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"You do not get it" Then explain how to get it. Because I don't have the ability to mind read, and the way you word things is unfamiliar to me and frankly, kinda hard to grasp. I apologize if you …

Manifesting New Skills and Knowledge with the Law of Belief– Is It Possible? — Hi everyone! I’m reaching out to this amazing community because I’m diving deep into the Law of Belief and want to explore how powerful it can truly be.🙏❤️ I keep wondering—can this law actually he…

Handling another crush as a FA — Hello all, spring is here and so is a new crush. I really can't get used to how excited but anxious my butterflies and fantasies make me. Sometimes they make me so anxious to the point I get dysfuncti…

Pouncemonial: 7th Kill - Disciplined Trader — # Here's how I achieved my 7th mission! **Mission**: To become a disciplined trader **What I achieved**: Mastered stop loss and trading discipline **Background**: After my 6th kill, I was eager t…

Interviewing for a UX job when you have a UX job is annoying — I know, I know. I should be grateful to have a job, I should be grateful to land interviews. But the amount they're asking is insane. I'm sorry, I cannot dedicate my time to a 50 sometimes 60 hours w…

Starting a powdered supplement product - what is important? what is not? — I have a clear market position and application I see working. I will probably be investing 20k to start this. I know the ROI isnt there on paid ads so i’m going for organic + affiliates. If you’ve g…

Theme Suggestions- simple, visual oriented, for events/non-profit — Hello! I run a small nonprofit that produces low or no cost music shows for the community. Part of our mission is to be as supportive as possible to the creatives "on both sides of the stage"... So w…

MySQL Database Quota Reached - Clean database — Hey everyone, I’m currently hosting several websites on SiteGround’s GoGeek plan which comes with 40 GB of web space. Most of my websites use between 1–3 GB, with one around 5.3 GB. However, one of m…

Just Launched My Dev Tools Website - Looking for Your Feedback! 🚀 — Hey Reddit! I’m excited to share my new website with everyone here! It’s designed to be a one-stop destination for all your dev tool needs. I know there are similar sites out there, but I’ve often fo…

Fear of abandonment after reassurance — Hi Reddit, I'm not sure how to exactly word this or articulate the feeling. I'm 27M who is best friends (and have feelings for) with another guy 24M. We have an incredibly intimate and close frien…

This is what happens when your FA ex comes back — This is my personal experience for those who are curious. Of course everyone will be different but I thought it might help those who are waiting or wishing (APs I'm talking mostly to you) Firstly the…

Reflections of my healing journey (avoidant) — I’m grateful I decided to work on myself I still consider myself a constant work in progress (I’m neurodivergent,communication and misunderstanding has always been an issue) I used a lot of self h…

The most painful relationship and breakup I've ever had, but it cracked me open so that I could heal. I created a text message llm analysis tool that revealed insecure attachment. — EDIT - TLDR; 8-month, high-intensity relationship. I was DA-leaning; she showed a lot of push–pull/negative lensing. We loved each other and still couldn’t repair, so we went NC. Post-breakup I focuse…

Did I make my Avoidance worse by pushing through it? — Hi all, I’ve been aware I have issues with commitment/avoidance my entire conscious life, but despite it I’ve always wanted to find love I didn’t meet my first boyfriend until I was 22, and it was l…

Ending a 1-year relationship: Self sabotage or gut instinct? — Edited: this blew up more than I ever expected. Grateful for all the good advice ✌🏻

March 2026 Astrology: Transits, Key Dates, and More — **Last month’s write-up, I ended with this,** *“Let’s just say we end the month in a chaotic state of energy. Nothing seems real while at the same time, there is a sense of urgency that something need…

23 and feel stuck with no direction — I’m 23 and feel really lost and stuck in life. I’m in a good relationship and I’m grateful for that, but mentally I’ve struggled since I was a kid. I had really bad anxiety starting around age 8–9 an…

Mom self harms in front of us since I was 8 yrs old. I haven’t been able to stop doing the same. — My mom would start beating herself whenever something tragic happened to her (failing an exam, fight w father etc.) or even because of me sometimes, she’d tell us (when my siblings and I were still ki…

Why Manifestation can FEEL Forced and Unrealistic (Success & Guidance) — Today I came upon a realization that many people do not have for most of their lives. It was the realization that our feelings and the meanings that we attach to them are also affirmations. Right no…

Will I ever not feel so lonely? (Seeking input from older folks on this platform) — I am nearly 47 years old and the emotional neglect I suffered as a kid and still suffer at the hands of my parents, still has such a profound impact on me. I know there are people of all ages in this …

True kindness is displayed under circumstances where being unkind would have been justified. — I am currently reading Marcus Aurilleus' *Meditations* as my first Stoic book. > When you wake up in the morning, tell yourself: The people I deal with today will be meddling, ungrateful, arrogant, …

A Positive Dream, For Once — I'm usually among those who dream of apocalyptic events, like nukes, the world blowing up while im in space, etc., but last night i had a better dream for once. I found myself in the middle of a war…

My first week with the Gateway Tapes — I am so grateful that I have been able to experience what I have already and I wanted to share. I’ve been doing guided meditations for astral projection for some time now with limited results. Last w…

I Genially Think My (35F) Husband (36M) is a Psychopath — Hi everyone, please I need help. I’m 35F and my husband is 36M. We’ve been married for 10 years and have two boys (7 and 5). I honestly don’t know what to think anymore. About three months ago my hus…

Heavy energy/projection in living space — I keep experiencing, on a daily basis, unbearable heavy energy (from the little I've learnt, and I have learnt a lot) it feels like a projection of some kind. I have learnt and grown about myself abo…

Anyone else ashamed of how they were neglected but also spoiled? — For me, it’s very strange to see how I might’ve been taken care of at times, like my mom or grandmother doing all the house cleaning and cooking, but physically/emotionally neglecting me. I wasn’t rea…

did you need mental health treatment because of the aftermath — A year ago today I was starting an intense outpatient therapy program because, with my already existing depression, I spiraled so bad after being cruelly discarded it became a mental health crisis for…

My wishes come true — I've no idea how this works but lately I've found that when I wish really really hard for something, it will come true. It works for really important things in my life, that I wish for with my whole…

Friend said something that shocked me and explained everything... — Edit: added an extra story to the bottom since this post seemed to resonate with people so much. Be strong folks, you're no one's NPC. You can go back and find a lot of my story on my page, but essen…

A simple 3-minute journaling method that helped me reduce overthinking at night — I used to struggle a lot with overthinking, especially at night. My mind would keep replaying conversations, worrying about tomorrow, or thinking about things I couldn’t control. I tried different thi…

Those who don't work- how do you answer "what do you do?" — I never know how to answer this. I don't want to lie, but I also don't want to self disclose. Is there a good canned response that does not make others uncomfortable/judgy while also not abandoning my…

My experience with NHI's, contact and navigating society. — # Hello! Where do i begin? Firstly, i want to give thanks to this space cultivated by Oak and the other Moderators, without this space, people such as us/me do not really have anywhere to go with a…

Heart chakra help — Hello all, I hope everyone is well. I am suffering from a closed heart chakra, I consciously think I am good there but I am not. I hold pain there. It began in 2023, I got a snippet of some trauma i…

SPICY Shifting Tarot Pull (collective message)? 𓆩༺✧༻𓆪 — Hey friends, I am a tarot reader (for myself and others) and I just did a tarot reading for myself in regards to some blockages I have to shifting to my DR specifically. I wanted to preface by saying …

My mom flipped out on me for buying second hand clothes — I (16f) just bought a second hand jacket off of ebay that was really nice quality and in good condition. My mother saw me put it in the washing machine and freaked out on me. Saying it was dirty and d…

When/how to disclose weight loss — After a lifetime of obesity, with the help of a GLP-1, I lost 110 lbs. I'm now also recovered from a lower body lift to remove all the extra skin. I'm a 47F and now a US size 6. All to say, with cloth…

please, take your time to hear my story, because no one else ever did — My mom gave birth to me when she was 41 years old, I have a sister and a brother, my sister is 27 years old, but she has mental problems and behaves terribly immature, so she is always making screamin…

Is my relationship doomed? I love him, but I’m so alone. — Hey everyone, I’m Lucy (F, late 20s) and I’ve been with my husband, Rick (M, late 20s) for about 8 years, married for 2. I know he cares about me and our family, and I see that he loves us. But latel…

Shifting to a parallel reality fulfilled my needs more than my DR — This might sound controversial, but let me explain :P A little over 3 weeks ago, I shifted to a parallel reality. A reality where my grandma was still alive and the family didn’t seemed to had fallen…

Crazy experience “timeline hopper” — I’ve been lucid dreaming since I was about 12/13, and I’m now 23. I trained myself into it years ago and now I lucid dream every morning which sometimes can be annoying because it affects my sleep. I’…

how could my mercury-jupiter conjunction in the 3rd house be interpreted in terms of curiosity and learning? — I'm trying to understand this placement in my chart a bit better bc I've noticed a pattern in how I approach learning. I tend to feel a strong pull toward learning new things, especially when somethin…

My peeling vision and what really happened. — For months i felt stuck in life and sat in meditation asking my guides to reveal what is expected of me in this life. All I got every time was a vision of a fruit peeling, losing its skin. What i gath…

My mom who disowned my for being gay is ready to forgive me, oh and for me to financially support her and my dad after he retires of course. — I don’t speak to any of my family anymore because they disowned me for being gay after i was outed. It hurt at the time but honestly the more time i spent away from them the more i realized how awful …

My mom always expects the best from me when I don’t get as much in return. — I am a 27 Korean American female. My parents divorced when I was really young and ever since, my mom has taken care of me as a single mother who can’t speak English in the US for 25 years. We were fi…

The manifestation routine that unexpectedly changed my life — Over the past year I’ve been diving deeper into manifestation and I’m curious if anyone else has experienced something similar. Recently I read Reality Transurfing, watched Sam Ovens’ Mindset course,…

Spring Cleaning and Change — Currently, the biggest benefit for me since the new year has been discarding items. I've gotten into a bad habit of stockpiling possessions in one room and eventually thinking I would take action on t…

First “bad” trip taught me a lot - sharing my experience to help others — I’m 28m, good job, good relationships, physically fit, happy overall. Experienced tripper with several high-dose mushroom trips under my belt. Always had positive experiences. Took 4g mushrooms today…

Small succes story - it worked! — Hey guys! I kind of have a small success story. A few weeks ago I posted here saying that I needed at least 800 euros to pay a debt this month and was in the middle of changing of my mindset. But, I …

"You should be grateful you have such a patient mom." — Today at dinner she starts spouting off about how I should be grateful because she is such a patient mom. The reason? Because as a baby I cried at night. She said "no other mom" would endure that and …

self concept work is no joke — For years I have been manifesting things like money, good career, etc via scripting, visualization and other methods with ease. But I noticed that every time I acquired those things there was still …

Anyone's Nparents raised you to become dependent, then complain about your dependence and pressure you to be independent? — I was raised to become dependent. As a child, i used to not speak and be selectively mute, because i thought i didn't need to speak as my mother controlled all aspects of my life. She didn't just pres…

You are right. Saying they left because of our flaws isn’t completely right, they left too because of their flaws. The most important thing is to recognize our own flaws for the purpose of self-accept…

Any mentors out there willing to chat? I'm worried I'm digging myself into a hole working with a custom on-prem cloud solution. Anyone willing to chat, I'd be extremely grateful.

Manifestation is like doing a Dua. You being grateful for having your desires.

No I didn't dance with him..we just saw each other during dancing and he smiled at me and I smiled at him ,and people around me are like forget him ,he was an outsider and he won't even come back to t…

That's where I'm at. This pain was unbearable. Anyone who hasn't been through an avoidant discard will never understand the severity of the experience. Our mutual friend apologized to me for hooking …

Thank you ❤️ I am not sure what wording you prefer, but you can post anything like this: - Rayu deserves to be paid for the meditations you’ve sold. You talk about manifestation and abundance, pay t…

Correct! Emotions are not meant to stay, negative or positive. Feel them, understand them, learn, appreciate and be grateful then let them go. Balance is key, control is better! Don’t live in the ex…

totally makes sense! for me since I started taking antidepressants as a teenager (around 16/17) I didn’t really see what my adult attachment style was like without them. to be honest I never thought t…

So, I don't keep counts of my manifestations. But I swear by scripting. Scripting has changed my life. I am a very rational person myself. I strongly believe in science but I also believe in God/uni…

Girl you. need . to . move . On. This is said with love. He is an adult and he needs to do the work, you cannot do it for him. You have your very own life left to live it..live it to the fullest. You …

People are everything. They're fickle, they're stupid, they're disagreeable, they shove you away at times, they're not solid...but they're also beautiful, and dependeable, and deep like the sea, and e…

I am grateful af for this reply and your perspective. Thank you!

I just really regret pouring my entire being into something that was a huge waste of 3 years. I sold my house and gave away my possessions to be here. Starting my entire life over. And even though …

Honestly, I am so grateful for this space- considering it has aided plenty of beings including myself. With most experiences in all that we do, one might not understand or be quick to accept it as the…

I like @mrpibbons comment about writing everything out and NOT sharing it with her. If you share it with her there is a high chance you won’t get the response you want (you’ll feel like crap), she’ll …

Hah, seriously wish I'd been able to keep this in mind when I met my now- and soon-to-be-ex-wife. All of these things of which I was on some level aware at the time, but damn if she didn't make a con…

Yeah. I was used to my mom being not loving but when she got busy with other stuff or my cousins and was just indifferent to me, I think that really damaged me, I still remember how that felt, like yo…

I’m 45F. I was previously anxious and have moved to secure. Part of getting there was realizing that my family of origin had used me as a scapegoat. I set a boundary with my mom that she could no long…

This is pure bullshit to the tenth power and weak minds will eat this up and wonder why their life is fucked lmao. Thoughts don’t magically bend reality but your beliefs, focus and mindset shape how y…

>Does it feel emotionally safe/secure because there is a natural distance and no real chance it can become anything romantic? There is very little risk. It’s way easy to live in the fantasy of who you…

Oh, questions I didn't answer. Hmmm. Because there is very much a HUGE stigma in my current ofice that "Bosses are bosses & workers are workers & at the very least in the office they do not mix"... I…

Personally I dont say I missed you too unless it was true, I would just organize a time to spend time together, start a meaningful conversation, and maybe say “sorry Ive been mia <3 how have you been?…

I am in a long distance relationship with the most secure man I’ve ever met in my life, and he is soooo attractive because of it. I have felt the *calm* excited for the first time in my life and I am …

I went through a devastating break up three years ago. My ex was a dismissive avoidant. We were in couples therapy before the breakup. I kept seeing the same therapist after the breakup and that’s whe…

Great job 👏 very well written and I can identify with this. I have a monster closet after my monster box got too small. Part of my shame was being a tom boy, and the ridicule I faced for not looking…

An acquaintance came back into my life after months and he was so sincere in what he wrote and everything but it has been making me feel nauseous because it feels too intimate. I feel sick and so gros…

I think something that might help is journalling. To me, I prefer journaling over meditation or breathing because it helps me put things into language and gets my thoughts out of my head, rather than …

I am so grateful for the most secure relationship I've had. It taught me what im able to hold when im being held right.

i think youre right! honestly ive become closer with my irl friends over the last few years and i love being around them and talking to them. most of them are older than me and they are great at offer…

Thank you, truly. Your words mean more than you know. I can feel the kindness and empathy in them, and I’m really grateful they resonated with you. I’m so sorry you’re hurting too. Even if neither of …

Today is a milestone birthday for my ex. I broke up with her just over a month ago. I know how much she was not looking forward to this birthday, and how grateful she was to imagine she wouldn't be c…

I was spiraling last year with a back issue that was bad enough that I needed a cane to get around and then treating migraines years before that, which was a similar hopeless process of elimination. W…

Dating two guys right now. Both are 35, as am I. One I have dated around 6 weeks and one I’ve dated 3 months. I thought the 3 month one was going to fade away the past couple weeks as he’s been dist…

Just thinking about how the avoidant that I recently cut contact with told me his longest relationship was for 6 months, despite being 35 years old. Unlike my other friends, I only heard him mention …

32nb Update! I am so relieved; the conversation I needed to have w 39m went so well!! He also shared something he’d been anxious about compatibility-wise, and we both talked about where we are and go…

u/AnonForeverIDST HOLY SHIT! That POS sounds very familiar....to my ex. Yes, we broke up. But...I broke up w him like....he had a count and said it was up to 50! I really think he was a trauma bond, …

Me and my bf just hit the 3 month mark. We have not said “I love you” to each other yet. Although, at 2 months into dating, it was interesting, we were on the phone and he was complaining about life …

Thank you so much this was so helpful i actually couldn't be more grateful

It’s a lot of really good people out there, people that are worth the effort. I found the best way to stay positive was to just be grateful for whatever human interaction/experience I was getting, goo…

Just a vent. I guess romantic relationships are not for me. It never works. When I am single I feel fine, never lonely and never bored. But then whenever I start having feelings for a man sooner or…

Never felt so seen in my life. But I beg to differ. You might be too guarded to feel these grand, overflowing feelings of limerence but you do care and you do love. Maybe you need to lower your expect…

Cried on my first ever Valentine's because I was a hot mess 😓 Long story short, went out on a date with my partner and there were some parts in our conversation (not his fault) that brought back dif…

I would do some sleuthing tell her, but don't expect her to he grateful. She's a newlywed and he's probably already poisoned the well just in case you snitch on him.

Honestly it could go either way, wife grateful or wife gets a vendetta against you and then god knows what’s going to happen.

I was in a similar situation and the advice i got was if youre gonna tell her, do it anonymously and i cannot stress this enough. In my culture (whole other story) she was very likely to stay anyway o…

Valentine's weekend was lovely, really stark contrast to my last one. The gifts were so personal and well thought out, and the card made me cry. He spent time and effort going to get them, it means a …

Absolutely! It's great to have a trained professional's assistance when navigating life's madness. But I'm also grateful that it reduces the burdens that friends have to carry when they get emotionall…

Seems like I was sent to a Ghost town 👻 And it looks like it's a Ghost week based on the comments from others here.  So I haven't heard from him since Tuesday. On Tuesday he sent me a message sayin…

Amongst the negativity of this thread today: LD woman drove to me (2.5 hours) Wednesday. We had an incredible night. Went to yoga class together, made dinner, danced in the kitchen, watched some TV.…

I have to comment on this. Me and my lady are almost 5 years in and I admit, I used to be horrible at showing her how much she meant to me with words. I suck at saying things, but I have worked on it …