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Does Reddit belong to the 3rd House or the 11th House? — I can see an argument for both. The 3rd House relates to our immediate and daily forms of learning/ communication which can include things like newspapers, books, internet articles, podcasts etc. So R…
You've got a good head on your shoulders. Don't punish yourself for what you didn't know and don't try to do it all alone. Definitely share your struggles of suicidal ideation with your people. I woul…
I think it might be helpful to define what “socially stimulating” actually means to you and check it against what others think it means. As well as what you identify as “boring”. I think this can be h…
My two best friends live in Washington State and Oregon. I live in Ohio. I have met more people traveling than I have ever met living in Ohio. Sometimes, we're legitimately just in the wrong place. Wr…
I can understand you getting triggered. I got triggered just reading about what happened! Girl, you’re free. I get it. They look happy. It minimises what you went through. I imagine in a way it makes …
Check out /r/BoneAppleTea. You might find your people.
Find your people. Asian beauty standards are popular right now. Not all Americans like football. Food preferences are individual; plenty of non-Asians like Asian food. Hang in there. Discrimination is…
This. Like part of divorce was rehabbing my soul/turning my house lights back on. I took 21 trips, most international in the 2 years after divorce. Somebody who was needy? Needed a response within min…
I have found that many people want to be in a committed relationship but living apart nowadays. I’m a 41F and I personally will only date with the intention of eventually joining households and gettin…
So the actual quote is: "That's how we're gonna win, not fighting what we hate. saving what we love." It's about the reason to fight, not the methodology. Nothing about killing or not killing, they ob…
It's her way of decompressing and I recognized it right away, she's always super chatty but doesn't have many people to share the more serious things so I listen. It doesn't really bother me because p…
Congrats! 160 days is real. The social life part resonates. I went through something similar and the circle did shift eventually. The people who stuck around were better fits anyway. And the ones who…
This is highly dependent on the man, and I get what you’re trying to accomplish by polling the internet (because I’m a primary custody single parent too—and in the beginning I worried about what that …
Well either impress the mom and show her you arent a bad influence (she will always be a bitch) or yall can run around and get in trouble possibly breaking the friendship. As far as the social anxiety…
omg.. I have a trauma response around a friend I really love. I have to run away internally or literally in the real world when I see her. Sometimes Im straight up rude to keep her away. Wish I knew…
It's time to learn about [DARVO](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/DARVO). --- One of the things my divorce taught me is to not worry about the narrative my ex created for herself. It wasn't my job to c…
Babe, that’s not partnership, thats exploitation. Using your childhood trauma as a weapon is a line most relationships never cross. He clearly knows how to destabilize you when you push back - and he’…
I'm so sorry this is happening. I'm so sorry. This is unfair and awful. You are doing so well, considering. And he is abusing you. Financial abuse is an extremely common form of abuse. And it is coer…
I had a similar awakening in the last few years. Long story skipped entirely, I read about attachment styles and fawning and their relation to trauma. Basically, experiencing trauma determines to a …
Good luck, friend. Many of us have done the same, and you will be ok. Go find your people. Be careful, be smart- when you are too exhausted to put more air in the tires or get an oil change, remember …
Interesting that Oakland didn’t come up as a possibility - successful, active, woman of colour? Oakland is where you’re most likely to find your people.
I was in your shoes 10y ago, except I was also the one going far away and leaving behind my then BF. Fast forward -- after several relationships, and a steady marriage, a part of me still misses that …
It’s really really going to suck for both of you, but you’re just wasting her time and yours the longer you keep her there if you aren’t happy. Time is precious, so I’d say let her go so you both can …