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Out of sight, out of mind

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Any other Women on here whos dad suddenly started hating you as you grew older?

Fuck. Out of all the reddits I'm subscribed to, all the stories and posts I've read while trying to understand my own situation with my father... This one right here just punched me in the gut hard en…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/6/2026
antidepressants and avoidant attachment

In early dating (first 3-6 months), Most people when establishing a new attachment, experience a period time of obsession with their romantic partner. Their dopamine level is elevated and serotonin i…

r/attachment_theorycomment10/22/2025
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 06, 2026

I completely get why it would bother you, I’ve definitely had that feeling when seeing reminders of my partner’s ex at their place. I wouldn’t worry too much, though. Could be he’s just disorganized …

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/6/2026
DA & Grief

As a DA, I've lost my mother and all my grandparents. While I get tears at funerals (which I hide), I haven't felt grief for any of them. Always out of sight, out of mind. My mother died 7 years ago a…

r/attachment_theorycomment3/13/2026
When does “just being single” cross into being non-monogamous?

Yeah… I’m probably a little bit weird, but I actually do not have a problem being friends with someone if we have had sex in the past or even been in a relationship. *As long as I no longer have roman…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/15/2026
Upset my ex is doing well although she was the one who treated me badly.

Stop looking at her stuff, out of sight, out of mind. Hit the gym, it’s healthy and you will feel better and then start thinking of yourself and progress and goals more. If you can afford it, join a h…

r/BreakUpscomment4/1/2026
My (38M) wife (35F) makes her life harder than it needs to be.

I likely have ADHD, too, but my wife and I are very different. If I get overwhelmed with a task I focus on just starting at and hoping it gets better as I chip away at it. For her, she needs to get …

r/relationship_advicecomment4/6/2026
You are replaceable

Unfortunately this is the only thing helping me truly move on from my ex, whom I loved with my mind body and soul. And I'm sure our moments together were some of the best for him too. That's why he co…

r/BreakUpscomment4/7/2026
Does anyone else have a really hard time initiating plans/reaching out?

I have that too, then you have some “out of sight, out of mind” added to the mix making things worse

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment4/8/2026
Deleting pictures?

Deleting all pictures has helped me tremendously. Out of sight, out of mind. I know you can’t erase the past, but it seems weird to hold on to things that keep bringing you back into the past. Keeping…

r/ExNoContactcomment4/9/2026
What’s something from childhood that hits completely differently as an adult?

The parental neglect that was socially accepted and widespread. Kids under 12 left home alone when their parents worked or expected to mind their younger siblings during the day. All responsibilities…

r/CPTSDcomment4/10/2026