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Think of the comments as inverted Uber ratings. (click to find out what this means) — I last posted a variation of this a little over 5 years ago. We're a little overdue for a repost. --- You know how every Uber rating is right on the verge of 5 stars unless something's particularly …

r/relationship_advicepost6/10/2024
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 05, 2026

Maybe after a couple dates but before sexual intimacy? If someone brought it up on the first date tho I'd see it as a red flag - like trauma dumping or I'd see it as a man virtue signaling. As in: "Lo…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/5/2026
I 34F woke up to a message about my 35M husband

Once a cheater, always a cheater. I say this as a cheater. The urge overrides everything else. If the opportunity arises, so does the meat stick.

r/relationship_advicecomment3/16/2026
I 34F woke up to a message about my 35M husband

Once a cheater, always a cheater. I also had three kids and 10 years. Leaving was the best thing I ever did.

r/relationship_advicecomment3/16/2026
I 34F woke up to a message about my 35M husband

> He has a history of cheating and before you ask no I have never thought about leaving him, we worked through everything Once a cheater, always a cheater. He has a HISTORY of cheating and you tho…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/16/2026
I 34F woke up to a message about my 35M husband

Once a cheater, always a cheater. And if you’re not planning on leaving him, I suggest you keep the rest of your story to yourself. But if you are, we’re here to help you.

r/relationship_advicecomment3/16/2026
I 34F woke up to a message about my 35M husband

Apparently you've never heard that once a cheater, always a cheater.

r/relationship_advicecomment3/16/2026
I 34F woke up to a message about my 35M husband

For 99.9999% of people: once a cheater, always a cheater. Sorry you're living this nightmare.  It doesnt have to be this way but it will be if you stay with this AH. Eta: go to your doctor and get…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/17/2026
Text that Blew Apart My Entire Life

I'm sorry you're going through this, OP Please know as long as your stbx and the AP continue working at the same employer, the relationship will never end. If you add up the hours, they are actually …

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/22/2026
I (f 22) tested positive for an std after years of being clean and consistent testing and my bf (m 24) of 2 years says it’s “impossible” it’s because of him despite not being tested for 5 years and now we’re not okay.

You did the most important thing - you’re being retested. Sounds like the first clinic is sus. It is possible they mixed up samples - important to watch them label your specimens at the time of coll…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/28/2026
My (M27) Best friend since High School (F26) told me she cheated after we got engaged

Once a cheater, always a cheater. There’s no fixing your relationship because there’s no way to fix her.

r/relationship_advicecomment4/1/2026
My (M27) Best friend since High School (F26) told me she cheated after we got engaged

Once a cheater, always a cheater. It is almost always true. I can’t tell other people what to do because I’m not in their shoes. I just know that I would never put up with the absolute disrespect of…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/1/2026
My (M27) Best friend since High School (F26) told me she cheated after we got engaged

Once a cheater, always a cheater. Break up. You deserve better. Have some self respect. Updateme

r/relationship_advicecomment4/1/2026
My (M27) Best friend since High School (F26) told me she cheated after we got engaged

If she was your best friend, she wouldn’t have cheated on you. I know that sounds harsh, but she’s not your best friend. And if you stay with her, there is a very good chance that she’s going to becom…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/1/2026
My (M27) Best friend since High School (F26) told me she cheated after we got engaged

Once a cheater, always a cheater. You want us to tell you something you already know but don't want to accept. How could you ever trust her again?

r/relationship_advicecomment4/2/2026
Found out my cheating ex is having a baby with his AP 5 years later.

Maybe it's not his baby? Who says karma isn't currently in effect? Once a cheater, always a cheater. And cheaters usually find each other...

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/3/2026
My best friend (29F) cheated on her husband (29M) with their mutual best friend (29M)

The people saying "tell him" are using deontological ethics, but there are other ways to look at it, if you're interested. There are certainly less destructive ways to handle it than to just pull the …

r/relationship_advicecomment4/7/2026
r/relationship_advicecomment4/11/2026