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I (29F) slept with new guy (34M) for the first time and felt he was rude to me. Was he?

It literally doesn't matter. Is this how you want to be treated? If not, block him and don't look back. If you are okay with it and willing to deal with it, by all means carry on. Who cares why he ac…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/29/2026
People of dating over 40...

People of dating over 40... — I'm going to preface this that I am well aware we're all busy. We have jobs, might have kids, have other commitments, I get it. I fully understand that. However... Why might you take days or even …

r/datingoverfortypost3/16/2026
Please help my friend and I decide if we're unreasonable. How much time do you spend with your partner or spouse and if you live separately or together.

when my partner and i weren't living together, we would do tuesday night, thursday night, saturday and sunday together. we had our own lives and work. we live together now and baseline spend every nig…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/9/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 01, 2026

I (36F) met a 40M on an app a couple months ago. We had strong chemistry right away and scheduled a first date that same week. It went really well. During the holidays we both had more availability a…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/2/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 06, 2026

Thank you for your comment. I do actively go up to people I like the look of, just as you say. I don't do this if they're "on their phone" which means they're looking obviously busy - as in, they ha…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/7/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 09, 2026

I agree that this is a smart decision to end things if you’re not getting what you need out of a relationship. Does he call you his gf? Have you had the talk about where things are at and where they a…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/10/2026
What are your social lives like?

The way I understand your post is: 1. Are single people so much busy? 2. What is an single individual's schedule? My answers are (my language will sound myopic, but it is a personal view and not nec…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/12/2026
People of dating over 40...

Original copy of post by u/Thick-Screen-7228: I'm going to preface this that I am well aware we're all busy. We have jobs, might have kids, have other commitments, I get it. I fully understand that. …

r/datingoverfortycomment3/16/2026
This is harder than it should be. 🥸

Watch how they handle small moments of friction. Not big conflicts - just minor disagreements or inconveniences. Do they go quiet, change the subject, suddenly get very busy? That's usually the tell. …

r/datingoverfortycomment3/17/2026
People Pleasers Make the Worst Partners

Even a home environment becomes so stressful with a person like them. Yup so many people are required to manage their emotions and help them regulate which is so exhausting. Why can't he ask you d…

r/Codependencycomment3/17/2026
the “meditate 10–20 minutes a day” advice is why I never stick to it

I recall a story about a wise man who was asked how long per day to meditate. His response? One hour. Their reply was something to the effect “I don’t have time for one hour a day. So how long whe…

r/Meditationcomment3/24/2026
Complete beginner looking for practical ways to start sensing energy

Thanks for the list Anamliniu! I’m really curious about grounding-do you have a favorite technique for doing it when you’re busy? I’d love to hear how you fit it into your day. Thanks for being so ope…

r/energy_workcomment3/26/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 30, 2026

I've read your edits just there! I'm assuming that you haven't met in person yet by the way? So, obviously it's impossible to tell what he's actually thinking but just to say that I can imagine at le…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/31/2026
No one goes no contact immediately.

How are you doing now, do you still miss them, how have you been keeping yourself busy?

r/ExNoContactcomment4/1/2026
I don‘t think I can take it anymore

You can’t build trust back up while he’s still lying. The lock on the laptop & not letting you see his phone is Cheater 101. Only you can decide if you’ll stay with a cheater. I think you’ve already s…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/4/2026
My husband (37M) pushed for kids, but now that I’m (35F) pregnant he’s completely disengaged and does nothing special for me. How do I get him to understand how I feel?

I know this sounds odd but is it possible he wanted a kid so you keep busy? I had a friend who was in a relationship like that. After being married for 5 or so years her husband felt like he didn’t ha…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/5/2026