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Wow. I read this and found it kind of shocking that this wasn't a far right op, because it almost reads like one. I had to look the author up to see where they were coming from, and that was pretty sh…
I (21M) have survived two decades of severe physical, emotional, and financial abuse from my Indian parents. I'm finally exhausted and need to tell my story. I am not free yet. — # TL;DR: I'm a 20-year-old only child in India who has endured severe physical, verbal, emotional, and financial abuse from my parents since toddlerhood. They have beaten me, medically neglected me, …
Blown away — Wife of 20 yrs just walked away. Won’t talk about our life together, not willing to reconcile, got a lawyer… her dad died last year and I knew something was wrong when she stopped talking to me. We wo…
I only know what you share. You shared you have been dating two months and that’s it. How would I know that you knew him longer? No one here is a mind reader. If you don’t want someone to get the wron…
We did have another kid together. She looks exactly like me so I feel no need to test her. Ex still claims our son is my child. Still wont accept responsibility. I think she knew too. I know the bio …
I remember reading your last post and I'm glad things are going better for you now! Honestly you're both still very young so I do think some immaturity and arguing is forgiveable as long as *both* p…
Call the cops now bro and report you were sexually assaulted by her because you were. She is now trying to make you feel like you did this to her. She tricked with you fake consent and took advantage …
Leave him. Divorce. His rude "joke" was not a joke. His treatment, refusing to accept responsibility for his mouth, blaming you, redirecting blame for his callous behavior, 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩�…
Doesn’t sound like he regretted what he said. He has too big of an ego to accept responsibility. He probably said it as a joke but doesn’t want to acknowledge your feelings towards it so instead of ap…
You cannot rely on your partner. Maybe they'll tell the truth, maybe not - and you may not ever be able to tell the difference! My experience - it was a few years of doubt (with my partner using th…
You wouldn't be breaking up the family, he's done that through his own actions. DO NOT accept responsibility for the consequences of his own actions. The consequences are a result if HIS choices, not…
It’s clear to me she had an emotional and physical affair with this coworker. The level of disrespect for her to have you call her affair partner so he can also lie to you is astonishing to me. She do…
OH MAN THIS IS GREAT. Happy for you all. I'm glad you had your event and stuck together. Progress! Mine was christmas 2021. My mother wanted me to look at photos with so she could ridicule me for thi…
Do you care if they are controlling? If they are manipulative? If they will be abusive to you in a crisis or refuse to accept responsibility for their own decisions? I think you are letting the word …
Love doesn't make up for bad treatment. If people avoiding his company is a pattern and he's aware enough to pick up on it, then again it's a choice he's making. He doesn't get to DARVO his way out …
Don't race to the bottom. Simply state you know who you are, your friends know who you are.....there is no divorce or relationship that tends to end because of only one person's actions and you acc…
you’re absolutely not overreacting. I experienced almost the same thing the other week with my nfather. When I confronted him with it, he didn’t laugh but he gaslit me, saying “it’s not gonna kill you…
Yes! Having people back you up no matter what is very intoxicating. It’s essentially what has driven the rise of social media (endorphin highs from likes) and also the subsequent fall due to the inh…
Well done. If she didn't want to be held accountable for committing child abuse, she should not have committed child abuse. A more clever abuser would have at least had the presence of mind to **n…
This ex is someone who is living in a narcissistic fantasy land. They can't accept responsibility for their actions or the associated guilt, so they maintain a fantasy land to live in. He will have s…
His lying and refusal to accept responsibility without turning it around on you in going to show yo in all aspects of your relationship. Ew.
I never said she is faultless, I said she could have been manipulated. She needs to accept responsibility and see her doctor and get therapy.
Please do not lose your sanity. Lose your spouse. They have not changed. They will not change. Do not accept responsibility for the actions of another person. There is nothing that you could have don…
That’s fair. You shouldn’t have to accept responsibility you don’t want, but it’s also fair of him to ask you to help out like the other commenter said. If you’re not willing to do simple things like …