It's not you, it's me

Suicide threats - and 'jokes' - are a common manipulation tactic. They force you from whatever you were doing to instead focus solely on trying to appease the manipulator. Am I reading that you don't…

It's very tricky, because in reality shit sucks and it makes sense for people to be having mental health challenges, so in essence someone could say this and it would *always* be true. I would imagine…

>The last few talking phases I’ve had, they were all people listing “long-term relationship” for their dating goals and they’ve backed away due to **mental health/lack of capacity** This is simply th…

>or that she is not used to have a healthy relation like ours is The moment someone says something like this it becomes pretty clear it's just an attempt to end things gently "you're such a great guy…

That's a great question. I think it's just how I grew up. Ive never been one for instant gratification or "the thrill" of the moment. Always been loyal and look to fix rather than leave. In the mome…

Gender: F (me) / F (ex) \- Age: 23 / 21 \- Execution: dumpee \- Relationship Length: 2 years and a few days \- Breakup length: 6 months \- No contact length: 6 months (did in the 2 week of the br…

A crush can grow into love if you grow good habits together, or it can die when you find out you want very different sorts of relationships or lifestyles. Please be honest that you need more time for…

It's the last few years' version of "it's not you, it's me...."

We know just as much as you. She's done a "it's not you, it's me" so there's no use dwelling or speculating. Easier said than done, I know. Do not wait for her to change her mind. Move onwards and up…

You dont need his permission or approval. You don't have to prove youre right or justified. Relationships at 21 are not to meant to last forever, and this is not the 1950's, you definitely should not …