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Anyone else get really good at reading the room, only because you had to? — I used to think I was just "intuitive." Turns out I had spent years scanning for danger signals in other people's moods because it was survival. Hypervigilance dressed up as empathy. It took me…

Perpetually Stupid — I feel like everything is so difficult for me to understand, and I don't have much general knowledge despite always being on the look out for something to learn. My critical thinking skills just aren'…

he followed his ex again even though he claimed she cheated…. — so i was with my boyfriend for a little over a year and every now and then he would bring up his ex. based on things he said i figured he flat out hated her, claimed she cheated on multiple guys, said…

i was encountered shadow beings.. For me, astral projection was just a bs. until I unintentional left my body during a state of loop paralysis — I never believed in astral travel.. I always avoided the subject because I thought it was just a myth. Over the past year, however, I’ve been experiencing loops of sleep paralysis in one "sleep" in t…

Start with defining your MVP what’s the simplest version of your website and app that delivers value? Once you’ve nailed that, focus on building out the core features, then test with real users. For t…

my answer will sound counterintuitive. The way to manifest something in is to feel like you already have it. So lets say you have bills piling up. I would suggest you don't focus on bills piling up. I…

Well, according to the DMM, APs (affective strategies) have difficulties to process events with accurate boundaries of time, persons and causalities.  It might be that those events you described are l…

Edit: I will just share my experience here. I have to say I did something counter-intuitive. I basicly said that I fully acceppt her decision and in a manner of calm loving person I told her about how…

Have you ever been evaluated for OCD? I also have AA & hypervigilance and this sounds like it has a bit of an OCD flavor to me. ETA: regardless of the OCD thing, there are a couple of things that hel…

Avoidance is your current attachment system. Meaning, the bad news is your avoidance will be inevitably triggered. The good news is... who am I lying, its not really good news lol. BUT the magic lays …

Thats a tall order. Obviously of you have cptsd you are working through it. When you are in full flashback its not always going to be possibke to be discerning. That situation is definitely helped…

Either way, introducing screen time to your sleep schedule is not generally a beneficial move, so a lucid dreaming technique that specifically includes screen time is a bit counter intuitive. Taking…

Miprocin or 4-HO-MiPT for me! (Or plain ole' shrooms!) I know 4-HO-MET gets all the love on reddit, but I find Miprocin similar and superior. If it is visuals that you want, go for Metocin though. B…

Avoid AP when sleeping. Avoid trying and just do it. Try is the pre suggestion for failure. Stop using the intellectual and only use the intuitive. Separation is impossible as the astral body doesn…

Hey, I don't know what happened in this relationship. Just because she left doesn't mean that you didn't treat her right. I don't want to imply that at all. People leave for all sorts of reasons, but…

If a grown ass person says they do not love you, says they won’t be happy with you, says they aren’t at the same level of love as you and don’t feel like they’ll be there ever but they do want to expe…

I hear you. I achieved. Highest education. Found my way to the top in my field. 20 year marriage. And then, career cratered, relationship ended. And what struck me is just how deeply, entirely and…

I have noticed that I have recreated my avoidant dynamic in SO many areas of my life, including in therapy. Over the years I have "interviewed" or worked temporarily with therapists that I quite seein…

Usually when I'm bargaining with myself about reaching out to my mom I have an unmet need somewhere or another part of me that needs to accept it further. It's a process, for me a really loooong one. …

I'm sorry to hear it. It seems completely counter-intuitive. But I think that it might help... Instead of focusing on what you have lost (are losing), channel love to them and sincerely wish them well…

Yes, I'm an HSP, and highly intuitive. And yes, these past emotions & remembering events can completely interrupt life. Waking up is an opportunity--a big one--but really challenging! Also, midlife br…

I want to suggest something counterintuitive. I want you to start by giving yourself massive credit for where you are You were in emotional turmoil, and your brain was telling you there was danger a…