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Good job doing what you're doing. In addition to those things, I recommend moving your body. For me, a run/jog or strenuous exercise would release my pent-up emotions and literally make me cry out on …
My fiancé (38M) and my (33F) different mental states when we wake up is causing friction? — I (33F) have been with my fiancé (38M) for over 3 years and we live together. When I wake up in the morning, I am usually sleepy but not grumpy. I like having a peaceful morning, greeting all the dog…
I thought that healing is something I need to do alone, meaning not in a relationship, but an Instagram reel by a therapist spike of something that felt true: attachment issues come up in relationship…
thats not what im talking about. i already said "she is right to break it up because your arguments are correct". my problem is the way she says "insecure little twat" because im damn sure insecure ab…
"I feel fat i feel unfunny and i feel like im gonna be alone for the rest of my life and then i come online only to see women completely shitting on men because theyre insecure." This is you directly …
mate some people like you take the delusion too far. Like I understand manifesting is real but then claiming to be GOD... bffr..... like can you stare into the SUN for more than 5 mins? Yes I know you…
I also need the half hour of come online time. Don’t talk to me, don’t get in my way. But after that half hour, sure I’ll give you a hug and wish you a nice day. It’s just how some people are. Not wor…
Think and talk with him about the future. Are you going to always have to get up with any children you may have because he needs his time to come online? Will the time he needs get longer and longer t…
I’d like to quantify grumpy reactions. 30 minutes of alone time is reasonable and if a partner can’t respect that it’s just the beginning. It is not dickish to not want to be interrupted when you st…
The man needs ONE hour to himself in the morning. Fuck. Find something to do in that time. Let him come online. Some people NEED this time. I do. He does. Your overreacting and being selfish.
I have some sympathy for your fiance, OP, because i am also not a morning person and grumpy until i have coffee and some time to fully wake up. My partner leaves me alone, but i do at least say good m…
I thought of two things that might be helpful: 1) Do you know if he snores? Untreated sleep apnea is one of those things can underly the extended duration of “not coming online” and being grumpy (bec…
If I had to listen to my partner sing my dogs a good morning song I think I’d probably ignore you too. LOL I’m kidding that was harsh, I’m honestly joking around…. but what?? What song do you sing f…
>Having him in the space with me giving off this angry energy and unwilling to acknowledge my existence throws off my peace. He's not doing this *to* you, but you're acting like he's being grumpy *at…