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You're not overreacting. What you're describing isn't someone who was tired or distracted. It's a consistent pattern across multiple hours: no eye contact, no physical warmth, checking his phone immed…
I (29F) slept with new guy (34M) for the first time and felt he was rude to me. Was he? — Dating a new guy for a month, he was a gentleman and very kind towards me. He very recently just told me how much he liked me and that I’m “pretty but most of all I’m a kind person with a good heart, …
The "Recovered yet?" is also very telling... like did he think of himself as some kind of sex god and he was that good in bed that you need to recover now? You're not paranoid... even my fwb gave me …
He made it clear: he does not care to be with you. Most men I've met have loved cuddling and kisses and being sweet after sex, or at least grasp the concept that women usually do, especially after the…
NOR and don't listen to your friend. He treated you like crap so why go back for a second helping of reheated crap? His "Are you recovered yet?" text is a mixture of his ego and his dick needing some…
Recovered yet? From what, your rudeness? No, goodbye
To his “Recovered yet?” I’d reply, “From what?”
You aren’t overreacting. He is acting like a total jerk. “Recovered yet?” I would text him back “Recovered from the mediocre performance? Don’t flatter yourself. Recovered from being shown your true c…
Seems like he seriously actually believes that, especially since saying “recovered yet?” Like he’s some amazing sex deity
You are reading the situation correct, he got what he wanted and doesn't care about anything more then that. I'd personally not message back at all. Any reply just keeps feeding his ego ("you recove…
"Recovered yet?" As if this guy has booktok BF level skills in bed 😅 He could only go one round, and got distracted afterwards. Guarantee the sex isn't good enough to put up with that disrespect. A…
"Recovered yet?" Would get a response from me like "Which part? The mediocre sex or the part where you treated me like a sex worker after?" He sucks.
No offense, but you felt used because you were used. Every relationship doesn't need to be a serious relationship, but there's no reason why people in a "situationship" can't treat each other with re…
“Recovered yet?” WTF is that? NOR. Your instincts are on point.
This is how I would answer the, “Recovered yet?” question. Me: From? Him: Sex with me. Me: Oh that? Ha! Nothing to recover from. Then ghost him, because the only reason he’s reached out to you…
Absolutely the fuck not. You are NOT overreacting. That man treated you like a one-night convenience and then had the audacity to come back with “recovered yet?” like he’s the main character. Your fri…
"Recovered yet?" 'Oh yes, I was over it 5 minutes after you finished!'
"Recovered yet?" Sir, what would there be to recover from? Your average peen? Your dismissal of me after you got what you wanted?' Your complete lack of a personality once your balls were emptied? NO…
“Recovered yet?” I had to chuckle at that one because he sounds like one of those football coaches texting one of their athletes to see if they can put in some extra practice that day. Between dudes…
‘Recovered yet?’ is audacious lol. You are definitely not overreacting. He the type of man who thinks he has to manipulate women into bed with him. Either that or he does it for the love of the game.…
Just a snarky response to his text, OP: Recovered yet? From your audacity? Block and move on. What a jerk.
Heyy, first of all - I think you did everything with a lot of respect and good intention for both of your parts. I'm sorry that he was so disappointing after sex - that was nothing to do with you, and…
I'd have maybe said he was rude and kinda cold but if it was a casual hookup and nothing more it could make sense, still not cool but at the point he texted you "recovered yet?" What a piece of work! …
Nope. Recovered yet? Yeah. Absolutely not. Ghost his ass, never see him again.
He sent the “recovered yet?” Text as a way to open up the conversation to sex/ something casual. That’s why he didn’t ask how you were or if you made it home safe. I’d do what others have suggested, j…
Okay, take this from someone who knows guys like this. When he jumped out of bed after sex and lingered in his kitchen, he was hoping that you'd get up and leave. When he came back in the bedroom and…