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All 4 of them have said hurtful things over the years but the ones that stuck with me and are BURNED in my mind are the following: sperm donor: "If I'd known you kids would have had mental issues I w…

My arguments against manifestation — 1. **Maladaptive daydreaming proves that manifestation isn't real**; Manifestation doctrine teaches that what you focus on expands and manifests in your physical reality. Do not split hairs and try to…

Will my ex FA ever stop resenting me? — I was with my ex (FA) for 2 years, amazing connection and relationship. She broke up after a rough period (lots of changes + frequent arguments, not too intense) saying she was overwhelmed. Later she …

Emotional numbness. What happend? — I've been together for 5 years now with my DA (2 earlier break-ups 4 years ago). Every time we have an argument or a fight I go in complete AA-mode; cry, scream, chase, beg to resolve it right then …

Tired of people asking me for stuff... — I don't know how else to put this but I'm tired of people asking me to do stuff for them all the time.. it's at work (that's different, it's fine it's work.) But like my mom, my roommate, my friends..…

I manifested the cure of my disidrosis(with photos) — Hello guys, I will tell how I manifested the cure of my disidrosis. So I will tell how I MANIFESTED my disidrosis😢: So guys, at the beggining of 2025 I was diagnosed with chondropathy, I didn't knew…

I found 2 tricks to help focusing on my breath. Beginner + Adhd here. — H56, overstimulated by screen (shows, movies, youtube podcast, chess online), stimulants (amphets like), and since my childhood, overthinking (the worst addiction ever). Sorry my English is not perf…

Fed up with this — Hello, As the title really. Fed up of manifesting, the only thing that is manifesting in my life is shit. I've tried everything, LOA, living in the end, reading 'the secret '. Subs, self concept…

Unhealthy Living Conditions with Piano — Like many asian kids I was made to play an instrument. Specifically I was made to play the piano. I'm not that particularly gifted at it. I have hearing issues in my right ear (tinnitus). I didn't hav…

Did you guys ever felt like you didn't belong in America? — Hi. I am a 15 year old second generation American born to Chinese immigrants. I sometimes feel like I don't belong in America, heres why. I dislike football. I don't support Trump. I perfer Asian foo…

My mother sent my childhood abuser to my home, after I have been successful at making sure he never knows where I live. — Conversation is below. I have been very careful making sure my brother never knows where I live, as he beat me as a child so much police intervened and I was such a mess I was mandated to go to thera…

First Regulate Your Nervous System — Recently I watched a YouTube video by a guy named Reeves Tsang called how to reset your nervous system (and how to finally override your reality) This is one of the first manifestation videos I've se…

(tw: trafficking) I can't interact in queer (or even fandom) spaces because of all the sex — *"Oh yay, someone recommended I watch this fun, light-hearted new movie about a gay couple! I sure hope it isn't actually an uncomfortable, borderline-rapey story about a 24/7 bdsm dynamic that goes p…

How I broke free from panic attacks — For 3 years ago I was at the gym. I was doing my normal push routine while all of the sudden I felt immense pain in my chest. I laid the weights beside me and sat down, my heart was pumping, it was pu…

My grandpa (84M) is not doing well and my parents (61M&60F) think I (29F) don't care. I don't care a ton. How to navigate? — This is my last living grandparent, my dad's dad. Him and my grandma (his wife who died 11 years ago) were extremely verbally and physically abusive towards my dad and aunt. My dad only talks about it…

i'm feeling so fucking lost and alone i don't know what to do — It's been +4months since my bf of 3.5 years broke up with me back in November 2025. It was really heartbreaking for both of us bc we had an amazing, truly healthy relationship but hewas going through …

huge huge rant (infantilization rant) — i'm a 20f in college (in america) rn, living 35 minutes away from home. i want to preface this by saying i know my parents love me very much (in their very own twisted ways), and i love my parents too…

Long distance breakup — My partner (29F) and I (24M) are now separated and in no contact for about 4 weeks now. We ended on good terms but she said she thinks the relationship ran its course and we did our best. I've been th…

I hate her now — I hate everything now about her I take the pledge that I don't care about her anymore and hate every single thing that existed, now exists or will exist about her. So I do acknowledge and confirm tha…

Why do I LACK EMPATHY or CARE for other's feelings or problems??? — I will start by saying. if you met anyone that knows me. they would typically say that I'm a kind person, nice, open minded etc. I have been noticing a pattern over the past few years. that I lack em…

Curious about your experiences interacting with other Asian Americans — Happy Tuesday, hope everyone's having a good week so far. I'll preface by saying that I appreciate that this space exists, and I've found value in sanity checking some experiences with others (though…

I did it.. — I blocked him. Everywhere. No doors left open. Because I can't take it anymore. I'm in love with someone who could not give the slightest shred of a fuck less about me. Somebody that destroyed me em…

If I've completely given up and I'm a nuisance to be around, why is it so wrong to die? — I've seen 3 therapists at this point, I quit going a few months ago because it was awful. I actually had some hope, some desire to change and have a better life before I started therapy. Now, I believ…

Chemistry on first date but no energy — I had a first date and fealt good chemistry. I like her. I could see myself being with here. The problem is after being married for 20 years and now divorced for two, I am still very tired when it …

Fully anonymous therapy — is there a form of therapy where the client is anonymous? I suppose it may affect the therapist's effectiveness but I don't care. I feel as though this will make the experience better and just easier …

Therapy is hard - is this common? — Hello there. I'm in therapy for attachment trauma and other stuff for almost 1,5 years. I used to be a typical dismissive avoidant and it took about a year until my defences crumbled and I became more…

My (24F) boyfriend (26M) of 3 years is making me rethink the relationship. How do I navigate this? — My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We had 1 break up but found eachother back and been trying to make things work. Recently got into a fight where he commented a compliment on a next g…

I can't love nor care about anyone — Forgive me for my bad English it's not my first language. I feel like I can't love, I find girls attractive I like looking at them but I don't feel like I would want an emotional connection with them…

i realized i've been saying "i'm fine" so much that i actually convinced myself — i've always been the "chill" friend. the one who's like yeah i'm good with whatever, i don't care where we eat, no it's fine you pick, i'm easy. and for a long time i thought that was a good thing?? l…

How do I want to get better? — I've been on so many different meds and to several different therapists but I've only gotten worse, I've been able to understand my depression and trauma more but I have not been able to feel okay at …

How Do I Help My Girlfriend With Her Codependency? — Okay, my girlfriend (19F) and I (18F) have been dating for 8 months. We spend every day together and we love each other very much. There's just a problem that we've been having. Now I must note, I hav…

Hi, - I dislike my parents, at the same time, and, I don't know if this is controlling or abusive : I'm F(16) turning 17 this September, I live in a place where Privacy is a luxury and kids are investments to your parents. My parents...have high hopes for me, but they force some things on me. — # Hi, - I dislike my parents, at the same time I love them, and, I don't know if this is controlling or abusive : I'm F(16) turning 17 this September, I live in a place where Privacy is a luxury and k…

Everything crashed down after 3 months and I am so unwell I didn't get home for Easter — I have been crying for two days, I have the anxiety, the pit at the stomach, the existential dread, everything I didn't experience before. Every time I tried to take the bus home for Easter I had an a…

A narcissist mom VS an ASPD son. — My mom's words will be dashes(-) and mines will be plus signs(+) pretty sure my mom is a narcissist, I have been checking boxes and she checks every criteria to be suspected or assumed. I am 21. and …

How do I (20F) break it to my best friend (20M) that I'm seeing someone new after he recently confessed his feelings for me? — So about three months ago, my best friend told me that he has had feelings for me basically ever since we met. I used to have a little crush on him when we first met, but I don't have feelings for him…

Is there a safe, low-key way to tap into sexual energy using meditation? — This is a sincere question, and feel free to keep it high level. I don't care about the specifics of your sexual preferences, your gender, etc. - I'm just honestly curious. I've had this experience b…

Done talking to him…what do you all think of this man? — Going to try to keep this short & sweet. I met a guy, he sold me my car and gave me his number. I texted him that I'd love to go out with him. He set a date to a steak house and I was pretty into him …

I think my ex wants to get back together — I have no idea what to do. We went no contact (or according to her, I selfishly established no contact) about 1 month ago. We had officially broken up maybe 6 months ago, and I've been seeing her, tak…

I think my ex wants to get back together — I have no idea what to do. We went no contact (or according to her, I selfishly established no contact) about 1 month ago. We had officially broken up maybe 6 months ago, and I've been seeing her, tak…

How to not hurt someone u love (21M) (22F) — **Hi gng, i have been repeatedly hurting the girl i love so much i don't really know my actions causes that much damage to her i have been repeating it several times unknowingly she forgives me but i …

Honestly I don't care anymore — sometimes I think about killing myself and I don't know what to do about it.

She handed over the evidence of her cheating years ago — I made a backup of her phone at her request a couple of years ago, so she could migrate everything to a new phone. I was going through the data on the drives in my PC a couple of days ago, to see whet…

I've gone too far in quitting fawning and I became misanthropic — because. when it's all on me to explain everything and everything, and to do all the thinking about emotions, and it's never on them to even try and think about emotions, to never even try and extend …

How long it takes to rewire your brain after being emotionally neglected by your dad your entire life? — Hi, I'm 27yo female, I never had a proper relationship, all I been in is horrible situationships that only damaged me mentally to the point that I feel like I lost myself and I will never return to th…

I (24M) think my ex (23F) wants to get back together — I have no idea what to do. We went no contact (or according to her, I selfishly established no contact) about 1 month ago. We had officially broken up maybe 6 months ago, and I've been seeing her, tak…

Grief — I honestly just need to scream into the void a bit tonight because my friends/family seem a bit tired of hearing me go on and on about grieving the loss of my relationship, and honestly I'm pretty tir…

How do I stop replaying things people said to me? — My ex broke up with me after an argument where they broke my boundaries, having weird behavior around a friend group and telling them personal things about me and private stuff without my permission. …

it's a rollercoaster — there is this "ex situationship" i have been in no contact with for 4 months and i can't get over him. every first romantic experience of mine happened with him unfortunately and everyday is a rolle…

I don't feel connected to my therapist. Is that normal? — Hello, Recently, I (F, 30) went through a bit of a mental health situation, and found myself at an outpatient mental health program for a week. What the nurses thought was depression turned out to be…

I made it to 1 Year No Contact — I've recently passed 1 yr no contact. I'm very proud of myself. When I'd initially broken up with my ex, I tried the "let's just be friends" thing, but then two days later he immediately tried to get…

21F 22F my gf is suffering and it's killing me — ​ TL;DR My gf is suffering and it's killing me seriously I don't know if I should be saying this or not, but it's really killing me at this point. I'm a 21F and my gf is 22F. she's sufferi…

They are where you "draw the line". They are things that are unacceptable to you. For example, a boundary of mine is that I will not tolerate anyone yelling at me - I don't care how angry or frustrat…

Thanks for posting this. It's been 6 months post break up and I have been having random peroids of ruminating on the good times even though I know they treated me badly for a couple of months leading…

This is BS. This scream Micromanagent. Productivity is not about how many tickets you closed. If you want to be productivity try to automate (20/80 rule). If you find yourself doing the same sort o…

Some do. But I don't care if they do. I'm DA

Judge all you I don't care I'm trying my best.

This is how I am as well! I very seldom talk to my friends minus my best friend. Not that I don't care about having friends, I just don't feel the need to talk to them all the time. Having a romantic …

Oh, absolutely! I completely agree with you. I didn't mean to suggest I don't care about friends or anyone wouldn't care simply based on their attachment style. And yeah, it doesn't make those relatio…

Text of original post by u/Ierpapierlol: I've been together for 5 years now with my DA (2 earlier break-ups 4 years ago). Every time we have an argument or a fight I go in complete AA-mode; cry, scr…

Hello, I am in a relationship which is neither strictly platonic nor romantic. We are both neurodivergent and asexual and met 6-ish months ago, hence the seemingly strange nature of our relationship. …

Hey I've been facing some issues in my relationship. Need advice on how to fix everything. My partner very recently expressed her concern for my health and that i should really avoid drinking at all.…

I am navigating a post-breakup friendship. I really thought long and hard about keeping this person in my life because yeah I know myself and the last thing I wanted was to spiral into an insecure dyn…

I'm 18. I'm barely an adult and these feelings I don't see myself getting rid of. Yes of course I crave that love, because no one ever gave it to me. Everyone that was supposed to, and everyone that I…

I'm in the same boat. I don't care enough about dating enough to put the time into it.

I started messaging this guy and I'm not sure about the vibe. We're texting only and will probably stay that way. He made it sound as though he were born in the US but his messages are REALLY formal w…

I'm perhaps a bit biased because I do have some avoidant tendencies myself that I am working through after growing up the child of an alcoholic, but I agree. If my instinct is to withdraw, it's out of…

"I'm fine with whatever" = this day is not important to me so completely up to you, I'm fine with staying home in my PJs or going out for dinner, I don't care so we'll do whatever you prefer. "I want…

Literally had a guy send me last night "lol sorry, I wanna hook up with you cutie." bc my profile says "If you want a FWB, hook ups or are emotionally unavailableI'm not your gal" and I replied "why …

I've also had matches who later reveal they don't live where I do. It only ever comes up when I suggest getting coffee or something, they're never up front about it, and it's always "but I'm moving th…

Today is the birthday of the guy I'm seeing and I'm so excited. He's never had an actual long term relationship and we have had some conversations about taking things as slow as he needs. One big th…

This is a helpful framing. I'm not dating seriously right now at all, just grappling with a lot of hard lessons I've had to learn after my breakup last year. I don't care about a wedding.

The continuation of the "ghosting" story... So, as I wrote yesterday, I hadn't heard from the guy I was seeing since Tuesday until yesterday. The last messages were him saying he would stay at his p…

Do you have any hobbies? Your post is disingenuous. You're missing the point by calling these things "boilerplate". People usually just mean whatever activities you're into or want to try. Not rando…

I don't care if everyone on Earth disagrees with me. I will not date someone who is friends with their exes. 

TLDR: having a huge drawback moment after arguing once. i feel weird an i want to be normal me (19mtf) and my bf (19m) have been dating for 4 months. i always had anxious attachment but since we're r…

Thank you for reading what I wrote and providing your insights.  It's a hard question. I don't know what they have in common that attracted me. They all seem so different. But I guess I was the most…

THIS 👆 People seem to often forget what the "f" stands for Or maybe they get it confused. If a dude is treating me more poorly then an actual friend, I don't want it. I don't care how good this s…

I can't talk for him, but usually I would write once the deactivation fades, that depends on the type of connection and the sense of ick Sometimes the ick is too strong and it doesn't fade, but it's …

If someone's a really horrible texter later on, I tend to think they're not that interested or not a great match for me but I don't care too much about texting early on. I feel it's too soon to know i…

I don't care to impress anyone. While I wouldn't wear sweatpants I would wear jeans. I wear scrubs to work. When I was dating I wore jeans and a tshirt on first dates because it's who I am and my com…

I mean music taste or other media taste isn't a dealbreaker unless there's a consistent pattern that speaks to something more. If all a potential partner listens to is the kind of thing that indicates…

The reality is doing all of those things while they help, doesn't mean the women you meet will be into you. Basically where the same action you do is either sweet or creepy depending on how a woman p…

I'd probably be a better match for your date. I prefer wearing sweatpants even in public. I value comfort over "aesthetics" when it comes to clothing. And I don't care what they wear as long as it's c…

I wholeheartedly agree with this. Speaking from experience of starting to date someone fresh out of my own divorce. I don't care how broken the original relationship was or how checked out somebody w…

I don't like to talk about myself, but I will reveal something. Because perhaps there are those who are similar to me in this. That's not quite true for me. I'm not a complicated person. It's not comp…

I love that we both like to write text walls! I find that's a very common thing among us autistic-kind :D It really sucks to find out that he's conservative 3 years in.... I can't stand the "pull…

Idk. If someone I was dating told me my inconsistent communication was causing them anxiety, I'd ask how I could help, and try and do what they say if it's reasonable. I'm coming at it from someone wh…

That's not particularly important for me since after say 2 months I'd hope we'd be meeting at least 2/3 times a week, and by that point I don't care too much about texting frequency/style. So it's mor…

How is using SATS limiting God? Or did I misread your post? I am really tired of people 💩ing on the very techniques Neville taught repeatedly...He taught them for a reason and I don't care what Grime…

My previous successes in arts or business showed me that the success itself won't automatically fix my problems like anxiety, depression and general sense of insecurity and imposer syndrome. Success …

I have a lot of free time. My boyfriend is busier than me because of his business. I work and go to the gym (3 to 4 times a week). My boyfriend and I will spend 2 or 3 nights a week together. It is ge…

Dumper here: it has been two years and I am still grieving. We went no contact a month after the break up. Probably he thinks I don't care or I don't think of him since I never contacted him. Little d…

"Mom, every time you're mean or rude, I'm going to hang up, leave, or ask you to go. I don't care who hears or sees. And the more you're mean, the longer a time-out you'll be in. Be nice or be alon…

Same response when I'm so open about my significant memory problem due to epilepsy, should I not remember anything - like distant family's current situation. Next time I'll just act as if I don't car…

I don't care what percentage of the dating pool I'm ruling out, I don't want to date someone whose basic morals are so vastly different than my own. I won't find compatibility with someone who believe…

How often should you text each other in the early stages? I asked a girl out yesterday, but we're not doing anything until Saturday. Personally, I don't care for endless texting conversations. I'd be …

I don't care too much about any one physical characteristic. I've been super attracted to a very wide variety of looks and bodies. I find that if I like a person's mind and character, I like their mea…

When I went back in the stone age there was the Chinatown crowd that was poorer, mostly Cantonese speaker (That right there is a clue, there was one Chinatown). There were richer Taiwanese kids who li…

As long as it's a full head of hair and not a man battling to keep a few strands then i don't care.

I don't care at all but you should know I'm also losing my hair.

I was so done with fighting I decided to pick my battles with possessions. Everything that didn't mean a lot to me meant nothing to me. If she wants the lawn mower I don't care anymore.