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the narcissist catchphrase bingo list

With the "Stop talking back" (especially if they asked you a question just before), I'll add the one that goes with it "Answer my question!"/"Why aren't you answering?!" (said really angrily) \*Joke …

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/24/2026
No one tells you that you have to KEEP deciding on the divorce

No one tells you that you have to KEEP deciding on the divorce — Arriving to this decision was so hard. Once I did, I felt lighter and confident and had Bad Bitch Energy about it. But that's faded a bit as I'm living in the same house with my STBXH, and I feel lik…

r/Divorcepost3/12/2026
Past life regression

Past life regression — Tag could be meditative but I put spiritual cause this was during my time of seeing spirituality and finding answers of what’s really going on… I did a past life regression in 2018 I believe, which a…

r/experiencerspost4/2/2026
Lucid dream

Lucid dream — ​ This time, I tried to apply the advice they gave in my previous post. I went to sleep at 22:30, and for WBTB I set an alarm for 4:30, but at 5:10 I found myself sitting upright, making hand …

r/LucidDreamingpost4/12/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 11, 2026

Oh, that's the worst. There should be a pop-up that says, "Are you sure?"

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/12/2026
[Update] She [F25] withdrew consent after the act, how do I [M26] move on from this?

Hey man i may be late to this and you may never see this. I was 22m, with a girl id slept with a few times years earlier and our lives kind of just ended up in each others way again. We went out, n…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/16/2026
my boyfriend always talks about my body as if he’s settling for it :( (20M 20F)

Are you sure?  He isn’t doing things like telling you you’re being “oversensitive” or “irrational” when you express a feeling?  He treats you as equally intelligent and capable as he sees himself?   …

r/relationship_advicecomment3/18/2026
r/CPTSDcomment3/22/2026
Does anyone else feel like they get emotionally injured in 70-80% of human interactions, just by simply talking?

I'm guessing it's common among traumatised people. I'm the same way. I've heard it's because we needed to be on high alert and read situations well for our safety, so now we overthink basic conversati…

r/CPTSDcomment3/25/2026
Neville Goddard - All Lectures (almost)

Are you sure? I checked it right now and it works just fine. Can you tell me what it says after you open a link?

r/nevillegoddardcomment3/26/2026
Manifestation always works.

It “has” to? Are you sure? There’s no other way? Or is that the way it works for you? You might consider that with the billions of people on the planet, there may be different ways that people can m…

r/Manifestationcomment3/29/2026
Psychiatrist said "We all have some form of trauma" and she also said "blah blah" when I was sharing my trauma

I have been to a mix of 16 different, therapist, psychiatrist, counselors. They were all awful and I just started reading books on the topic myself. Some of the "best" things I was told : " it's g…

r/CPTSDcomment3/31/2026
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r/AstralProjectioncomment4/3/2026
How to kindly reject a friend who has a crush on me?

Are you sure? I’ve seen situations where somebody thought someone wanted them but it was never clearly said and they act on it but nope, they were wrong.

r/datingoverfortycomment4/4/2026
Sorry I was immature - J

She moved on? Are you sure? Look, if you still care, try to talk to her, maybe she’s still waiting for you.

r/BreakUpscomment4/4/2026
What's something your parents did to you that YOU had to apologize to them for that still makes you angry?

My mother kicking my ribs with her steel toed work shoes as hard as she could, because my aunt got in her face right after she walked through the door after working all day, and complained to her that…

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment4/4/2026
r/relationship_advicecomment4/7/2026
My (27m) girlfriend (27F) is susceptible to TikTok misinformation and it’s starting to impact our relationship. Is there anything that I can do to fix this?

next time you give her a clear answer and she says “are you sure?” just tell her “i’m pretty sure but you can look it up on google if you want” then leave the room. repeated reassurance creates a pa…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/8/2026
What are some double binds you remember from growing up?

Every time we went on a trip and I was old enough to pack for myself, my dad would ask a day or two beforehand (or even a week), “are you all packed up?” Option 1: “No” Dad: “Well you’d better hurry …

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/10/2026