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inappropriate relationship with my therapist

reporting him is ultimately up to you. I know how difficult of a mind-F it can be to be groomed and I know that your pre existing trauma may have you feel like "you're responsible for seducing" him bu…

r/CPTSDcomment3/25/2026
Considering leaving my long term partner due to mismatched libido. Am i crazy for throwing away a 20+ year relationship over this?

Considering leaving my long term partner due to mismatched libido. Am i crazy for throwing away a 20+ year relationship over this? — Context: My partner \[34F\] and I \[35M\] have been together for over 15 years, we met in highschool and have been through the ups and downs of life together. A couple of years ago i left my sedentary…

r/BreakUpspost4/10/2026
I’ve set sexual boundaries but I still feel uncomfortable and don’t know how to cope

I’ve set sexual boundaries but I still feel uncomfortable and don’t know how to cope — I (20f) have been with my bf (19m) for about 3.5 years. I’m not really into kinky stuff tbh. Like I’m not completely closed off to trying things, but it’s just not something that really interests me. …

r/relationshipspost4/13/2026
The way as a slave

The definition of slavery provided by Epictetus focuses on the location of your internal toggle switch rather than the external requirements of the simulation. Project Grounding Rod identifies your co…

r/Stoicismcomment3/12/2026
What’s the worst smear you’ve heard your nex shares with people?

"He went back to his bm" Dawg, the way I fought so hard to steer away from that narrative, had to be one of the most crippling situations ever.... Literally though, she was just jealous. That I too…

r/NarcissisticAbusecomment3/27/2026
Kink, consent and dating

I scanned the comments, and didn't see what I was looking for. While "choking" is part of breath play. What he did was a cross between abuse and assault, full stop. Kink/BDSM has a foundation of saf…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/30/2026
Update: my husband (33M) wants me (33F) to dress more revealing

Honestly, people are acting like the husband is requiring her to be in BDSM bondage gear 24/7, instead of *checks notes*, putting on a cami every once in a while

r/relationship_advicecomment3/30/2026
BF (25M) ignored my (24F) safe word and I don’t know how to feel.

Bondage, sex, relationships are all about trust. And he showed you that you cannot trust him. You can try and forgive him, but you can never unlearn that he is not trustworthy

r/relationship_advicecomment4/2/2026
UPDATE: I (32m) found out my partner (32f) cheated on me while she was away on holiday. She doesn’t know that I know. How do I navigate this?

I assume this person posted this to stir up shit. However, in time, I hope you do choose to forgive her. Never for the purpose of reconciliation. Only because you deserve to be free of the bondag…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/2/2026
Fake Alien Invasion

Unsurprising, human beings can be so mean. Just be open and try not to feed fear. I’m scared too. This energy shift really knocked me off center. But I think I’m starting to get back around baseli…

r/experiencerscomment4/3/2026
Rahu maha dasha always bad?

In Jyotish there is nothing good or bad. It simply states what Grahas and Dashas dominate the energies of a house at a given time. Rahu's effect depends on where it is placed, and who it is sitting wi…

r/vedicastrologycomment4/11/2026
I've commented Chinese latinos before, finally went to dig up something well-written

I'll let it speak for itself. There's things I did not know. >As slavery was slowly dismantled in the U.S. and South America, European colonies and regions heavily reliant on an enslaved labor force …

r/AsianAmericancomment4/11/2026
My (24M) girlfriend (29F) wants to make our relationship more spicy by including slight BDSM

You can do bdsm without painful stuff (sadisms, masochism, medical play, flogging, etc). It has many facets and falls under fetish. Even if wished to try a flogging style. That also doesn't have to be…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/12/2026