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Ugly bottle with excellent vintage wine! (Extraordinary post) Thank goodness I decided yesterday before going to sleep to read this incredible post today, after I woke up. Reason: The title of thi…
I finally figured out how to manifest — For context I’ve been manifesting for a really long time. I’ve taken this lifestyle up for over 5 years. But it used to be tough to know exactly what I’ll get and when I’ll get it in the past. I usual…
I thought I finally found someone. — Hi! This morning I got a text from a guy that I’m seeing that he doesn’t want a romantic relationship. He said with anyone but that I was perfect, kind, sweet and I’d make the perfect gf/wife. I fell …
Is being “delusionally positive” actually part of manifestation? — I recently came across someone who’s been challenging how I see manifestation, saying that feeling negative emotions or sitting with them too long is “bad” and blocks everything. But I’m talking abou…
Stop thinking you don’t have to work — Hello all, I’ve made prior posts detailing my success with Neville. Some of which were curing an “incurable disease” and manifesting almost a million dollars. Today I woke up with even more money com…
How do I break up with my “clingy” therapist? — I’m really struggling. I’ve been seeing this therapist for over a year now and suddenly the vibes shifted and I just can’t envision myself making progress with them anymore, and I want to find a new t…
We keep coming back but we’re not in love ?? — Ok so my ex broke up with me a year ago this month and i got into a relationship a month after blah blah that relationship didn’t end well. Throughout the year of 2025, we hung out and had sex like 3 …
Weird experience, too much of a skeptic but I've seen Horus' eye. — Hi, I had a few experiences recently that made me think about taking this thing of AP a little more serious. I'm as rational as possible and I need to fully understand something before I can mak…
Some perspective — I F (33) was only with my bf M (35) for a few months and things got serious very quickly. We never argued we never fought and he was never a social media person so that was irrelevant in our relations…
If U Experienced Abuse as a Pre-Verbal child, IS IT Harder to Identify the ways you Struggle, in a Compassionate self responsive way.....if you Don't also consider include Neglects impact + how TRAUMATIZING that would have been for a Pre-verbal Child? — # [](https://www.reddit.com/r/CPTSD/?f=flair_name%3A%22Trigger%20Warning%3A%20Neglect%22) Someone asked me once " *but why would you feel ashamed for having Trauma symptoms, and suffering from that…
We are social animals. So even when we are not dating we still need to have connection in our lives. So how are you meeting that need outside of dating? Your romantic partner should not be your only f…
This is very refreshing. I'm tired of hearing anxious people constantly bash us and talk about us like we're demons or something. IMO, anxious people are not as self aware as they think. They'l…
Is she still working at the same company or has she at least respected you and your marriage enough to cut her lover and coworker out of her life after the affair? Also, how and why did the affair en…
For me, my typical week is usually: * **Monday:** Work, visiting my parents in the evening * **Tuesday:** Work, prepping the next D&D session in the evening * **Wednesday:** Household chores/running …
I can understand how and why you'd feel this way. You gave her everything and she was cheating on you. Watch for her emotional rebound when it dawns on her what she's lost, and then the full-court p…
Does the documentary explore how and why the manosphere arose? From what I've noticed with social and political stuff, for every action there is a more or less equal and opposite reaction. Maybe they'…
I’m going to gently say that because you’re on the spectrum, you might not know how to express those deeper thoughts about someone else without centring yourself. I do it too! You definitely know how …
I’ve never really resonated with typical “Gemini stereotypes” as my sun sign so it’s validating to see all that watery-ness because I feel much more sensitive and emotional but then I think it’s all t…
Thank you! I'm still a bit cautiously skeptical - wondering about the link between imagination > reality and where and how and why they overlap. Still so new to all this. But way too excited to stop…
How can a mechanic know how to change out parts if he doesn’t understand how the machine runs to begin with? If you want to grow to be your best self, the first step is to understand how and why you…
That's what my parents did to me growing up! They'd see me cry then be like, "here come the crocodile tears!" and mock me. I think they even recorded me crying once or twice but it wasn't as common be…
It works for many, many people. It’s a fundamental principle in almost all religions. There is a mechanism behind it and how and why it works. Keep hating and resenting and you will keep suffering.
Yeah true..expect they just show up and tell me I always tried to understand how and why and who is that? Why me? But it’s close to stop this circle in my head and just accept that yep I have this thi…
# Have you ever noticed that everything starts to work out only when you stop trying so hard? Have you noticed how the statement in the title created a limiting belief in yourself? That's how and wh…
To answer OP I wouldn't say 24/7 no - I think it just depends really. I do think they can scan our whole life and choose when to appear, which is impossible for us to imagine the experience of that fr…
Yeah they’re gonna keep it vague. These are things normal people would say to each other after a minor altercation and actually mean it. However in the narcissism world these are typically just tactic…
Yes, this is how and why I got involved with astral projection many years a go. I’m sorry for your loss.
Thank you so much. I’m going to order that book right away. Only reading 12 percent is insulting. It might be time for an ultimatum. Full disclosure, cut off all communication with the other man, rea…
You are not wrong, and the problem is not you at all. This is a huge problem in the field of therapy treating childhood trauma that is counterproductive and sometimes harmful.. The number one tr…
It's actually not that hard if you pay attention to their words and their actions. Not only in the present or with time, but also in their past. Patterns don't lie. Patterns repeat, that's why they're…
Just text and tell her that this is done. Be gentle yet firm that this is not working for you, that’s it’s not healthy for either of you. Let her know how and why you feel the way you do, give her as …
I don't know why but I just thought of the movie everything, everywhere all at once and jobu tupaki. great movie if you havent seen about experiencing everything at the same time similar to what you'v…
I keep trying to understand how and why you would act this cruel. I maybe worked too much for a while, but I really tried to be a good person for her. This thought just keeps me in this painful spiral…
Sit, focus on your breath. If you get distracted, come back to your breath. Every. Single. Question. Is. A. Thought. And. A. Distraction. Don't get hung up on the how and why and whatever. Every do…
Depends on how long you were together and how and why it ended. It could take a year or more. Be patient with yourself
Your feeling anxious because whatever your manifesting is a threat to your ego mind. The ego mind likes familiarity and habits. It makes you feel anxious so you'll stop affirming. However if you keep …
May I know how and why you guys broke up?
Sorry about how much you’re struggling. *Extremely violent trauma? Yes.* *Multiple homicides.* ⚠️ WARNING: HEAVY SHIT below, MAJOR TRIGGERS: life or death, murder below. More than I ever shared …
It seems like a logical assumption. If you are ok with sharing, how and why did you break up?
For the right person, it can be helpful. For you and I, apparently it was not. I have had therapists tell me before that my problems sounded like "typical family problems." When I went into the meetin…
How and why are you calling it a depressant? I remember in college psych we learned that the depressant drug is the one that subdues the functions of the body, like alcohol. Marijuana is more like a s…
> How and why are you calling it a depressant? Ladies and gentlemen, the fruit of public education.
Honestly how and why are you allowing this to happen? dump him and keep him away from her. you keep letting some guy into your home to harrass your cat who is supposed to be your baby. you're actively…
Here’s what my first trip on psychedelics did for me. (This was after one acid trip and these ideas didn’t start coming to me until prolonged time passed after the trip — not while actively tripping)…
That sounds exactly like my parents, and I suspect that's how people are in general for the most part. Some of the things you mentioned are definitely not a parent thing, but "people in general" thing…
I’m going to quote Jess Hill’s *See What You Made Me Do*, which focuses on the insecure reactor type of domestic abuser (which is non-strategic), and discusses the how and why, as well as possible sys…
I do miss her but I feel like I’m gradually getting over her week after week, it’s been a year so I’ve had some time. I find myself thinking about her, having what if’s go through my mind, and still q…
aww, haven’t. How and why did it fall apart? Sorry yo hear that :(
He’s being an asshole. Next time when he asks a question go into excruciating detail as to when where how and why. If he questions you tell him you just want it to be clear. Keep doing it.
I'm 158cm. At 48kg, I was skin and bones with no boobs no ass. I don't understand how and why one would ask someone else to go on a diet at 46kg. I would break up with him cuz he obviously did not car…
I don’t think hypothetical questioning is immature if you go into it with a mature mindset knowing that you may not get an answer you are ready to hear. I would encourage hypothetical questions for co…