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You become "irreplaceable" and they become replaceable because you want to level up? I get everyone here is self justifying their ego after a breakup to feel better but I always laugh when I find pos…
Offering Options to offshore engineer. I will not promote — I have a startup. obviously. anyhow, my company is in Canada. I have this developer in Vietnam, and he is pretty good! I pay him decently for his hours, but as a founder, I feel like i want to offer …
No contact but want my stuff back — I put another thread on but basically he’s broken up with me and gone no contact. I initially reached out to find out what happened and if we could fix it (the next day), and a few days later asked fo…
How can I build a personal life that doesn’t depend on other people? — Hi Reddit!! I really need an outside perspective on my situation, because I feel like I’m completely lost in where I’m going and what I actually want from my life… Maybe people who have learned to man…
DETACH — DETACH. They not all that, bro. Period. You didn't find a rare gem. You got attached to availability + looks. That's it. Take away your lust... your loneliness... your imagination... And sudde…
I celebrated already! An exercise to living in the end. — Yes, I celebrated already! I went to a fine dining restaurant, I bought myself flowers and a nice congratulations card. Also I am writing here as an exercise of living in the end. With certainty I kno…
He broke no contact!? — Hi, sorry this is a bit long but I think everything I said is necessary, please help a girl out. Me and ex of 1.5 years just broke up 6 days ago. Some background info: I am a college senior and he is …
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>I don’t know whether I need to leave it, it’s not important or irreplaceable but at this point I’m so mad at how disrespectful he’s been that it’s the principle as much as anything. Life lesson: Don…
Exaclty. Theres a big difference between wanting something back because you *need* it back versus: "my ego is bruised and I want to do this to prove that I still have power over *something*." OP: as …
When something similar happened to me, I texted the guy to put all my stuff in a bag, and leave it at the common dressing room at work(we were working in the same place). When he left stuff, he sent m…
I get where you’re coming from but it has nothing to do with the ex or the breakup. I thought about the pillow just a couple days ago because the loft was perfect and I could really use that exact sup…
When you love someone, you miss countless things about them. Someday the love, someday the laugh and someday the body and someday the sex. It’s just human. But after moving on from many devastating b…
Changing your self concept is relatively simple yet not always easy. You create affirmations that put YOU on the pedestal. You say things like I’m irresistible, I’m irreplaceable, im unforgettable. I’…
If you are at uni, go to student services or your student assistance office (I'm don't know what they're called for you- basically the people who provide advice to students and advocate for you), spea…
Heya! I went through something like this at 17 (different country though). You are doing really well. I'm really proud of you for recognizing and acknowledging the abusive situation you are in. Eve…
Call a domestic violence shelter first. The police are very complicated and can sometimes make things worse if they don’t take your side. If you can get into a Domestic Violence shelter, or even a hom…
You were not “replaced”. People need to stop thinking of themselves as objects and then they won’t feel like one. You are a person. You are irreplaceable. You are unique, lovable, worthy and desirab…
When I was a teen, I had a 200 year old piano gifted to me by my grandmother because I was a pianist. It was very loud, so I would usually do my practicing and songwriting when no one else was home. …
Please, please start thinking about anything really important/irreplaceable of yours at his place, changing the locks if he has keys to yours, and letting family and friends know you're ending this re…
You and these packages girl😂😂😂 But seriously if u considered them a loss then, keep it that way because there’s a 50/50 chance picking them up could seal the deal or be more triggering. It doesn’t…
Eh, you love him, I get it, but at this juncture you’ve only known him for a year, so comparatively speaking, it’s easier to let go. The problem with your bf’s cheating is this: You weren’t unhappy, g…
It’s almost too stupid to recount. I was cleaning their beach house (it’s an old family property but they stay there the most and are responsible for maintenance). I discovered mold everywhere, even…
He has a new girlfriend, so I don't know how I could ever accept him back even if they broke up and he came back around. That being said, I would be lying if I said I didn't want him anymore. He was s…
Back in my late 20s I thought my ex was perfect for me - we both loved the same obscure 80s synthpop bands, had this incredible physical chemistry, and could talk for hours about music production. Whe…
So make sure you’re irreplaceable in all aspects of your relationship. Sadly, they’ll prob decide you’re not enough. That’s a them problem though.
Over 80% of women do not orgasm from DP, up your tongue game and master it. You'll become a lover that is irreplaceable.
Unfortunately this is the only thing helping me truly move on from my ex, whom I loved with my mind body and soul. And I'm sure our moments together were some of the best for him too. That's why he co…
You can call United way 211 and they can put you in touch with a local domestic abuse/women’s shelter. They can help you make a safety and exit plan, connect you to legal resources, therapy, childcare…
You were replaceable to your ex but that doesn't mean you'll be replaceable to the right person. To one of your soulmates, you will be irreplaceable
In person breakups are for people who are stable and safe and not capable of murdering you. That is not your situation. This involves serious planning and legal considerations like a restraining orde…
That words hurt and can irreplaceable damage your outlook on future relationships. That abuse of any kind doesn't go away, but the grief shifts. That you will always look back on certain relationshi…
That is one of the worst things I have ever heard. I am so angry for you. Report her and get out. I hope you can destroy something that means very much to her first. Maybe a picture or something monet…
Obviously there are no apple-to-apple alternatives. Sorry. But hear me out. I totally relate with having an alive and kicking sex drive during and after my divorce process... just not for my ex. And…
Dear More-Farm3827, The first thing I'd like to acknowledge is the strength and resilience you've shown in maintaining no contact for such a while. It's admirable and a testament to your strong char…
I won’t text as I have too much respect for her and she is moving on much faster than me. She already has a new bf. This was round 2 for us so there’s nothing left to say. I dumped her both times, …
Ego. That’s what causes a lot of the pain after a breakup. He thought he was irreplaceable, to learn that he’s not. That’s a huge bruise to the ego.
Yea unfortunately that is just one of many of the last things that you don’t think about and a lot of them are irreplaceable they will bring you guilt and sorrow Especially whenever you think about i…