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I need help with a sensitive conversation of the NSFW variety (late 20F) (mid 30M)

I need help with a sensitive conversation of the NSFW variety (late 20F) (mid 30M) — I (late 20F) need some advice on how to have a sensitive conversation with a man (mid 30M) that I've been seeing consistently for about 2 months. It's about sex, and I know that this is a "just talk t…

r/relationship_advicepost4/1/2026
I 19F Caught my boyfriend 19M using a pacifier?

I 19F Caught my boyfriend 19M using a pacifier? — Hi, I really want to get some advice about something I saw my boyfriend doing earlier today. So he works nights and shifts his schedule every weekend by pulling an all-nighter from when he gets off w…

r/relationship_advicepost4/6/2026
Does this have to do with my attachment style or is it normal?

Just talk to him about it. If he’s not ready to talk tell him y’all can table it for a week and revisit it. Hell, write him a letter. Handwritten. Give it to him when he’s going to have time to read a…

r/attachment_theorycomment10/29/2025
My (29F) brother (34M) asked me if he ‘still has a sister’ because I’m not excited enough about his baby. How do I fix this?

Just talk to him, let him know you are happy for him.  Certainly as a human being you can acknowledge his happiness by being excited for him.  Do you now feel good when the people you love are happy a…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/9/2026
I think my 32F 36M boyfriend lied about me passing out during sex

Hey OP I hope you are fine and doing well First of all what is wrong with reddit why are all of the comments just mad and trying to be a role or make decisions in your relationship like one said " p…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/15/2026
Thoughts?

I'm so sorry you're experiencing this, and all these people saying "just talk to him". The reality is that his default is not to be helpful. That is not going to change by talking to him. He has a bas…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/17/2026
Does the intellectual chemistry ever get better?

I'd argue that 1 person can't become everything to us. If he's perfect in other ways, make some girl friends to chat with more deeply or get some hobbies so yoy can just talk to him.

r/datingoverfortycomment3/19/2026
I can't believe I'm asking this as a 49 year old woman, but...

How bout you just talk to him and get to know him. Ask him about his day, about his weekend. Tell him about yours. Find if there's any common ground, THEN decide if you need/want to ask him out.

r/datingoverfortycomment3/31/2026
Me (35F) and I think I found the love of my life (40M) but there's one serious problem.

Seriously just talk to him. Being nervous is a sign you really care and want to do this all right, nit just trust it to work out. Come up with a plan together. Maybe you can both do your 50/50 on oppo…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/31/2026
Have a bit of free time for next couple hours, tell me your manifestation roadblocks and I'll try to assist

Yeah this is a tizzy cycle of as soon as the high from a technique fades you feel like "I must do more because I don't have". And yes, while another commenter mentioned you can just pick up the phone …

r/nevillegoddardcomment4/1/2026
Female dumpers, have you ever regretted leaving someone?

You know, I kinda see myself here, with how you described him. Especially about the connection you had with him. Didn't quite break up because I didn't prioritize the relationship but rather how it se…

r/BreakUpscomment4/3/2026
Do I [24F] pay for my bf’s [28M] birthday dinner?

Just talk to him. He's probably thinking about your finances and doesn't want you to be straining your budget.  I get wanting to treat him, just make sure it's a place you can afford. If he wants a …

r/relationship_advicecomment4/5/2026
My (M24) Partner (M30) Needs me to Initiate Everything (I mean everything) help!

the reality is that if you moved back to your country tomorrow and left him on that couch, he would eventually get hungry enough to eat and bored enough to move. he is capable; he just knows that as l…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/7/2026
I’m not really sure how to approach this, so I’m hoping for some outside perspective.

After nine years, you certainly are right to have a communication. You don’t deserve to be strong along.  Just talk to him and ask him directly. 

r/datingoverfortycomment4/7/2026
30F am I overthinking this about my 33m husband? Was he flirting with this woman?

Do you trust your husband or not? That’s what it comes down to. It sounds pretty harmless but I’d just talk to him about it. Reddit will poison your mind and make you spiral tbh.

r/relationship_advicecomment4/8/2026
How to deal with 31F and 35M big wealth disparity

Has he said anything to you or does he expect you to discuss your spending with him? Or is this just a feeling you have? If this is just a feeling you have then I would suggest you just talk to him.…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/8/2026
Am I not doing enough?

Ah… I see. Yes, you are right if these things are just like once or twice a month. And, I wasn’t counting the working on cars, etc… that’s prob like similar to my doing puzzles. 😆 Yeah, I’d def ju…

r/relationshipscomment4/8/2026
Do guys in relationships still talk like this about other girls?

Not all men but a decent amount of young men have group chats where this content is thrown around As far as you know from not reading the chat, he hasn't initiated any of these conversations but he …

r/relationshipscomment4/8/2026
I feel like I, F19 might've messed up my first ever date by giving the guy, M23 a BJ?

He may be embarrassed, or grossed out, or feel bad, or none of those things. If you had a good time otherwise and want to see him again, then just talk to him. Posting here doesn't really help you a…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/10/2026
I (29f) am getting engaged to my (36m) bf. We've looked at ring designs but I feel bad asking for one I really like. What's the best way to approach this?

You're better off speaking up about it. I've seen enough posts on here where someone is proposed to with a ring they're not in love with, I said this one but they got me that one... That's a more ugl…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/10/2026