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You become "irreplaceable" and they become replaceable because you want to level up? I get everyone here is self justifying their ego after a breakup to feel better but I always laugh when I find pos…

r/BreakUpscomment3/24/2026
Offering Options to offshore engineer. I will not promote

Offering Options to offshore engineer. I will not promote — I have a startup. obviously. anyhow, my company is in Canada. I have this developer in Vietnam, and he is pretty good! I pay him decently for his hours, but as a founder, I feel like i want to offer …

r/startupspost5/3/2025
No contact but want my stuff back

No contact but want my stuff back — I put another thread on but basically he’s broken up with me and gone no contact. I initially reached out to find out what happened and if we could fix it (the next day), and a few days later asked fo…

r/datingoverthirtypost2/21/2026
How can I build a personal life that doesn’t depend on other people?

How can I build a personal life that doesn’t depend on other people? — Hi Reddit!! I really need an outside perspective on my situation, because I feel like I’m completely lost in where I’m going and what I actually want from my life… Maybe people who have learned to man…

r/Codependencypost3/18/2026
DETACH

DETACH — DETACH. They not all that, bro. Period. You didn't find a rare gem. You got attached to availability + looks. That's it. Take away your lust... your loneliness... your imagination... And sudde…

r/BreakUpspost3/24/2026
I celebrated already! An exercise to living in the end.

I celebrated already! An exercise to living in the end. — Yes, I celebrated already! I went to a fine dining restaurant, I bought myself flowers and a nice congratulations card. Also I am writing here as an exercise of living in the end. With certainty I kno…

r/Manifestationpost4/4/2026
He broke no contact!?

He broke no contact!? — Hi, sorry this is a bit long but I think everything I said is necessary, please help a girl out. Me and ex of 1.5 years just broke up 6 days ago. Some background info: I am a college senior and he is …

r/BreakUpspost4/13/2026
No contact but want my stuff back

All posts are manually reviewed before being approved for posting. This usually takes less than an hour, though it can take longer depending on moderator availability. While you wait for your post to …

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/21/2026
No contact but want my stuff back

>I don’t know whether I need to leave it, it’s not important or irreplaceable but at this point I’m so mad at how disrespectful he’s been that it’s the principle as much as anything. Life lesson: Don…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/21/2026
No contact but want my stuff back

Exaclty. Theres a big difference between wanting something back because you *need* it back versus: "my ego is bruised and I want to do this to prove that I still have power over *something*." OP: as …

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/21/2026
No contact but want my stuff back

When something similar happened to me, I texted the guy to put all my stuff in a bag, and leave it at the common dressing room at work(we were working in the same place). When he left stuff, he sent m…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/21/2026
No contact but want my stuff back

I get where you’re coming from but it has nothing to do with the ex or the breakup. I thought about the pillow just a couple days ago because the loft was perfect and I could really use that exact sup…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/23/2026
Her body😫

When you love someone, you miss countless things about them. Someday the love, someday the laugh and someday the body and someday the sex. It’s just human. But after moving on from many devastating b…

r/BreakUpscomment3/8/2026
Okay, it is literally working now.

Changing your self concept is relatively simple yet not always easy. You create affirmations that put YOU on the pedestal. You say things like I’m irresistible, I’m irreplaceable, im unforgettable. I’…

r/Manifestationcomment3/17/2026
I have to leave tonight, I'm not safe. Am I missing anything?

If you are at uni, go to student services or your student assistance office (I'm don't know what they're called for you- basically the people who provide advice to students and advocate for you), spea…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/17/2026
I have to leave tonight, I'm not safe. Am I missing anything?

Heya! I went through something like this at 17 (different country though). You are doing really well. I'm really proud of you for recognizing and acknowledging the abusive situation you are in. Eve…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/17/2026
I have to leave tonight, I'm not safe. Am I missing anything?

Call a domestic violence shelter first. The police are very complicated and can sometimes make things worse if they don’t take your side. If you can get into a Domestic Violence shelter, or even a hom…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/17/2026
I saw my ex after 3 months of no contact, everything looks different.

You were not “replaced”. People need to stop thinking of themselves as objects and then they won’t feel like one. You are a person. You are irreplaceable. You are unique, lovable, worthy and desirab…

r/BreakUpscomment3/21/2026
Covert narcissists are emotional sadists!

When I was a teen, I had a 200 year old piano gifted to me by my grandmother because I was a pianist. It was very loud, so I would usually do my practicing and songwriting when no one else was home. …

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/27/2026
My boyfriend (39M) threw his bag at my (33F) face, refused to apologize "because he thought I would block it", then stormed out to leave after I said I just wanted to be alone

Please, please start thinking about anything really important/irreplaceable of yours at his place, changing the locks if he has keys to yours, and letting family and friends know you're ending this re…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/29/2026
He texted me a year later

You and these packages girl😂😂😂 But seriously if u considered them a loss then, keep it that way because there’s a 50/50 chance picking them up could seal the deal or be more triggering. It doesn’t…

r/ExNoContactcomment3/30/2026
Feeling conflicted after he confessed

Eh, you love him, I get it, but at this juncture you’ve only known him for a year, so comparatively speaking, it’s easier to let go. The problem with your bf’s cheating is this: You weren’t unhappy, g…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/1/2026
What's something your parents did to you that YOU had to apologize to them for that still makes you angry?

It’s almost too stupid to recount.  I was cleaning their beach house (it’s an old family property but they stay there the most and are responsible for maintenance). I discovered mold everywhere, even…

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment4/2/2026
Who wants their ex back?

He has a new girlfriend, so I don't know how I could ever accept him back even if they broke up and he came back around. That being said, I would be lying if I said I didn't want him anymore. He was s…

r/BreakUpscomment4/2/2026
Any stories that you found someone better than your ex?

Back in my late 20s I thought my ex was perfect for me - we both loved the same obscure 80s synthpop bands, had this incredible physical chemistry, and could talk for hours about music production. Whe…

r/BreakUpscomment4/3/2026
You are replaceable

So make sure you’re irreplaceable in all aspects of your relationship. Sadly, they’ll prob decide you’re not enough. That’s a them problem though.

r/BreakUpscomment4/7/2026
lads,how to cope with a small penis?

Over 80% of women do not orgasm from DP, up your tongue game and master it. You'll become a lover that is irreplaceable.

r/selfhelpcomment4/7/2026
You are replaceable

Unfortunately this is the only thing helping me truly move on from my ex, whom I loved with my mind body and soul. And I'm sure our moments together were some of the best for him too. That's why he co…

r/BreakUpscomment4/7/2026
35f just exhausted with husband 40m

You can call United way 211 and they can put you in touch with a local domestic abuse/women’s shelter. They can help you make a safety and exit plan, connect you to legal resources, therapy, childcare…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/7/2026
You are replaceable

You were replaceable to your ex but that doesn't mean you'll be replaceable to the right person. To one of your soulmates, you will be irreplaceable

r/BreakUpscomment4/7/2026
[48F] Planning a secret exit from my highly volatile partner [56M] of 10 years. Seeking advice on safely executing a remote breakup under the guise of a work trip.

In person breakups are for people who are stable and safe and not capable of murdering you. That is not your situation. This involves serious planning and legal considerations like a restraining orde…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/9/2026
what’s something you wish people were more honest about when it comes to breakups?

That words hurt and can irreplaceable damage your outlook on future relationships. That abuse of any kind doesn't go away, but the grief shifts. That you will always look back on certain relationshi…

r/BreakUpscomment4/10/2026
So my mom poisoned and killed all 4 of my cats and threw away all my cats belongings

That is one of the worst things I have ever heard. I am so angry for you. Report her and get out. I hope you can destroy something that means very much to her first. Maybe a picture or something monet…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/11/2026
Alternatives to sex during/after divorce?

Obviously there are no apple-to-apple alternatives. Sorry. But hear me out. I totally relate with having an alive and kicking sex drive during and after my divorce process... just not for my ex. And…

r/Divorcecomment4/12/2026
probably gonna call her in a couple months

Dear More-Farm3827, The first thing I'd like to acknowledge is the strength and resilience you've shown in maintaining no contact for such a while. It's admirable and a testament to your strong char…

r/ExNoContactcomment4/12/2026
Dumpers only: what would make you text your ex again?

I won’t text as I have too much respect for her and she is moving on much faster than me. She already has a new bf.  This was round 2 for us so there’s nothing left to say. I dumped her both times, …

r/BreakUpscomment4/12/2026
Dumpers only: what would make you text your ex again?

Ego. That’s what causes a lot of the pain after a breakup. He thought he was irreplaceable, to learn that he’s not. That’s a huge bruise to the ego.

r/BreakUpscomment4/12/2026
I didn’t realize the last time was the last time

Yea unfortunately that is just one of many of the last things that you don’t think about and a lot of them are irreplaceable they will bring you guilt and sorrow Especially whenever you think about i…

r/BreakUpscomment4/12/2026