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I don't see mutliple partners, but I do see you are highly self reliant and qualified. A clear sense of right and wrong, meaning you won't settle for just about anything. You have an excellent yog in …
confused with a thousand techniques? — i got an analogy - see if it helps. what's GOD for you , there exist a million religion housing million gods , each with its own rules , regulations, cultures, do's and dont,s , people define the…
Huge Success. Actually shocking how EASY it is. (Guidance & Success) — # 3/29/26 First things first, I want to say that it all starts with you and the person that you believe you are. What you believe you are capable of achieving. I want you to remember that a belief is…
THE ONLY ANSWER TO ALL YOUR QUESTIONS! (manifestation and neville) // PART 1 — (YA'LL I DONE POSTED PART 2 AND 3 - GIVE IT A READ OR DONT -YOU DO YOU LOVELIEESSSS!) Alright now ! it's gonna be some tough love so take it that way.' Also it's gonna be one long post so imma need y…
THE ONLY ANSWER TO ALL YOUR QUESTIONS! (manifestation and neville) // PART 1 — (YA'LL I DONE POSTED **PART 2 AND 3** \- GIVE IT A READ OR DONT -YOU DO YOU LOVELIEESS) Alright now ! it's gonna be some tough love so take it that way.' Also it's gonna be one long post so imma need…
THE ONLY ANSWER TO ALL YOUR QUESTIONS! - PART 3 - IT'S YOU! (NOT ME) — THE ONLY ANSWER TO ALL YOUR QUESTIONS!- **IT WAS/IS ALWAYS YOU** Never me , nor anyone else. No post in here could make you get all your desires, no coach could teach ya all that you wanna know about…
THE ONLY ANSWER TO ALL YOUR QUESTIONS! - PART 3 - IT'S YOU! (NOT ME) — THE ONLY ANSWER TO ALL YOUR QUESTIONS!- **IT WAS/IS ALWAYS YOU** Never me , nor anyone else. No post in here could make you get all your desires, no coach could teach ya all that you wanna know about…
I am living in a fantasy and I want outs — I realise now that our whole relationship was kind of based off a fantasy. The whole time we were together, I would fantasise about him showing up randomly with flowers, surprising me when I least exp…
THE OYSTER IS NOT YOUR WORLD! (IT'S THIS SIMPLE) — LONGGG POST! DISCLAIMER: for any of ya'll havin a problem with "long posts" , "english", "structure", "accent" etc etc. i got 2 tips for ya 1. chat gpt (or any other ai platform) - command c+v (summ…
WHAT DO YOU WANT?! — OK IMMA ASK A QUESTION - **QUES-** how many of ya'll had worse "3D" after learning about manifestation? reading neville? reading secret? law of attraction? law of assumption? anything at all youtube?…
Why do healthy break ups hurt more? — Tonight I had the healthiest and most mature break up I've ever had. Neither one of us wanted to breakup, and we've been avoiding the conversation for a long time. Unfortunately we're a longer dista…
I can’t move on even though I know I should, 21f , turning 22 in a few days — I went through a breakup three days ago. We stopped talking for a day, and then he came back. A part of me really wants to go back to him, but deep down I know it’s probably not meant to be. Things we…
1. Daydreaming that makes you feel emotional isn’t what Murphy or Goddard are talking about. It is about feeling the reality of what you want to have happen now, that is the feeling. Emotions might co…
It’s possible, but you basically have to be the one doing the asking out etc if you want it to happen because it’s much less common now and people don’t approach as much. The bigger problem I find is …
For the first time, this was me this entire weekend. I’m filling it with everything I want to do and the people that I want to see. I feel so fortunate because I know it’s a privilege. I do wish I had…
i understand now. you want it to happen organically rather than trying to force it per se. i respect that approach. i hope it all works out, good luck!
A piece of general advice for profiles is not to write something that makes it sound like you already have your future planned out and just need someone who's going to be fine being dropped into YOUR …
I don't think its an emotional affair. But I think you want it to be. And I think that's why she doesn't like you. That said, I don't think you're in the wrong either. You're allowed to not like your…
If you want it to end I think you need to specifically ask to stop contacting you. Heartbroken people can fall for the mental trap that you both miss each other equally.
He might use it later to reestablish contact- like usually much, much later down the line. Toxic people do this. I didn’t take them back and didn’t accept his invitation to drop them off. He’d not s…
"You want it to be one way, but it's the other way." Patriarchy does a lot for dudes but it also sticks us with a society in which performing traditional gender roles is the path of least resistance…
It's fair to ask for what you want and set your own terms on how you want it to go. The weirdness of 0-100 is understandable. Personally, I've had my fair share of relationships that started as long…
Its only normal if you want it to be. You don't have to do anything you don't want to do. Boot em out - if they're respectful, they'll listen to your boundaries. I don't like sleeping in unfamil…
When you want it to be over but don’t want to hurt someone’s feelings or spend any time further discussing it….you fake it.
Communication is the hardest thing. Because literally anything can scare someone off. But if you like this person and you want it to work. Be willing to listen to them and tell them you want them to d…
Two unhealthy things here that aren't deal breakers, but ideally need work to make a healthy relationship. (1) He did some light manipulation by "testing" you rather than just talking to you. That's…
Don't break contact again, leave it in her court. That being said I'll be honest, it's unlikely she'll respond and if she does I doubt it'll be the way you want it to be. The let me think about it i…
Cuddle with who you want? Idk why sex is off the table if you want it too. And then if you do meet someone better for you, who cares if they slept with someone else the night before? If that person…
Why would you want to continue to be friends with someone who doesn’t seem interested in being your friend? Your need of validation from her is to feel chosen and she clearly is not going to give that…
It is absolutely a marathon and not the sprint you want it to be.
I was just in this situation for the past few months as the guy. We still live together for a few more weeks too, so it's tough as I get to hear how often she thinks I dont listen. I decided to go t…
Well you are projecting something on to me as a therapist and exposes a lot of beliefs that might not be beneficial for you, and that’s great stuff to work with, it holds a shit load of stagnated pshy…
I agree about the need for spirituality. I think it's often neglected and I understand why but I think it's a necessary part of the human experience. Mind - Body - Spirit and spirit can mean whatever …
I didn’t call you a misogynist, I said your talking points were because they are. and you can keep repeating DARVO all you want, the goalpost won’t be moved. back to the point—calling a few feminist…
I’m glad you didn’t send that. Nothin last forever, not even when you want it to. Stay strong. Move forward.
I'd say yes as meditation is just being aware of the current moment for what it is not what you think it is. as long as you are not distracting yourself I don't see why not. It may not be traditional…
I like this idea. How would you phrase that in therapy? Something like “what does fatherhood look like to you?” / what do you want it to be in the day to day?
He just doesn’t want to or want to do it differently. It feels like he is trying to avoid confrontation with you. It’s not necessarily evil, there is a good side to it that he doesn’t want to fight wi…
The question would be: Why do you want it to have written instead of doing it?. I guess they are worried because you are putting yourself in a position to be taken advantage of. You don't know the fut…
It doesn’t mean anything unless you want it to. he could just be nosy or he could’ve been reminiscing. he could be shooting his shot again? who knows! keep us posted.
When people told me it would just “take time” I wanted to scream. But they were right. It’s brutal, but it truly gets better with time if you want it to. Just taking it day by day helped mea lot, alon…
There are two problems here: - what do I tell my girlfriend - how do I handle this life #1, I'll echo the crowd: you can tell her you have some money / aren't worried about it, so she knows you're n…
I’m gonna be honest, I’m a huge proponent of breaking no contact at least once. Because it never goes how you thought it would, and it ends up hurting like hell, and then it hurts so bad that you neve…
There’s actually a very tiny chance that trying to reconnect will go how you want it to. Jared Fried says there’s no nicer person than the person breaking up with you. Even a “positive” response migh…
Yeah...you guys are not ready to get married, at all. What kind of man mocks the woman they're claiming to love and want to marry??? Like, is he incapable of empathising with what you've been through…
My goodness, what a giant pile of misinformation with everybody stating their opinions and theories as fact. It's enough to make people want to run screaming from the room. For instance: "As someone …
So she was right basically. You want it to create an anchor in your mind. You want pass, for what exactly ?
Because you can get a good grade for a subject by studying it but the lottery is completely out of your control. You are specifying you want it to come as a lottery and that is chance. Thousands of ot…
You're going get push back from some, but if you want it to change, it starts with baby steps. I have been in some of these places, and to some it's shocking. Restaurant with confederate flag for ex…
This is the kind of self-validating check to see if you still have access masked as some sort of caring love bombing. This is so selfish. If you dumped her, then leave her be. She’s not your doll anym…
He's abused your trust. Your trust will only return if you want it to, and it's up to him to earn it back, a little at a time. If he can't accept that, he doesn't value trust -- which is why he spent …
Well most people don't know immediately if they're into someone enough to be super serious, sex is usually part of dating and exploring your connection with someone. It's valid to spend some time tryi…
Married 25 together 30. Pretty much the same story. My theory is mid life crisis. But that aside. It took me a long time to finish raising kids, while getting a new job, etc and recover a bit. Ho…
She violated some serious trust. I would start telling her you've seen the evilness of money and you're going to be donating ALL of the money to charity. Start telling everyone who you suspect might …
Well keep persisting. You’re getting the money from your taxes too! Never accept anything as fact unless you want it to be fact
Does it go away? It can, but it isn’t likely. Do you want it to? Thats up to you, but most people (myself included) would say no. She very much went past the point of no return. You’re in a loveless …
You need to decide what’s right for you. She also needs to be in your shoes and understand that. If she can’t see it, she is not meant for you. There are many other girls out there that fits to your s…
WTF I just read? You don't throw something at a person's face unless you want it to hit them. Yeah, it was a test. To see if he could openly abuse you and if you'd go crawling to him for more. He…
Because the breath is one of very few unique mechanisms in the body that is simultaneously under conscious and unconscious control. So when you put your attention on it, it tends to engage both system…
My point exactly. If its your inner being, then its your sense of being🤣. Not wishing Not hoping, but knowing. Wishing for the powerball is exactly that,wishing. Your inner being knows there's doubt…
What do you want them to SEE??? You want him to see your body, or do you want him to see YOU? I'd dress conservatively if you want it to be about him getting to know you for you... I recommend th…
>I'm worried this will derail our buyout negotiations You could simply drop the topic, and tell him you don't want to discuss it right now if he brings it up. Don't even mention that you want to keep…