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Yeah when I read this I was like.... she said she wanted to age naturally when she was 21...? Pre-pregnancy and parenthood...? Calling this a "breach of trust" seems extreme. Don't get me wrong, 26 …
Wife (26F) scheduled cosmetic procedures we agreed we wouldn’t do before marriage, using money from our joint account. I’m (28M) struggling with the trust breach. — I’m 28 and my wife is 26. We’ve been married for 4 years and we have a 1-year-old child together. Before we got married, we had a lot of conversations about values and expectations for the future. On…
I have been betrayed by the 2 most important people in my life, my entire support system has collapsed and I feel like I'm done with everything...... — All of this started a few months ago, my girlfriend(20F) started drifting away from me(20M), slowly almost stopped talking to me, grew more and more distant, I was basically in a long-distance relatio…
The 2 most trusted people in my life betrayed me and they don't even care about it... — All of this started a few months ago, my girlfriend(20F) started drifting away from me(20M), slowly almost stopped talking to me, grew more and more distant, I was basically in a long-distance relatio…
My bf made a secret X/Twitter account for yk what. — I need some outside perspective on this because I’m feeling conflicted. My bf (we’ve been together 5 years) made a secret X/Twitter account where he follows porn accounts and girls who post nudes/vid…
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I struggled with the same issue, and what helped is to realize that not everything is personal. I think that's a part of anxious attachment (or at the very least, something that worsens it): making na…
Breach of trust or an irreparable difference between you two?
Breach of trust
We had certain boundaries, he seemed to agree with them, it turns out he only got better at hiding stuff, things as simple and basic as not flirting with other people. He would hide stuff like going t…
Well you all indirectly sort of helped with your God awful advice. No I'm not going to accept it and harness it, no I'm not going to act on it and fucking "roleplay." (I broke up with her already anyw…
This relationship should be over immediately, if it’s not already. The breach of trust is immense and unrecoverable. And the fact that he’s not even working on top of it all? AND he hasn’t been paying…
People are allowed to change their views. Just because you discussed it before marriage, doesn't mean it is written in stone and can never be changed. Going back to the "we already agreed" is not a gr…
Three things--- 1, she's allowed to change her mind. It's one thing to think you want to age naturally before you've experienced any aging, but life is long and you see your face the whole time. I r…
For me (F), this is a huge breach of trust that wouldn't fly and would be a serious warning sign that I'm not being respected as a partner. For it's not about the procedures - it could have been a ho…
This IS a huge breach of trust. Outside of any specific agreements about cosmetic alterations or anything like that, you guys agreed to share your finances. That means discussing and AGREEING what tho…
If it was her own savings, I’d say she changed her mind, she’s paying for it, decide if you can live with it. But it’s a shared account, being used without the agreement of both parties, AFTER she ass…
You had this convo likely when you were 24 and she was 22. The noticeable physical changes between age 24-28 in a guy, is pretty minimal compared to 22 - 26 in a woman also who went through a pregn…
She isn’t trustworthy with your shared account, period. Until she gets some help for whatever impulse problem she is having, open your own account, redirect your pay into it, and dump an allowance int…
OP, please try to not focus on the breach of trust, financial dishonesty (which are completely real and valid, just to be clear) for a moment. It sounds like your wife may be experiencing body dysmorp…
Wow this a major breach of trust. I would never spend that amount of money without consulting my partner.
It has nothing to do with her body,her choice, it DOES have everything to do with the money. You need to tell her that this will end or you will walk. This is a breach of trust, an agreed upon mutual …
1. Making a pact to grow old gracefully in your early 20s is so ridiculous. Why in the world was this so important? This is very immature and laughable and I don’t blame her for regretting such a chil…
I think taking $2400 out of joint accounts without talking about it first is the breach of trust
But I think it's fair to say the trust is mutual and reciprocal. He trusted her with access, she trusted him with access. They trusted each other to share an account. They trusted each other not to un…
Yes, I meant to add that I don't think she's correct in this situation in my comment. But I was referring to where OP said that "disregarding a decision we made before marriage" was a breach of trust …
OP, with you two having a child and her being the one that stays at home to care for them, I would raise the serious question of who is going to care for this child while she recovers from said surger…
The financial aspect of this is most serious. You should immediatly remove whatever is your portion from your joint account. Speak to a lawyer about how you make it clear you will not be responsible …
Even being as charitable to the dude as possible and assuming it was a totally innocent mistake and he just didn't recognize that you'd passed out... **STOP DOING BREATHPLAY WITH THIS MAN** I'm not …
Taking £14k of family money just for herself is a massive nope for me. That money could have benefited the entire family and made precious memories and shes wasting it on her vanity? Absolutely not.…
They’re married, they can’t “steal” from each other. Spending their marital assets without the other partner’s agreement is a breach of trust, not theft.
NO WAY would i allow money that is basically mine, be spent on that. That is out of line. She is basically stealing money from you. I'd be stopping the common account ASAP. She wants £14 000 of cosm…
You’re not compatible. There is absolutely nothing wrong with cosmetic surgery. Having an agreement like that before marriage is ehh, wouldn’t even call it a “handshake agreement”. But spending large …
Cheating is tough. I don't know how I could trust a partner who cheated again. That's a real breach of trust for me.
U lied about fwb before u got intimate with her & that's huge breach of trust . Maybe she got intimate with u bcz she wanted a partner with no physical past . Physical part included the consentual rel…
Sorry, I didn't mean to imply there was another girl :( Sometimes just wanting to see what else life has to offer can be the "other plan". My ex did that too and wanted to keep things open just in cas…
I've been in your type of situation and in my personal experience, my deactivation lasted (for months) because the factors that caused the original breach of trust were not resolved/addressed. Despite…
And this is fucking weird how involved your parents and her parents are in your relationship. It's not normal. It's not healthy. Do you want them involved like this for the rest of your life? Thi…
Emotional affair with concealed physical affair. My question is: why are you so obsessed with finding out the truth. Her behaviour (lying, disrespect,…) is a breach of trust, enough to warrant a divo…
Find out who she told and when. That’s a massive breach of trust and I don’t know how you can comeback from that. I hate, loathe and despise tests, but can you say in this climate, the money is gone…
Very cool that you found something to do with some of the money that is on your terms, not these other people. What are some of the charities you donated to if you want to share?! Anyway, this is a b…
Regardless of what it was about: She broke your trust on something you made very clear was important to you. You could have said "Hey I've secretly got this crippling fear of ladybugs. I don't tell an…
Then you now need to decide if this is a forgivable error or something that will make you constantly question things with her. Which isn't a healthy position for either of you to be in. I'd personally…
This was a complete breach of trust that may be hard to overcome in your situation. I apologize for assuming here, as I don’t know her, but the fact that she decided to share that information about yo…
Sorry to hear you’re going through such a tough time. Unfortunately, issues with trust and relationships are pretty common for the wealthy. Because people react so weirdly to your money, it makes it h…
That's a huge breach of trust. Even worse is the parents thinking they know better than you what you should do with your money. The relationship is sadly over.
You’re not overreacting. That was a clear breach of trust, especially after you explicitly asked her to keep it private. If you want to move forward, you need a real conversation where she owns it and…
Disagree on the "until after the wedding" because he will need absolute honesty and trust with any future partner, (and probably a prenup!) This will basically become a test of, are you spouse materia…
IMO. This is a huge flag and breach of trust. Who knows who they know or tell or whatever can happen. People get vindictive and you might just end up on a ransom list. Break up with her. Her loss…
yeah the one thing you can do to be a great partner is keep a good secret. she blabbed. she may not have meant harm, but that's a total breach of trust & moreover, she should not be discussing YOUR …
Came here to say the same thing. It's not about the money, it's about the breach of trust. You specifically asked her not to share this information. That would be a deal breaker for me because if you …
Yeah, there's no coming back from that breach of trust. It sucks mate, but in your shoes I'd cut your losses. Break up and move on. Lesson learned: you never talk about your finances again with som…
Listen to your feelings. Your deep down gut feelings. You feel hurt and betrayed. You've seen what money, even a whiff of it, can do to people. You told her, in confidence, and asked her to keep it …
There’s two paths you could take the way I see it. One option is to see this as a breach of trust (which it is) and leave her. The path of staying would be to see this as a 22 year old girl who’s like…
You should ask your SIL if she knew. It's unlikely that this was from one conversation and you still may not have a full confession. It's why you may be teetering because the story sounds weird/incomp…