find herself

LOL, it's kind of an inside joke now. If you read enough stories on Reddit, on relationship advice subreddit or infidelity for example, when a woman/girlfriend says she wants to "explore herself" "f…

She cheated after 14 years — This is my first ever post on Reddit and it’s a long one so apologies in advance for any formatting errors. I have been with my fiancé for 14 years, we have been engaged for the last 4. Our relations…

Breakup with fearful avoidant — So I just want to tell my story of how the breakup is and how I assume that the person who broke up with me is fearful avoidant after analysing what happened and what was going on. I want to get some …

Divorce — My wife left me, we been together for 6 years. High school sweet hearts. We got married and everything. We had a talk and she dosent have the emotional connection in what she needs. She lost the spark…

Family involvement — So my STBX left the house after a huge arguement (includes me calling cops on her coz of domestic violence) and is currently staying at her cousins and shes got her extended family living in the other…

“How things went when dad cheated” :( — I’m sorry for any grammatical error or punctuations, i just wanted to express myself. 🤍sorry if it’s long i hope you can help me. this might be a sensitive topic☝️ It was December when everything …

What do I do, also sorry if I suck at explaining everything — We broke up in march last year. Before we officially broke up we had “broke up” before in January. I tried everything to make us work. I searched up things on what to say to help an avoidant. What we…

How do I (18M) make my girlfriend (20F) see herself as beautiful as I see her? — Sorry if the title is oddly worded, wasn't sure how to phrase it and that was my best attempt at making it sound coherent. Anyways, me and my girlfriend have been together just shy of 1 year as I writ…

She needs space... — Dear Reddit, i need your honest advice. At the end of January 2026 i (M, 31) have met up with a very lovely person (F, 27). I have known her sister and she connected us with eachother. And i can say…

Actually if he needs it in thy next 5 years, medicaid is gonna claw all of it back. Gold digger GF is gonna find herself on the streets and on the hook for all that money.

It’s nice to read this post to see so many others are experiencing such similar path - even reading about both sides to see both perspectives. I’m currently experience this. I admit I had my faults …

It wouldn't surprise me if he's saying you two engaged in consensual sexual activity where you "encouraged"/seduced him. Only you know if your sister is the kind of person who would knows he assault…

Counterpoint: She is at an age, where she is thinking of marriage and children. If one becomes unsure or feels unsafe with their partner, it becomes easy to let go no matter how long you were together…

You can't save your marriage if she doesn't want to be a part of it anymore. As a "fixer", that's not what you want to hear, but you have to be willing to give her space, let her make choices for hers…

Sad part is these the type of shawties that will end up getting OP hooked then cheating or just leaving to “find herself” one day😂

I think there’s got to be a discussion — why not? any underlying reasons? it seems clear that she doesn’t find herself desirable, so she wouldn’t want to put on the “clothes of a desirable person.” I …

>So, a few days after posting, I humored him by taking him shopping. I asked him to pick out stuff that he wanted me to wear, and agreed to try them on in the dressing room. He picked out all the expe…

Yep! Time to lawyer up. He will keep coming at her with one ridiculous demand after another without even filing for divorce. She should hurry up and find herself an attorney and then start the form…

Updated: I’ve been seeing a lot of statements and questions so here’s some updated clarity that I forgot the mention… 1.) Her affair was on and off and didn’t officially end until March. (It was physi…

People who kept leaving relationships and coming back are just toxic. My first wife was like this. She left me three times the last was after our daughter was born. There was never a reasonable explan…

Is this rage bait? We don’t know how it ended, we don’t know any of the circumstances and you are making massive assumptions. Waiting around and focusing on him is absolutely not the way. She needs to…

While my advice would be to ditch her permanently, if you do choose to “stay” with her, I’d tell her she has 2 weeks to move to your city and find herself an apartment. Definitely not living with you.…

This is not your fault. You are barely even an adult yourself, and have been parentified since you were a small child. Your sister is understandably upset, and is lashing out at the only target she …

dude my ex of 5 years has prolonged the break up bc she needs to be single for a while/be alone to find herself and get her spark back within herself. i get it, but it sucks. she says two people have …

about 2.5 years here and man it was like someone flipped a switch overnight. one day we're talking about moving in together and next week she's telling me she "needs space to find herself" - classic l…

It's interesting to read these comments. I've noticed that when a man suggests an open relationship he's a bad person, but when a woman does it, she's just wanting to explore and find herself 😅

Hard no dude. You man up and hide all your feelings. You pretend this means nothing to you and you never ever go back to her again. Let her go find herself. And wish her well. And now go focus on your…