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I think my comment was read very differently than intended. Thanks for the reply but I didn't say "I want an apology", I said if someone has never experienced someone apologizing to them (not necessar…

Meeting with manufacturer tomorrow for sports tech product what info should i know/ have available for them — I am a newbie to technology products and want to try to make everything as smooth as possible. I am young and already nervous they won’t want to work with me due to me seeming unprepared. This is my…

Meeting with manufacturer tomorrow for sports tech product what info should i know/ have available for them. i will not promote — Meeting with manufacturer tomorrow for sports tech product what info should i know/ have available for them I am a newbie to technology products and want to try to make everything as smooth as possib…

My boyfriend and I had an argument over his marriage demands, and now he claims he means none of it... — Tl:dr: My boyfriend of two years has a list of requirements from me after we get married, and after our argument over it, which lead us to break up-- he said he didn't mean any of it and wants to go …

Six Months of Dating in Europe as an East Asian Guy — Honestly Better Than I Expected — Today marks my sixth month living in Europe. Looking back at the past half year and all the European girls I’ve interacted with, I thought it would be fun to do a little reflection—what I did well, wh…

I spent years trying to fix my life with discipline. Therapy showed me why that didn’t work — **My Journey** I can’t remember not being depressed. I have some memories of the time before, but they are pictures, frames of a child enjoying life. But I’ve struggled with depression almost my enti…

I think I need to leave my marriage — I’ve been going back and forth on whether to post this, but I need to get it out somewhere. I think my marriage is over. There wasn’t one major event that caused it. No cheating. No physical abuse. …

I'm already behind in life at 18 — I wasn't sure which flair to use, because I think I need advice on a lot of things. I also want to preface by saying I do not blame any of this on my parents, schools, mental health, etc, and this was…

What if death is just a dream you can't wake up from? — I've been thinking about this more than I should probably admit. You know those dreams where you're in a familiar place, your family is right there, but something is off. You try to talk to them an…

Went on my first date in 16 years and I have ALOT of questions! — so I met this very beautiful woman on Facebook dating. something that I have not taken too serious in the past. I have to say, the attention and validation feelt nice. Especially after escaping an emo…

3D gets worse before getting better - purging — share your craziest purge story? mine was that i froze in an interview i prepared so much for and did so thier home task perfect they loved me up until that point. when the call ended i said thats ne…

Abusive & Alcoholic Mum on deathbed with cancer, planning on visiting her for closure — I’m not quite sure how to put this into words. Today, I received a missed call followed by a message from my older sister—someone I haven’t spoken to in years. She told me that our mum is in the hospi…

I've been lying to my parents about school for years — I (29yo Male) have felt terrible about school pretty much my entire adult life. I was considered smart back in highschool but not anything crazy like earnings awards or such. So My first experiences w…

Living with a Parent with Frontal Lobe Syndrome — The most famous case of Frontal Lobe Syndrome is a man named Phineas Gage, who survived being impaled by a railroad spike through his jaw and the top of his head. My dad was critically injured in ou…

Is my guilt actually more harmful than my shame?? — Added NSFW just in case, also touches on abuse related to religion and references SI Hi all, and apologies in advance if this gets lengthy. I am struggling to organize my thoughts and have been going…

Im so scared to start working properly — i got a new job, my first ever sales job, at a cellphone store and im really worried about next week. This first week i just did online training modules and yesterday i observed my coworker and manage…

Oh wow that sounds super unprofessional and overall unprepared on their end. I relate HEAVY on the long silence they give you after you open up to them. Somehow manages to make me seem like I’m overbe…

I was the child of a workaholic mother. She threw us elaborate birthday parties, was at every soccer game even though she hated watching soccer, and like you said about yourself, on paper she appeared…

Agree with all of this. This was my very first attempt at dating after 20 years, so definitely a learning lesson. Absolutely not a perfect person, and would never expect perfection from anyone else. I…

Like are we really out here eating unprepared ass??

If you are going to explore with the shrooms, spend the $10 and get a scale so you are not unsure of your dosing. Being unprepared sets you up for a rough time right off the gate. As far as "why" you…

Exactly. We need to be able to take risks when we are little and have someone to protect us so we learn to take calculated risks as adults and so we build self confidence. When we aren’t allowed to ta…

Assuming perfectly correct use. Usually it's more like 90%, because people mess up the use, forget to take the pill on time etc. Regardless of this, it either means that statistically every 10th or 1…

My best friend from high school was always large -- tall as well as wide -- and had an absolutely beautiful face. Sometime during her 20s, she lost a significant amount of weight. She said she was c…

A good plan for dating is to have a couple of outfits for first dates! Here is what I have adjust to your personal taste and comfort!! It’s been cold so I have: 1) “casual hang out” - perfect for the…

Absolutely. And, it was once I started experimenting with CBD and type 2 flower (mixed ratio thc:cbd) that I really felt the magic happen. "Regular" weed is often too strong, and it obscures my mental…

My Mars is in Virgo in a 1st house stellium with Uranus, Pluto, and my ascendant. I’m a natal Cancer, Libra Moon. The entirety of 2025 sucked for me on so many levels, especially health- and career-wi…

>My wife is an attorney. I’m not. And when we argue, she doesn’t just argue, she lawyers me. She dissects everything I say, reframes it, twists it, and turns it into something else. It feels like I’m …

my now-ex husband was dealing with some pretty intense trauma coming up during the dissolution of our relationship, and he was like this in many ways. The more I tried to appease him, the more aggress…

That's actually closer to what a lot of traditions have been saying for thousands of years. Tibetan dream yoga, certain Vedic frameworks — this waking life is the illusion, death is the return. But h…

The trash is offering to take itself out; don't chase the bag down the street and try to drag it back into your house. The especially appalling part, and the reason I'm going straight to "divorce thi…

Original copy of post by u/Musashie-Mike: so I met this very beautiful woman on Facebook dating. something that I have not taken too serious in the past. I have to say, the attention and validation f…

73y, divorced at 36y have never missed being married… my ex cheated on me, that caught me totally unprepared… Didn’t take long to fully appreciate being single … have never regretted staying single

I'm like this, and the only thing that works for me is to slow down. I don't really like it, but it's the only thing that works. One way that makes this work better is I will break a task into at le…

Hi Oak. I elaborated on my frustration with this in one follow-up comment located here: [https://www.reddit.com/r/Experiencers/comments/1sbuvme/comment/oedqo6i/](https://www.reddit.com/r/Experiencers…

Hi. I cannot give advice in regards to epilepsy, as I have no experience with it and no observations to share on the specific topic, I hope you understand. The etheric body is supposedly the body th…

I love walking/ park dates. I like getting a blanket and picking up food for a park picnic during dates. As long as the weather is nice and it’s a walkable area, then I’m down. The problem is if it’s …

I'm also going through a divorce, separated for 2 years now. I spent the first 9 months in solitude with every intention of spending the rest of my life alone. But then I had a one night stand, probab…

He asked you to move in so he could take advantage of you. Not only are you paying his entire rent, you're also doing his cooking and cleaning. Next, he's gonna have you pay his share of utilities. …

I'm so sorry that happened to you. You don't need to worry about your own hands in the pants necessarily. It's not unusual for children to masturbate without masturbating. From rubbing on tables to s…

This. THIS. I know exactly what you mean. When I was stuck in the law of attraction world it was like an endless quest of trying to reach some perfect, happy, enlightened version of yourself to get an…

That sucks that you met your soul mate while you were still married. Ok, that's sarcasm. I trauma dumped for 6 hours about my failed marriage to the first woman that I slept with after my separation -…

Just from a mindset perspective, bring him home and build the kid that won’t yo-yo. Take time with him to help him grow as a human so when he does try to get out he’s prepared and ready to face life’s…

My cousin had a 16 year old boy knock on her door and claim to be her husband’s son and he definitely was. They had young kids at the time and she felt entirely unprepared to take on a teenager, but s…