Upper Limit

1) Identify the "Upper Limit": Read "The Big Leap" by Gay Hendricks. It explains how we sabotage ourselves when things go too well because we feel we don’t deserve more happiness or success than our f…

Try down to 29, at least, if not 28. I'm your age and have found 27 year old men to be too young, I think it's a generational thing, but 28 becomes viable and 29 feels the same as 30 to me. I currentl…

Sorry for the late reply! Yeah similar for sure! Relationships are more real than our standard definition as a human colony, naturally for us, a relationship usually means two people being together…

Is there, possibly, also a cultural element to this - is your partner Asian by any chance? Is your partner funding her parents other than by small gifts? That you on a lower income had more 'asse…

This is the upper limit problem - Read “The Big Leap” you are self sabotaging your own succes and happiness due to a subconcious limiter on how much joy or happiness you think you deserve or allow y…

Mmm so I definitely feel like when I experience emotions they are mostly negative, and then my "happiest" is kind of just like... content / at peace? But I am realizing it's an "upper limit problem" a…