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Did you even read what she wrote? She literally said that she is always very, very enthusiastic in her sexual response to him. She just wasnt initiating, and it's objectively untrue that "nobody" lik…

[EU] Can't get suppliers as a new small business — Every decent supplier I've contacted basically says "we don't care about your small shit business", only ones willing to sell are some small companies that sell random junk and surplus nobody wants to…

Should I redirect the sales? — This is not a rant/rave about my e-commerce journey as I expected a lot of turmoil and for e-commerce to not be all it was cracked up to be. This is actually witnessed by the shhear number of people …

Business is about execution. As long as nobody dies, don't sweat it. — A good idea is only an idea. Do something about it. What's stopping you? Stop mental masturbation. Get the reps in. Earn it. You're just starting out. Don't fear mistakes. You're not going to die. …

The successful are not here — After years of watching YouTube videos about startup / founder stuff and reading blogs, Reddit, and the horrible place that is LinkedIn, I came to realize that 99.9% of advice (especially in the SaaS …

Need help with some direction — So to keep it short, I need some extra income. I work full time as a software developer, but I now own a house and my bills keep going up, and my salary isn’t. I’ve always had the idea of freelancing…

CKA? Or EKS project? — Here's a bit of context as to why I feel like I need to get out of dodge ASAP... IT Management: "We need **more automation**! Nobody should be using User Data scripts." Me: \*Writes several Ansible…

I posted a while ago about being Fearful Avoidant and, since so many people reached out about how to overcome that style, I've decided to compile a sort of list of things that are helping me become more secure — (based on what is working in my life, what I've observed, what i've read, etc. They may not apply to everyone but even if it helps a couple of people I'll be happy) **These are things to practice in …

How to shift focus when anxiously attached — I'm anxiously attached and have very little to no sense of self. I know therapy's necessary but I'm not starting before another month. I'll take any insight or advice on how to manage it, shift my foc…

i feel safe with being almost loved | disorganized attachment style anthem | i want love but i'm scared | (cathartic release) — Lyrics: Love, for me, is just a hallway, Soft light, shadows drifting slow. I see a silhouette approaching Then I turn before my heart can get too close. Sometimes I feel a brush of something ten…

Specific Person (SP) Manifestation: No Magic, No Supernatural Forces. Just Proven Science — Hi everyone, It’s been a long time since I last posted, and honestly it was overdue. I keep seeing the same recycled LOA bullshit everywhere. Endless manifestation porn, more unqualified people calli…

Are these early signs of narcissism? — So I met this guy on Hinge a couple of weeks ago. We do know some random people in common. Here are the signs that I find strange: \- He’s absolutely grandiose - have a ton of projects, ideas, storie…

Day 47 of no contact. Here's what nobody tells you about what happens to your brain. — I didn't plan to go no contact. I just got to a point where I realized every time I reached out I felt worse for three days afterward. So I stopped. Day 1–7 was the worst week of my life. Worse than …

[NEWS] I cleaned my entire apartment today and i need someone to acknowledge it! — *nobody is here to see it. the dishes are done. the floor is clean. the bed is made. i did laundry and put it away. this is peak performance and it will last approximately 36 hours!*

I feel like the only one not trying to permashift. Is anyone else trying to make round trips? — The title pretty much covers my primary inquiry. I don't see a lot of people posting about reality shifting or their goals therein unless it's about permashifting. I'm not shaming anyone for permashif…

A Different Way to Look at Manifestation — Something I realized about manifestation that nobody really explains for a long time I thought manifestation was basically about “asking the universe” for things. You visualize, you affirm, you try t…

Recorded one conversation a week for a month and it was the most uncomfortable and useful thing I've ever done — Not secretly, I'd just tell whoever I was talking to "hey do you mind if I record this, I'm trying to work on how I communicate" and every single person said yes. Except for one so far. Then I'd list…

What was the hardest non-legal part of your divorce that nobody warned you about? — I went through a divorce recently and the legal stuff was hard, but honestly it was everything else that really caught me off guard. I had an attorney to help me file and communicate with my ex's atto…

Nmom wants an invite to my wedding or she is going to divorce my dad — TLDR; Nmom wants an invite to my wedding. I don’t plan on it as she doesn’t support or respect my decision, and only wants to go because my dad plans on attending and she doesn’t want to have to put m…

This is a lifestyle — At some point you have to ask yourself one question: Do you really believe in your own bullshit? Not Neville’s philosophy. Not a guru’s interpretation. Yours. Because sooner or later you realize s…

The quiet house is the hardest part and nobody warned me — Divorce has been final for about 3 months now and I think Im starting to realize what hits me the hardest. Its not the legal stuff. Its not even the arguments with my ex anymore. Its coming home to a …

If you're reading this, you're gonna make it. — Hey, you. yeah YOU. I know what you're going through. Nobody is on this sub because they're having a good time of it. I know that, because 4 years ago I was in the exact same place. Any advice you rea…

Children know when they parents don't love them. Children know when their parents resent and hate them. — It's surprising the amount of parents who not only think that their abuse is justified, but that believe that their children "are too young, so they won't notice" or "they'll forget about it". I heard…

Something I noticed after my breakup that nobody warned me about — Something I didn’t expect after a bad breakup was how confusing the memories become. When you're in a relationship, certain moments feel clearly wrong! But after it ended, my brain started replaying…

please, take your time to hear my story, because no one else ever did — My mom gave birth to me when she was 41 years old, I have a sister and a brother, my sister is 27 years old, but she has mental problems and behaves terribly immature, so she is always making screamin…

Manifested a $32K scholarship with accidental SATS!!! — Hi all :) I have a pretty amazing success story that I’d love to share, and I hope it may motivate some of you in your manifestation journeys 😊 Basically, I accidentally manifested a $32,000 scholar…

The absolute dearth of any kind of help for victims of polyamory under duress — Nobody understands. There is literally nobody to turn to. Since the APA mandated that polyamorous relationships be accepted this has become a topic I cannot bring up anywhere. Nobody wants to talk ab…

I look very successful to the outside world, but when I’m alone I feel like something is deeply wrong — I’m a 23F living in the US and working in high finance. From the outside, my life probably looks very successful. I’ve always been extremely driven. Good grades, major achievements in sports, a serio…

Not feeling like myself - suddenly cold & not sure why — I, 26F have always been quite positive and friendly. And even on my worst days I’d keep a level of kindness and respect to others. But lately I’ve just been feeling so different as if nothing matters …

I tracked my dreams every day for 6 months. Here's what actually worked and what was a total waste of time. — So I've been into lucid dreaming for a while now and decided to actually get serious about it. For the last 6 months I tracked everything. Techniques, sleep times, supplements, all of it. Figured I'd …

My Mom Doesn’t Remember My Attempt — (trigger warning) When I was 21, I was back home for a bit and things escalated between me and my mom. One night, we got in a big fight and I got so depressed and mad that I od on pills (tbh idk what…

Why does nobody talk about unsuccessful manifestation journey? — Well, here we are. Changing oneself, assuming new beliefs, new ways of interpreting life and it's meaning, healing, flowing, call it whatever you want. Commanding, choosing, focusing on who I am or wh…

why go back to an ex — maybe a sign that i’ve healed or am healing, but the idea of going back to someone who decided that their life would be better without you or thought that they could do better than you is insane to me…

codependency quiz wrecked me - turns out my "helping" was actually controlling — I took a codependency quiz last week on taro's tarot and i genuinely feel like the floor dropped out from under me. I've always been the person everyone comes to. The fixer. The one who drops everythi…

first shifting story i encountered — When i was a little little kid like 6 or 7 yo(yeah 67 whatever). I vividly remember that between us kid we told ourselves a story. We never repeated it to adults because they wouldn't understand. We …

I have friends, a job, and a full life. I've also never felt more alone. Is this normal? — Six months post-divorce. On paper everything looks fine. But I come home to silence every night and it hits different than I expected. Nobody talks about this part. Men especially. Just wanted to say …

Anybody Else’s Parents Unreasonably Obsessed with Academics? — Ever since I can remember doing well in school was pretty effortless for me. From the first through about the fourth grade, I was a model student who consistently brought home shining report cards an…

I stopped chasing happiness and started building contentment instead and it made all the difference — For years I was obsessed with being happy. Every self-help book promised that if I just did this one thing, happiness would follow. Gratitude journals, affirmations, visualization, cold plunges. I tri…

Were you basically surviving your entire childhood? — I’m an adult now but holy shit… thinking back to my childhood… I made myself seem incredibly small so I didn’t piss off my dad. By the time I hit my teenage years, I had no self esteem, no confidence,…

I just realized my desperate craving for love was actually "Emotional Hunger" from childhood neglect. Now I feel free, but empty. — Why does nobody tell us that an intense, almost obsessive longing for love and containment often stems from deep-rooted psychological issues? I’ve recently had a grounding realization: my lifelong th…

I (21M) have survived two decades of severe physical, emotional, and financial abuse from my Indian parents. I'm finally exhausted and need to tell my story. I am not free yet. — # TL;DR: I'm a 20-year-old only child in India who has endured severe physical, verbal, emotional, and financial abuse from my parents since toddlerhood. They have beaten me, medically neglected me, …

People think I’m hilarious and I don’t know why. Is it my moon/mercury? — I’ve been told I can do stand up or improv - that I’m a really funny guy. I can make just about anyone laugh without even trying and I’m good with comedic timing/situational humor - though, when I try…

THIS 👇🏼 is how they moved on SO fast — Something hit me like a damn truck the other day and I genuinely haven’t been able to stop thinking about it, so I’m just going to put it out there in here in the hope that it helps one of you too Yo…

“ he never harmed me” good to know my suffering meant so little to you — My ex husband left me for the mistress 6 years ago. It was hell. I am still to this day dealing with the trauma of having the person you trusted and loved so much just pull the rug from under your li…

The Astral Plane: its Nature, Structure, and the Unseen’s Map found in world religions — *Disclaimer: The views expressed here are my personal opinions, except where excerpts are quoted.* # Nature of the Astral Plane The Astral Plane is the wider dream world. It’s a constant place that …

Why procrastination advice will never work for me — Let’s say I really don’t want to get out of bed. The next small step would be to remove the covers, but there’s still huge resistance because my mind knows there’s a purpose behind the small step, so …

Nobody reads the fine print — Loosh is one of the most misunderstood concepts in this community. Anyway... here's a meme about it.

So I Live in a Sundown Town — We moved here to be close to family—none of them live in THIS town, and nobody warned us about the history. We moved from a diverse city and it breaks my heart; makes me concerned about my kids… But …

Has anyone looked into what chronic depression and trauma actually do to your body at a cellular level? The research is both terrifying and oddly empowering. — I've been down the research rabbit hole on this and wanted to share because it validates something many of us feel intuitively. Chronic depression and prolonged trauma responses don't just affect you…

How do I deal with a non-virtuous past that led to a good and comfortable present? — Hello everyone, In the past months I have been studying Stoicism (I have read the Discourses, Meditations, and now I’m on my way through the Seneca letters). I, however, wanted to have an opinion on s…

Admitted to Stanford but at the cost of my childhood — I am a high school senior who has spent the past 18 years growing up in a middle-class Asian family in the Bay Area. My parents constantly complain that they have no money, no connections, and no adva…

Nobody here disparages Neville (except where he deserves it - he is good speaker but a poor teacher) and pits one against the other. And Nevilles works are cited here eve in the index and sidebar. …

Before you ban me, please understand that I’m not trying to argue with you, I was just pointing out that claiming people can’t think critically is not a wise move because it can easily be said of you…

>Before you ban me, please understand that I’m not trying to argue with you, I was just pointing out that claiming people can’t think critically is not a wise move because it can easily be said of yo…

Regardless of what it was, it was a non-physical experience. There can be lines blurred between what is lucid dreaming and astral projection, here's a video explaining the difference https://youtu.be/…

I have full awareness that I'm dreaming but I still can't control stuff well and I find it hard to fly for instance. Also when I bully people in my dreams after realizing there's no concequence their …

Yeah, this is not true and not really good advice. In fact, it’s mental bullshit that feeds the ego of a person. People are bitter and want their ex to feel bad and regretful because it makes them fee…

yeah, nobody read that wall of text.

I can see you deeply care about her and I found it weird that you seem like a overall great dude but she still decided to end it. Have she mentioned the reasons why other than "dad wanted so"? I'm in…

u/seanlee50 are you coming back to being an active mod? I'm asking because as the only really active mod in the last few years, I have been careful to give people space to express their opinions no ma…

I'm glad to hear it helped! You're welcome lol. I found it really weird that nobody on this sub was talking about that book at all. (At least back then.) It seems to have basically everything you coul…

Thank you for sharing this 🙏 I have a follow up question if anyone could help answer. I've been trying to heal from this, and I want to be able to share my journey with friends and extended support n…

PLEASE READ IF YOUR LOOKING INTO ASTRAL PROJECTING. About 2 months ago I was looking extremely deep into astral projecting, once I seen what it was I was instantly drawn to it and thought it was inter…

You need to be specific to what you want we all want lots of money but nobody knows how much ‘lots’ is, write it down what type of car you want what color, leather interior or cloth? What make and mod…

Because they were taking over the sub. If everybody who made a masturbation post had read earlier threads about it and would only post not covered issues we would have only 1% of the posts and nobody …

I think this might be part of the process of healing, and as such support the OP in that regard to move them onto the next phase. However, I also agree that nobody is qualified to give you the advice …

Happy for you. Nobody asks to have an attachment style that’s dysfunctional. I’m working through mine and try so so hard to have compassion for others. But a big part of self love is learning how to h…

There are exceptions for every situation. So you take a hard thing like relationships, and then you make it harder with distance and all the drawbacks. It’s just going to be harder. Nobody says it’s i…

What if the business *is* execution? In that case if nobody dies it’s failed

The whole "hustle 24/7 without breaks" mentality is such bullshit. Nobody looks back from their deathbed wishing they worked more 14-hour days. Balance is underrated.

Preach, brother! That's what I was saying to my friends for years. Don't listen to (almost) anybody. In the SaaS industry (that's the one I am familiar with) I think only Rob Walling (Microconf, Tin…

Umm.. I think your % is off and there are way more lurkers here and some real people out there. I thought about doing posts, a podcast, or a book as an entrepreneur about how hard it was for years ru…

Closed mouths don’t get fed. Nobody who is worth working for will frown on you reaching out and asking about these things.

I wouldn't waste time on building something that nobody wants. You would just be shooting yourself in the foot. I would track and analyze what is being shared and discussed about on social media about…

Every deployment to Slack? So then nobody pays attention and that's why they ask you to give them the details. Don't do this. People mute these channels because 99% of what goes to it doesn't matte…

Thanks...yes it's not easy. It's a shame that nobody has even heard of attachment styles until they are in a mess...

I like this idea. It seems to help both the anxious leaning and the avoidant just check in for the day rather than the avoidant expecting to have to check in continuously, or the anxious person waitin…

I relate mostly to being anxiously attached or AP and tend usually to score most in that category. But I really relate to everything you described still despite not being DA so perhaps it’s a sign of …

Also you lie to them and expect them to except it.when I notice some one is just saying something that isn’t real ,it bothers me. Often my wife needs space,so she stacks her calendar with appointments…

I couldn't agree with you more. Also sorry that you had to explain that to people via DMs. I know it's something you kinda get used to as a more self-aware avoidant on reddit but that doesn't ma…

It's even worse than it's ever been. Nobody looking out for anyone but themselves, and I don't live in a large city where this would be expected; I live in a smaller town college town with no more tha…

This is so tricky and difficult for you to manage, because the message itself appears genuine and heartfelt. But remember the bigger picture here, beyond the words...this is someone who just pretty mu…

Avoidant attachers don’t just decide when they want to be avoidant and when they don’t. It’s built into their subconscious. So it’s not just about them choosing someone—they have no problem choosing s…

I think you put those in the right order—wanting to and being willing to put in the work has to come first. Nobody, even a secure attacher, can make someone be ready if they’re not.

>People who are securely attached are often more than their attachment style because their behavior isn’t constantly filtered through anxiety or emotional defense mechanisms. They’re not performing sa…

Yes, that makes sense. I think we may be experiencing two different things honestly. I’m a very open communicator and will tell someone if I’m not comfortable sharing if they prompt me. My experiences…

>One FA said something to me about herself early on, in some conversation or another, that seemed innocent at the time because I was infatuated: "That doesn't make you want to run?" My preferred resp…

I don't know how to not devalue people in my head when it's clear that they cannot reciprocate the amount of attention and care I give them, this is especially clear when I try to get emotional suppor…

Seconding what someone else said below. This sounds like pretty typical FA. Not a fear of intimacy; a fear of abandonment. I dated someone just like this. Any perceived distance made her devalue me an…

Yeah sure you can comment here. But probably nobody other than me will see/ answer it.

I know it can be expensive but you mentioned in your original post you have a good career. You also, in your own words, are desperate to date someone. Are you really not able to come up with ~$100 dol…

Buddy nobody wants to be with somebody that needs them. Lots of us anxious people, get into a relationship with somebody that is more anxious than us and believe it or not, swing avoidant, but unlike…

Nobody will care or remember this in 100 years. Focus on what really matters: Love and compassion for yourself and others.

A re-framing that has been helpful for me: reminding myself that I’m not daydreaming about how this other person makes me feel, I’m daydreaming about how I make MYSELF feel. There is nobody here but m…

Yeah definitely. "Didn't click" = nobody met their standards as an excuse of themselves being the actual problem.

What I'm going to say is not going to sound intuitive at all and is going to be scary, but it's honestly one of the practices and shifts I made that has led me to being secure. It took a lot of therap…

Haven’t posted here in a long time. I feel that you’re in denial. Who’s so busy that they can’t send a text 1-2 times daily? Can’t call for a few mins every few days? Nobody! Absolutely nobody if …

Text of original post by u/Aromatic-Spite-1516: I'm anxiously attached and have very little to no sense of self. I know therapy's necessary but I'm not starting before another month. I'll take any ins…

The thing of telling him not to come over and bring you food while secretly hoping he would insist on it is not healthy behaviour. I don’t mean to be harsh but nobody can read your mind and if you can…

About a year ago, we got new seasonal hires at my job. One of them ended up being this woman. I usually chitchat with new hires if they have questions regarding the job and that’s about it. I would ch…

I relate having tended to attract chaotic or traumatized people for some reason. It’s so much better on the otherside with someone stable, secure, etc. At first I was like “me, really? Don’t you want …