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Catastrophic incident

I love "The egg" it's in a short story collection that I return to frequently...and I'm always trying to get people to read it ❤️🕊️✌️

r/gatewaytapescomment3/23/2026
Super Neat!

Super Neat! — I found out about the Gateway Tapes/Monroe about 3 weeks ago. I have read most of the links and information on this sub reddit, watched some of the Youtube videos and started listening to the audio b…

r/gatewaytapespost3/18/2026
What is my (35M) role in my parents (69F)(80M) dispute about chickens

What is my (35M) role in my parents (69F)(80M) dispute about chickens — I bought a large property with my elderly parents. I have a house in the back half of the lot and they live up in the front house. Since we have a few acres I thought it would be fun to get a few chic…

r/relationship_advicepost4/3/2026
A Tale of Two Easters

A Tale of Two Easters — **Hers** I woke up with a migraine and threw up as quietly as I could with the fan on so the boys wouldn’t hear, wouldn’t worry, wouldn’t have one more thing to carry. I brushed my teeth to …

r/survivinginfidelitypost4/5/2026
My 25f partner 24m doesn’t put any effort into any holidays or events or anything special. Is that normal?

My 25f partner 24m doesn’t put any effort into any holidays or events or anything special. Is that normal? — Post is as it reads. We have a 2 year old daughter together. Her birthday recently passed and I spent hours baking her cake, finding decorations and gifts from eBay (she’s into some older tv shows so …

r/relationship_advicepost4/5/2026
Sadness over holidays

Sadness over holidays — Today was Easter. My festivities were in the morning as I had to work in the evening. I should have been enjoying my time with my family. There was a quiet moment before the egg hunt, and I was just …

r/BreakUpspost4/6/2026
i hate my life so much and i don't know what to do

i hate my life so much and i don't know what to do — i'm in my senior year of highschool and i just hate myself and my life so much what the hell am i doing. i'm a horrible student. half my grades are b's. i'm painfully average and i study most of the …

r/selfhelppost4/11/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Freeze eggs and or embryos with the sperm. 35 is young. I froze a ton of eggs at your age. I just had a surprise baby at 43f and I plan on using the eggs for more children 

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/7/2026
My mom called my son’s birthday party “f***ing embarrassing” because she cares more about what people think than celebrating him

It might be time to cut contact. My daughter's second Easter was my breaking point. It was the first year she could egg hunt, so I went out of my way to travel 3 hours and arrange it so both sides of …

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/10/2026
For those who stayed no contact with a parent until they died did you regret it?

Nope. I only regret I didn't do it sooner, with the egg donor. With the sperm donor, logistics, finances and trauma have kept me a bit more tied, but no or low contact has always been the dream. I'm f…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/13/2026
I (26F) told my boyfriend (26M) I sometimes miss the freedom of being single and he broke up with me on my birthday

Hey! This is the very best birthday present ever. I’m almost twice your age—believe me—learn, grow, move on. The not listening, the eggshells, the silent treatment (!!), the punishment—unless you want…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/15/2026
Have we reached a tipping point with generational trauma?

Have you heard of the thing about ovaries& generational trauma ?? “When someone experiences significant trauma, their brain signals the Superior Ovarian Nerve and other intrinsic neurons to release …

r/CPTSDcomment3/16/2026
What can I do when my (20F) husband (20M) is convinced I cheated on him because I’m pregnant again and refuses to listen to me.

I just don’t understand it, “we weren’t trying!!” if you’re finishing inside of a woman without any form of birth control, you actually ARE trying. the eggs are going to be fertilized anyways regardle…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/16/2026
A fun hypothetical

This is difficult to answer with the two choices presented. It may not be a Stoic answer, but to reframe, I would need the past mistakes to exist in order to fully experience the highs. Both are nece…

r/Stoicismcomment3/18/2026
My (29M) prenup with my fiance (28W) pays her for having children. My parents (65M, 62W) are telling me to call off the wedding

Girl, these a rich people problems! 😂 I can't give you no help but good luck with all that though... Ummm, of you need another baby ( better make it quick, I'm in perimenopause), I'm available for t…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/18/2026
Being the dumper

That's very hard. I'm on the opposite end of things right now. My partner and I were together for three incredible months, and then at the beginning of the year she began to drift away hard. She init…

r/ExNoContactcomment3/18/2026
Anyone find out later in life the “good” parent was as bad as the “bad” parent?

Yes. The egg donor was more "overtly" abusive in the sense of being physical and visibly neglectful towards me, even in public at times. I always knew the sperm donor had a temper and could be reall…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/21/2026
A lot of parents give their children mental disorders then pretend as if it's the child's fault.

She always blamed me for being a "problem child" for not being able to sleep through the night by myself up until I was around 10. The reason? I was (still am, of course) terrified of the dark, while …

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/22/2026
Catastrophic incident

As someone who experienced quite a few extreme events in my personal life and during my service -I was an infantry conscripted at the age of 18- I learned to accept the fact that life is not linear ne…

r/gatewaytapescomment3/23/2026
It is easier to lucid dream when you go out.

Yeah. First of all it's just healthy to go out regularly, sun, fresh air, "exercise".If you can be in nature even more so, a 30 minute walk a day where you just chill and look at nice stuff is just go…

r/LucidDreamingcomment3/23/2026
Catastrophic incident

Can you provide a link to The Egg anime?

r/gatewaytapescomment3/23/2026
Cracked open

if you meditate for long enough your bound to have realizations that are both positive and negative. i had a experience a few months after my dad died that i saw a egg above my head, and a light shine…

r/Meditationcomment3/26/2026
My dads been exposed by three siblings and my mom still has done nothing

Breath, you are now safe. The egg and sperm donor have been exposed. Hopefully there will be consequences for them both. Be well

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/28/2026
Broke up with my gf because she wants kids now and I'm not ready.

She's 31. She needs to start having kids soon *anyway*. By 35 its considered geriatric and each year after the quality of the eggs and chances of getting pregnant decrease while the chances of pregnan…

r/BreakUpscomment3/29/2026
Spoon bending with psychokinesis and next steps

Lollllll either way I’ve bent my spoons all sorts of ways. Chicken or the egg, either way I’m eating

r/gatewaytapescomment4/2/2026
'guess im just the worst moth-' yes, yes you are

Pantry moths. They are the worst moth. The eggs can come in on or in any bag of flour. Took a while to fully evict them. (Store everything in airtight containers now) And also your cousin clothing mo…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/4/2026
Conflict about 3rd kid after an affair (36M/36F)

Also just to left you know PIA sex can get women pregnant too. Sperms travels. I know someone with a 6 year old who got pregnant from anal and that was the birth control method so they never used the …

r/relationship_advicecomment4/4/2026
This sub is making me really sad

Dude it's wild, sometimes I don't realize something was that bad until I tell someone else and they're like "whoaaa that's fucked up". And then I'm like "oh right...I was originally calibrated to surv…

r/CPTSDcomment4/5/2026
I told my wife, 26F, that our baby is mine and that I 25F, did not consider her the other parent. But I don't know if that was a good call?

OP said in other comments that the baby is biologically for her wife. They used her egg & OP is the parent who isn't biologically related. Not that it makes a difference, they are married so legally …

r/relationship_advicecomment4/5/2026
r/relationship_advicecomment4/5/2026
J’ai vue un œuf métallique se transformer en oiseau.

Translated to English for the community : # "I saw a metal egg transform into a bird. Put like that, it sounds rather strange, but let me tell you. I was 8 years old, and I was on a swing in …

r/experiencerscomment4/6/2026
No Easter for me

My immediate family likes to try to get together, but 95% of the time a fight happens. It's sad because I just want to see my nephew who I adore. We didn't see them today, because my sister in law (…

r/CPTSDcomment4/6/2026
My (24F) boyfriend (25M) is extremely insecure and I’m not sure what to do anymore

Reddit treats any discussion of penis sizes like you're disarming a fucking bomb, the eggshells are fragile around here esp compared to any other feature or characteristic that a person could feel ins…

r/relationshipscomment4/6/2026
The Lady

"what we've allowed ourselves to become" Have we? To what extent is the individual responsible for a system that grinds their time and energy to nothing? Am I responsible for the factory ships that d…

r/experiencerscomment4/6/2026
Were we all always 'liars'?

i had a real mixed bag. i was the scapegoat and golden child whenever it suited her to be nice (i am an only child from her side & it was literally just me/her in the house - yikes) but this does make…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/7/2026
What did you learn from your last relationship? What are the good things you want to carry forward with you and what are the things you won’t repeat?

My last relationship taught me that loving someone genuinely doesn’t protect you from being lied to, from someone who had a loose relationship with what was mine and from being gaslit. That someone ca…

r/BreakUpscomment4/7/2026
What did your parent(s) tell you about relationships and marriage?

Nothing from the egg donor. The sperm donor alternated between "guys only want one thing!" and "never give a guy money or tell him how much you got!"

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment4/8/2026
My bf (42M) says I(32F) ruined our relationship by bringing up a small issue.

Thank you for that perspective, truly. I think maybe I’ve been in denial about the eggshell thing? I’ve been practicing being mindful of what he’s able to give day to day and maybe I let that pour ove…

r/relationshipscomment4/8/2026
What are most men like when they are upset? I (42F) am considering leaving my husband (46M) over how he acts when upset.

Your children have been feeling the eggshells too and now think that’s a normal way to live. Please show them the difference by giving them a happy, calm home. You all deserve it!

r/relationship_advicecomment4/9/2026
What are most men like when they are upset? I (42F) am considering leaving my husband (46M) over how he acts when upset.

It’s tough love time. (1) No, of fucking course all men aren’t like this. Jesus Christ. It’s scary that you even have to ask. I suspect you already know the answer. (2) Your husband sucks. (3) It s…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/10/2026
Who's audhd here too?

Same, I often get caught up between the chicken or the egg conundrum... Was i born like this and predisposed to being extra sensitive to the neglect, thus making it doubly harmful ...or was I nurt…

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment4/10/2026
How can I (25F) get my boyfriend (23M) to stop sufferingmaxxing?

The fact that you stayed with him after the eggs is crazy. You can’t make him stop the only person you can stop is you. YOU stop suffermaxxing.

r/relationship_advicecomment4/12/2026
How can I (25F) get my boyfriend (23M) to stop sufferingmaxxing?

He literally poisoned you. He has issues that are not yours to fix, and it sounds like he has no interest in working on them. You should not be with someone who would hurt you like that, who would get…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/12/2026
How can I (25F) get my boyfriend (23M) to stop sufferingmaxxing?

This man sounds MISERABLE!! Like I started to get depression just reading your post. He honestly needs therapy asap and probably some meds. There is no way he wants to spend the rest of his lif…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/12/2026
Their Funeral

I guess I'll have to go to the sperm donors funeral, since I'm probably the only one who can organise it. I'm stuck living with him for financial reasons but working hard on getting out. I hope to g…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/13/2026
How can I (25F) get my boyfriend (23M) to stop sufferingmaxxing?

100% fake. Not only is the taste and smell of rotten eggs so overpowering that she wouldn't have been able to swallow the food but after 5 months the eggs would have either exploded from the gas bui…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/13/2026
Did anyone else's parents never teach you literally any basic life skills at all. And then turn around and mock you for not knowing them

Not really. They didnt teach me but they didnt really mock me. I'm 21 and until last year I didnt know how to do laundry. When I was young my mother didnt teach me and when I wanted to learn or help …

r/CPTSDcomment4/13/2026
Shared flat I live in has horrible energy but I can’t get out. Any tips?

I share your situation for the last 16 years and hope to change it (move) in a few years. I've tried: *  burning frankincecence and it helps but smoking other people's rooms and private spaces can bac…

r/energy_workcomment4/13/2026