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I'm fine discussing the operations openly. Operations on spine/back of head --> Done by nordics. Felt like raising energy up my spine from above tailbone or lowering it from top of back of my head. O…
Why do so many websites of major companies suck? — I just went on [sephora.fr](http://sephora.fr) for the first time in years (I don't really shop there anymore, or I go in person). The website not only looks like it was designed 15 years ago and has …
Shopify Free Plan? — Hey friends! I used to run my online store via Shopify (sold it last year), and now I’m recommending it to a lot of people in my marketing course. I *thought* there used to be a free plan, or maybe I’…
DA Downplaying friendship — I have a self-confessed avoidant friend (I am secure). We dated very briefly but ended it because he said he couldn’t do serious relationships and I didn’t want to continue something ambiguous, catch …
A letter to my fearful avoidant ex — 31st December 2025 So here we are. Another night, another thought. It’s been nearly 25 days since Eddie left me. Recently, so many emotions have been running through my mind. I never thought I would…
To those who went from never remembering their dreams and hardly having them, to lucid dreaming every night, what changed? — I would love to know, I have goals I’d like to achieve and I feel that lucid dreaming often would help me out, thanks.
Dreamt the Sphinx had the head of a Goddess with a headdress. — Hello friends, Just wanted to share a dream I had two nights ago. For anyone who may be familiar with some of my experiences, you’ll know that so much of my journey has been guided by messages I have …
What if manifestation is actually people waking up inside a simulation? — I’ve been thinking about something and I’m curious if anyone else has had this thought. I came up with a theory that reality might be a simulation or something similar to a “matrix.” If that’s true, …
Broke up with me because his father didnt want him to be distracted from his career. Why cant I forget him? — As the title mentions. I (DOB 30.12.1993, first chart) was best friends with this boy (DOB 13.10.1994, second chart) from 2013 and we started dating in 2014 beginning. The relationship was a very good…
NHI that Stop Time and Timelessness of the Oversoul; More Research that Supports how Aliens Obscure Human Memories. — Hi everyone. This is [me](https://www.reddit.com/r/Experiencers/comments/1ai4nzi/i_had_26_physical_contact_events_with_grey_aliens/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_c…
I'm convinced that I've done something horrible to my nephew. (POCD) — I'm so sorry. I'm having an absolute panic attack right now. I've been ruminating about a lot of things, and this is specifically me ruminating about my nephew. I have POCD, at least, I certainly ho…
Finally Got a Lucid Dream... So I Tested your Queries in it — Hey guys, this is gonna be a bit of a long one lol. \[CONTEXT\] For a while, I've been trying to lucid dream, but was too lazy to consistently do training, write in journals, or set multiple alarms …
I don't know the difference between what's real or not anymore — I don't really know where to start other than this experience was over the weekend, and it made me see things in a different way. On Saturday night, I took a gummy, I dabble in it to help with my anxi…
Persistence isn't effort. It's RETURNING — Persistence *is not effort.* Persistence is RETURNING to the state of authority. You are not persisting by trying harder, in fact you are persisting in a state that suggests you do not have what you w…
“EASIEST AP TECHNIQUE IN HISTORY!” (Update) — “History’s simplest projection technique” (Tweaked and updated for better results!) I posted the 30 second head lift technique a few months back and I wanted to update it hopefully to add to y…
I am ruining my life and I feel like i cant stop it — Hello everyone and let me say thank you for taking the time to read and/or respond. Our time is valuable and I want you to know thst I genuinely appreciate you giving your time to a stranger... This …
Bad things will lead to greater life. — It's one of the obvious, but sometimes even the obvious things are good to remind yourself. Everything bad that happens in your life will eventually lead to life with more freedom of mind. It filters…
I meditated for 10 years. Here is how life changed — This is a personal anecdote of daily (99.5%) meditation practice spanning 10 years. I hope this will be helpful for those looking for motivation for their practice. Personally, I found external motiva…
The Astral Plane: its Nature, Structure, and the Unseen’s Map found in world religions — *Disclaimer: The views expressed here are my personal opinions, except where excerpts are quoted.* # Nature of the Astral Plane The Astral Plane is the wider dream world. It’s a constant place that …
Is reading pointless if I don’t remember most of it? — I’ve been overthinking reading lately. I just started reading books because I feel like it’s a step I need to take to reach my goals, but I keep worrying that if I don’t remember everything I read, t…
I started writing things down after conversations and it changed how I see things — I started writing things down because I kept leaving conversations with my spouse feeling confused. Not just upset, but genuinely confused. Like I knew how I felt in the moment, but later I couldn’t c…
It's never too late — After 33 years of marriage, I just hired an attorney. I am divorcing my narc. After years of being on this sub, I always thought my circumstances were too complicated to ever be free of him. I didn't…
Writing about my experience with Iboga medicine 🌱 — Earlier I made a post and someone commented that they didn't want to watch a video. Understood! Here is an account of what I saw during my time with ceremony number one with iboga. It was not what I i…
Lend me your ears :) — A long time ago, I remember fragments of the GATE lessons. I DJ and a bit of a long time after I left school, yet a long time before now I brought a record, I remember standing listening to it at t…
Anyone not have many childhood memories? — Like I just draw blank a lot of the time when trying to remember childhood, what happened at home, what things felt like, etc. My brothers often talk about how aggressive and dominating Dad would get…
Religion might be trapping people in their own hell 💀 — We know that assumptions and beliefs create our reality. Think about people throughout history who did absolutely horrific things, yet genuinely believed they were doing the right thing in the name o…
Be as if you have a happy past — ​ Assume you have a happy past. Most trauma people carry trauma because they keep remembering their traumatic past. Be as if your past is a happy past even when it's not , and this will fr…
I miss him so much — Today is its birthday! His 30th birthday. I had to plan to celebrate him so well. I started organizing this last year. He deserves to be celebrated. Our love was so special. Now, today, im in the pa…
It’s Been Four Years 😢 — If anyone can share some advice, I’d really appreciate it. It’s so embarrassing for me to share this, but I need to get it off my chest. I still haven’t gotten over my ex-situationship (would’ve been …
my dream journal has been working in reverse. let me explain — so a while ago I started a dream journal to write down all the dreams that I can remember from each night. I also wrote down all the unsual things in my dreams and created a "dream rule list" to read …
I get it now — I literally just woke up in the middle of the night, then I went downstairs to the kitchen to grab me something to drink, when I went upstairs again and into my bedroom I saw my own body asleep, befor…
How are we disrupting our intergenerational trauma — I created this graphic because I've been thinking deeply about what it means to disrupt intergenerational trauma as an adult kid of Vietnamese and Khmer refugee parents, and what it means to pivot tow…
How to know if a kid is normal or needs counseling? — At what point do you take a child (11 f) to counseling or therapy for the following: Avoidant about interacting with non-familial adults (teachers, waiters, doctor, dentist, store clerk, literally an…
I am spiraling and need help/perspective — I was doing somewhat okay, being practical and thinking about the logistics of divorce. But a sudden gush of guilt and anxiety is engulfing me right now. It’s been a few hours. I am asking myself qu…
Letter to Self before Meeting her — Figured it helped a few on other subs so I would add here. I've also been told to warn it may be a trigger to some. Hey dumbass, I don’t really know how to start this without it feeling unreal, beca…
Being an adrenaline junkie in my DR — ​ I’ll be completely honest with you guys: I originally only got into shifting because I wanted to get boned. I have a terrible time connecting with people in this CR, so that was my main moti…
I want her back but I am scared of loving her again — I know a lot of people here want their ex back and I am one of them. I miss her more than I can even explain. Some days it feels like a part of me is still with her and I cannot get it back. But at t…
Ramblings of a lunatic (me) — This is gonna be extremely long so I don’t blame you if you don’t want to read it but I’ve been writing about it for a while and struggled with meaning and found this Reddit and thought I’d seek out s…
Do I need a therapy ? — ​ Hi, 33 Male from Egypt, well It's really hard for me lately, a lot has been happening in my life, and for past couple of months sleep has become really challenging, my thoughts and imaginat…
The global awakening, the planetary shift in consciousness, I seek to find you — \*\*\*\*Note: the following is my own interpretation and opinion of my own existence and nothing else. I am not an oracle. I have many questions and few answers. \------------- In the beginning ther…
29 M, living separately from wife since 2 months. Troubled marriage of 2 years (17th Feb, 2024). Is Divorce Imminent? Also having doubt regarding future career and wealth creation prospects — Living separately from wife since Feb 2026. Had an arranged marriage setup with majority of the Gunn matching (around 27 out of 36 Gunn matching as per pandit). Had good tuning initially but around th…
Science is proving manifesting sorta — It seems quantum mechanics allows for you to perceive future events. You’re not manifesting them exactly but remembering them. So for those who manifest may not actually be altering the 3d but just re…
is anyone willing to read my super long journal entry? i’m feeling so much right now, i wonder if anyone else relates. — TW: strong anger/aggression, depression, suicidal talk, negative self-talk, small mentions of religion. I’m back home again, and I hate it. I’m not sure why I keep doing this to myself. I’m not happy…
My first lucid dream.(Now Help me to increase my skills ) — So yesterday I got my first lucid dream. I used the method when you wake up and read your intentions and write them again for 10-15 minutes. I guess it was MILD method. Then sleeping. I dunno but my a…
Can someone help me understand what these symptoms mean? — Background: I’ve always been a weird kid, so I picked up the habit of binge drinking during my teen years, and I’ve had many moments where I went out of control and caused myself trauma bc of it. Peo…
Not trying go lucid dream gives me more results than trying ? — Hello everyone , i know lucid dreaming for a long time and i had round 8 lucid dreams but not all of them are close to eachother in time , the weird thing is that i found that when i try and do wbtb o…
Started a dream journal, doing pretty gud!! — after I started my dream journal, suddenly I began dreaming every night and remembering every dream with detail, one step closer to lucid dreams!!
Has anyone else as a young kid assumed possible sexual intent from parental affection? — For no reason, they never did anything slightly possibly related to that, but I remember as a young kid having in my mind that my parents might be pedophiles. I remember using that exact word in my th…
I thought I've never had vivid dreams before but my mind was tricking me — ever since I was born I don't remember having a vivid dream and I actually thought I've never had it before. I recently discovered that it's not the case, my mind has been tricking me. my dreams nor…
How can I do better — My Story — A Journal Entry Where It All Began I grew up in a joint family — grandparents, cousins, relatives all around. On the surface, there was warmth and togetherness. But my immediate family wa…
I remember being assaulted, the adults around me don't. — \[Trigger Warning\] Memory of Sexual Assault in Childhood basically what it says. For my entire life I had a very vivid image of being assaulted by an adult, but I didn't think it was assault…
The point is to still go to sleep, if you're going for the direct method, exiting the body happens during the precise moment between wakefulness and sleep, [see this](https://www.reddit.com/r/AstralPr…
It’s difficult when there is something you share with the person though, like children. You’re involved to some capacity and you can see how they are doing in all aspects of life - relationships, fina…
Hi! So one thing I can tell you from lots of therapy and recently spending time around her is I realized I had been only remembering her good qualities and putting her on a pedestal in my mind. When w…
It's a theory, as that'd what it is. It may work for some, it may not for others. Its essentially a basic CBT method to help you break a loop of rumination and understand you can have 2 opposing thou…
It's a theory, as that'd what it is. It may work for some, it may not for others. Its essentially a basic CBT method to help you break a loop of rumination and understand you can have 2 opposing thou…
I am unsure why. It's quite a common topic in psychology. And yeah, even better that you're doing it during a difficult period, as well as observing yourself doing it. A breakup is still a loss, an…
Yeah, it's learning to be honest and open up to the therapist and developing a safe, nurturing relationship with them (often the first one we've had) that does the trick. You gotta do that somehow to …
1. Therapy is like training wheels. If you can’t even ‘shop’ for a therapist, meaning: seeing their profiles, interview them, try it out, switch, maybe come back, maybe move on means you don’t have a …
That makes sense! Honestly the more I read you reply and thought about some of my past experience I actually take back some of what I said, cause I definitely wasn’t always as clear at the beginning a…
I’m not sure if I have any helpful advice, but I also have OCD and that plus attachment trauma sucks soooooo bad. I really feel for you (and me). I have more of a hard time getting myself to date th…
Maybe try remembering that there may not be answers to the questions you have. And getting “answers” is not likely gonna give you the closure you think it will. Cuz the “answers” will not likely be th…
Yes, I'm not someone who falls for people easily. I start liking a guy when I see him planning dates, showing interest in my life and remembering things I tell him, having fun with him but also having…
I am not a therapist, but I think there is a whole lot you can do to heal without remembering what actually happened. Become aware of your behaviors and patterns, what is causing anxiety and why, what…
Absolutely a DA thing. My best friend use to do this sometimes, but over time and as he felt more safe to open up and such, he slowed down on that and I haven't heard him do that in like half a year. …
I've been with my partner for like a year and a half. He asks me to do things I learned not to do to make my anxious stuff easier to deal with, and I don't know what to do about it. For example: He's …
Well that’s great that you still have contact. It sounds more like you are grieving the loss of where the friendship was at previously. Friendships can have hiccups and still bounce back later on down…
i’m happy i could share some insight, i’m also mostly in the freeze/fawn group and i relate to what you’re writing. i recently realised i have a tendency to extensively provide ”servitude” (fawning) t…
Thanks. Is that new-ish? Maybe I'm just misremembering how many posts there were like 6 months ago.
omg i struggle with the exact same thing with the whole "not wanting someone back but also not wanting them to move on." i have an ex girlfriend who ended up cheating on me and lying to me about how…
Your own personal insight about feeling like you may have “done too much” turned on a lightbulb for me; it seems like trying to reason with her about all the things she engaged in with me is futile. …
>made a list of all the yellow and red flags i never addressed with him instead. now i just read and reread that every time i miss him. I really need to do this - got dumped last week after things fe…
Sour cream and onion 😋 they don’t taste the same as my childhood tho, or maybe I’m not remembering my childhood very clearly haha
"Not being vulnerable with someone who is actively hurting you isn't avoidant." Yes!!! I honestly have trouble remembering this sometimes.
I get really anxious when I'm dating someone. Fear of abandonment, hypervigilance, the works. It got to the point where I was exhausted by my own spiral loop — overanalyzing everything, reading into e…
I think talking about ex's can make people feel uncomfortable. Personally i wouldn't want to be on a date with a new person talking about my past relationship or ex too much. So 3 years ago seems kin…
I think you need to dig deeper behind what is going on behind the rumination. Do you think her “choosing” you will give you worth? What are you chasing after really? Are you romanticizing your past re…
I think so. I am having trouble remembering them but they seem almost entirely just my unconscious mind solving things for my waking mind. The difference between awake and asleep is so much narrower.
I am absolutely up for this! I'll got as Ariel (remembering the mermaid outfit I hand-made as a kid and my mum wouldn't let me wear)
It’s such a mystery. But we’ll be alright, i know it doesn’t seem like it now, but we’ll be alright, one thing that keeps me going is remembering who i was before her. I was Him before her, I’ll be Hi…
They "corrected" my reality all the time. It was the main way they tried to make me lose my grip on reality. For just about everything, I was reacting wrong, misunderstanding, being too sensitive, rem…
You can’t control your emotions. The Stoics were quite deterministic, and they argue that there’s only one thing in your power (notice how they wouldn’t use the word control), and that thing is your…
Start with remembering to focus on the breath. Keep that as your intention, and you'll notice faster and take longer to wander off again. Once you get some stability with length of focus, you can star…
Remembering God's love and care for me, the dignity with which he created each of us -- even if our parents fell short. I'm also a practicing Catholic. My journaling is usually free form and usually …
Like remembering what it feels like and gaining clarity and calm . I meditate for clarity so that may be why I can get .. clarity
The most memorable one was a single drinks coaster for Xmas, It had my name on and 'qualities' like 'will listen to all your problems ' 'caring and obedient ' 'keeper of peace'. Gives me the ick just …
I was really young like maybe 6 and I was asking for a lot of things for Christmas. Everything I ask for my Nmom gave to my sisters and brother and, I'm probably misremembering, but I don't think she …
Brain tumors aren't that clever. He wouldn't be consistently successfully deleting every single message before he gets home, while never "remembering" or noticing them in the meantime. The only possi…
I am someone who's faith is very important to me but I do not believe in "forced forgiveness". I pastor i respect tried to explain it as "keeping the bitterness" out of myself. For me, remembering my …
Yes, I understand what your saying - that's why I detailed in my post above that following your above mentioned advice isn't bad per se. . However, different people require different methods of heali…
Np! I was on the discerned(?) end after a first date this weekend but at the end of the day it’s better for both ppl that we don’t waste time/energy right? Just gotta keep remembering that at the end…
Imagine you were dating a psychopath with morphing superpowers, using a perfect fake personality, fake mask, fake sympathy, simulating a nice person. You fell in love with a mask and are remembering …
Until around age 7 kids are in Meditation 24/7. So imitating adults doing anything, will be done in meditation as well. Mediation is remembering and trying to return to the state of a 4 year old. We…
Yeah same here, I don't miss my Ex anymore, but I miss the deep connections we had, the "I love yous" "good mornings" and the deep late night chats about our love for each other. She was the last one …
Omg… I am bad at remembering names, but I always remember faces and details about people. So I soooooo refer to people in the ways your ex did. Unless, I’ve met them/hung out with them several times o…
Your questions: Future instances/Priming your mind? Yes. Retrocausal activity is something that i've experienced and it appears that something beyond our linear arrow of time is involved in our growt…
You’re not weird for feeling that way. A lot of people underestimate how important simple touch is, it’s a real human need, not just a romantic one. Some people cope with things like hugs from close f…
… yes and no and maybe.. The original poster and your comment effectively underscore the significance of remembering that therapy is only effective when the client is willing to be truthful and activ…
When my brain decides to torment me mercilessly I have found that by gaslighting myself into treating the moment or occurrence like it's a "dementor" (Harry Potter reference) I then shift my focus on …
It was my last trip, and I’ll try my best to explain. So, I had already came down from the peak, I had taken 3.5, and was cuddling with my fiancé with my eyes closed, just enjoying little visuals yk? …
It's been 8 months since the breakup. She probably has BPD/NPD—she initiated both the relationship and the breakup. We work in the same company, on the same floor, and it still hurts and sucks. I keep…