t get past the effects of trauma from my childhood.

Oh, wow. You are doing amazing for the abuse you endured. Actually, you’re doing amazing compared to the average American. You’re articulate and have a clear head on your shoulders. You managed to de…

r/CPTSDcomment3/21/2026
Midlife dating plot twist I didn’t see coming… (I have breast cancer 🙄)

One of my best friend's got a breast cancer diagnosis right as she and her boyfriend (now husband) were talking about moving in together. He was/is wonderful. I am so happy for them. She battled thr…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/22/2026
1 full year of no contact and no social media stalking :)

Dear Stock-Sweet3295, Well, isn't that a wonderful achievement? You've demonstrated immense self-restraint, inner strength, and focus. A full year of no contact and no social media stalking is an acc…

r/ExNoContactcomment3/23/2026
I'm so painfully bad at everything (26M)

Thank you. >i know it doesnt feel like it when you see people your age buying houses and getting married Considering the state of the housing market here in Portugal, someone buying houses at 26 is …

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment3/29/2026
Impatience with shifting

Heyyy!!! I've been actively trying to shift since 2020, shifted for the first time in 2022, and a couple weeks ago shifted again for the second time ever since then :) I've gone through impatience, cr…

r/realityshiftingcomment4/1/2026
Are narc parents disgusted and terrified at the mere existence of people they don't approve of?

The disgust that should be directed inward is projected on anyone they can make themselves feel superior to. My mom was somehow the most amazing person doing amazing things if you're having a good day…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/2/2026
Losing friends after doing the work in therapy

Definitely purge people in the healing. You're leveling up to your new life. You can't keep the things holding you back. Its sad, but youve got this. Youre doing amazing

r/CPTSDcomment4/4/2026
Girlfriend just dumped me because I don’t have enough

She's an idiot. You're doing amazing!

r/BreakUpscomment4/5/2026
Re-learning everything

I love that ! You're doing amazing :) All the Best !

r/CPTSDcomment4/6/2026
Am I in the wrong?? (16 y/o)

You have absolutely no idea how much it means to me to hear from somebody that's been in a similar situation. I hope you're doing amazing!!!!

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/7/2026
I ruined everything and couldn’t face it for over a year. Lately it feels like things are changing, but…

Dear BreatheCrete, First, I want to say how marvellously brave and conscientious you are for sharing such a raw, personal journey. The growth and self-awareness reflected in your post are truly comme…

r/ExNoContactcomment4/7/2026
My (24F) boyfriend (23M) is in a Psychiatric Unit for Brief Psychotic Disorder, and my family wants me to completely cut him out of my life. Is that something I should consider?

The edible comment made me pause. But before I say anything: I am not a doctor. This could be a completely different situation and I am in no way diagnosing your boyfriend. My former roommate and be…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/7/2026
I’m unsure if I 35/f tell my ex 31/m I’m having an abortion?

I commend you for your responsibility and compassion. You are making the best choice in this situation. And I send you all the Internet support and air hugs. You sound like an amazing person. I'm sorr…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/8/2026
I (M20) can’t stop thinking about my girlfriend’s (F20) past and I need to stop but how?

You're a sweetheart. Your heart is in the right place. I think instead of focusing on the things she was bullied for and trying to set up dates around those things, perhaps put that on the backburner…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/10/2026
35M bf wants to control how much I eat. I’m 25F

ABSOLUTELY NOT. My ex used to make comments like this too! Literally within months after I got out of residential ED treatment and had obviously gained weight from recovery but I was still super consi…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/12/2026
Dumpers, would you give an ex a second chance if they changed?

that desperation will show up either consciously or subconsciously and your ex will sense it. If you build your life as if you're doing amazing without them and don't need them, it will make it more l…

r/BreakUpscomment4/13/2026